Within: Healing Through Sacred Feminine Archetypes - Awaken the Goddess Within
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Being a Reiki Master, Courtney covers the chakra centers and energy within each archetype and how to tap into this divine wisdom. This book calls us to rise together as women, as healers, as enchantresses, as lovers, as warriors, as wild women, as mothers but most of all it empowers you to be the best version of your authentic self.
Courtney Hanson
Courtney Hanson is an expert in transforming the lives of women all over the world. With a history of resilience in both the physical and spiritual realm, Courtney is equipped to get your mind, body and soul to a level of divine joy and a path with your personal practice in healing. She has the following licenses and certifications to help you remove limiting beliefs, heal from trauma, balance your chakras, renew your spirit and step into your dharma. NLP and Hypnotherapist, Meditation Expert, Energy Healing Therapist, Ayurveda Certified, Reiki Master, Yoga Instructor, Intuitive, and Motivational Speaker. Courtney runs the podcast The Sweetest Little Life and has a constant stream of free resources for those on their personal path to grow from at www.thesweetestlittlelife.com Courtney is a wife, mother of three and successful entrepreneur. Her journey through life is the framework that has led her to passionately and fiercely help others. She hasn’t just overcome darkness, trauma, and depression – she came inches away from death and she has used them as steppingstones to shape her into the woman she is today, helping others reach their goals physically, mentally and spiritually. Let her help you break through the barriers, step into your purpose and become the divine inner goddess you were destined to be. With love and gratitude.
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Within - Courtney Hanson
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ISBN: 978-1-9822-7551-8 (sc)
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ISBN: 978-1-9822-7552-5 (e)
Library of Congress Control Number: 2021920587
Balboa Press rev. date: 10/19/2021
Contents
The Awakening
The Ego
Algal
The Inner Child
Inner Child Meditation
The Maiden
The Mother
The Huntress – Warrioress
The Wise Woman – Crone
The Wild Woman – Mystic
The Lover
The Queen
The Sage
The Healer
The Creatrix
The Enchantress
The Priestess
About the Author
I felt a deep call to share my story after one of the toughest seasons of my life. A true rock bottom if you will. I was desperate to find my purpose and I knew, deep down in my soul, that I was just meant for more. The work in healing made me the woman I always dreamed of becoming. For so long I continued down a path of self-sabotage and self-hate, no matter how much I did the external work - I had to go deep within. I had to walk through some very deep shadows in order to be the light house glowing in the midst of the deep, dark ocean. I know now, this was all part of my dharma.
With a desperation to experience true joy I went fearlessly into my healing. I wanted to create a legacy for my children and help women all over to gain the vision and perseverance to live the life they always have dreamed of but maybe lacked the tools or know how to obtain. This is dedicated to all the goddesses ready to step into their divine purpose in which they were destined for.
To my children & husband whom have taught me the definition of unconditional love and given strength through critical moments that I never thought was possible; My grandmother who gave me a foundation of life-long immunity from harsh conditions and showed me what true resilience means.
My intention for you is to gain confidence and knowledge in just how beautifully created you are. There is only one of you and you are here for a reason. Your soul is magnificent, and you can truly do amazing things in this lifetime if you choose too. When the mind, body, and soul become in sync and begin to work together the mountains become tangible and life slowly begins to unravel into this miraculous state of being. Cheers to taking a step in this direction and believing in yourself. You are meant to do great things. Within this book my blessing to you is the empowerment of archetypes and to teach you that the answer has always been within.
With love & gratitude,
Courtney
The Awakening
As I took the last sip of my sixth bottle of wine, I lay crying on a hotel floor screaming on my knees, angry with God, angry with myself, angry with the world. Why couldn’t I just pass out and not wake up? Why was it so hard to peacefully go out in this world and stop causing harm to those around me? I cried, I screamed, I yelled a lot of fucks and felt like I was crawling outside of my body and just wanted to escape.
Nothing could take this dis-ease away. I had given up.
I could feel myself fading away, and the sense of powerlessness that came with it was brutal. No matter what I did or how hard I tried to help myself, nothing seemed like enough anymore. It didn’t seem possible for things to get any worse than they already were but yet somehow every day they would worsen just a little more with each minute that passed - until one day when everything shattered into catastrophe.
Little did I know my life was about to change forever.
I had just given up on life. I felt my body go limp and the pain become unbearable, then after a moment of stillness everything changed in an instant- like waves crashing against rocks changing their shape from smooth to jagged as they wash ashore. Suddenly it was not just me that laid there waiting for death but someone aside me...someone who loved me unconditionally.
That is when I heard her voice speak again I’m here.
It all made sense now; Laying on the floor ready to end it all I felt a sense of warmth and comfort. I smelt the god-awful overwhelming scent of passion - the perfume my grandmother wore. It was an embrace that I had never experienced before- like suddenly time slowed down, my mind calmed, the world around me ceased to exist for just one moment in time.
I’ve only had one other encounter with the spirit world, and it was when I was about ten. One day while biking, my leg got caught in the chain which made me stumble and fall right in the middle of the street– an older woman and a younger girl appeared out of nowhere - I can remember the details of them so vividly. The older woman was in her forties with shoulder length chestnut brown hair, pale skin and a smile that lit up your soul like the grand finale at a Fourth of July show. The younger girl had long, wavy dirty dish water hair and piercing brown eyes that made you want to reach out for a hug with the warmth and embrace. They had items around their shoulders...chains, ropes, almost like a lasso.
They unhooked me to freedom and whispered go home
before disappearing down the street. I looked up to say thank you and they had disappeared. Panicked, I ran inside to tell my grandmother and father what happened only to find out they both saw spirits often, so they didn’t act surprised or shocked by their appearance. It scared me so much that afterwards I subconsciously turned off whatever gift or power led them to finding me, until the age of thirty-three. On my knees in the Holiday Inn something triggered memories again from childhood and everything came flooding back into my conscious mind.
My grandmother was always my peace within the storm. When my mother left at the age of two to chase her own personal happily ever after, my dad and I moved in with my grandmother so she could be the mother role model I needed so desperately in my life.
She would play dress up with me, wash my hair until it squeaked clean in the sink, snuggle me and read books, drive me to school, style my wild lioness curls, match my clothing to my American girl dolls - she was my world. She did all of this while working full time in the corporate world at a company called Fluke.
I used to stand in awe of her color coordinated closet with pencil skirts and blazers - all the bold color palettes with matching stacked boxes of heels.
Her outfits were immaculate. The matching earrings down to the pumps. My grandmother was anything but ordinary. She was extraordinary. If she wanted something in life - she got it.
When I was eleven, I walked home from school just like any other day and she was sitting on the front porch step with my dad. The scene felt off - I knew they were about to tell me something, but I just assumed it was about my mom. At the time there was constant drama with our visitation or just not seeing her at all. I had just begun visits with her for the first time in years and just thought she had gone away again, and they were going to give me the speech on how much they loved me, and it wasn’t my fault. They invited me to sit on the porch steps with them and told me she was diagnosed with lung cancer. It was aggressive. Up to this point, I had never experienced death, I didn’t really understand the concept. My assumption was she was sick, and she would get better.
As she began to fight her cancer, my world was turned upside down. I would flush away all of the cigarette boxes that she had hidden throughout the house, but she just found better hiding spots. My stepdad would sneak by our house when we were gone and bring her cigarettes since everyone refused to buy them for her. She was feisty and like I said this woman got what she wanted. She knew she was dying and was going to enjoy all she loved in her last days. Cigarettes being one of those things. Her body became yellow as chemo and radiation took over her life; this strong woman who used to be able to do anything began to disintegrate before my very eyes. It was only months before she became bed ridden. My dad took care of her, but it got to the point hospice had to be called in, she wasn’t herself anymore. There were IV’s in her bedroom pumping her full of morphine and fluids, she began to not be able to eat foods, she was dying.
My everything was about to leave me. She was sixty-four. She had a lot of life left to live.
I felt this overwhelming sense of loss with no goodbye when my grandmother passed. She ended up having to go into the hospital for her last weeks and I was getting ready to leave for camp with my school. It was September 22nd, 1998, and we went for our daily visit to the hospital to see her. I was telling her how excited I was for camp with school being back in - I had just started the 6th grade. Mrs. Roppo’s class was going over the ferry and all my best friends would be there. She told me to go have fun at camp and she would see me when I got back. The pain was beginning to overtake her, and she knew she was getting ready to cross, but she never let me know she was hurting. She never complained.
We received a phone call as soon as we got home to turn around and come back to the hospital - my grandmother was fading fast. My dad warned me on the drive over that she was in her last hours. We walked into the hospital and to the left was her room.
Everything happened so fast and was such a blur. As soon as the double doors opened the nurse ran down the hall to meet us - the words I never wanted to hear came out... I’m sorry you’re too late she just passed
.
My body went limp, and I ran as fast as I could to her room not believing the nurse. My hugs could bring her back - I just knew it. Everything around me no longer existed at that moment. I ran in and hugged her lifeless body - I couldn’t breathe. I kept screaming bring her back
- Her best friend PJ was there holding her hand through her crossing.
My dad had me escorted out of the hospital room by the nurses because I was inconsolable. My emotions were never validated – they were unacceptable and drama. I sat sobbing in a ball by myself on the hospital room floor. I remember the cold white linoleum with grey lines. The nurses tried to console me, but nothing would fix that my person just left me. My world was about to drastically change.
July 10th
Dear Grandma,
I can’t even find the words to tell you how dearly I miss you, how I wonder daily what my life would be if you were still here and didn’t leave this earth so soon. I know you would have saved me from so many situations. You were my safety, my sounding board, my person. I thank you for all you did for me. All you sacrificed for me. Not a day goes by something doesn’t remind me of you or something doesn’t make me wonder about you. I wish you could have met my children; I wish you were there when I was pregnant with my son and so young and scared. I had no idea what the fuck I was doing but somehow felt a security in knowing someone would love me like you did - my child. My husband’s favorite drink is Dr. Pepper, I knew there was some connection of you signaling he’s the one
when he told me that. I miss our talks so much - I did pass along to my kids find something to get excited about every night before bed for the next day. Wake up in wonder of what good news may happen.
I still think this is the best advice anyone has ever given me. I try to do it myself but fail from time to time. I am so sorry with how you were treated toward the end. You were so sick, and I am sure so scared, but you never showed it. You are still the strongest woman I have ever known, and I have met a lot of women on my journey thus far. I don’t know how you did it all. I never once saw you cry or be sad, you smiled and persevered through every situation. I am sorry I didn’t get to say goodbye to you. I remember it like yesterday.
I had just started seeing my mom for visits and I didn’t understand the concept of death. I thought you would be here forever. I was leaving with dad from the hospital and his phone rang. They said you were fading fast, so we rushed to the hospital, but we were too late. I’ll never forget seeing PJ’s face as you held her hand. You told her to tell me you loved me, but I didn’t get to say it back. I curled up on the white cold linoleum tile in the hall of the hospital while shut out of the room - I wanted to hold you forever. I ran in the room once more to hold you and was told that was enough and it was time to go. I felt like I couldn’t breathe even writing it down I can feel that piece of me that died that day. It still hurts so bad. I never went on my camping trip because after your funeral we left your house - my home. We moved to Illinois with dad’s new girlfriend, Phyllis. I knew no one, everyone made fun of me and all I wanted was to tell you - to talk to you. You always had the answer. I don’t even think you have a tombstone, I tried to visit you last year in Seattle and no one would tell me where you were. You deserved to be honored, you deserved flowers, you got nothing and sacrificed everything for your family. The day you died I promised to be strong, I promised to never feel that pain again because it wasn’t allowed. I was just supposed to forget you. You weren’t talked about; I saw you in my dreams for a while which let me know your presence was still there. As an adult dad would tell me stories of how much you hated him or how he was your meal ticket. He said you were a workaholic and never around, so you tried to make up for it with me. I have never listened - I saw first-hand all you did for him, for me. You paid the bills, allowed him to have breaks while playing the essential mom role I was missing.
I wish I could thank you as an adult I have no idea how you managed. I am sorry I’ve let you down, I know you would be rolling over in your grave about half of what I’ve chosen to do in life. When I think of childhood, I think of you. When I think of the stableness in my life it was you. When you left, I had no one to talk to - no one to tell my secrets to - no one to tell me it was going to be okay. Your’ legend was erased so fast. Within a month I was in a new school with no friends, a new state, a new house, a new mom
, new stepbrothers - I remember shortly after we moved Phyllis’s x husband thought we were gone. My dad had run to the store, and I was home alone. He broke into our house, and I was so scared.
I ran to the fourth-floor bathroom and while I was on the phone with 911, I remember you saying, stay here
. He ran out spooked because a pot fell off the counter randomly –
I know that was you. I wish often I had an eighth of the strength you had - you met any situation head on, and I just crumbled. You were a true Libra; I knew when my sons were both Libras it was another sign of strength - another sign of you. My first borns due date was the day you passed; I knew that was you with me. Signs have always been all around me that you were guiding me - I just didn’t know how to see them. I never realized until I met Julianne (my therapist) This woman is changing my life - I wish you two could have met. Your personalities are so much alike. We are working with how much life changed when you left. How much I never received the permission to miss you openly, how I never got to cry for you, they played Amazing Grace at your funeral because you were the definition of grace. That was your song on the hard days. Since your funeral if I hear the song, I change the station or remove myself from the room. It hurts so bad because it’s the closest thing I have left of you. The fucked-up part of it all - Julianne wants me to listen to this very song while writing to you. I can still feel you like you’re here with me through every verse that plays. You defined who I am at a core level. I believe in so much because of you - I know angels exist and know I am guided even through my darkest times because of your presence. Do you remember when you started losing hair and taught me how to do your makeup when you couldn’t lift your arms. I became a makeup artist. You were the most glamorous woman I had ever met. I am pretty sure you made the slogan put on some lip stick and handle it.
God, I miss you...I will honor you by being the woman you shaped me into being. I was just so lost along the way. I lost myself - I’ve always just tried to make everyone happy, for everyone to like me... Then I became a mother. That was my identity. I haven’t been Courtney in so many years. I promise to get your tombstone and honor your memory. I promise to create that woman that you envisioned for me as an adult. Most importantly I promise to not shut you out. When I smell your perfume I’ll smile, when I hear Amazing Grace, I’ll blast it, and when I think of you, I’ll feel it. You are worth that and so much more.
I’ll pick up traditions with my children I have let die out because they are painful and remind me of you and I will stop numbing out when things get hard. I will be the woman you were to me to my children.
I thank you for showing me that. I guess this is my goodbye - the one I never got to say to you. Every time I am at Edmonds beach I drive by our house and just cry; I wish I could have brought my family there to feel the love you poured into every inch of it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for shaping and molding me when no one else wanted too. I never lacked love or feeling like a normal child because of you.
Love you forever and always,
Courtney
Dear Poohster,
I wish I could have told you the truth and said goodbye, but I didn’t want you to worry - I was trying to protect you. I asked Phyllis to take care of your dad and you, and she promised she would. I look down and smile at all our times together. What I would give for a little Dr. Pepper, Reese’s and some Murder She Wrote. I want you to smile - you were always my light and that’s why I showed you so much strength. I know you needed me just as I needed you. I was never upset you wanted visits with your mom over sitting in a hospital - I wanted you two to have a relationship desperately. I wish she was better to you, I tried everything. I would have set things up very differently if I knew what your future was to hold. For this dear girl I am sorry. I want you to remember me - you’re an empath, stop shutting it off. I always told you this was your gift. Life is hard but you can do hard things - you’re a Hurley and that’s what we do - persevere. I’m your guide and have never left your side. I am in no pain and can dance and play bingo whenever I damn well please now. I want you to know and remember everyone has something, don’t let that steal your sunshine. Find a reason to be excited every day and stop hiding from the world. What they think of you is none of your business. You get ready, put your best foot forward and always work like you’re working for God. We all have a history and are meant to learn lessons. You’re stubborn my dear girl so it takes you a bit longer. I am not disappointed but my heart hurts that you are aching. I know you went through the dark to help so many people heal in the future. Your pain will have a purpose, it will not go unnoticed. I want you to let go - stop holding on so tight to things that maybe just aren’t meant to be. There are special plans for you, it’s just not your turn to see them yet. I want you to carry on our Christmas traditions with your children, keep my memory alive. Show them my pictures and tell them our best of times. I bet your daughter would love American Girl dolls just like you did. I know you sold them all and wanted to hand them down to your future kids, but it was the right thing to do for your situation at the time. Love is so hard. I want you to know pain will not kill you - it softens you to grow stronger but Pooh, you have to stop running
Plant your seeds, water them vigorously and grow. It’s time. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain –
it’s time to fly Courtney. Be proud of who you are despite your past and what you’ve seen and done. Guilt and shame lead nowhere productive - forgive yourself, you are not a bad person, you are worthy of love. You were always my princess, and you need to put back on your tiara. Sit at an ocean and remember how small you are but what a difference one wave can create. You are that wave - learn to ebb and flow with the Universe directing you. I will never stop loving you - I am always here looking down on you and smiling. A tombstone doesn’t define my connection with you - my spirit does and that is something which will live on forever. You know I am blunt and to the point but before we say goodbye, I want you to do something for me. Have fun and enjoy life, it’s gone before you know it. Stop staying home so much and feeling guilt for feeling joy. Go for adventures, smell fresh air, live excited to open your eyes upon rising. I love you to heaven and back.
Make me proud - I am watching,
Grandma
For years I let the outside noise determine who I was. The outside beliefs. The self-pity. The constant moves. The perceptions, which were not mine, but adopted over the experiences I had in life. I learned from a very young age to smile and be strong – crying fixed nothing. Emotions were in the way. Being raised by a man, who was damaged himself, I knew very little of feminine energy and only lived within the masculine. This mentality of playing the victim followed me everywhere, until one day it was just too much. I was the shadow Maiden - the damsel in distress. For a long time, I thought there was only one path for me. To be this victim role and accept whatever life threw my way, or to try my best not to get hurt by anything that happens along the journey - but then sitting in a conference one of the speakers said something that was the starting point of my mindset shift You have two options in life –to be the patient or become the Doctor
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It’s not like life suddenly became perfect that second but in realizing my own worth outside what others told me about myself-I realized how wrong they were: Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls your life. Growing up with shame and guilt is a difficult thing to deal with, especially when you feel as if it’s something that can never be fixed. We all make mistakes in life; some are just bigger than others. Shame makes these moments seem even worse because we have nowhere else to turn for help but ourselves--we must look within. It may sound complicated, but this type of trauma often begins much earlier on in our lives-when we were children without any understanding of what was happening around us.
The fear associated with childhood