Dorothy Dandridge: A Biography
By Donald Bogle
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Available once again, the definitive biography of the pioneering Black performer—the first nominated for a Best Actress Academy Award—who broke new ground in Hollywood and helped transform American society in the years before Civil Rights movement—a remarkable woman of her time who also transcended it.
“An ambitious, rigorously researched account of the long-ignored film star and chanteuse. . . . Bogle has fashioned a resonant history of a bygone era in Hollywood and passionately documented the contribution of one of its most dazzling and complex performers."—New York Times Book Review
In the segregated world of 1950s America, few celebrities were as talented, beautiful, glamorous, and ultimately influential as Dorothy Dandridge. Universally admired, she was Hollywood's first full-fledged Black movie star. Film historian Donald Bogle offers a panoramic portrait of Dorothy Dandridge’s extraordinary and ultimately tragic life and career, from her early years as a child performer in Cleveland, to her rise as a nightclub headliner and movie star, to her heartbreaking death at 42.
Bogle reveals how this exceptionally talented and intensely ambitious entertainer broke down racial barriers by integrating some of America's hottest nightclubs and broke through Tinseltown’s glass ceiling. Along with her smash appearances at venues such as Harlem’s famed Cotton Club, Dorothy starred in numerous films, making history with her role in Otto Preminger’s Carmen Jones, playing opposite Harry Belafonte. Her performance earned her an Academy Award nomination for Best Actress—the first Oscar nod for a woman of color.
But Dorothy’s wealth, fame, and success masked a reality fraught with contradiction and illusion. Struggling to find good roles professionally, uncomfortable with her image as a sex goddess, coping with the aftermath of two unhappy marriages and a string of unfulfilling affairs, and overwhelmed with guilt for her disabled daughter, Dorothy found herself emotionally and financially bankrupt—despair that ended in her untimely death.
Woven from extensive research and unique interviews, as magnetic as the woman at its heart, Dorothy Dandridge captures this dazzling entertainer in all her complexity: her strength and vulnerability, her joy and her pain, her trials and her triumphs.
Donald Bogle
Donald Bogle is one of the country's leading authorities on African Americans in Hollywood. He is the author of the groundbreaking Toms, Coons, Mulattoes, Mammies, and Bucks: An Interpretive History of Blacks in American Films; the acclaimed biography Dorothy Dandridge; and Brown Sugar: Over 100 Years of America's Black Female Superstars. He teaches at New York University's Tisch School of the Arts and at the University of Pennsylvania.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This is an incredibly well-researched biography of Dorothy Dandridge from eminent film historian and frequent TCM guest Donald Bogle. First published in 1997 at a time when he had access to many of the people whose lives intersected Dandridge’s, it’s chock-full of details and personal stories that really bring her story to life. And as Bogle put it so perfectly in the preface, this story is three-fold:“Foremost, it was a personal story about a gifted, complex woman. Then, it was something of a family drama, a web of tangled relationships. And, of course, finally, it was a look at the movie industry and the Black Hollywood that existed within the larger filmland culture.”I found that in each of these areas, the story was compelling. Dandridge was talented and alluring, but massively insecure, something that stemmed from trauma in so many areas of her life. As a child, her mother Ruby took her sister and her away from their father and told them that he had abandoned them. Her mother began a closeted lesbian relationship with a woman who abused Dorothy through her adolescence, culminating in a humiliating forced vaginal exam to ensure she was still a virgin. She married Harold Nicholas (of the Nicholas Brothers dancing duo fame) with romantic ideas about a perfect life together, but his frequent adultery and lack of simply being there, even abandoning her on the day their baby was born, ruined their marriage. Their daughter, Lynn was severely mentally disabled, requiring constant care beyond what Dorothy could provide, and was raised in the hands of others. In all of these ways she thought she had somehow failed, with is an incredible shame. Dandridge’s career is of course detailed, from the earliest days of dancing with her sister to early roles, like the brilliant performance of ‘Chattanooga Choo Choo’ number with the Nicholas Brothers in Sun Valley Serenade (1941) and her performance of ‘Taking a Chance on Love’ in Remains to Be Seen (1953), which was apparently the closest approximation to her charismatic nightclub performances. Her breakout role was of course Carmen Jones (1954), for which she garnered the first Oscar nomination for an African American in the Best Actress category. Tragically, just eleven years later at the age of 42, she would be dead.Dandridge’s rise in the film industry coincided with a fascinating period of transition for African American actors. Long accustomed to being relegated to minor, often degrading roles as servants, some older black actors feared that the NAACP’s push for better roles after WWII might impact their careers – though notably, not Hattie McDaniel, who supported women like Lena Horne and Hazel Scott for presenting a new, more sophisticated image. That’s one of the things I loved about Bogle’s work – he took the time to explore and explain these things which represented the larger context of Dandridge’s life. As he puts it, she “marked a bridge between two generations of African Americans who had been working in films.” Of Carmen Jones (1954), Bogle writes “Dandridge exuded throughout the film a larger-than-life glamor and allure that had never been afforded Black women in Hollywood cinema before.” As importantly, “From the sound of her voice, with its warm honey tones, to her movements, and, of course, her attitude, her Carmen always seemed to be speaking directly to her Black audiences, saying, ‘The picture may not be real, but I am.’” At the same time, he recognized that director Otto Preminger “wisely understood the power and isolation of Dandridge’s Carmen, whose individuality and sense of emotional/sexual freedom set her apart from her community. It is another Dandridge portrait of the beauty-as-loner. In some respects, in part because of her look, she seems to play out the concept of the tragic mulatto, which depicts the mixed-race character as not being able to function as a part of any community. That may well, strangely enough, explain some of Dandridge’s appeal and the complexity of her screen persona.” This combination – both representing an advance for a community and yet being in some way isolated from it – is emotionally powerful. Marilyn Monroe was a friend of hers, which is of course ironic because Dandridge was similarly damaged by being overly sexualized by men, tyrannized by Otto Preminger, suffered from depression, and had her life cut short tragically. Even their names – Norma Jean Baker and Dorothy Jean Dandridge – eerily have the same middle name. Regardless, it was astonishing to read just how quickly her fall from grace was, and the depths to which she plumbed. After being on top of the world in Carmen Jones, she struggled to find parts worthy of her, made a career misstep in turning down the role Rita Moreno took in The King and I, was swindled in an oil well venture (along with others), and made a disastrous decision to marry grifter Jack Denison in 1959. Despite her magnetic charm, others whom she loved (like Peter Lawford and Otto Preminger) left her, and her appearance in Hollywood came at a time when Americans were not willing to accept a black woman in leading roles in mainstream films. She had success on the nightclub circuit, but was disillusioned by its racism and its “oversexed club atmosphere.” She increasingly turned to alcohol and antidepressants, which would be her undoing. While it’s heartbreaking to think what might have been for Dandridge, this is a story of trailblazing and courage during a conservative and racist era. The scrutiny of her innocent involvement at the Actors Lab by the HUAC as well as her simply dancing with white actor Anthony Quinn is represented, a chilling reminder of the period. When friend and fellow actor Joel Fluellen took concerns about the treatment of black actors to the Screen Actors Guild, he was ignored by SAG’s leader at the time, Ronald Reagan, who also had members pledge to a patriotic “loyalty oath.” Hedda Hopper, supporter of HUAC and blacklists, named people and ruined careers, almost including Dandridge’s. As Dorothy so eloquently wrote the California Eagle:“I have just returned from Europe where I was received with cordiality and respect both professionally and socially. In answering queries about the Negro artist in America, I was ashamed to admit the humiliation to which we are subjected. Europeans are suspicious of pious mouthings about Democracy for other countries when right here in America the most abominable discriminatory practices and ideas are still being perpetuated as reflected in the Hollywood Reporter column.”Bogle doesn’t shy away from the “abominable discriminatory practices” that Dandridge faced, including black performers like her being headliners at hotels in Las Vegas or Miami Beach, but not allowed to mingle with white audiences, use the front entrances, elevator, or pool. The Last Frontier threatened to drain the pool if she went anywhere near it. Oftentimes they were forced to take a cheap hotel miles away because they couldn’t be guests. Then of course there was the Production Code office, where in 1954, 66-year-old conservative, anti-Semitic Catholic Joseph Breen still ruled, dictating what Americans could see. Of Carmen Jones he was concerned with what he viewed as lust and immorality, requiring all sorts of changes. Of her film Island in the Sun (1957) the office required a rationale for the “immoral” sin of a pre-marital affair be explained by the shock of discovery of having “black blood,” which among other things Bogle points out suggested “a black woman was sexually ‘looser’ – less moral – than a white one.” There were many other examples, often spurred by the fear of reaction from the Southern market. The book is certainly a tome, coming in at 649 pages before the extensive notes and bibliography at the end, so personally I would have been as happy had it been a little shorter. At the same time, what an incredible service Bogle did to Dorothy Dandridge here, capturing her life and times so methodically. To his credit, I didn’t feel that he got mired in extraneous details, he was just thorough, and he always presented the bigger picture with great insight. It’s a great read, and will also serve as a great reference.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Dorothy Dandridge is considered the Black Marilyn Monroe of her time. She was the first African American actress that defined beauty, poise, courage and sadness. From her long affair with director Otto Pemminger to marrying a money hungry gigilo, she made wrong choices. She of course was a very talented actress, singer and dancer. The book was informative and well written.
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Dorothy Dandridge - Donald Bogle
Introduction
To the New Edition of Dorothy Dandridge: A Biography
BY THE early 1990s, I had long wanted to write a biography of Dorothy Dandridge, a great star whom I had always loved and whose career triumphs and struggles—as well as her early tragic death—had haunted me. I had written about her in each of my then previous books. At every opportunity I had compiled research on Dandridge, and whenever I met someone who had known or worked with her—be it Dorothy’s older sister Vivian, Sidney Poitier, actor Ivan Dixon, Cicely Tyson, or director Otto Preminger—I was quick to inquire about Dandridge. Sometimes I conducted formal interviews: asking about their experiences with her; their view of her place in film history; their reflections on her performances, her personal life, her death, and her legacy.
I had gathered more than enough information to begin writing such a biography. But to my dismay, publishers expressed little interest. My agent, Marie Dutton Brown, who well understood the fascination with Dorothy Dandridge within the African American community, always believed that such a biography was essential and that I was the person to write it. As one of New York’s most respected literary agents—and one of the few African American agents—Marie was aware of a dilemma in publishing. At that time—as of now—publishing houses remained primarily White institutions, often with little knowledge of the perspectives and interests—as well as the yearning for information—of African American readers. Though more books by or about African Americans had been published in the late 1960s and 1970s, when it came to the discussion of film history and other aspects of Black popular culture, most editors at the major houses drew a blank. For those editors who did have foresight and wanted to acquire the book, it could always be an uphill struggle to convince editorial boards to understand the importance of publishing such works. The same struggle was true for the very few Black editors at publishing houses.
Marie Brown, however, was confident that it would happen, and without my full awareness of how much she was pushing for the book, she had taken my proposal for the biography to a recently founded Black publishing house, Amistad Press. Its publisher, the enterprising Charles Harris, appeared not to think twice about publishing such a book, and he too—aware of my previous books—believed I was the person to write it. In fact, the entire staff at Amistad—not a very large one—was excited about the prospect of the book. Foremost among the staff was my editor Malaika Adero—who having previously been an editor at Simon & Schuster—was a veteran in the world of publishing. For an author, it was an extraordinary feeling to know there was such support for my forthcoming work and that every effort would be made to see that the book received attention. Problems arose at Amistad as I worked on the book, due mainly to financing with which Charles often struggled. But after an extended period—it took me some five years to fully research and write the book—I remember distinctly the day when Charles Harris phoned me to say he would be driving by my apartment building and would I come downstairs—he had something for me. He was jubilant as he presented me with two advance copies of Dorothy Dandridge: A Biography. It was a wholly memorable day.
The road to the publication of Dorothy Dandridge: A Biography reveals today—as much as in the past—the importance of diverse perspectives, diverse voices, and diverse knowledge in the publishing industry.
Upon publication, Dorothy Dandridge: A Biography received major and glowing attention. Ebony ran two cover stories on Dorothy, the first of which featured a lengthy excerpt from my book. Essence also published an important article on the book, my second piece for Essence about Dandridge. Around the country once again the African American press celebrated the screen goddess that their readers could never forget and that the era’s new generation was eager to learn about. Other coverage proved significant. At New York’s prestigious Film Forum—celebrated for its repertory cinema and its first runs of recently produced independent films—repertory director Bruce Goldstein requested that I curate a major Dandridge film retrospective, the first of its kind in the city. Film Forum’s director Karen Cooper was likewise excited by the prospect of the series. At the New York Times, critic Janet Maslin became so immersed in reading the biography, and then seeing Dandridge films, that she wrote an extensive story about Dorothy and the series. The retrospective played to packed houses. Mel Watkins at the New York Times also gave the book a great review. The New Yorker, Time, Vogue, People, and other national publications heralded the arrival of the book.
The Hollywood studios—which had once left Dorothy stranded—took a renewed interest in the industry’s once celebrated but now neglected star. Janet Jackson, Vanessa Williams, Halle Berry, Jasmine Guy, and Lela Rochon expressed enthusiasm at the prospect of a Dandridge movie. Most significantly and poignantly, Whitney Houston had her heart set on the role. Through Whitney’s production company Brown House, producer Debra Martin Chase and film agent Amy Schiffman, then of the William Morris Agency, negotiated an exceptional deal whereby the movie rights to my book were optioned expressly for Houston. In my limited meetings with Whitney Houston I found her warm, engaging, gracious, and surprisingly vulnerable. Never was there anything mean or mean-spirited about her, and she was generous almost to a fault as any number of people took advantage of her.
When word broke—with a front-page story in Variety—that Whitney would star in an adaptation of my book, some balked about the casting. Whitney, however, had proven herself an underrated commanding screen presence in The Bodyguard and wholly refreshing in such movies as Waiting to Exhale and The Preacher’s Wife. I’ve always believed that Whitney, had she worked with a coach, clearly had the emotional depth to play the role—as evidenced in her powerful music—and on an occasion when I reassured Whitney that she was Dorothy Dandridge, she beamed. Just as Dorothy had to navigate her way through a difficult marriage to a star—Harold Nicholas of the Nicholas Brothers—Whitney had also traversed her way through a troubled marriage (now well documented) to a famous husband, Bobby Brown. She understood Hollywood’s pitfalls, its disappointments and frustrations—and she knew how a demanding all-enveloping career could drain a star of her energy, her confidence, and her fundamental optimism for life itself. Dandridge’s story had struck a very personal cord with her. But, sadly, as we were in development for the movie, a series of events occurred that turned everything upside down. Ultimately, intense personal problems shook Whitney and sent her in a downward spiral from which there was no escape. As Kevin Costner pointed out in his eulogy for her, Whitney had doubts and fears and unexpected vulnerabilities. In the end, she didn’t do the film. Instead, Halle Berry, who I had met just as I was about to sign the book’s film rights to Whitney, remained determined to play Dandridge and set up a deal at HBO for a TV film in which she gave a heartfelt performance that won her an Emmy, a Golden Globe, and an NAACP Image Award.
Though I was happy to see additional attention focused on Dorothy, frankly, I knew that my book contained a story—with exclusive and enlightening interviews—that otherwise remained untold, unexamined, and unexplained in its full complexity and power.
Dorothy Dandridge: A Biography also led to a sequel—or better still, a prequel—book. My agent, Marie, and the terrific editor Elisabeth Dyssegaard, then at Farrar, Straus, and Giroux, had been so fascinated by the backdrop of early Black Hollywood in the biography that they thought there should be a book that examined the social history of African Americans in the film capital: where they lived; how they socialized; how they found work at the studios; how they formed relationships with White stars; how they developed friendships and rivalries; how they adjusted to the culture of Hollywood. Bright Boulevards, Bold Dreams: The Story of Black Hollywood, in which Dorothy was featured, would become the bestselling book.
I am still haunted by memories of working on the biography. I recall distinctly the afternoon my former researcher Phil Bertelsen made arrangements for me to visit the apartment—indeed, to see the very room—in which Dorothy had died. I am also haunted by many of the interviews I conducted. Otto Preminger shared with me within the first minute of our conversation: I am convinced she took her life.
Not a man to show vulnerabilities, Preminger, while shooting a film, was known to be brutal on performers. Actors like Ivan Dixon and Nichelle Nichols told me about his particular cruelty to Dorothy during the making of Porgy and Bess. Yet years later, Otto was rueful and perhaps remorseful as he spoke of her. To this day, I believe Preminger cared about her, and I was surprised to learn that after the devastating troubles that led to her emotional and financial bankruptcy, he had visited her. He had nothing but contempt for her second husband who, said Preminger, spent all her money.
Otto would have helped her financially,
Dorothy’s friend Geri Branton told me. But Dottie was too proud to ask or accept.
On various occasions, Branton told me that she, too, believed Dorothy had ended her own life. Having known one another since they had each been married to one of the Nicholas brothers—Dorothy to Harold; Geri to Fayard—the two women had been the closest of friends to the end of Dorothy’s life.
And then there were the interviews and conversations with Harold Nicholas. It was achingly difficult for him to discuss her. When his eyes welled with tears at one point, I could see the love that he still had for her. For Dorothy, he was the great love of her life. When I gave him a copy of the completed Dorothy Dandridge: A Biography, at first he couldn’t look at its glorious cover. He put the book next to him on the sofa. Later when he picked it up, his eyes then lingered on the cover, and he solemnly looked through the book, pausing at the pictures—of himself with Dorothy and of their daughter, Harolyn. It was painful for him. The same was true of Dorothy’s sister, Vivian, who had told me of the guilt she felt for a very long, long time
after Dorothy’s death. All those years later, Dorothy still cast a spell over Otto, Geri, Harold, and Vivian. Today she still casts a spell over me—and audiences as well. As I’ve seen with my students at the University of Pennsylvania and at NYU’s Tisch School of the Arts, a new generation lights up at seeing her brilliance in Carmen Jones. During my appearances as a co-host on Turner Classic Movies, I’ve enjoyed the network’s enthusiasm for showing Dandridge films, and it was particularly gratifying to co-host the presentation of Dorothy as TCM’s Star of the Month, a tribute to her lasting power and undeniable ageless charisma.
I am now excited that Dorothy Dandridge: A Biography has been reissued by Amistad, now a division of HarperCollins, and that the story of the iconic star is back in print.
The original—and very important—acknowledgments are at the back of the book.
For assistance with this new edition, I’d like to thank a number of people: foremost the excellent agent Marie Dutton Brown; my editor, the indefatigable Patrik Bass; Tracy Sherrod, Amistad’s editor in chief; Yvonne Chan; Alexa Allen; Francesca Walker; Paul Olsewski, Virginia Stanley and Chris Connolly of Amistad; the dazzling Debra Martin Chase; Amy Schiffman; Martha and Jim Orrick; Sarah Orrick; Carol Scott Leonard; Elisabeth Dyssegaard; Emery Wimbish; Tony Nicholas (son of Fayard Nicholas) and his wife, Vanita Nicholas; film historian Ed Mapp; my dear friends Jeannie Franz and Clerio Demoraes; Phil Bertelsen; Bruce Goldstein; Karen Cooper; Rigmor Newman Nicholas; Sally Placksin; Robert Katz; Annette Johns; Enrico Pellegrini; Jerry Silverhardt; Gale Garrison and Carol Davis of the University of Pennsylvania; Howard Mandelbaum of Photofest; another resourceful agent, Jennifer Lyons; Jacqueline Bogle Mosley; Jeanne Bogle Charleston along with two true movie people, Janet Bogle Schenck and her husband, Jerry Schenck; Lori Stimpson Guile; Robert Bogle, Roslynne Bogle; Roger Bogle; Gerald Grant Bogle; Jay Bogle, Yemaya Bogle; Mechelle Mosley Palmer. Special thanks are extended to former students Mia Moody, Marcel Salas, Kyle Webster, Robin Williams, Deesha Hill, Afiya Mangum Mbilishaka, Zoe Mitchell, Zoe Scretchings, Wesley Barrow, David Aglow, and my Penn roundtable group with whom I once met frequently for lunch: Gigi Kwon, Raj Gopal, Jake Stock, and Nadine Zylberberg. Additional special thanks are extended to members of TCM’s great staff: Dori Stegman; Susan Biesack; Quatoyiah Murry; Genevieve McGillicuddy; Susana Zepeda Cagan; Jacob Griswell; Anne Wilson; Courtney O’Brien; Kirsten Hassell; and finally, to TCM’s general manager, Pola Changnon; its primary host, Ben Mankiewicz, with whom it is always a pleasure to work; and especially to my good friend Charlie Tabesh, the senior vice president of programming and production—who is so well-versed in movies, politics, sports, current events, and literature that I never fail to be impressed; and with whom it is always a pleasure to talk.
Preface
LIKE MANY other African American kids of the late fifties and sixties, I grew up hearing about Dorothy Dandridge. My parents mentioned the name often. My father was the vice president and advertising director of the Philadelphia Tribune, one of America’s oldest Black newspapers, and during breakfast and dinner conversations, both he and my mother often discussed those Black Americans who were breaking new ground and emerging as symbols or signs of racial/social progress. My parents spoke of Dandridge much as they did Jackie Robinson: as someone distinct and pioneering; someone who was altering mainstream conceptions about what Black Americans could or could not do. From what I gathered, Dandridge was an altogether unique and unprecedented cultural phenomenon: a successful Black dramatic actress in Hollywood and perhaps Black America’s first bonafide movie star, already a glowing figure of legend and glamour.
I remember how I felt when I first saw a photograph of her. Leafing through stacks of old Ebony magazines lying around the house, I stumbled across an article about her screen test for Carmen Jones with actor James Edwards. So here she is!
I said to myself. Needless to say, I had a crush on her.
Once I actually saw her perform in Carmen Jones, I fully understood what all the fuss was about. I sat in the theater intoxicated by her beauty, her energy, her sexiness, and her dazzling ability to float through the movie’s world at her own rhythm and from her own perspective. Dandridge’s image on screen affected me a great deal as it had countless other Black Americans—and many White Americans as well—male and female. Few goddesses in movie history had ever seemed so confident and so in control. Few had been so beautiful with such a high-flung sense of drama. No woman anywhere seemed at all like her. Even as a kid, I understood that Dorothy Dandridge called a lie to the assumption that the movie goddess could only be some fair-haired White beauty. She had proved that Black women could be cast as something other than giggling maids or hefty nurturers without lives of their own.
Consequently, it was all the more disturbing and shocking when I learned how short her life was. Not long after I’d discovered her, she was found dead of an overdose of pills at the age of forty-two. It was 1965 and the news ran on the front pages of Black newspapers (and some White ones) throughout the country. But it affected the African American community in an intensely personal way. Soon the expected questions were asked. How had it happened that the dream girl who seemed so new and modern, so daring and independent, could end up in such a way? Had Hollywood destroyed her? Or had a set of personal demons made her life such a living hell that she had decided to end it?
The possibility that Dorothy Dandridge had committed suicide made her story seem truly tragic and even more disturbing. Some drew the seemingly inevitable comparisons between Dandridge and Marilyn Monroe. In the popular imagination, both appeared to be sensitive, fragile women in a cutthroat film industry controlled by men. Yet their lives—and the pressures they had to live with—were often vastly different. Dandridge’s personal and professional tragedy had an unusual kind of power because it seemed to say something not only about Hollywood in general but about African Americans and the shifting dynamics of race and gender in the film capital and across the landscape of popular culture itself. As Harry Belafonte once said, she had been the right person in the right place at the wrong time. She was left languishing in Hollywood.
Still, it was telling to see the responses to Dandridge and Monroe, which was an indication of the two different perspectives of White and Black America. Though Monroe, while alive, was sometimes considered a sexy joke
—even she must have felt that some of her most famous characters were brilliant parodies rather than flesh-and-blood women—Monroe was eventually embraced by the critical establishment and accorded her place as a major twentieth century icon. Dorothy Dandridge, however, was forgotten by the cultural mainstream. Film histories overlooked her contributions, and in all those gilded studies of movie stardom, she was ignored and became the invisible woman. Some might argue that because she had only one major film, she wasn’t entitled to join the ranks of great stars. But James Dean only had three films, and Louise Brooks, arguably only one major film role. Yet they became film legends while Dandridge was consigned to the ash heap. Generations of White Americans grew up knowing nothing about her. It was almost as if she had never existed.
Black America, however, refused to forget her. Dorothy Dandridge had been a great and powerful enough presence to survive in its consciousness whether the official culture gave any stamp of approval or not. She remained an enduring cultural icon for Black America and the most haunting of movieland figures. Despite her acceptable
look—the keen features and the lighter color—she had reached the movie capital’s upper echelons without, as her searing performance as Carmen demonstrated, losing her ethnic beat and rhythm. From the sound of her voice, with its warm honey tones, to her movements, and, of course, her attitude, her Carmen always seemed to be speaking directly to her Black audiences, saying, The picture may not be real, but I am.
Moreover, off-screen her haughty elegance and worldly sophistication heralded a new era when African Americans would confidently integrate American society, infusing it with their particular sense of style and energy.
For years after, Dorothy Dandridge’s name was kept alive via the potent memories of her generation. In this respect, her story is similar to Billie Holiday in the late sixties when she was known mainly by jazz critics and aficionados. It took the 1972 movie Lady Sings the Blues to bring awareness of her life and work to the mainstream. Within Black America though, Dandridge, like the early Holiday, had become a part of popular mythology. But still Dorothy Dandridge was not in the film history books, and that troubled me.
My interest was not just in Dorothy Dandridge, the actress and symbol, but Dandridge, the woman. I always intuitively felt that behind the sparkling eyes and the inviting smile there was a fascinating and compelling woman. For years, while a student and then later, as I began to professionally write about African Americans in film, I remained intrigued by her. From the first time I saw her photograph, I probably unconsciously started compiling information on her, tucking all sorts of stories I heard in the back of my head. I yearned to know more about her: the way she viewed the world; the forces that shaped her and those that later destroyed her.
Some of those questions were answered in the seventies when I talked to director Otto Preminger. Between studies, I had been fortunate enough to land a job working for Preminger as a story editor. I read scripts, stories, treatments, and novels in search of projects he might want to adapt for the screen.
Preminger was at the end of his legendary career. The big movies—like The Man with the Golden Arm and Anatomy of a Murder—had long since been gone; the glory days were behind him. But he remained a charismatic, larger-than-life figure, who could inspire awe and terror. At the close of my first day on the job when he inquired if I had any questions, I naively asked, Can you tell me something about Dorothy Dandridge?
He seemed surprised by the question, but he answered thoughtfully and tersely. The first thing he said—and he was emphatic—was that he was convinced she had taken her own life. Then he spoke of her talent. Preminger believed that by all rights, she should have become a major star. He didn’t want to accept the fact that race—racism—had aborted a promising career.
I remembered his comments, and returned to talk to him in a more formal way. By this time, I was doing research for what became my first book, a history of African Americans in American films and hoped he might elaborate on some of the questions I had casually posed in the past. He recounted an incident that had occurred during the filming of Porgy and Bess. He also spoke again of her marriage to Jack Denison, who seemed to be beneath Preminger’s contempt. It appeared that Preminger was still stung by that marriage, which he felt contributed greatly to her decline. Sitting in his large office in the old Columbia Pictures building on New York’s Fifth Avenue, Preminger was gracious and informative, but there was much he didn’t say. I suspected that he was troubled by the memory of Dandridge. He never did tell me what I already knew—that he had been her lover.
I was too shy at the time to bluntly ask him about their affair. I’m not sure if he would have answered me anyway. Years later though, I realized that much of what Preminger told me had to be decoded. There was another layer, another story, a subtext beneath everything he said. He was always dropping hints about this and that. He was clear though, that afternoon, when he suggested that I speak to Vivian, Dorothy’s sister, who was then living in New York.
When I first contacted Vivian Dandridge, she was hesitant about giving me an interview. It was only after she had spoken to Preminger that she agreed to see me. I realize now that when Otto Preminger arranged the introduction to Vivian Dandridge, he was giving me a gift. For that, I will always be grateful. He was a shrewd man, and I’ve often wondered if he felt she might tell me some of the things he didn’t feel comfortable discussing; things, however, that he felt it important that I know.
It was with intense anticipation that I found myself one afternoon—with tape recorder in hand—entering Vivian Dandridge’s apartment on New York’s Upper West Side. Unaware of what to expect, I only knew I would now be as close to Dorothy Dandridge as I could hope to get.
I was struck by her resemblance to her sister. Contrary to all the stories I had heard that her looks paled in comparison to Dorothy’s, Vivian Dandridge was, in my eyes, a striking woman. Not as lush and perfect, certainly not as delicate as her sister, but attractive and charismatic nonetheless. Her hair was pulled back from her forehead and tied in the back in a neat bun. Her skin was smooth and clear; her eyes, dark and lively; her mouth, large and sensual with a very dramatic jaw line and chin, and a slender, long neck.
Upon closer examination, I could see a thin layer of makeup that highlighted her rich color and cheekbones, that deepened the red of her lips, and of course, outlined the dark eyes. Everything about Vivian’s look seemed selected for dramatic effects. So was the seemingly simple way that she was dressed. Dark, tight slacks, similar to the Capri pants that women wore in the fifties. And a large loose white blouse that looked as if it was actually a man’s shirt. She was a real knockout that day, and she knew it. As a veteran performer who had prepared herself countless times for the gaze of an inquisitive eye, she no doubt felt that visually she was up to the occasion. True to reports, she was very sexy. I soon discovered that she also had a wicked sense of humor and down-to-earth naturalness. It was impossible not to like her.
As she invited me in, I saw that the apartment was small and crowded with furniture, scattered memorabilia (personal items rather than professional ones), and books and magazines here and there. Oddly, though, I don’t recall seeing one photograph of either Dorothy or their mother, Ruby, or Vivian’s son. (In fact, years later when Vivian wanted a picture of Dorothy, she had to ask me for one.)
I had the feeling that Vivian believed she was living in reduced circumstances. Yet her living situation—rich in character and color—was filled with her own essence and aura. Vivian Dandridge carried within her a set of rich experiences and memories, some glorious and others painful.
Her confidence showed. So did that flicker of suspicion (similar to Otto’s) in her eyes. Immediately, she looked me over in that kind of instinctual quick read way that seasoned performers—especially those who are survivors—do. Later she admitted that I was completely different from what she had expected. Why, I was like a kid, she said, young enough to be her son. That helped her drop some defenses and make surprisingly frank comments. She later told me she had originally planned to talk to me for only a half hour. By the time the day ended, we had spent about eight hours together.
I asked her point-blank if she thought Dorothy had committed suicide. She answered, My sister was a very unhappy person.
She went on to describe Dorothy as a precocious child who, during the years when she and Vivian performed as the Wonder Children and then as the Dandridge Sisters, loved entertaining but felt exploited. She spoke of Dorothy’s first marriage to the great dancer Harold Nicholas and their brain-damaged daughter, Lynn, whose condition caused Dorothy unending guilt and unhappiness.
Vivian said a little about Otto Preminger that day. Amusingly, what she did say was expressed in little grunts, groans, and sighs. She did confess that she had warned Dorothy that Otto would never marry her.
She had a lot to say, in searing detail, about Dorothy’s heady years of stardom in the fifties and of its effect on those around her. Vivian discussed the fact that she had left Los Angeles after having a terrible disagreement with Dorothy. Ten years later, she picked up a newspaper and learned that her sister was dead. I felt guilty for a long time,
said Vivian. At that moment, I saw glimmers of the long, complicated family history that would be so much a part of the story I would unearth.
Vivian also revealed the most striking and surprising aspect of Dorothy’s personality. She described this woman who most assumed from Carmen Jones to be an assured, take-charge, relentlessly social creature, as a shy, sensitive introvert.
Dorothy, said Vivian, seemed to be afraid of people and felt most comfortable when she could shut the door and withdraw from them. That didn’t mean she was a hermit. She had a few close friends. And there were times when she enjoyed the parties, receptions, and openings. But at heart, Dorothy Dandridge felt alone.
A reclusive movie star was not what I had expected to find. But Preminger had hinted at the same aspect too when he told me the reason for the failure of the restaurant that Dorothy’s second husband opened. He had depended on Dorothy to draw in patrons, when in essence Dorothy did not have the outgoing personality needed to do so and keep up business in such an establishment.
I found Vivian intelligent, perceptive, witty, and funny. Often hers was a self-deprecating humor. But she also used humor to puncture the pretensions and shams of others. That, I knew, had sustained and saved her. Much that she said that day stuck with me, and was useful when I wrote about Dorothy in my first books. But I didn’t use everything I learned. Some things remained locked away somewhere in the back of my head for years to come.
Not long after our first meeting, Vivian Dandridge left New York. She eventually returned to Los Angeles and then moved to Seattle. We exchanged letters and talked on the phone, and through her, I met others who knew Dorothy: Etta Jones, who had performed as one of the Dandridge Sisters; and Juliette Ball, a childhood friend of the sisters. Later when I did my PBS series Brown Sugar, I did a long pre-interview and then a formal taped interview with her for the program. As far as I know, I’m the only writer she ever formally talked to.
By then, I had decided to do a biography on Dorothy, and at one point, Vivian and I talked of collaborating on a book. But as the talks became more serious and as I asked more personal questions, Vivian backed off. Eventually, she decided to do a memoir of her own. Afterwards as I began work on the book, she was helpful and answered questions whenever I needed some information verified. Though we continued to discuss Dorothy whenever we talked by phone, she never sat down again for another formal interview. Finally, when it looked as if she might allow me to fly to Seattle to talk to her again, she suddenly died.
I later realized that, despite Vivian’s warmth and general openness, she subscribed to an old Hollywood custom: she preferred to keep some matters secret. In some ways, both she and Otto appeared to be respecting Dorothy’s privacy. Yet, also like Preminger, she recounted incidents with an underlying subtext.
Later when I reviewed my old Vivian Dandridge interviews, I came across things I’d forgotten about and what I found most interesting about our first conversation was the fact that she hadn’t discussed her mother, Ruby Dandridge, in any detail. (I also recalled that Preminger had asked me if I knew anything about Ruby Dandridge.) In time, Vivian passingly made a number of comments about Ruby. Rarely did she ever pass judgment on her mother, but it was clear that she disagreed with her on some important issues, especially concerning Dorothy’s marriage to Jack Denison. One of my most moving memories of Vivian came after Ruby Dandridge died. She sent me a copy of Ruby’s will, which had left nothing to Vivian, her only surviving child. I think it saddened her that now there would always be unresolved matters between Ruby and herself.
At that point it became clear that Dorothy Dandridge’s story was three-fold. Foremost, it was a personal story about a gifted, complex woman. Then, it was something of a family drama, a web of tangled relationships. And, of course, finally it was a look at the movie industry and the Black Hollywood that existed within the larger filmland culture. Of course, the views of Vivian Dandridge and Otto Preminger didn’t tell the entire story. Through the years, I was fortunate enough to meet many of the other major players in Dorothy’s life: her first husband, Harold Nicholas; her lively, outgoing, one-time brother-in-law, Fayard Nicholas; the intellectual arranger/composer Phil Moore; her agent Harold Jovien; and her various directors, friends, and associates. Amusingly, most of the men in her life seemed to refuse to believe that Dorothy ever was interested in any man other than himself. Most spoke of her with regret and remorse. They seemed to feel they had failed her in some way. She had not dimmed in their memories in the thirty years since her death.
But the most important person to shift Dorothy into another perspective was her closest friend, Geri Branton. Clear-eyed, intelligent, perceptive, balanced, and sane in a show business environment where most are openly a bit crazed, Branton saw Dorothy up close from the time Dorothy was nineteen to the end of her life. She had been her confidante and understood, far better than most, the changes that overcame her—and her need to withdraw into a world of personal fantasies. Geri provided key details in Dorothy’s life and also put her relationships with both Vivian and Preminger, as well as her mother, Ruby, and others, in a different context. When many had turned their backs on Dorothy in her final, desperate years Branton didn’t. Her presence was a stabilizing factor in an otherwise turbulent life. She spoke of her friend with the greatest affection and warmth but also with an intelligent objectivity.
Throughout the writing of this biography, I kept a framed picture of Dorothy Dandridge—her 1954 Life magazine cover—on my desk. It faced me every hour, day, week, month, year that I sat before my computer. It seemed to speak to me of mysteries, intrigues, dreams, fears, tensions, and loves that were mine alone to comprehend, to rectify, to set straight. Always I knew it was important not only to see Dorothy as others had viewed her but, if possible, to see Dorothy as she saw herself.
As I pieced together her story, I often felt like the beleaguered hero from a Preminger movie, the 1944 film Laura. In Laura, a detective investigates the death—a murder—of a beautiful young woman. Roaming through her apartment, eyeing her objects, and meeting her friends and associates who loved or were envious of her, the detective understands that each is telling a story about her from his or her own perspective—and that each is aware that Laura was at the center of pivotal events in his/her life. Slowly, the detective finds himself seductively drawn into Laura’s life—her drives, motivations, and emotional rhythms. In her apartment, he stares at her portrait—haughty, glamorous, beautiful, narcissistic. In time, he arrives at his own seemingly objective yet passionate analysis of the woman. Though he doesn’t quite realize it, Laura has invaded his unconscious, altering his dreams and hopes, moving and romancing him from the grave. He doesn’t want to admit it, but he’s fallen in love with a dead woman. One day the detective, having fallen asleep in Laura’s apartment with her portrait looking down on him, awakens to discover that the real Laura is standing before him. Laura hasn’t been murdered at all. She’s alive. And now he’s free to really fall in love with her. Only in the movies!
No such luck for me. But putting together the pieces of Dandridge’s life has been an extraordinary experience.
Perhaps the best reward any author can hope for is to come to love his or her subject, warts and all. And frankly, I can’t think of anyone better to fall in love with than Dorothy Dandridge.
Prologue
OSCAR NIGHT is always magical, but when Dorothy Dandridge stepped out of a limousine in front of New York’s Century Theatre on Oscar night, March 30, 1955, she represented nothing less than a breakthrough in motion picture history.
The crowds behind the police barricades went wild; screaming and shouting out her name. Photographers and reporters rushed toward her, snapping pictures and asking her for a comment, as she smiled and waved. The fans scrambled to get a closer look. She was a dazzling sight. Dark eyes, sensuous mouth, and the color—usually described in the press as café au lait—that set her apart from all of Hollywood’s other beauties. She was every inch the movie star.
Moving amid the crush of bodies, Dorothy’s sister, Vivian, followed. They had grown up working together in an act called the Wonder Children; raised and groomed for show business careers by their mother, Ruby, an actress and comedienne who also had stars in her eyes. They had become veterans in the entertainment world as family but this evening Dorothy stood apart. This was her moment and she glowed in the thought that this was the peak thus far of her solo career.
She had taken time out of her career to marry dancer Harold Nicholas, and to give birth to their daughter Lynn. But when the marriage—to the younger half of the renowned Nicholas Brothers—failed, she returned to show business, becoming famous in nightclubs for her hot/cool style—the sexy voice, the sensual, dramatic dance-like movements, the intelligent, ironic interpretation of the lyrics—that drove patrons mad. There was no woman like her on the American nightclub scene.
But club stardom was not her goal. Against the odds, she aspired to the silver screen and ultimately won the role coveted by every Black actress in Hollywood: the fiery Carmen in Otto Preminger’s all-star Black musical Carmen Jones. Dorothy transformed an old hack conception—the reckless, sexually charged woman who destroys her men and therefore must herself be destroyed—into something all her own. Her Carmen came to represent a compelling modern Black woman: confident, determined to live life on her terms, and fearless in a man’s world. This promising actress had surprised and startled everyone, including director Preminger, who by now was in love with her.
But, most important, her celebrated performance had also, as this night proved, made history. Dorothy Dandridge had become the first Black woman to be nominated for an Academy Award as Best Leading Actress of the Year. For a Black performer in Fifties Hollywood, being nominated for the Oscar was tantamount to actually winning the award.
In an age that celebrated Marilyn and Liz and Grace and Audrey, Dorothy Dandridge had brought the Black actress in films from behind the shadows and had emerged as Hollywood’s first full-fledged movie goddess of color. She had reconfigured the very definition of what a movie star was supposed to be. During these dawning years of the civil rights movement, she was not only a glamorous, popular icon but a symbol of a new day in America. Dorothy Dandridge looked as if she would integrate mainstream cinema—appearing in a lineup of powerful dramatic films—in the same way that Jackie Robinson had changed the face of American sports.
As Dorothy took her seat at the Century Theatre, her eyes looked especially bright, but her emotions were mixed. She was a fatalist whose life had never turned out as she’d hoped, and despite all outward appearances, she had doubts about the future. Yet, she was also a romantic and still wanted a happy ending. So maybe, she thought, everything would work out. As Otto Preminger had predicted, Oscar night was just the beginning. . . .
Part I
One
Cleveland
EVEN BEFORE she was born, Dorothy Dandridge was at the center of a domestic storm. Her mother, Ruby—strong-willed and outspoken—left her husband, Cyril Dandridge, when she was five months pregnant with Dorothy. It was the summer of 1922. The couple had been married for almost three years and was living in Cleveland. Their first-born child—a daughter named Vivian—was only a little over a year old. But while Cyril Dandridge considered himself a lucky man, Ruby was restless and fed up with him and her life, and she didn’t care who knew it. Nor did she care that women in the early 1920s, especially African American women, weren’t supposed to walk out on their husbands.
Ruby Dandridge, however, was no ordinary woman. She had already separated from Cyril once before, but she had come back. A few years before that, she moved to Cleveland from Wichita, perhaps hoping the new city would give her a chance to express the ambition and aspiration that burned within her. But Cleveland and Cyril both had failed her, and Ruby, despite being pregnant, was willing to risk everything to live as she wanted. Cyril, however, wasn’t about to let Ruby just run off with his firstborn daughter and with the unborn child. He set out to find her. And she set out to flee him again.
And so Dorothy Dandridge—the little girl who would grow up to be one of her era’s most beautiful women and its most famous African American actress—came into the world at the heart of a heated domestic discord that, in its own quiet, unstated way, would trouble and haunt her for the next forty years. Throughout her life, she would struggle to understand her parents, but mainly to piece together the puzzle of her own identity; to discover and define herself first as a daughter, then as a sister, a wife, a mother, a singer, an actress, and finally as the most unexpected and elusive of personages, a Black film star in a Hollywood that worshiped her, yet at the same time, clearly made no place for her.
As a woman always searching for answers, Dorothy would often wonder how differently it all might have turned out had she grown up with the father whom she had never really known. And she may well have wondered too what direction her life might have taken had her mother Ruby never ventured to Cleveland and stayed instead on the wide plains of Kansas.
Wichita, Kansas was a quiet, sleepy city in the early years of the century. For most of Wichita’s citizens, life moved along at a leisurely pace with everything done one day at a time. Boys were to be strong and in charge. Girls were to be domesticated and sweet. No matter whether the girls were Colored or White, the same rules usually applied, except that the Colored girls were supposed to be even more mindful of their place, of abiding by the laws of both race and gender. For Ruby Jean Butler, born in Wichita, Kansas on March 1, 1899, the rules were carefully proscribed and locked in place. All she had to do was learn to live by them, which was something that always proved hard for Ruby.
She was the daughter of George Butler and his wife, née Nellie Simmons. Both George, born in 1860, and Nellie, born in 1870, had migrated to Kansas from North Carolina. The Butlers had four children, three of whom were sons. Ruby, their only daughter, was the youngest. For a time the family resided at 625 North Main Street.
Ruby Dandridge, who liked to concoct her own version of the events of her life, passed on to her daughter Dorothy a genealogy that was dubious but held some elements of truth. Ruby’s scenario made no mention of George Butler or Nellie ever having lived in North Carolina. Instead her version of the story was that her father, sometimes called George Frank, was a Jamaican who immigrated as a child to the United States in the late nineteenth century and later married a young Mexican woman. Ruby also liked to boast that George was an entertainer who travelled about and performed for Colored and White audiences, then settled in Wichita, where he ran a local grocery and a Negro school.
Ruby’s embellishments aside, it seems unlikely that her mother Nellie Simmons was Mexican. Her father George Butler, however, may have done all the things Ruby spoke of, but he also held other jobs in Wichita. He worked as a janitor at the Union National Bank for a spell. He was also a minister with a church that stood prominently on a street corner, recalled photographer Vera Jackson, who as a little girl lived near the Butlers in Wichita. Well-known and well-liked, Reverend Butler was outgoing and friendly, both traits that were passed on to daughter Ruby.
Butler apparently also passed on to his young daughter the tricks of the trade of show business: he taught her to sing, dance, and perform acrobatics. An apt pupil, little Ruby learned to do all those things well. From her father, Ruby probably also inherited a love for a life of illusion—and a sense for the dramatic.
In Wichita, Ruby grew to be a big-boned, plump, brown-skinned girl with an attractive face, smooth skin, a large bright smile, and lively eyes. As a young woman, she would weigh almost two hundred pounds and even more as the years moved on. Everyone who met her agreed that Ruby was lively, funny, and blessed with the gift of gab. People kidded that she could talk a mile a minute. And sometimes she did. Making friends came easily to her. Few who met her ever forgot her.
I was only five or six,
said Vera Jackson, recalling her first impressions of Ruby. But I remember Ruby, who was older. We were all close there in Wichita. She was very close to my aunt Alta Johnson. We lived on Sherwood Avenue and I think [at one time] she did too because she and my aunt were always together. So we saw a lot of Ruby Dandridge. We liked her very much.
She joked a lot. Laughed a lot,
said Dorothy Hughes McConnell, who as a little girl later met Ruby in Cleveland.
What struck everyone most about Ruby was her girlish high-pitched voice which rose even higher when she was excited. Or when she feigned excitement. That voice later served her well as an actress in movies, radio, and television. Usually playing comic, befuddled maids, all Ruby had to do was open her mouth and let that squeaky voice come forth, and audiences would break into hysterics.
In private quarters, though, Ruby’s baby-like voice could be tiresome, even strident; its boundless rush of enthusiasm and energy could seem forced and phoney, almost a caricature of an optimistic, happy-go-lucky soul. If anything, Ruby’s voice made her seem flighty, giggly, and scatterbrained. Could anyone be that peppy, people wondered? Could anybody dismiss problems so readily with such a sigh or laughter? Later, behind her back, Ruby’s Hollywood friends and associates sometimes imitated and mocked her. And the first thing they did was mimic her high-pitched voice. Outward appearances masked another side of Ruby: when it suited her, Ruby Jean Butler was anything but flighty or absent-minded. Rather she was a born strategist and survivor, possessing a sharp, calculating mind; a woman who could quickly read a person or situation and then manipulate almost anyone or anything to her advantage. If necessary, she was able to cut her losses and walk away from a situation without regret or remorse. It was never a problem for her to ignore the pain suffered by others, especially pain she inflicted. Ruby never had any difficulty seeing what was right in front of her. But more often than not, Ruby simply refused to see. Or she chose to see through the prism of her own interests.
Ruby could be a cruel person,
said actress Avanelle Harris, who as a little girl studied dance with Ruby’s daughters Vivian and Dorothy. To actor Mel Bryant, Ruby was a phoney, who, at social gatherings, might smile and laugh when she saw you but would always look over your shoulder
to see if there was someone else around to talk to who could help advance her career. In looks and attitudes, she later would be considered the antithesis
of her daughters, recalled entertainer Bobby Short. Once Dorothy attained stardom, industry insiders would find it hard to believe Ruby was her mother, especially since Ruby’s giggly aggressiveness was so different from Dorothy’s delicacy and ladylike manners. Mostly, though, behind her mirth and merriment, Ruby Butler had a fierce drive and ambition.
That drive is what carried her, by the late teens of the century, out of Kansas to Cleveland. In Ruby’s mind, life in Wichita was too slow and static. At first, Cleveland must have looked to her like a major metropolis with its busy streets and streetcars, its industries, shops, restaurants, theaters, and parade of people. When she arrived, the city was in the midst of possibly its greatest transition.
Cleveland had long been a land of promise for African Americans. Runaway slaves flocked to Cleveland for sanctuary on the Underground Railroad. Black freedmen found opportunities for advancement there. Oberlin College—the first American institution of higher learning to admit Negroes—was also nearby. A Negro community sprang up quickly. During and after the First World War, Cleveland became one of the principal destinations of the Great Migration of Southern Negroes to the North. In 1917, Cleveland’s Gazette reported that migrants were vainly ‘running the streets’ in the Central Avenue vicinity, seeking rooms last week worse than ever before, two carloads more having arrived from the South, Sunday evening.
By 1919, the Black citizenry had soared to over 30,000, then doubled in the 1920s
With a growing Negro population came changes in a city that had once been fairly open with Colored and Whites attending the same schools, eating at the same restaurants, and staying at the same downtown hotels. Now restaurants, theaters, hotels, amusement parks, and other public accommodations all became restricted. Some restaurants gave Blacks poor service. Others posted Whites Only
signs in their windows. Some theaters shut their doors to Negroes. Or forced them to sit in segregated balconies.
Colored sections of town also suddenly appeared. Negroes now lived mostly on the east side, the hub of which was Central Avenue, once an enclave for affluent Whites, that is until the first Blacks moved in. Others saw dollar signs on the Black faces at their doors. Onetime Cleveland resident Langston Hughes recalled that the white neighborhoods resented Negroes moving closer and closer—but when the whites did give way, they gave way at very profitable rentals.
Upon her arrival, Ruby Butler looked around and found herself in a segregated city. But like most Black residents, aware of racial codes and discrimination throughout America, she added up the score and still believed Cleveland was a place where Black advancement was possible; where there were still jobs, activities, advantages. Ruby settled into a home on Cleveland’s east side at 2269 East 40th Street, most likely living for a time with a cousin. Setting her sights on a new life for herself, she also set her sights on a young man she met named Cyril Dandridge.
Cyril Dandridge was a Cleveland resident, who was born there in 1895 and would live there all his life. For him, Cleveland represented security and order. He was an only child, fawned over and pampered by his parents. His father, Henry Dandridge, was a cook; his mother, the former Florence Locke, a hairdresser born in Canada in 1873. In Cleveland’s Black community, Florence Locke Dandridge was a figure of intrigue and curiosity, something of a haughty mystery, known for her brisk manner, her open adoration of her son, and her striking appearance.
"She looked completely Caucasian, said Cleveland-born Dorothy Hughes McConnell, whose mother knew the Dandridge family.
She wasn’t. I think she was mixed. But you couldn’t tell that she was not Caucasian."
The Dandridge family lived comfortably at 4710 Central Avenue for several years. As a young man, Cyril worked as a clerk, later a mechanic, and then as a draftsman.
Slightly built and fine-boned with curly woolly hair, Cyril was very attractive
with sharp features and a light brown color, recalled Geri Branton, who later became Dorothy’s closest friend and confidante. Around Cleveland, he was known as an easygoing, good-natured, decent fellow, who was also a devoted son. For years, his mother, Florence, was the primary focus of his life; the woman whose approval he always sought, whose comfort concerned him most, and whose welfare was the source of his motivation. She in turn believed Cyril was hers and hers alone; her private, treasured property that she was unwilling to share with anyone.
She worshiped that boy,
said Dorothy McConnell, who recalled the stories that circulated about Cyril’s mother along the grapevine in Cleveland’s Black community. They said that Old Lady Dandridge was quite a tyrant. Cyril’s mother absolutely ruled him. Everybody said he was just a mama’s boy.
After the death of his father, Henry, Cyril and his mother moved to a home at 2180 East 103rd Street. Life went on as before. Everything was still Cyril and Florence. Florence and Cyril. Nothing of much consequence seems to have occurred in his life until surprisingly, while in his early twenties, he turned his attentions away from his mother to Ruby. Most were surprised, not because Cyril Dandridge finally had a serious girlfriend but because of his choice of girlfriend. From the beginning, anyone could take one look at Ruby and Cyril and see immediately that they were an improbable pair: a study in contrasts—in looks, attitudes, energy, and aspirations. For the sensitive and unassuming Cyril who was content with his lot in life, stability could have been his middle name. All he ever seemed to want was a happy family life (that included mother), a pleasant home with mother, of course, and a little peace and quiet.
Ruby, of course, was just the opposite. Always eager to talk, she was, as in Wichita, unendingly social. Energy and confidence were stamped all over her. While Cyril was pliant, Ruby was considered bossy. Yet, differences aside or perhaps because of them, the two were drawn to one another. Her optimism may have been the trait that attracted him and put some kick in his life, rousing him from his basic inertia. His relaxed sincerity—along with his good looks—may be what won her over. On September 30, 1919, the two were married in a ceremony performed by the Reverend J. S. Jackson. Ruby Jean was twenty. Cyril was twenty-three.
Having been with his mother all his life, Cyril Dandridge naturally saw no reason to alter his living arrangement. He moved his young bride into the house he shared with Florence on East 103rd Street. The homes in the neighborhood were modest two or three story dwellings with comfortable parlors, dining rooms, kitchens, and bedrooms that were roomy and airy. Outside were small front lawns and a patch of green in the back. They were good, solid homes in which to raise a family.
The house on East 103rd Street should have been perfect for a young couple on its own. It might even have been fine for newlyweds and an in-law were the young wife more docile and the mother-in-law less demanding. But living under the roof of her husband’s mother grated Ruby. By most accounts, Ruby’s presence grated Florence as well. Neighbors really didn’t blame Cyril for the problems in the home, said Dorothy McConnell. They blamed his mother.
No one will ever know what transpired daily in the home, but Ruby knew it would never be her place. Here she had to live with her mother-in-law’s furniture, her rugs, her curtains, her dishes, her linens, her time for getting up, her time for turning in, her diet, her opinions, her beliefs, and her unending control over Cyril. Ruby couldn’t move without fear of breaking something. She couldn’t rearrange one thing in the house without fear of a sharp rebuke from Florence. Ruby had become a nonperson without any say, and nothing she did could please Florence. At least, that was how she described the situation to her friends, and later to her children.
Given the sentiments of the times, Florence must have wondered what her good-looking son saw in this gabby, dowdy girl. What had come over her Cyril?
The marriage was headed for trouble in a short time. Ruby openly complained about the time and attention Cyril gave to his mother rather than to her. She maintained that he was not a good enough provider and was precisely what everyone knew him to be, just a mama’s boy.
Still, Ruby stayed and coped with the situation. Less than two years after the marriage ceremony, Ruby was pregnant. On April 22nd, 1921, she gave birth to her first child, Vivian Alferetta Dandridge. Afterwards it looked as if the Dandridges might now settle into blissful domesticity.
Ruby, however, felt nothing had changed. Neither Cyril nor Florence could understand her. She in turn appeared not to care to understand them. Unlike most wives who were expected to enjoy the fruits and pleasures of their families, to find satisfaction in their household responsibilities, and to take pride in their husband’s ambitions and achievements rather than their own, Ruby, although a good cook, showed no interest in the home and little in Cyril. She must have wondered too how she could focus on her husband’s goals when, in her eyes, Cyril didn’t have any. She, on the other hand, had many. To stay stuck inside a house twenty-four hours a day—saying yes to her husband while always walking on eggshells around her mother-in-law—was not one of them.
Their conflicts grew. Cyril complained that the house had become filthy. The same was true, he said, of Ruby’s personal habits.
The real friction between Ruby and Cyril and his mother grew out of differing views on life itself. Their lives were settled, fixed, stagnant. Not much would ever change for them. Ruby, on the contrary, was bursting with energy, interests, and enthusiasms. She wanted adventure, change, diversity, freedom. And even in the early years of her marriage, she also wanted to perform.
Finally, exasperated with her mother-in-law, Cyril, and the entire domestic setup, Ruby did something few women would have then dared. She packed her bags, picked up two-month-old baby Vivian, and moved out. Just up and abandoned him, as Cyril was to say later. Gone for six weeks, she most likely stayed at the home of her cousin.
She might have stayed away longer, but with no money, no training, and no profession, she was just a Colored woman out on her own with a young daughter and not much of a future. Cyril persuaded her to come back.
The two attempted a reconciliation, and by the spring of 1922, Ruby was pregnant again. But—for her—this was probably the worst news of all. The idea of being homebound in a household with two children, a meek husband, and a testy mother-in-law scared her. She also had to admit that Cyril did not excite her and could never answer her basic needs. She decided once again she had to get out.
And so in July, five months pregnant, Ruby Dandridge picked up baby Vivian and walked out on her husband for that second time. On November 9, 1922, she entered Cleveland’s City Hospital where she gave birth to her second daughter, Dorothy Jean Dandridge, a name her daughter would later sign on official papers and documents but never officially appeared as such on the birth certificate. It was simply Dorothy Dandridge. That name seems a special gift to the newborn girl for it was the very type of simple, elegant name that would be perfect for a movie marquee. Now Ruby had made up her mind to survive without Cyril. She wanted nothing more to do with him. If it were possible, she would have erased him completely from her memory. For many years, she managed to erase him from the memory of her daughters, who as children never saw their father, and for years would never know some of the more complicated reasons why their mother had left him. The girls were raised believing Cyril had no interest in them. And for some years, Ruby even told them that he was dead. Later she admitted he was still living but claimed he had deserted them.
Ruby also appeared to have severed other people and events from her memories. Years later, Dorothy would say she had never met her