Life Doesn't have to be a Sentence: Choose Your Hard
By Dara Hearold and Brian Hearold
()
About this ebook
Brian’s journey from prison to transforming
his life by taking full responsibility for his
choices and actions. Through his story,
Brian emphasizes that, despite difficult
circumstances, making good decisions is
always possible. His transformation is a
testament to the power of accountability and
the impact of positive choices.
Brian’s journey further transformed when
he reconnected with Dara, a grade school
sweetheart. Their reunion blossomed into a
unique friendship and partnership rooted in
trust, communication, mutual respect, and
a beautiful love story. United with a shared
vision of creating non-judgmental spaces and
communities, Brian and Dara began speaking
and sharing their stories to inspire others.
Together their work extends to mentoring and
volunteering, embodying their commitment
to positive impact.
Brian and Dara Hearold’s story is about;
resilience, redemption, and the enduring
power of good choices. They aim to inspire
readers to take control of their lives, make
better decisions, and believe in the possibility
of positive change.
Dara Hearold
Brian and Dara Hearold are dynamic speakers, small business owners, and dedicated community volunteers based in Southwest Washington. Together, they share a blended family of five children and seven grandchildren. Both are certified in Peer Support, leveraging their experiences to support others on their journey to navigate life’s challenges.
Related authors
Related to Life Doesn't have to be a Sentence
Related ebooks
Dancing with the Devils: Memoirs of an Alcoholic, Drug Addicted Family Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFrom That to This Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsI Thought It Was Love Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMy Journey to Becoming a Registered Nurse: My Destination to My Career Choice Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsI Healed from My Past and so Can You: Living with a Secret Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Pebble in Boulder Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Whisper from Within: My Life, My Terms Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFrom Darkness to Redemption: A Journey of Faith and Healing Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBoldness And Battlescars Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGypsy Warrior Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLife... Before and After Cerebral Palsy: We are Their Voices... Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsNo More Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Broken Survivor: A Tale about Surviving Physical, Mental, and Emotional Abuse Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Ultimate Measure - Life as I Know It Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMe Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Shopping List for Murder - Part Ii: Robyn's Story of Rebuilding Her Life After a Serious Crime Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSomewhere Under the Rainbow… Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings101 Men and Still Alone Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSolitary Refinement Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsAn Organic Guide to Living Happier & Healthier: WardBody: It's A Lifestyle Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsInner Peace is WORLD PEACE Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsYou Could Find Something Good in a Bag of Chook Shit: A Guide to Life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBreaking Shackles: The Story of the Lowly Dishwasher Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsYou CAN Beat Your Addiction!: If You're Thinkin' What I'm Thinkin' Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDreams of Sanity: A Journey of Depression and Beyond Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Life of Bad Decisions Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Gift: Sharing Experiences and Giving of Knowledge Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod Said It’S Time for Closure: A Journey Through a Little Girl’S Life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Patient’S Point of View Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsUps and Downs of Life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Personal Memoirs For You
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: An Inquiry Into Values Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Bad Mormon: A Memoir Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Child Called It: One Child's Courage to Survive Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Stolen Life: A Memoir Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Glass Castle: A Memoir Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I'm Glad My Mom Died Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression – and the Unexpected Solutions Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Dry: A Memoir Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Just Mercy: a story of justice and redemption Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5I'll Be Gone in the Dark: One Woman's Obsessive Search for the Golden State Killer Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: the heartfelt, funny memoir by a New York Times bestselling therapist Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Becoming Sister Wives: The Story of an Unconventional Marriage Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Becoming Free Indeed: My Story of Disentangling Faith from Fear Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Too Much and Never Enough: How My Family Created the World's Most Dangerous Man Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Man of Two Faces: A Memoir, A History, A Memorial Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5How to Stay Married: The Most Insane Love Story Ever Told Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5How to Be Alone: If You Want To, and Even If You Don't Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Solutions and Other Problems Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Everything I Know About Love: A Memoir Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5You Could Make This Place Beautiful: A Memoir Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Stash: My Life in Hiding Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Down the Rabbit Hole: Curious Adventures and Cautionary Tales of a Former Playboy Bunny Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5All the Beauty in the World: The Metropolitan Museum of Art and Me Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Mommie Dearest Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5The Choice: Embrace the Possible Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Pity the Reader: On Writing with Style Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Related categories
Reviews for Life Doesn't have to be a Sentence
0 ratings0 reviews
Book preview
Life Doesn't have to be a Sentence - Dara Hearold
Copyright © 2022 Dara Hearold and Brian Hearold.
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced by any means, graphic, electronic, or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, taping or by any information storage retrieval system without the written permission of the author except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical articles and reviews.
Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV® Copyright ©1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide.
Balboa Press
A Division of Hay House
1663 Liberty Drive
Bloomington, IN 47403
www.balboapress.com
844-682-1282
Because of the dynamic nature of the Internet, any web addresses or links contained in this book may have changed since publication and may no longer be valid. The views expressed in this work are solely those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of the publisher, and the publisher hereby disclaims any responsibility for them.
The author of this book does not dispense medical advice or prescribe the use of any technique as a form of treatment for physical, emotional, or medical problems without the advice of a physician, either directly or indirectly. The intent of the author is only to offer information of a general nature to help you in your quest for emotional and spiritual well-being. In the event you use any of the information in this book for yourself, which is your constitutional right, the author and the publisher assume no responsibility for your actions.
Any people depicted in stock imagery provided by Getty Images are models,
and such images are being used for illustrative purposes only.
Certain stock imagery © Getty Images.
ISBN: 979-8-7652-2993-4 (sc)
ISBN: 979-8-7652-2992-7 (hc)
ISBN: 979-8-7652-2991-0 (e)
Library of Congress Control Number: 2022911144
Balboa Press rev. date: 06/18/2024
Contents
Dedication
Introduction
Chapter 1Rehab, No, No, No
Chapter 2Life in Chaos
Chapter 3Choices
Chapter 4The Enemy of My Enemy is One Bad Dude
Chapter 5Life on The Inside
Chapter 6Life On The Outside
Chapter 7Doing Life
Chapter 8Judge Not
Chapter 9The Ripple Effect
Dedication
I dedicate this book to the family that never gave up on me through all these years. My beautiful wife who has never judged me, always sees the best in me, and supports me. She pushes me to continue to be a better person. To all people struggling to make the right choices, I see you, I believe in you, I was you. Do not give up.
Introduction
M y wife and I wrote this book because we believe I have a powerful story to share with you. I want to share my story so that you can understand the full consequences of poor choices. I made poor choices in my youth, leading to spending 23 years in prison. But I also want you to know you can always make a better choice no matter your circumstances. I am proof of this! During the time I have been out, I have worked my way into a promising career; I met the love of my life, who does not judge me and loves me unconditionally. All this would not be possible without a conscious decision to make good choices in my life. I need you to understand that you have options, and maybe by hearing my story, I will be able to impact your lives positively. I know you; I was you; I believe in you. I also think that you can make better choices and decisions, and by doing so, your lives will get so much better.
1
Rehab, No, No, No
T he drive was long; I sat in the passenger seat, listening to music, smoking my cigarettes, and smoking some weed. Not my best decision, but I did not care. My girlfriend Charlotte and I did not say much on the way, not much to say, not thinking much. Charlotte was pregnant at the time and drove me across the state to a rehab facility.
When we arrived, Charlotte hugged me tight and, through her tears, said she would see me in thirty days. I walked through the doors and checked myself into the facility. I handed them my belongings, and they searched through them and then returned most of my items except my $5 bill; they immediately took this from me while explaining I was not allowed to have money. The intake coordinator recorded my money and stored it for my stay there. They checked me into my room, and afterward, I met other residents outside where they were playing volleyball. The other residents introduced themselves to me and told me I needed a higher power; they asked me if I had one. I said, no, I do not, and the other residents kept reiterating that I needed one. Frustrated, I finally picked up a rock a said, here, this is my higher power
! I was tired and just went to my room to sleep that evening.
The following day, the breakfast was great, gigantic pancakes, and I like pancakes, so I thought that was cool, and this place is not so bad. Next, I was told to go into my assigned group for meditation, so I headed to the room with my group.
When I entered the room, a group of people stood in a circle. The staff informed me I would need to hold hands and pray; I looked around, and two men stood on each side of me. I thought to myself that I would not stand in a circle and hold hands with other people including other men. I stormed out. This was the first of many bad choices. I immediately went to the front desk and told them I was checking out; they started to say that I could not do that because they thought I