Spiritual Marriage: Sexual Abstinence in Medieval Wedlock
By Dyan Elliott
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The early Christian and medieval practice of spiritual marriage, in which husband and wife mutually and voluntarily relinquish sexual activity for reasons of piety, plays an important role in the development of the institution of marriage and in the understanding of female religiosity. Drawing on hagiography, chronicles, theology, canon law, and pastoral sources, Dyan Elliott traces the history of spiritual marriage in the West from apostolic times to the beginning of the sixteenth century.
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Spiritual Marriage - Dyan Elliott
INTRODUCTION
Beauty, truth, and rarity,
Grace in all simplicity,
Here enclosed in cinders lie.
Death is now the phoenix’ nest;
And the turtle’s loyal breast
To eternity doth rest,
Leaving no posterity:
’Twas not their infirmity,
It was married chastity.
(Shakespeare, The Phoenix and the Turtle)
IN THESE STANZAS, Shakespeare invoked a model of conjugal love that is undoubtedly foreign to modern sensibilities. His strange birds seem to have participated in what in the medieval period would have been designated a spiritual marriage
—a legally binding marriage in which sexual relations have been remitted by the consent of both parties for reasons of piety. If his verses seem somewhat cryptic, it is because Shakespeare does not pause to align them with the appropriate antecedents. This may imply that his audience was positioned at the end of a tradition: the last group for which a detailed explanation was unnecessary. The tradition to which these verses alluded will be the subject of this study, which traces the history of spiritual marriage in the West from the time of Christ up until approximately the year 1500.
The term spiritual marriage
is not without ambiguity since it has been used to describe any number of quasi-nuptial situations. This designation has frequently been applied to syneisaktism: the domestic relations under which two self-professed ascetics of different sexes decide upon chaste cohabitation. It has also been used for a number of different allegorically charged scenarios. The bishop’s marriage with his see, Christ’s union with the church, or the mystical marriage of God with the soul are all described as spiritual marriages. Despite this confusion, I can think of no more appropriate way to characterize intramarital chastity. Chaste marriage
was a strong contender, but, in fact, chaste marriage was a designation frequently used by medieval authorities, especially in the high and late Middle Ages, to designate a union in which the individuals were true to their marriage vows. Celibate marriage,
another possibility, was too anomalous: although occasionally a married couple’s transition to chastity is described as a transition to the celibate life, the word celibate, by and large, retains its pristine meaning, which is single.¹
Each of the different arrangements characterized as a spiritual marriage is, in its own right, deserving of separate study. My focus, chaste cohabitation in the context of licit marriage, is particularly intriguing for the way in which it exposes the interaction of a theoretical paradigm of marriage with an actual practice. From a theoretical standpoint, the possibility of such behavior engages the contradictions of the Christian theory of marriage that were already in place by the end of the fourth century. Most of the church fathers were apprehensive of human sexuality, as sexual relations were generally considered to be a reminder of humanity’s fallen state. Therefore, the leaders of the church sought protection behind a functionalist view of human sexuality. At the risk of oversimplifying their oversimplification, one might say that they tended to see women for their sexual potential, sex for its procreative potential, and marriage as the institution created for housing these two most essential, but rather dangerous, components of society. But the patristic ambivalence toward carnal relations was ultimately destabilizing to this convenient view of marriage. In their elevation of virginity, the church fathers also, wittingly or unwittingly, opened the door to a spiritualized definition of marriage that allowed the institution to exist independent of sex. Because these same authorities were in favor of restricting those possessed of a spiritual vocation from all superfluous contact with the opposite sex, since such contact was perceived as a potential threat to spiritual development, unconsummated marriage emerged as a challenging and problematical possibility.
Despite its distinguished theoretical framework, the emergence of spiritual marriage as a frequently chaotic and unregulated practice could be construed as a spontaneous and complex reaction against society’s expectations: a revolt against the reproductive imperative and a pious rebellion against the prevailing view that the call to a higher level of spirituality implied the separation of women and men. Of equal interest is the challenge spiritual marriage presented to patriarchal authority. The move to chastity was most frequently associated with female initiative: very often a woman’s struggle for a spiritual marriage appears to be no less than a fight for physical autonomy and self-definition. Release from sexual duties, moreover, is often perceived as potentially altering traditional gender-dictated roles and challenging normative concepts like female submission. From the perspective of the hierarchy of sexes, spiritual marriage may then have posed a parallel threat to both husband and society.
On the other hand, it is not merely difficult but impossible to attempt too exacting a distinction between the theoretical paradigm and the practice. Practice is produced within an ideology, and ideology is likewise realized through practice. What we have, then, is a complex reciprocity between theory and practice in which each refers to and, in turn, modifies the other. The theoretical paradigm is undoubtedly more accessible to modern historians through the written record. Its realization in actual practice may often be in doubt—but this occasionally fictive quality does not undermine the historicity of purported occurrence and particular social use.
All the different kinds of sources used in this study have special problems, but a certain problem common to all is that of semantics. A reference to matrimonial chastity does not necessarily mean that absolute chastity is observed in marriage. It may just mean that the couple practiced sexual fidelity, a usage already alluded to above. It may also signify that during the extensive penitential periods of the church, sexual continence was observed. Or it could indeed mean that the couple in question had mutually agreed to forgo sexual relations perpetually. A few examples should suffice to demonstrate this problem in terminology.² With respect to Ida of Bologne (d. 1113), we are told that she preserved her marriage chastely servato nempe caste conjugio
—a phrase that would be ambiguous if the vita did not go on to speak of her children.³ According to the life of Salome of Galicia (d. 1268), she lived not only retaining purity of mind, but chastity as well (sed eciam obtenta castitate
), and in her case we learn that her marriage was never consummated.⁴ Robert Grosseteste’s Templum Dei lists the preservation of chastity as one of the licit ends of marriage, but it is unclear from the context what level of chastity he is referring to.⁵ If I have erred in assessing the degree of chastity ascribed to a couple, it is on the conservative side. I have not assumed that any union could be designated a spiritual marriage unless absolute sexual continence was purportedly observed, as opposed to matrimonial chastity.
The many different kinds of sources in this study are intended to provide a textured and varied treatment of spiritual marriage. They are basically three-tiered: expressions of theory, channels by which this theory reached the laity, and alleged testimony to actual practice. The theoretical side is derived almost exclusively from Scripture, theology, and canon law. The treatment of theology and canon law, moreover, is selective, highlighting important developments in the early church up to the time of Augustine and again tracing the development of the theology of marriage during the high Middle Ages. Chapter 5 also examines the rules of certain lay penitential orders—sources that are theoretical but also contribute to our understanding of practice.
These erudite formulations were erratically transmitted to the laity. I have sought to recognize this communicative unevenness by isolating some of the most obvious means of popularization through written sources, either aimed at the laity or representing possible protocols for lay behavior.⁶ The increasing popularity of certain hagiographical genres is one of the most basic routes. A number of saints’ lives that portray spiritual marriage gained increasingly wide circulation in the course of the Middle Ages, as illustrated by the wild success of Jacobus de Voragine’s The Golden Legend (between 1261 and 1265). In fact, Jacobus’s arsenal of spiritual marriages is almost entirely dependent on late antique or very early medieval cults.⁷ Certain specific legends, such as the passio of St. Cecilia or the life of St. Alexis, are especially central to this study because they were frequently evoked as paradigms. Thus, I both examine the early history of these legends and attend to certain pivotal reintroductions through the obvious route of popularization, and also through the more subtle form of renarration that occurs when the hagiographer of a later saint makes reference to his subject’s conscious efforts at exemplification.
The early Middle Ages could be considered something of a pastoral wasteland, at least from a historian’s perspective. There were sermons, but they were largely intended for a monastic audience; there were penitentials, but not much evidence regarding their application; there were saints’ lives, but it is impossible to say who read them. With respect to the high and later Middle Ages, however, pastoral care seemingly becomes more uniform while the amount of pastoralia produced is likewise on the increase. In chapter 4 ,I analyze a number of confessors’ manuals, most of which are written in the wake of Lateran IV in response to the canon Omnis utriusque sexus—a canon stipulating that Christians confess at least once a year. These works were intended for the parochial clergy and give some indication of what the priest was expected to know about marriage generally, and about vows of chastity in particular, for the purpose of hearing confession. Some of this information would have been communicated to the laity. Nevertheless, this is an oblique method of acquainting oneself with lay understanding. Not only were confessors’ manuals in no way directed immediately to a lay audience, but many of these volumes were too large, too expensive, and very often too sophisticated for circulation and widespread usage among the clergy. Therefore, I also examine popular theological works expressly intended for the laity, such as Handlyng Synne and the Lay Folks’ Catechism. Obviously, sermons, another genre of pastoralia of which there is an abundance remaining from this period, were an even more direct means of transmitting information regarding marriage and chastity. Because medieval preaching and sermon literature is so vast a field and necessarily beyond the scope of this study, I tend to rely on D. L. d’Avray’s recent work on marriage sermons.⁸ Popular works in the vernacular, such as Arthurian romance, Ramon Lull’s Blanquerna, and the Miracles of the Virgin are likewise consulted to garner information about representations of marriage—specifically, spiritual marriage.
With the actual practice
of spiritual marriage, one must proceed with considerable caution. Most of the evidence for spiritual marriage is derived from hagiography, which is notoriously difficult to enlist on behalf of a historical enterprise. Saints’ lives are always partisan: they are written with a view to promoting the cult of their subject. Sanctity is, by definition, extraordinary: a saint’s relationship with the social milieu in which he or she was produced is a complex one. Finally, as Hippolyte Delehaye has so amply demonstrated, hagiography possesses its share of the attendant evils common to all legendary material: borrowings (many of the most popular saints’ lives are indebted to Hellenistic romances), the use of topoi, credulous acceptance of the miraculous, oversimplification, and lack of specific detail are some of the most obvious.⁹
These difficulties appear insurmountable if one is only concerned, or even most concerned, with the historical referentiality of these accounts. Is this a reliable account of the individual’s marriage? was she or was she not sexually active? But this narrowly positivistic thinking prematurely forecloses other forms of legitimate historical inquiry. The extraordinary
nature of the men and women in this study is undeniable, but it may be harnessed to the scholar’s advantage. The margins of society can work in inverse relation to the culture itself: they invariably tell us more about what nestles safely within these limits, as well as suggesting the level of deviation that was deemed tolerable. A more direct relationship between the saint and society is also discernible. Saints embodied certain values that medieval men and women have gone on record as admiring. The hagiographer’s bias may lead him to claim any number of fictional deeds on behalf of his holy candidate, but his very partisanship ensures that these pious fictions conform to patterns of sanctity which are revered by society. The inside-outside
nature of saints is evinced by the fact that, though often deviating from socially sanctioned norms, saints also frequently provide valuable role models that pious individuals, consciously or unconsciously, pattern their own religious expression upon. What I am then taking to be historical about these sources is precisely their imaginary function, a function exercised in relation to the very particular circumstances that gave rise to their creation and deployment, and shaped their usage.
Even so, some figures are, of course, more historical
than others in the sense that they actually existed. A distinction between figures that were historical in this sense and those that were legendary
or even fictive, is made in the study proper and in the appendixes. Occasionally, I have also been able to indicate the point in an individual’s posthumous career when he or she was first aligned with the spiritual marriage tradition. Yet even in the high and later Middle Ages, when all of the individuals in question are historical
and the sources are themselves improved in both quality and quantity, sanctified behavior is still realized and recorded in terms of a powerful tradition. Although in the last two chapters I have attempted to reconstruct the way in which the sexuality of these individuals was portrayed as interacting with their spirituality, portrayed
remains the operative word. Whether examining the renarrated life of an individual who lived or a wholly Active life, these sources are most securely historical when construed as repositories for social values and ideology.
Although saints’ lives seem to be the most fruitful, and certainly the most prolix, source for spiritual marriage, chronicles and related documents occasionally make mention of such relations and are likewise included in this study. These accounts are valuable, since the writer often has no investment in proving
the individual’s claims to sanctity but rather presents the saint matter-of-factly within a context of ecclesiastical or secular politics—a juxtaposition that frequently gives us a clear sense of the political ends to which a purportedly spiritual union might be put. But the temporal backdrop and the slight, seemingly disinterested, notice of such unions should not beguile us: the chronicler is no less interested than the hagiographer. A highly inflected view of an institution can, needless to say, be projected within an incidental or seemingly thrown away
remark.
When a couple agreed on a vow of chastity, they were, according to the theory that had evolved by the high Middle Ages, supposed to register such a commitment with the bishop to forestall backsliding. Soundings taken of the bishops’ registers are, however, disappointing.¹⁰ I have also examined the printed ecclesiastical court records for England without much success.¹¹ And yet we know that instances of spiritual marriage are not simply restricted to saints’ lives. Several disputes involving vows of chastity are included in Gregory IX’s Decretales. Moreover, eyewitnesses, such as Jacques de Vitry, testify to the presence of spiritual marriage in pious lay communities.
The relative silence of the ecclesiastical records is, to a large extent, owing to the disposition of the pious subjects themselves. Couples were understandably reluctant to make public an agreement of chastity. After all, chastity was, and is, an extremely private matter. We will see below how chastity and secrecy often operate as inseparable leitmotivs in hagiographical sources, and for good reason. When the vow of chastity that Margery Kempe made with her husband, John, became known, the slander and mockery they endured eventually induced them to separate.¹² Some of the couples discussed in chapter 6 endured similar trials. Reluctance to register an intention of sexually abstaining may also be related to fear of backsliding. Finally, the ecclesiastical authorities may well have been less than careful about recording seemingly noncontentious matters such as vows of chastity—especially if these vows did not imply formal separation. Margery and John, for example, made their vow formally before Philip Repyngdon, bishop of Lincoln. We also know that this vow must have taken place between 23 June 1413 and 19 February 1414. The register for these years is still intact, yet no record of such a vow was kept.¹³
Spiritual marriage is often a transitional stage in which the couple is on their way to a more complete renunciation of the world—a kind of gray zone that may not be reported because it is not made known. The hagiographer of Edmund Rich (d. 1240), archbishop of Canterbury, for example, paints an unforgettable picture of his subject’s pious progenitors, Mabel and Reynold, but especially of Mabel. Edmund’s mother wore two steel breastplates in order to make her hair shirt sink further into her flesh; when her two sons went to study at Paris, she gave them hair shirts as a parting gift with instructions on how to use them.¹⁴ While still cohabiting, Reynold and Mabel’s life was austere. We are told that they eventually separated by mutual consent: she remained in the world to raise their five children, while he professed as a monk at Evesham where he allegedly was happy to find that the regimen was less tasking than at home. Mabel, for her part, was glad of his departure, as she was then able to increase her own and the children’s austerities. Did they observe a period of chastity before Reynold left to enter a monastery? Such a supposition would not be out of keeping with what we know about other pious couples, or even with the canonical conceptions of an authority like John Andreas that a private vow between couples precedes a solemn vow But the situation is complicated by the fact that, in this case, the parents are evoked to create a context for Edmund’s piety and are not treated for their own sake. Moreover, of the two, Mabel receives the lion’s share of attention. Factors such as these demonstrate just how elusive a vow of chastity between husband and wife might be.
The history of spiritual marriage is a testament to social creativity. My goal is to show how this widely known collective construct acts as a vehicle for human thought and action. The isolation of spiritual marriage as a subject and its diachronic analysis throughout the Middle Ages demonstrates its availability for varied social use, including frequent appropriations on behalf of competing interests. Spiritual marriage is itself a highly malleable construct, no more stable than the shifting historical circumstances that give rise to its different evocations. For this reason, I have attempted to ground my study in the context of larger issues that shaped its varied historical representations. Issues such as the church’s repeated engagements with dualism, the Gregorian reform, and important developments in the theology and canon law of marriage are all examined in detail. The changing intellectual and social climates are contextually represented against the backdrop of changing patterns in sanctity.
The flexibility of spiritual marriage recommends it as a sensitive gauge for measuring social aspirations and expectations. In particular, this study provides a special window into two separate but related issues that figure prominently in contemporary women’s studies: the history of marriage and sexuality, and the history of female spirituality. Balanced precariously at the crossroads of the theory and practice of marriage, spiritual marriage permits us to eavesdrop on the frequently tense dialogue between the two. For example, as an orthodox exemplar that was thought to be frequently enacted as a heretical practice, spiritual marriage demonstrates the way in which the realization of an ideal could actually test the limits of orthodoxy. On the other hand, its persistence as an exemplar evokes the unflattering light in which orthodox theorists regarded normal conjugal relations.
Although theoretically available to either sex, spiritual marriage was most frequently identified as a female religious practice. In particular, women seem to have availed themselves of this model as a means of attaining autonomy in marriage through chastity, which is represented as a way of more closely aligning themselves with celestial favor. While the supernatural provides the legitimacy that enables women to leave the domestic sphere,
as Judith Hoch-Smith and Anita Spring have suggested,¹⁵ spiritual marriage is of particular interest in that it focuses on those women who do not or have not yet effected this separation. As such, it points to some of the ways in which a husband’s authority intrudes upon the wife’s spirituality and the manner in which a transition to chastity might erode his authority. However, women did not control the medium through which their personal histories were represented. Thus, this study traces the means by which different restatements of this same model could be Wielded ideologically against women not only to contain female spirituality but, through an interesting paradox, actually to enforce submission to patriarchal authority.
Despite the potential treachery of the tradition, a thorough examination of the sources, particularly the evidence of female saints’ lives, suggests that representations of spiritual marriage were much more central to an understanding of the female religious vocation than anyone has hitherto supposed. Indeed, many medieval authors assume that the impulse toward chastity was not an idiosyncratic fancy restricted to a handful of saints but was shared by ordinary
wives with pious leanings as well. Did, then, the possibility of a spiritual marriage operate as a psychological placebo or even a coercive device that collaborated with the common formulas of thwarted vocation and forced marriage, so familiar to the women of this age? It is impossible to test the truth
quotient of the hagiographer’s representation of chastity’s appeal for the average woman. But its very articulation not only draws attention to the power and importance of the phenomenon; it also lends insight into how a tradition could emancipate or coerce—depending on how it is used.
A number of different studies have already dealt explicitly with aspects of spiritual marriage, as well as with related subjects. The earliest literature in this field focused on the church hierarchy’s attitude toward syneisaktism—the chaste cohabitation of two ascetics of opposite sexes. In his work Virgines Subintroductae (1902), Hans Achelis traced the church’s battle with syneisaktism up until the end of the sixth century and sparked off a lively debate among scholars by his underlying thesis that St. Paul condoned syneisaktism and that later church condemnations deviated from the practice of the ancient church. In Le ‘mariage spirituel’ dans l’antiquité chrétienne,
Pierre de Labriolle refutes Achelis’s thesis, reexamining much of the same material from the more traditional point of view that the church always regarded these ascetical men and their virgines subintroductae as dangerous fanatics (1921).¹⁶ Recently, a number of excellent studies have provided a clearer context for such behavior. Scholars such as Jo Ann McNamara, Elaine Pagels, Aline Rousselle, and particularly Peter Brown have made considerable strides in interpreting the impulse toward chastity in light of changing social and intellectual conditions in late antiquity.¹⁷
Other scholars have interpreted isolated aspects of spiritual marriage’s social deployment. Baudouin de Gaiffier’s ground-breaking "Intactam sponsam relinquens à propos de la vie de S. Alexis" (1947) sheds light on the situation of the young malmarié by isolating two basic motifs associated with forced marriage in saints’ lives: flight on the wedding night or the conversion of the spouse to spiritual marriage. More recently, Jo Ann McNamara has drawn attention to how, prior to the Gregorian reform, the church tried to impose chastity on its married priesthood in an effort to develop a celibate clergy.¹⁸
For the later period, complementary developments in social history and the history of ideas, emphasizing subjects such as marriage, sexuality, and popular piety, have considerable bearing on my subject and have occasionally conspired to draw spiritual marriage into the limelight. The work of James Brundage, in particular, underscores the way in which the ascetic orientation of many canonists and theologians was frequently at odds with the acknowledged purpose of marriage. Brundage and others have highlighted the consensual, spiritualized view of marriage that became more prominent in the high Middle Ages. Jean Leclercq emphasizes what twelfth-century monastic theologians contributed to the theory of the spiritual bond between spouses. Georges Duby traces the development of a definition of marriage that he perceives as disembodied. Penny S. Gold describes the way in which twelfth-century canonists and theologians adjusted the theory of marriage to accommodate the spiritual marriage of Mary and Joseph. John Noonan and Charles Donahue stress the resurfacing of the consensual theory of marriage in the twelfth century, while Michael Sheehan’s work has delineated the penetration of the consensual theory to the masses.¹⁹
A number of important sociological studies of medieval sanctity have strongly influenced this present work. André Vauchez’s La sainteté en occident and, more recently, his Les laïcs au moyen âge contain insightful analyses of changing patterns in sanctity, exposing trends like the democratization of sanctity in the high Middle Ages and the the rise of the lay saint. The latter work, in particular, draws attention to the virginal marriage of the fourteenth-century Provençal nobles Elzear and Dauphine. Donald Weinstein and Rudolph Bell’s study Saints and Society provides statistical evidence that establishes a number of gender-based differences in religious practice. Chastity emerges as particularly central to the female religious vocation. Richard Kieckhefer’s Unquiet Souls is an especially illuminating analysis of the penitential spirituality of fourteenth-century saints, creating an appropriate context for understanding their rigorous asceticism.²⁰
Especially germane to my focus is the recent interest in female spirituality, in particular efforts to comprehend what is distinct in women’s religious experiences. Caroline Walker Bynum has made an immense contribution in this area. Her work Holy Feast and Holy Fast not only emphasizes but sensitively contextualizes the centrality of food in female religious expression, ultimately challenging the hitherto dominant view that female asceticism was grounded in a hatred of the body.²¹ The association of chastity with the female vocation has become an area of considerable interest that has produced a number of stimulating works. Scholars such as Rosemary Radford Ruether, Elizabeth Clark, and Jo Ann McNamara have emphasized the importance of virginity in patristic writing as a mechanism for female empowerment by means of transcendence of rigid gender distinctions.²² Parallel findings are made by Clarissa Atkinson in her work Mystic and Pilgrim—a study focusing on the fifteenth-century mystic Margery Kempe, who participated in a spiritual marriage and whose chastity was an important part of her religious calling.²³
This study is clearly indebted to the work of these authors on a number of levels. Chapter 1, in particular, which is intended to provide some context for the phenomenon of spiritual marriage in the early Christian tradition, touches on many of the same issues discussed at greater length by scholars such as Peter Brown, Jo Ann McNamara, and Elaine Pagels. And yet the emphasis of this study, shaped by its syncretic approach and its focus on the longue duree, distinguishes it from the others in both method and contribution. As an analysis of the relation between theory and practice, of the interaction among tradition, social use, and seemingly spontaneous
spirituality over time, it seeks to produce a closer understanding of how an exemplary pattern of female behavior can be manipulated to the gain or detriment of ordinary women.
¹ The assignation of the term chastity
to normal conjugal relations is discussed later in the Introduction. Jacques de Vitry’s Vita Mariae Oigniacensis demonstrates some of the other alternatives. Her husband’s conversion to chastity is described as the achievement of not simply a celibate but even an angelic way of life (visitatus est a Domino, ut non solum coelibem et vere Angelicam vitam continendo promereretur
), while the couple is later described as united by the bond of spiritual matrimony (matrimonii spiritualis nexu
) (see AA SS, June, 5:550).
² A number of these semantic problems are taken up by Duane J. Osheim’s "Conversion, Conversi, and the Christian Life in Late Medieval Tuscany," Speculum 58 (1983): 368-390.
³ AA SS, April, 2:142.
⁴ W. Kętrzyński, ed., Vita sanctae Salomeae reginae Haliciensis, MPH, vol. 4 (Lvov, 1884), p. 778.
⁵ Castitas: quando contrahunt ne impetantur uel sollicitentur ab aliis, set caste adinuicem simul uiuant
(Robert Grosseteste, Templum Dei, ed. J. Goering and F.A.C. Mantello [Toronto, 1984], p. 60).
⁶ Iconography, on the other hand, a potentially valuable source, has not been included in this study. For an idea of the kind of information that can be extracted from iconography, see Sixten Ringbom’s, Nuptial Symbolism in Some Fifteenth-Century Reflections of Roman Sepulchral Portraiture,
Temenos 2 (1966): 68-97.
⁷ On The Golden Legend’s popularity, see Sherry L. Reames, The "Legenda Aurea A Reexamination of Its Paradoxical History (Madison, Wis., 1985), pp. 3-5. The saints in this collection who participated in spiritual marriages are discussed in chapter 4 in the section entitled Vows of Continence and Channels to the Laity.
⁸ See, for example, The Gospel of the Marriage Feast of Cana and Marriage Preaching in France,
in The Bible in the Medieval World: Essays in Memory of Beryl Smalley, ed. Katherine Walsh and Diana Wood, Studies in Church History, Subsidia, 4 (London, 1985), pp. 207-224, and d’Avray and M. Tausche, "Marriage Sermons in ad status Collections of the Central Middle Ages," Archives d’histoire doctrinale et littéraire du moyen âge 47 (1980): 71-119.
⁹ On distortions and borrowings in legendary saints’ lives, see Hippolyte Delehaye’s The Legends of the Saints, trans. Donald Attwater (New York, 1962), esp. chaps. 1-3.
¹⁰ One instance of a votum continencie occurs before William Melton by William de Sibbilton’ and his wife Isolde in 1321 (Rosalind M. T. Hill, ed., The Register of William Melton: Archbishop of York, 1317-1340, vol. 1, Canterbury and York Society Ser., vol. 70 [Torquay, 1977], no. 30, p. 11) Also see the case of Margery Kempe discussed below.
¹¹ I attempted no such survey for Continental sources, although a few examples have come to my attention, which are cited in chapter 4. Possibly Continental ecclesiastical sources, although not nearly as abundant as English records, would prove more lucrative, as these countries seem to have been more profoundly influenced by the penitential movement.
¹² Margery Kempe, The Book of Margery Kempe 1.76, ed. Sanford Brown Meech and Hope Emily Allen, EETS, o.s., no. 212 (London, 1940; reprt. 1960), pp. 179-180.
¹³ Ibid. 1.15, pp. 33-35; 273-274n.33.
¹⁴ Bertrand of Pontigny, Vita beati Edmundi Cantuariensis archiepiscopi, in Thesaurus novus anecdotorum, ed. E. Marténe and U. Durand (Paris and Florence, 1717; reprt. 1968), 3:1775, 1778.
¹⁵ Women in Ritual and Symbolic Roles (New York and London, 1978), introd., p. 15.
¹⁶ Hans Achelis, Virgines Subintroductae: ein Beitrag zum VII. Kapitel des I. Korintherbriefs (Leipzig, 1902). For Labriolle’s debunking, see Revue historique 137 (1921): 204-225.
¹⁷ Jo Ann McNamara, A New Song: Celibate Women in the First Three Christian Centuries (New York, 1983); Elaine Pagels, Adam, Eve, and the Serpent (New York, 1988); Aline Rousselle, Porneia: On Desire and the Body in Antiquity, trans. Felicia Pheasant (Oxford and New York, 1988); Peter Brown, The Body and Society: Men, Women, and Sexual Renunciation in Early Christianity (New York, 1988).
¹⁸ De Gaiffier, AB 65 (1947): 157-195; McNamara, Chaste Marriage and Clerical Celibacy,
in Sexual Practices and the Medieval Church, ed. Vern L. Bullough and James A. Brundage (Buffalo and New York, 1982), pp. 22-33, 231-235.
¹⁹ For Brundage, see especially Law, Sex, and Christian Society in Medieval Europe (Chicago and London, 1987); for Leclercq, see Monks on Marriage: A Twelfth-Century View (New York, 1982); for Duby see The Knight, the Lady, and the Priest: The Making of Modern Marriage in Medieval France, trans. Barbara Bray (New York, 1983), pp. 177-185; for Gold, see The Marriage of Mary and Joseph in the Twelfth-Century Ideology of Marriage,
in Sexual Practices and the Medieval Church, ed. Bullough and Brundage, pp. 102-117, 249-251; for Noonan see Power to Choose,
Viator 4 (1973): 419-434; for Donahue, see The Policy of Alexander Ill’s Consent Theory of Marriage,
in Proceedings of the Fourth International Congress of Canon Law, Toronto, 21-25 August 1972, ed. Stephan Kuttner, Monumenta luris Canonici, ser. C: Subsidia, vol. 5 (Vatican City, 1976), pp. 251-281; for Sheehan, see Marriage Theory and Practice in the Conciliar Legislation and Diocesan Statutes of Medieval England,
Mediaeval Studies 40 (1978): 408-460.
²⁰ Vauchez, La sainteté en occident aux derniers siècles du moyen âge d’après les procès de canonisation et les documents hagiographiques, Bibliothèque des Ecoles Françaises d’Athènes et de Rome, fasc. 241 (Rome, 1981), esp. pp. 410-418; idem, Les laïcs au moyen âge: pratiques et expériences religieuses (Paris, 1987), pp. 211-224; Weinstein and Bell Saints and Society: The Two Worlds of Western Christendom, 1000-1700 (Chicago and London, 1982), pp. 42-44, 234-235; Kieckhefer, Unquiet Souls: Fourteenth-Century Saints and Their Religious Milieu (Chicago and London, 1987).
²¹ Holy Feast and Holy Fast: The Religious Significance of Food to Medieval Women (Berkeley and Los Angeles, 1987), esp. chaps. 8-10.
²² See Ruether, Misogynism and Virginal Feminism in the Fathers of the Church,
in Religion and Sexism: Images of Woman in the Jewish and Christian Traditions, ed. Ruether (New York, 1974), pp. 150-183; Elizabeth Clark, "The Virginal Politeia and Plato’s Republic: John Chrysostom on Women and the Sexual Relation," in Jerome, Chrysostom, and Friends: Essays and Translations, Studies in Women and Religion, vol. 1 (New York and Toronto, 1979), pp. 1-34, and "John Chrysostom and the Subintroductae," Church History 46 (1977): 171-185.
²³ Mystic and Pilgrim: The Book and the World of Margery Kempe (Ithaca, N.Y., 1983). For a discussion of virginity and autonomy in Visigothic Spain, see Joyce E. Salisbury, Fruitful in Singleness,
Journal of Medieval History 8 (1982): 97-106.
ONE
A PLACE IN THE MIDDLE
: INTRAMARITAL CHASTITY AS THEORETICAL EMBARRASSMENT AND PROVOCATION
Gray is a mixture of black and white
Life and death have no middle ground between them,
But I do not know whether to put the syneisaktoi, as everyone calls them,
Among the married or single, or save them a place somewhere in the middle. . . .
Marriage is a legitimate and honorable condition; but still it belongs to the flesh:
Liberty from the flesh is a better condition by far.
Yet if marriages are non-marriages, O beloved ones,
You will live in ambiguous unions.¹
FROM ITS INCEPTION, the Christian message allowed for a two-tiered group of adherents. ² The elite corps was celibate—free from any ties that might hinder total devotion to God. By rejecting reproduction, such a group implicitly challenged the centrality of the conjugal family, which was not only the cornerstone of patriarchal society, but the ultimate generator of gender roles that subordinated women to men. It is little wonder that Christianity was initially characterized as a religion of women and slaves—individuals who had little to gain from the status quo. But this potential radicalism was cushioned and, eventually, all but dispelled by the provision for a second tier of adherents. After the celibate elite came the larger community of the married, still implicated in the world, still essential links in the interminable chain of sex and reproduction, still subject to prescribed gender roles. Such individuals were allotted an honorable, albeit a lesser, position in the faith. Yet their very inclusion limits the possibilities for a comprehensive social change.
Spiritual marriage, or total sexual abstinence in wedlock, is somewhat of an anomaly because it occasions a blurring of what were widely perceived as two discrete groups: the continent and the married.³ From the standpoint of social cohesion, there are very sound reasons for keeping these two categories separate. Since the purpose of marriage was to harness the sex urge, either toward the production of legitimate offspring or, according to Paul’s reformulation, as a remedy to sin, the suspension of sexual intercourse removed the institution’s very raison d’être and had the potential for disrupting gender roles. For this reason, married individuals who were committed to absolute chastity represent a kind of fifth column
in the otherwise patriarchal institution of marriage. How the chill, but liberating, touch of chastity entered marriage, why church authorities vacillated between actively encouraging and coolly tolerating this hybrid, and its ultimate impact on the conjugal unit generally, and gender roles, in particular, are problems that stalk the history of Christian marriage.
Marriage versus Continence: The New Testament Kerygma
The distinction between the married and the celibate was implicit in the teaching attributed to Christ by the synoptic Gospels. To the married majority, his central message was one of reform, upholding marriage as a stable, indissoluble institution. In response to the Saduccees’ questions regarding divorce (Matt. 19.3-12), Christ answers with an uncompromising reference to Genesis 2. Husband and wife become one flesh: what God joins, mere mortals should not attempt to separate. When the apostles despair of the married state if the liability is so great, Christ answers with his fleeting remarks regarding voluntary celibacy.
All men take not this word, but they to whom it is given. For there are eunuchs who were born so from their mother’s womb; and there are eunuchs who were made so by men; and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven. He that can take it, let him take it.
(Matt. 19.11-12)⁴
Mention of a third type of eunuch may have been a reference to the Essenes, a Jewish ascetical sect whose inner core abstained from marriage and to whom Christ may have been indebted for some of his teaching. Perhaps he was even a member of the sect.⁵ The emphasis of the passage could be seen as more descriptive than prescriptive, but Christ is at the very least affirming this way of life that was so at odds with mainstream Judaism, and he seems to have ranked celibacy higher than marriage, considering the former a singular and peculiar vocation.⁶
Other passages of tantalizing obscurity, but with a long history in Christian exegesis, are Christ’s projections into the human race’s future. His emotional outburst regarding the end of the world: ‘But woe to them that are with child and give suck in those days!’
(Luke 21.23) could read as a grim condemnation of procreation to the eschatologically inclined primitive church.⁷ Moreover, his response to the Sadducees that both marriage and death cease to exist after the resurrection but humans will live as angels sets up an ugly equation between marriage and death for those predisposed to criticize marriage (Matt. 22.30).
Christ’s advocacy of the superiority of the single state had pragmatic moorings. The celibate was freer to devote him or herself to God’s work. It is undoubtedly for this reason that he required that his apostles leave their wives in order to follow him. Indeed, Christ showed considerable disregard for family ties and concerns, a disregard that at times bordered on hostility. Comments such as ‘Who is my mother and who are my brethren?’
or ‘If any man come to me, and hate not his father and mother and wife and children . . . he cannot be my disciple’
(Matt. 12.48; Luke 14.26) posed an undeniable challenge not only to Jewish values, but to Roman patrician ones as well.⁸
Paul’s explicit ranking of celibacy over marriage was less ambiguous and more systematic than Christ’s fleeting remarks. At times encouraging and at times holding in check the fervent eschatology of the primitive church, Paul juggles the doctrinal tensions implicit in his own personal background and his era. As a Jew, it was his responsibility to affirm marriage and procreation as positive goods, the legacy of a beneficent creator. Even so, Judaism, especially Essenism, possessed a doctrine of two conflicting spirits or yeserim that coexist in human hearts: one good, one evil, and both struggling for mastery.⁹ As a hellenized Jew, moreover, he was influenced by various contemporary intellectual and spiritual trends that tended to reinforce the idea of humanity at war with itself, but contributed a dualistic element, which sharpens the distinction (and, hence, the conflict) between spirit and matter. Thus the principle of the two yeserim was compounded by various Stoical, Pythagorean, Neoplatonic, and Gnostic influences. As a result, Paul identifies the abode of humanity’s propensity for evil, not as the heart, but as the flesh.¹⁰ He, accordingly, asserts: I see another law in my members, fighting against the law of my mind and captivating me in the law of sin that is in my members
(Rom. 7.23); and again: the flesh lusteth against the spirit; and the spirit against the flesh. For these are contrary one to another; so that you do not the things that you would
(Gal. 5.17).
Paul’s physical pessimism may have fed his preference for celibacy. But both of these instincts complemented a longing for a total transformation of the social order that was abroad in Christian circles. This is perhaps most explicit in the early baptismal formula that Paul invokes: There is neither Jew nor Greek; there is neither bond nor free; there is neither male nor female. For you are all one in Christ Jesus
(Gal. 3.28). The double threat
of continence and egalitarianism clearly marks this vision as millenarian and potentially harmful to both marriage and the family, which are institutions that support social rank and maximize the distance between the sexes.¹¹ And indeed, this is how Paul is remembered in the popular apocryphal gospels that circulated in the early church. But so radical a kerygma spawned considerable sexual confusion among new converts and, in the face of this chaos, Paul and his immediate successors retreated.¹² Paul’s first letter to the Corinthians is the antidote to many symptoms of sexual disorder: the problems suggest just how far Paul may once have gone, and the solutions he provides outline the safe way back. The fledgling church of Corinth was unstrung by its new freedoms: individuals were unclear as to the significance or even licitness of marriage; women were challenging traditional gender signs; fornication and even incest were indulged in.
Paul responded by sharpening, perhaps inadvertently, the twotiered modus vivendi already present in Christ’s vision of society. Celibacy was preferable to marriage, but for reasons that were, by his own admission, pragmatic and eschatological. Marriage carries with it incumbent tribulation of the flesh
(1 Cor. 7.28). It also requires time and energy, which are better spent in service to God (1 Cor. 7.32-33). Both of these reasons are distinct from a yearning for a moral or cultic purity, which will loom so large in the early church fathers.¹³ Instead, they are generated from Paul’s view that the time is short
; in these last times of last times Christians should train their minds on heaven as much as possible: it remaineth that they also who have wives be as if they had none
(1 Cor. 7.29).¹⁴ At no time, however, does Paul suggest that celibates enjoy a heightened intimacy with Christ or a special reward that was denied the married.¹⁵
But even though Paul’s response privileges chastity over marriage, he nevertheless attempts to restore order by a strengthening of marriage and gender roles. Following Christ, Paul maintains the strict indissolubility of the marriage bond (1 Cor. 7.10-11), with the possible exception of a pagan spouse abandoning a Christian (1 Cor. 7.15). Female subordination was also at issue. Women in the Corinthian church were refusing to wear veils: a symbolic shorthand that, by challenging traditional gender distinctions, imperiled the sociosexual hierarchy and ultimately permitted women to assume certain leadership functions.¹⁶ While Paul acknowledges women’s gift of prophecy (1 Cor. 11.5) and, both in this letter and elsewhere, either he or his successors confirm female ministry in the church,¹⁷ he nevertheless lays down a strict hierarchy of submission of Christ to God, man to Christ, woman to man.¹⁸ Moreover, Paul reminds his audience of the Jewish requirement that women’s heads be covered as a symbol of female subjection and further insists that women keep silence in church.¹⁹
But if Paul’s treatment of marriage is traditional from the point of view of sexual hierarchy, on another level it is profoundly innovative in that it signifies a distinct break with the Old Testament mandate to increase and multiply
(Gen. 1.28).²⁰ The avoidance of all sexual contact is pronounced a positive good (1 Cor. 7.1), yet Paul, like Christ, recognized that celibacy was a vocation that not all possessed. Those who cannot contain are urged to marry, thereby limiting their sexual activity to one partner (1 Cor. 7.2 and 9). The reproductive function of marriage is thus obliterated and marriage is narrowly defined as a prophylactic measure against incontinence. The couple’s sexual bondage is described in striking terms: husband and wife no longer have complete physical autonomy but each is under the power of the other (1 Cor. 7.4). This forms the basis of the canonical conjugal debt that will figure so prominently in the issue of spiritual marriage.
Paul’s exclusively remedial vision of marriage places the sex act squarely at the center of the conjugal bond, thus reinforcing the natural barrier between the married majority and the celibate elite. His general admonition that each individual remain in the state in which he or she was called would fortify this boundary. Even so, there is sufficient emphasis on chastity to facilitate its later seepage into marriage. Paul recommended that the couple abstain for brief periods for the purpose of prayer (1 Cor. 7.5), a recommendation that would go ill for the married at the hands of the patristic fathers.²¹ His recommendation that those who have wives be as if they had none
(1 Cor. 7.29), when wrested from its millenarian context, could read as a stern counsel to abstain. Modern scholars have also construed Paul’s ambiguous instructions involving the marriage of a virgin (1 Cor. 7.36-38) as a possible approbation for an unconsummated marriage.²²
Paul’s uncertain appeals to tradition were magnified by his successors. They amended Paul’s vision of marriage, shaping it to the contours of the pagan patriarchal family.²³ Female subordination is corroborated, while the traditional reproductive function of marriage is, in turn, reinstated. The author of Ephesians even sets a sacred seal on female submission by equating the husband with Christ and the wife with the church (Eph. 5.22-25). Drawing on the unity of husband and wife as one flesh, evoked by Christ from Genesis 2, husbands are exhorted to love their wives as their own bodies, thus equating man with the Christ/spirit and woman with the church/body. The post-Pauline texts relentlessly drive home the association between woman and the lower physical realm. Special attention is given to female dress and modesty (1 Tim. 2.9). Women are even promised salvation through motherhood (1 Tim. 2.15).²⁴ This emphasis on women’s reproductive capacity is a double blow: not only did antique medical theory assign the female an ancillary role in conception,²⁵ but childbearing itself was implicated in Eve’s curse, as articulated in Genesis 3. Moreover, an explicit invocation of Genesis would ultimately force women out of the ministry: they are again ordered to be silent in church and denied the right to teach or hold any authority over men. These injunctions are justified by the reminder that woman was second in the order of creation, but the first to be deceived (1 Tim. 2.11-14). In short, these later epistles mark the beginning of the end of orthodox Christianity as a millenarian movement. The liberating spirit of Galatians, dissolving all distinctions between believers and uniting them in Christ, is forgotten. Equality in Christ is implicitly transferred to a spiritual/supernatural plane.²⁶
Experimentation with Gender Roles: Gnostics, Encratites, and Virgines Subintroductae
Such a reinstatement of reproduction and reminder of traditional gender roles was both timely and multifunctional. On the most obvious level, the third generation of Christians who were responsible for the pastoral epistles no longer perceived Christ’s coming as imminent, so they were ensuring the continuity of the faith. But the affirmation of reproduction also constructed a bulwark against two related problems: dualism and a disruption in gender roles. Paul’s words regarding sexual continence were sown on fertile ground, as many, influenced by various philosophical currents of the day, were inclined to reject the material world and procreation as the means through which its hold was perpetuated.²⁷ Closely aligned with this rejection was the concomitant assumption that the separation between the sexes was a reflection of the material taint, that marriage maximized this separation, and that men and women could meet on a freer and easier footing outside of the strictures of marriage. Moreover, by anticipating the future kingdom where none would marry or be given in marriage, the movement toward chastity was a partial realization of the eschaton. That women had much to gain from and eagerly embraced this potentially egalitarian platform has been welldocumented in modern scholarship.²⁸ Indeed, the writers of the pastoral epistles make no secret of the fact that their emphasis on procreation and female subordination was in response to a crisis among their female adherents (2 Tim. 3.6-7).
The crisis was precipitated by the second-century Gnostics, who saw procreation as a grim mechanism by which true
creation, which was spiritual, was entrapped in diabolical matter. The female element was identified with false material creation;²⁹ the male with the pristine, spiritual realm: indeed, Gnostic cosmology delineated the primal cosmic disaster in terms of the division of the sexes, a lamentable rift that was perpetuated through the procreative act. The restoration of order required the total obliteration of the female element.³⁰ The Valentinian Gnostics achieved this obliteration on a symbolic level through a ritualized marriage ceremony by which a woman became male,
which meant nothing less than for a woman to achieve spiritual personhood.³¹ The rejection of carnal marriage and the allegorical rapprochement between the sexes may have allowed men and women to interact with equality and unaccustomed familiarity much in the spirit of Galatians 3.28–conditions that were becoming so unusual to mainstream Christianity that Gnostic coreligionists were repeatedly accused of sexual promiscuity by mainstream Christians.³²
Concurrent with Gnosticism was the Encratite movement, which held sway over the Syrian church. The ascetical elite, like the Gnostics, eschewed marriage and procreation. Sexual renunciation became a precondition for baptism: married individuals were urged to abstain sexually and to raise their children as virgins. Often Encratite imagery parallels Gnostic usage by associating the material world with the transitory female element. Thus, according to the Pseudo-Clementine homily: the present world is female, as a mother bringing forth the souls of her children, but the world to come is male, as a father receiving his children from their mother.
³³ The tenor of this teaching seems to have generated two rather conflicting responses. On the one hand, much of the literature produced in Encratite circles suggests that their rigid asceticism did not mitigate the distance between the sexes, but in fact alienated women and men further as potential threats to one another’s chastity. The second letter on virginity by the Pseudo-Clement, for example, is addressed to a group of priests whose function it is to travel in order to minister to the needs of fellow Christians. The letter is a very meticulous account of the possible situations in which one might encounter a woman, and the circumstances under which one might be permitted to accept female hospitality. Such situations are very few indeed. This is stated at the outset and then reiterated as regularly as a mantra throughout the epistle:
With maidens we do not dwell, nor have we any thing in common with them; with maidens we do not eat, nor drink; and, where a maiden sleeps, we do not sleep; neither do women wash our feet, nor anoint us; and on no account do we sleep where a maiden sleeps who is unmarried or has taken the vow: even though she be in some other