You Are What You Click: How Being Selective, Positive, and Creative Can Transform Your Social Media Experience
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Internationally acclaimed behavioral scientist and social media expert Brian Primack, MD, PhD, believes we do not need to swear off social media, delete all our online accounts, or give up our phones to live healthier, happier lives. In You Are What You Click, he offers a new approach to digital wellness, and a realist's perspective on how what we consume online affects our well-being. In response, he presents a "social media pyramid" that personalizes our tech diet so we can enjoy a fruitful, balanced relationship with social media.
While many of us turn to social media looking for a sense of connection and comfort, the data show that it may paradoxically leave us feeling more alone and depressed. Drawing on over twenty years of original research, Dr. Primack explains the fascinating nuances of our relationship with social media, its impact on our mental health, and the dangers of social media using us instead of the other way around. He empowers us to take back control with a simple method: being more selective, positive, and creative with our lives online.
Dr. Primack introduces surprising strategies you can use right away to fine-tune your online experience and discover your definition of digital balance. Through short, actionable chapters, you'll learn how to:
• Tailor your social media use to your personality.
• Select positive relationships over toxic ones.
• Overcome comparison syndrome and the fear of missing out.
• Fill your feed with meaningful, humorous, and uplifting content.
• Optimize your news intake and resist doomscrolling.
• Improve your sleep, create "tech holidays," and more.
With innovative strategies for managing technology, you'll transform your relationship with tech and discover how to make social media work for you.
You Are What You Click offers a science-backed approach from a credentialed doctor: Dr. Brian Primack has an MD and a PhD in Education and Behavioral Science. Primack is the go-to expert on this topic. His work on the intersection of media and health has been cited nearly 6,000 times in peer-reviewed scholarly literature, and he has been featured in major media outlets across the world.
FOR WELLNESS READERS, PARENTS, AND ANYONE WHO USES SOCIAL MEDIA: Dropping off the digital map or deleting all our social media accounts isn't the only option—and often isn't something we feel ready to do. Rather than digital abstinence, with Primack's 3-step plan, tech lovers will be able to understand how to regulate their online social platforms in healthier ways.
A BALANCED PERSPECTIVE ON TECHNOLOGY AND SOCIAL MEDIA IN A POSITIVE LIGHT: Almost every book in this genre portrays technology in a negative or even scary way. With this book, readers will learn how to adjust and balance their presence online with a personalized plan they can use across all platforms, no matter what new social media app goes public next. Primack offers an empowering solution that is forward-thinking, and will continue to be relevant as technology becomes more immersed into our lives.
QUICK, PRACTICAL ADVICE: You Are What You Click is broken into short, actionable chapters that allow readers to understand the research, take action, and see results—perfect for short attention spans whittled down by Facebook and Instagram stories, Twitter, Snapchat, and TikTok!
FOR FANS OF PERSONALITY BOOKS: Fans of books like The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery and The Four Tendencies: The Indispensable Personality Profiles that Reveal How to Make Your Life Better will love the personality quiz and personalized solutions Primack offers for being s
Brian A. Primack
DR. BRIAN PRIMACK is an award-winning expert who developed a multimillion-dollar research program focused on how media and technology influence health. He holds a BA from Yale, a master's in education from Harvard, an MD from Emory, and a PhD in behavioral science from the University of Pittsburgh. Dr. Primack is now dean of the College of Education and Health Professions at the University of Arkansas, where he also serves as a professor of public health and medicine. His work has been highlighted by the New York Times, Rolling Stone, the Atlantic, Today, CBS News, the Washington Post, the BBC, NPR's All Things Considered and Here and Now, the Huffington Post, and many more.
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You Are What You Click - Brian A. Primack
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For my parents, my children, and my soul mate
Table
of
Contents
Introduction
Part 1
Why We Need a Food Pyramid
for Social Media
1 The Minister of Loneliness
2 Goldilocks Was Nowhere to Be Found
3 A Social-Like Experience
4 More Powerful Than Advertising
5 The Mean World Syndrome
6 The Good Stuff
7 Why Yo-Yo Tech Diets Don’t Work
8 The Social Media Food Pyramid
Part 2
Be Selective
9 Select Your Time
10 Select Your Frequency
11 Select Your Platforms
12 Select Something Else Before Bed
13 Select People You Know Well
14 Select Your Digital Holidays
Part 3
Be Positive
15 The Power of Negativity
16 Find Your Negativity Threshold
17 Keep Your Feather Pillows Intact
18 Balance Confidence and Humility
19 Be Positive with a Vengeance
20 Dance Like the Whole Universe Is Watching
Part 4
Be Creative
21 Consciously Conscientious
22 The Double-Edged Sword of Agreeableness
23 Embrace Your Neurotic Side Before and After Posting
24 The Many Meanings of Openness
25 Which Way Do You Turn?
26 Program or Be Programmed
27 Develop Social Media Literacy
28 Consider Your VQ
29 The Eloquence of Emoji
30 Become an Alert Wizard
31 The Good Stuff Is Often in the Back of the Room
32 Love Thy Neighbor, but Choose Thy Neighborhood
33 Create Your Social Media Checklist
Part 5
How to Live Now
34 Work
35 Family Life
36 Tech Is for the Young, Right?
37 The Holidays and Consumerism
38 When You’re Vulnerable
39 Mindful Social Media
Conclusion
Acknowledgments
Notes
About the Author
Index
Introduction
It was a Saturday morning in Pittsburgh—October 27, 2018—and I was making bagels from scratch. Outside was a crisp but sunny day, and I had somehow convinced the kids—ages eleven and fourteen at the time—to stay home and help me make brunch for some friends who were visiting from out of town.
I know what you’re thinking. Why bother to make bagels from scratch?
Even though we easily could have strolled up the street to an Einstein’s—they have the complex kneading and boiling process down—shaping the dough into floppy rings with my kids had this remarkable way of slowing down time. It gave us all a moment to pause from our phones, and it signaled the transition out of a busy week. Though, in today’s world, our phones never stay silent for long.
Ding. When the first text came through, we didn’t think much of it. Receiving a vague message about staying inside if you were in Squirrel Hill—our Pittsburgh neighborhood—wasn’t particularly alarming. I kept kneading.
But a few minutes later, another ding. As my wife looked down at her phone, I noticed her face contort with tears. I ran over. What?
I asked quietly. She shook her head and swallowed. She was barely able to mouth the words: Tree of Life. Seven dead so far.
Tree of Life was the building where our Jewish congregation called Dor Hadash met. We might have been there for that Saturday’s morning service had we not been preparing brunch for our guests. My wife and daughter had been there the prior week. It’s a lay-led congregation, so I led services and study groups frequently.
A gunman had entered the synagogue, shouted, All Jews must die,
and opened fire. By the end of the rampage, eleven were dead and several were severely wounded, including law enforcement officials who were finally able to subdue the attacker. The gunman was brought to a local hospital and cared for by Jewish doctors.
The next few weeks of our lives—as a family and as a congregation—were focused on acute management of the situation. Funerals for the dead. Hospital visits for those who were critically injured. Vigils and meetings. Supporting the families of the deceased. Helping the traumatized.
As things started to go back to normal,
I found myself frequently returning to the question of what role social media had played in these events. As a doctor and researcher, I study the relationships among media, technology, and health. Now, this tragic incident brought these issues to me in a way I had never experienced so immediately.
It quickly became clear from news reports that the shooter had leveraged a particular social media platform, Gab, to gain support and encouragement for his anti-Semitic views and violent tendencies. The last thing he did before beginning his rampage was to send a message to his followers on that platform, saying, I’m going in.
Of course, we will never know what this person would have done if he hadn’t had support from people on that platform, but an argument can be made that his experiences on social media facilitated the incident.
On the other hand, as my community navigated its immense grief, social media became a crucial avenue for healing. Resources and support poured in from thousands of people all over the world. The sharing of information over social media led to remarkable acts of generosity and healing. For example, within days, the Muslim community raised enough funds to pay for all eleven funerals. My family and other members of our congregation received beautiful, heartfelt messages from people we had not spoken with in years—and from others we did not know—from across the globe. Would this compassion have been transmitted to this extent without social media?
Obviously, tragedies like this are shaped by many, many factors, including the availability of deadly weapons, hateful rhetoric from societal leaders, and the ongoing impact of complex historical events. But today’s media and technology can powerfully amplify and facilitate the dangerous messages and beliefs that lead to violent actions.
A New Approach to Digital Wellness
For the better part of two decades, I considered writing a book about our relationship with social media and digital technology. The desire intensified whenever my research team came out with a new study on a risk or benefit of technology—or when one of my patients described how technologies like these have influenced their health.
But after the Tree of Life shooting, I felt an increased urgency. This tragic event and the outpouring of support in the aftermath showed me—with a clarity I never had before, even after twenty years of research—how social media and related technologies have become the sharpest double-edged sword of our era. On a daily basis, social media can catalyze connection, warmth, and generosity. On the other hand, it can breed feelings of depression, isolation, anxiety, and hatred.
More than ever, everyone—from children to young adults to the elderly—must deal with the consequences of painful tradeoffs related to social media. Because the way we use social media can negatively affect our health, many people have felt that the only solution is to stay offline as much as possible, to delete the apps, and to live life in the moment without constantly recording it.
But for most people, complete digital abstinence is not an option. We work with social media. We rely on social media for information and connection. We also realize that social media platforms—despite their challenges and drawbacks—are remarkable innovations that can improve our lives if we use them in the right way.
Take, for example, how technology benefited so many people during the 2020 coronavirus pandemic. Covid-19 thrust our world—quite suddenly—into previously unknown territory. Many people were directly affected: They lost their jobs, loved ones, or both. Even those not directly affected experienced dramatic shifts in their routines, along with increased confusion, uncertainty, and anxiety.
Technology softened the blow for many. People created virtual gatherings to celebrate graduations, birthdays, and religious events. Others used social-connection software like Zoom, Slack, and Teams—which they had only vaguely heard of before—to connect with friends through virtual coffee dates, book clubs, happy hours, and knitting clubs. Despite the many restrictions people faced during the global pandemic, technology enabled them to continue their jobs, educational pursuits, and other passions. Beyond the crisis, many of these connections and digital activities will continue.
But how do we balance the challenges of technology with the benefits?
That’s where this book comes in. We need practical, evidence-based suggestions on how to maximize the value of social media in our lives while minimizing—as much as possible—the potential drawbacks. The goal of this book is to help you live in balance with social media.
Think of it like food. There’s always a new study coming out warning us about something unhealthy in our diet: We should avoid too many carbs, too much fat, too much of a specific kind of fat, too much processed sugar, too many pesticides. To protect and improve our health, we must constantly adjust what we eat. But the answer, of course, isn’t to stop eating entirely. Instead, we use the evidence we have to create a model—often represented by the food pyramid
—to guide our dietary choices.
The common phrase you are what you eat
reflects an inherent truth: The nutrients we take in basically become our bodies, so the healthier our diets are, the healthier our bodies will be.
The same is true with our social media consumption and our use of other digital technologies. We can and should create a healthy technology diet,
one that improves, rather than harms, our bodies and minds. What we consume online—whether through scrolling, listening, watching, or clicking—fills our minds with scripts
about ourselves, others, and the world. This changes what we think about and how we feel. These changes in our minds can affect us physically—by influencing the stress hormones flowing through our arteries, our blood pressure, and even whether we get diabetes or cancer. In other words, we become what we click.
Because media and technology are relatively new phenomena, we have no natural immunity to their negative impacts, which can go unchecked. Millions of years of evolution have ensured that our bodies are equipped to process out toxins, heal infections, and defend against microbes. We don’t have innate filters like these for tech. Instead, our minds and bodies act like sponges, absorbing anything and everything we immerse ourselves in digitally. This is why, as our use of and reliance on technology increases, we need a set of guidelines—like the food pyramid—to help us craft a satisfying and nourishing tech diet.
A few things are necessary to create an effective digital wellness plan. First, the plan needs to be simple. We can’t remember or implement a laundry list of 126 things to do and avoid. This is why, when it comes to nutrition, the US Department of Agriculture created the food pyramid in the first place. It’s also why this was eventually replaced with the even simpler MyPlate,
which reduces thousands of nutritional choices into five basic boxes.
While social media and digital technologies are extremely complex, we can define simple principles to guide our digital wellness. Over the course of my career, I have always come back to three major ideas that I believe can transform our relationship with social media and digital technologies: Be selective, be positive, and be creative. This book unpacks each of these principles as part of a social media pyramid
and shows how to apply them to specific challenges in our digital and online worlds.
How can we feel truly connected and heard when communicating remotely? How can we get the information and news we seek without plunging down a rabbit hole of doomscrolling? How can we optimize when and how we use social media so we feel empowered and not overwhelmed? These and many more questions will be answered here.
Another thing to keep in mind is that tech diets need to be individualized. Each person experiences and responds to technology in their own way. Each person is exposed to their own special mix of messages, advertisements, platforms, and feeds, and each person’s unique personality and circumstances can have a dramatic effect on how social media impacts them.
Some people are crushed if they are unfriended
on social media, sending them spiraling into self-doubt, while others are pleased to have their friend list automatically curated for them in this way. Some people breathe a sigh of relief when they find out that their meeting will be over Zoom, while others intensely crave in-person experiences and dread the awkwardness of a video chat. This book will help you individualize your experience based on your personality. It will also show you how to curate what you consume online based on what brings you more joy, inspiration, and peace of mind.
Finally, this book will offer a positive and proactive approach that is missing from a lot of advice about technology.
Early nutrition recommendations were usually phrased in the negative, such as, Don’t eat processed foods, carbs, or red meat.
But now eating advice is more frequently put in positive terms. We are told what to eat, rather than what not to eat. Instead of a long list of no-nos, diet advice focuses on the importance of having enough fiber, protein, and fresh fruits and vegetables.
This is important. According to behavioral scientists, people are more likely to follow suggestions that are positively framed. Instead of feeling shame and guilt over social media use, we should develop better practices that foster empowerment and positivity. Any technology can be misused, but the tools in this book will help digital tech work for you instead of against you.
It’s time we were empowered to use social media and digital technology to our advantage. They are here to stay, so let’s use them wisely and follow a realistic, positive model for creating lifelong digital wellness. The model I propose in this book is simple but flexible; anyone can use it while adapting it to their individual personality and needs. And though it acknowledges negative impacts of social media, it ultimately focuses our time and energy on creating positive experiences and feelings. Let’s begin.
Part 1
Why We Need a Food Pyramid
for Social Media
Social media isn’t the first technology in human history to disrupt our lives in a major way. The printing press, telephone, radio, television, and microchip have all dramatically changed society.
Yet many scholars agree that the rapid adoption of social media is unlike anything we’ve seen before. While the term itself is only a couple of decades old, billions of people across the world use social media for hours a day.
In part, this is due to how strongly linked this technology is to emotion, both negative and positive. There is no shortage of scientific studies linking social media use to mental health issues, like depression, anxiety, and loneliness—and each of these conditions is currently at epidemic levels across the globe.
When used well, however, social media can facilitate joy, comfort, and friendship. So, pulling the plug on this technology is not just unfeasible in today’s world—it also could result in squandering a lot of potential benefits.
Social media is powerful because it is personal in ways that previous technologies are not. The printing press didn’t follow you around, learn from your behaviors, and use that information to influence you. Television didn’t substantially leverage your relationships with your friends, family, and acquaintances to give itself greater impact in your life.
Beyond being personal and personalized, we also can’t seem to stop looking, scrolling, or clicking because of the wide spectrum of feelings social media evokes.
We’ve had fabulous experiences on social media of feeling valued and included. We’ve marveled at how easy it is to stay in touch with people we had thought we might never see again, and we’ve found information and content that delighted us or changed our perspectives.
But we’ve also been disappointed by social media. To lesser or greater degrees, we’ve had experiences that made us feel marginalized, belittled, or misunderstood. We’ve also had concerns about our privacy. This combination of good and bad experiences often sets up a classic yo-yo behavior—a cycle of ups and downs that ends up leaving us feeling more alone, anxious, and stressed out.
We need an empowering system that keeps us at the center of the experience and helps us live in balance with this remarkable technology. We need a system that’s flexible so that it will work across platforms and across time. We also need something simple—a plan we can easily incorporate into our already very full and busy lives. And we need a system that works. I created the social media pyramid to check off each of these boxes.
But to understand how the pyramid works—and to immediately put it to use in our lives—we first need to explore why it’s so needed. Our story starts in London.
1
The Minister of Loneliness
In 2018, the UK prime minister created a new position for a Minister of Loneliness.
Usual ministerial posts are for things like foreign affairs, housing, and education. The last time a cabinet post in the United States was created was for homeland security.
Are loneliness and emotional health problems in the world really that bad?
In a word, yes.
Over the past couple of decades, loneliness has become a worldwide epidemic. In the United States, 61 percent of people feel lonely—not just now and then, but on a regular basis. In many populations, people consider themselves closer to their television or a pet than to other people. Don’t get me wrong—I love my pets. My dog and two guinea pigs bring me joy. But something is off-kilter when we connect more to a television than to our own family and friends.
We all understand that loneliness is emotionally painful, but it also can be truly damaging—and even deadly.
A 2015 report involving millions of people found that those who were lonely had a 26 percent increase in the chance of dying compared with those who were not lonely. Similarly, people who lived alone had a 32 percent increased risk of dying compared with those who lived with others. This puts loneliness and living alone on par with other serious risk factors for death like heart problems, smoking, and obesity.
How can loneliness have this powerful an effect?
One reason is because loneliness is closely linked to more serious mental health conditions. Sure, everyone gets lonely at times, but prolonged loneliness can lead to other conditions like depression and anxiety. Both of these conditions can increase stress hormones that increase the risk of things like heart problems and cancer. Also, if you’re isolated or living alone, you don’t have as many people to help you take your medication, to take a walk with, and to remind you to take care of yourself.
Other emotional and mental health problems are also on the rise. One-quarter of Americans rate their own mental health as fair
or poor,
and this number has increased significantly even in the past decade.
In 2016, the New York Times reported that the US suicide rate had surged to a thirty-year high. Less than a year later, the World Health Organization declared that emotional health problems had replaced muscle and bone pain as the leading cause of disability worldwide.
What? The number of people who can’t work because they are too depressed or anxious has become higher than the number of people who can’t work because of injury, heart disease, cancer, or diabetes? Again, the answer is yes.
Emotional health issues are more ubiquitous than many people realize, because the millions of people