Clearly Me: CLEAR Memoirs, #2
By Fran Stewart
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Fran Stewart, award-winning & national best-selling author of three ScotShop mysteries and eleven Biscuit McKee mysteries, delights us with this second volume of her unique take on life through these "mini-memoirs," a collection of her daily musings from her no-longer-available Facebook author page. The first two volumes, Clear as Mud parts i and 2, covered many of her posts through 2018. Now you can enjoy all of the year 2019, as seen through the eyes and the reminiscences of this well-loved author.
You may choose to read it straight through, or maybe you'd rather skip around. No matter which approach you take, you'll find that the Fran you meet on these pages is sometimes thoughtful, sometimes whimsical, but always thoroughly entertaining.
Grab a cup of tea, sit back, and prepare to make friends with an author who always delights her readers.
Fran Stewart
Fran Stewart lives and writes quietly in her house beside a creek on the other side of Hog Mountain, northeast of Atlanta. She shares her home with various rescued cats, one of whom served as the inspiration for Marmalade, Biscuit McKee's feline friend and sidekick. Stewart is the author of two mystery series, the 11-book Biscuit McKee Mysteries and the 3-book ScotShop mysteries; a non-fiction writer's workbook, From the Tip of My Pen; poetry Resolution; Tan naranja como Mermelada/As Orange as Marmalade, a children's bilingual book; and a standalone mystery A Slaying Song Tonight. She teaches classes on how to write memoirs, and has published her own memoirs in the 6-volume BeesKnees series. All six volumes, beginning with BeesKnees #1: A Beekeeping Memoir, are available as e-books and in print.
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Clearly Me - Fran Stewart
Dedicated to:
Diana
Erica
Eli
Veronica
Darlene
Savannah
Aiden
Marcia
and Peggy
(This is the order in which I met you.)
Intro
When I decided to publish all my Facebook author page entries, it never occurred to me that it would turn out to be a major endeavor. After all, I’d already written them, so what could be the problem with just putting them together into a book?
I’m sure that, with those plans, I gave God a great big chuckle that day. She’s probably still laughing about it.
Before you complain about how Clear as Mud, the first volume in these memoirs, was priced at $39.99, let me explain a little bit about the publishing industry. I completely understand that the COVID-19 crisis has left a lot of industries reeling, and the publishing industry is no exception. Still, even before the pandemic, publishers seemed determined to guarantee that the creative process behind the book (the author) always got the tiniest slice of the pie.
To give you just one example, every time someone buys new one copy of one of my ScotShop Mysteries, the royalty payment I receive is 23 cents. This is for a book that’s priced at $7.99. If you buy a book that’s used, then the author gets nothing.
I’m not complaining. I’ve sold tens of thousands of my books, but the big income doesn’t come until people are buying hundreds of thousands or—wouldn’t this be lovely?—millions of an author’s books. Most of the people who sell that many books have hired a publicist, to the tune of anywhere from $5,000 to $20,000. Obviously, I didn’t do that.
But, back to the $39.99 price tag for Clear as Mud. It’s a big book (8.5 x 11) for a reason. If it had been the size of my other books (the Biscuit McKee mysteries & the BeesKnees books), it would have been more than a thousand pages long. It’s full-color printing because of all the photos—and that costs a good deal more than black & white printing. If I’d priced it any less than $39.99, I would have LOST money every time somebody bought one. Clearly Me (2019) is slightly less expensive than Clear as Mud only because there are fewer pages. And the next volume, Crystal Clear (2020), should be as reasonably priced as this one.
So, I’ve had to see these three books as part of the legacy I’m leaving my children and grandchildren (and great-grandchildren and so on). If you bought Clear as Mud, I’m astonished and gratified indeed. I’m also humbled that you have obviously wanted to share my life as I’ve revealed it in these pages.
I wish you the very best—good friends, good health, and good laughs.
—Fran
from my house beside a creek
on the other side of Hog Mountain GA
October 2020
[2022 Note for the e-book version: Thank goodness none of these outrageous prices apply to e-books. Aren’t you glad?]
January 2019
Beneath the Skin
Tuesday January 1, 2019 — One of the loveliest, most loving women I ever knew was 18 years older than I when I met her on the day I took my son to his kindergarten class for the first time. Shirley Murray taught because she loved teaching. As I grew to know her over the years (she taught my daughter’s kindergarten class as well) she encouraged me to begin journaling as a way to begin healing my life.
Some time ago, I found this poem by Jeannette Encinias. It’s full of lovely thoughts to share at the beginning of this New Year. No matter where you are on your journey, I hope you will remember that you have decades of learning and leaving and loving sewn into the corners of your eyes.
Happy New Year.
Beneath the Sweater and the Skin
~ Jeannette Encinias
How many years of beauty do I have left?
she asks me.
How many more do you want?
Here. Here is 34. Here is 50.
When you are 80 years old
and your beauty rises in ways
your cells cannot even imagine now
and your wild bones grow luminous and
ripe, having carried the weight
of a passionate life.
When your hair is aflame
with winter
and you have decades of
learning and leaving and loving
sewn into
the corners of your eyes
and your children come home
to find their own history
in your face.
When you know what it feels like to fail
ferociously
and have gained the
capacity
to rise and rise and rise again.
When you can make your tea
on a quiet and ridiculously lonely afternoon
and still have a song in your heart
Queen owl wings beating
beneath the cotton of your sweater.
Because your beauty began there
beneath the sweater and the skin,
remember?
This is when I will take you
into my arms and coo
YOU BRAVE AND GLORIOUS THING
you've come so far.
I see you.
Your beauty is breathtaking.
If I ever get old and frail, would somebody please read this to me?
Walking into 2019
WEDNESDAY 01/02/2019—My dear friend Darlene Carter read this to me when we did our MasterMind session a couple of days ago. She and I both plan to print it out and keep it close at hand throughout the coming year.
MasterMind, in this case, is not the game, but a spiritual process developed by Maryanne Williamson. Darlene and I have been sharing this adventure for the past eighteen years, and it never ceases to amaze us with the way it leads us to new insights and ah-ha moments.
By the way, thank you to the people who checked in with me via phone calls or messages during the past week and a half when I dropped off the edge of the Facebook world. I appreciate your concern, and I’m delighted not only that you noticed I was gone, but that you reached out in your concern. I’m so much better now.
A close up of text on a white background Description automatically generatedTa-Da List
THURSDAY 01/03/2019 — I think this is a great idea. Ta-Da! instead of to-do. Enthusiasm, excitement, expectancy (to quote Marianne Williamson)
What do you think? Is it worth trying for a day or two? A week or two? Maybe for the rest of our lives?
A close up of a sign Description automatically generatedWonder of a book (12/28/18)
FRIDAY 01/04/2019 — Emily Dickinson wrote that there is no frigate like a book.
Nowadays when fewer and fewer people have any idea what a frigate is (a light, fast boat that is rowed or sailed), people depend on other ways of expressing that thought.
Carl Sagan, as you can see here, spoke of the book as the greatest human invention, binding together people who never knew each other.
I find, time and again, when my readers reach out to me through messages or emails, that these connections between people can go very deep, and I truly appreciate those links, particularly today.
A close up of text on a white background Description automatically generatedGoats Eating Christmas Trees
SATURDAY 01/05/2019 — I found a great news item from the Canadian Broadcast System. It was too good not to share. If you want to read it, do a search for Christmas trees goats CBC. I hope it brightens your day.
I had so much fun visiting various goat farms several times when I was researching Indigo as an Iris, and I am to this day intrigued by goats. It was particularly fun to gaze into their rectangular pupils.
Incidentally, your chickens will also appreciate a Christmas tree to eat, scratch at, and snuggle into. But please, no ornament hooks, tinsel, or that horrible spray fake snow.
A goat looking at the camera Description automatically generatedPhoto Credit: CBC News
Why Ships Sink
MONDAY 01/07/2019 — Good old Archimedes. Any body completely or partially submerged in a fluid at rest is acted upon by an upward (buoyant) force the magnitude of which is equal to the weight of the fluid displaced by the body.
I do wonder whether the fluid
is supposed to be at rest or the body
is supposed to be at rest, but other than that one grammatical inconsistency, it’s a pretty good statement, wouldn’t you say?
Of course, I like this other saying, too — the one in today’s picture. In a lot of ways, it says the same thing as Archimedes.
Have a buoyant day.
A small boat in a body of water Description automatically generatedElla Vader
TUESDAY 01/08/2019 — I love the way the English language lends itself to plays on words.
Last week I met with a book club that had chosen to read GREEN AS A GARDEN HOSE, my third Biscuit McKee Mystery, for their January choice. We got to talking about puns and wordplay, and I had great fun pointing out that one of the less-savory characters in that book was named Kelvin. Someone in the book described him as an absolute Zero of a man.
Not everybody got it. Not everybody will get it. But the ones who do may at least get a smile out of it — or maybe even a big whoop of laughter.
As I said, I love the English language.
For extra credit, you can find out where I got the names of the two law firms that appear in the Biscuit McKee series:
Bushy, Bagot, & Green
and
Scroop, Grey, & Cambridge
A close up of a sign Description automatically generatedPasture Bedtime
WEDNESDAY 01/09/2019 — While we’re talking about puns . . .
A close up of text on a black background Description automatically generatedArrows
THURSDAY 01/10/2019 — This collection of arrows and squiggly figures stumped me for a bit when I found it stuffed between old notes in a file folder of my parents’ diaries. What it was doing there, I have no idea. How it got there is a mystery. Where it came from is one of those facts lost to the modern mind.
Still, I liked its message (once I figured it out), so I thought I’d share it with you.
A close up of a sign Description automatically generatedAuburn library questions
FRIDAY 01/11/2019 — I love libraries. About a month ago I took this photo of a display at the Auburn GA public library when I went there to participate in a writing group that evolved from some memoirs classes I taught there last fall.
The librarians had put up the simple question — Can you guess the book these first lines came from?
Since the question was in the teen section, and since I haven’t read very many YA books, I couldn’t identify a single one of them. What about you?
A close up of a sign Description automatically generatedSnow Joy
SATURDAY 01/12/2019 — It’s been eight years since this area of Georgia had a big enough snowstorm so the grandkids could go sledding on an air mattress.
What else could they have used? Nobody sells sleds or snow shovels around here. There are times I miss Vermont. The thought of being able to strap on cross country skis beside the back deck and head out across a snowy expanse sounds exhilarating, doesn’t it?
Then there are the more frequent times I recall that I was never any good at skiing. In fact, I fell more than I glided.
There are the times I remember the crisp invigorating air of a sub-zero day.
Then there are the other times when I remember my frost-bitten fingers that one time we were stupid enough to go out camping when it was forty-below.
Here in the Atlanta area spring starts in February — in fact, yesterday I saw crocuses beginning to push up through the dead leaves.
I’m not sure of this, but maybe snowstorms are more fun in memory than they were in real life?
A couple of people that are sitting in the snow Description automatically generatedvisible song (1/11/19)
MONDAY 01/14/2019 — In every book I’ve written, if the story is set during a cold spell, I mention at some point or other something about puffs of breath visible in front of people’s noses.
But in all my years I’ve never even thought of (much less seen) the puffs of air coming from a bird’s beak. This photo - that came from (I think) National Geographic - captures the visible song so beautifully, I wanted to share it with you. I wish I could give you an exact source. The photographer deserves full credit.
[2020 Note: I was sad to find that this picture had been photoshopped. Now I’m sorry I gave it any space whatsoever in these posts.]
Etch-a-sketch
TUESDAY 01/15/2019 — Remember etch-a-sketch? Do they even have those things nowadays?
Probably not.
The one thing I remember most about my etch-a-sketch was how much I enjoyed the erasing. It was such fun to see all those lines disappearing. Hmm... (???) Maybe that’s why I turned out to be such a fervent editor.
A close up of text on a white background Description automatically generatedRecalculating
WEDNESDAY 01/16/2019 — I have a Garmin GPS whose maps haven’t been updated.for two years because when I was moving things around and boxing things up to prepare for the major house-remodeling I did two years ago, I misplaced the cord and it has one of those one-of-a-kind connections on one end, so I can’t plug any other cord into the GPS. All these new roads that keep cropping up? — I can’t tell where they are.
Time and again I drive along a perfectly visible road, and my GPS shows me schlepping across a field. Off-road,
it warns me. Recalculating.
GRRRRR!
Of course, it's my own fault for having misplaced the cord in the first place. (Double-grrrr)
A close up of text on a white background Description automatically generatedGo the Extra Mile (1/15/19)
THURSDAY 01/17/2019 — This sign was in the middle school library where I volunteer once a week.
The interesting thing is — I’m constantly finding people in my life who go the extra mile, so I try to keep up with them!
How about you? Do you know people who take the time to do that extra nice thing for you? If you can’t think of anybody, open your eyes!
A blue sign in front of a building Description automatically generatedFuzzy in the Cat Tree
FRIDAY 01/18/2019 — There’s something going on. Is it unique to me, or is there some sort of cosmic plan afoot?
Every year I can remember—every year before this one, that is—for the first few weeks after New Year’s Day, whenever I’ve written a check or dated a card or letter, my first impulse is to write the previous year. And then I have to change the 1995 to 1996, or 2002 to 2003, or 2016 to 2017. This year, though, I haven’t written 2018 even once.
Is there something special about 2019?
Meanwhile, Fuzzy Britches sits in her cat tree overlooking my letter-writing, approving the movements of the universe. That’s what cats do.
A cat sitting on a chair Description automatically generatedTotal Lunar Eclipse
SATURDAY 01/19/2019 — I’m sure you’ve already heard about this or read about it. I found a site, though, that would give me the exact times when the various sections of the lunar eclipse began and ended in my area.
If you go to timeanddate.com, choose Sun & Moon from the menu across the top of the screen, and then pick Eclipses from the drop-down menu, you should get the times for your zip code.
It also has a video that shows just how the moon travels through earth’s shadow.
I love it when people take the time to put together