Am I...
By SJ Sherwood
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A Narcissist.
A Murderer.
Or Both?
Kieran Harrison's life is outwardly perfect. When he meets the charismatic and beautiful Serena, he believes he's met his perfect mate, unawares of the narcissism embedded in their relationship. One toxic encounter after another, slowly hooks him, bound by the sexual energy it creates. Kieran is charged with her murder and his life is put on hold. Ordered into therapy by the court, defended by a barrister he doesn't respect, and abandoned by everyone except his father, the dark edges of his personality threaten to eat him alive. In confronting the lies that surrounded his relationship three questions haunt him as his court date looms. Is he a narcissist, a murderer, or both? The answer threatens to tear him apart as he realises nobody's who they seem in this tale of deceit around a woman he believed he loved.
Am I... Is a modern-day thriller that will have you sitting on the edge of your seat until the last page.
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Am I... - SJ Sherwood
AM I…
By SJ Sherwood
Published by Blue Ned Ltd.
27 Mortimer Street, London, W1T 3BL
First published in the United Kingdom in 2023.
Copyright © SJ Sherwood, 2023.
SJ Sherwood has asserted his right under the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 to be identified as the author of this work.
This book is the work of fiction and, except in the case of historical fact, any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead is purely coincidental.
A CIP catalogue record for this book is available from the British Library.
ISBN 978-1-9997929-8-5
All rights reserved. This book or any portion thereof may not be reproduced or used in any manner whatsoever without the express written permission of the publisher except for the use of brief quotations in a book review.
For Caesar and Laelia.
Thank you for changing our lives.
Contents
Chapter 1
Chapter 2
Chapter 3
Chapter 4
Chapter 5
Chapter 6
Chapter 7
Chapter 8
Chapter 9
Chapter 10
Chapter 11
Chapter 12
Chapter 13
Chapter 14
Chapter 15
Chapter 16
Chapter 17
Chapter 18
Chapter 19
Chapter 20
Chapter 21
Chapter 22
Chapter 23
Chapter 24
October
Chapter 25
Chapter 26
Chapter 27
Chapter 28
Chapter 29
Chapter 30
Chapter 31
Chapter 32
Chapter 33
Chapter 34
Chapter 35
Chapter 36
Chapter 37
Chapter 38
Chapter 39
Chapter 40
Chapter 41
Chapter 42
Chapter 43
Chapter 44
Chapter 45
Chapter 46
Chapter 47
Chapter 48
Chapter 49
Chapter 50
Chapter 51
Chapter 52
Chapter 53
Chapter 54
Chapter 55
About the Author
Chapter 1
I know a snake in the grass when I see one.
There’s one sitting opposite me pretending to be my friend.
‘Do you know what a betrayal bond
is, Kieran?’
I shake my head, letting my attention drift back into the session. ‘Nope, but it sounds painful.’
Edward Carrington-Smythe Jr II smiles one of those fake smiles that make babies cry.
‘Let’s rephrase it, shall we?’
‘You can rephrase it how you like. I’m not paying for your time.’
Ted—as he likes to be called—smiles again, and I recall how I belly-laughed when I first saw his name engraved on the nameplate on the door of his practice. I have continued my internal snipes each time we meet. It’s the only refuse I have against these sessions that I’m terrified will define the rest of my life.
‘A betrayal bond
is often referred to as a trauma bond
. Betrayal
is a more accurate description of what is psychologically happening. Are you familiar with the second term?’
I have a good idea of what he’s looking to prize out of me as I suppress the urge to smartarse my way out of his question—my usual default when my back is against the wall.
Instead, I smile and shrug and shake my head.
‘An indication that someone is trauma bonded
is if they repeatedly enter into volatile relationships and then find it difficult to leave, especially when there are clear abusive interactions. Does this sound familiar?’
I’m deeply tempted to give him the two-finger salute as I leave the room and never return.
But I don’t.
Because I can’t.
The law is all on his side, not mine. So I do my best to think about his question in an honest way, fighting against my secondary thought that I would have been better off with a woman therapist. Or at least a man who was closer to my age.
‘No… and if you're meaning Stockholm syndrome
, then perhaps you should be sat here, and I should be sat there.’
He smiles again.
It drips with fake friendship.
‘Stockholm syndrome
is a good connection. Let’s stay with that thought if you don’t mind?’
‘To be honest, I do mind. No disrespect to your profession, but you're way off. Because unless I missed it, I've never been taken hostage by a terrorist organisation, which means I definitely couldn't have fallen in love with one of my captors, assuming one of them was a woman. And I'd like to point out that I'm not gay or bisexual, not that it would matter to me if I were; it's just not how I'm wired, and seeing as you keep digging into this shit, I thought I’d set it straight. No pun intended.’
I smile and sigh slightly, checking the time and seeing I have twenty-three minutes of this headache left.
‘How are you wired, Kieran?
‘Brown to live, blue to neutral. It’s working fine.’
‘Which means what to you?’ he says, sounding like an algorithm waiting for a predefined answer.
‘That I consider myself a balanced individual with sound rational judgements.’
‘So you don’t see yourself as someone who overreacts or is led by their emotions?’
‘It's what I said, right?’
He smiles and makes a note on his pad, ink smudged on his second finger and thumb.
‘I'd like to go back to your comment in the previous session when you said that you think people are jealous
of you.’
‘I don’t think I said that?’
He flips back a couple of pages in his notepad.
‘You said you encounter a lot of jealousy as one of the youngest CEOs in your chosen profession. People are surprised to find out your true age.’
‘Then I wasn’t being clear. What I had meant to say is that I'm often judged like I had it easy, like I was handed it on a plate. Excluding some luck, I’ve worked hard for what I've got, and I do encounter jealousy because of it.’
‘So you’re competitive?’
It’s a repeated line of questioning that stinks of a trap. I’ve already fallen into the jealousy snare, so I dwell on his strategy, letting my barrister’s advice smoulder through me.
‘Competition is for losers.’
He frowns, unsure, waiting for me to continue.
‘I’m competitive with myself, not others, and I try and focus on what I’m unique at. It’s something I got from my dad. It’s much better for your mental health, and it’s why I’m successful at what I do.’
I can see he doesn’t believe me, but I’m not a professional sportsman, and I’ve learnt that sometimes, the more you compete with those around you, the less you get.
‘Did your friends like her?’ He says.
‘Hell, yeah! They thought she was perfect. I mean, she was, or at the time, I thought she was!’
‘You met on social media?’
It’s another question I’ve answered a hundred times.
To him.
To the Police.
To everyone.
Serena and I connected on Tinder and chatted through the App, but it then fell away, like so many of those fleeting conversations. I didn’t give it a second thought, moving on to the next match. A fortnight later, I was at a conference in Bath where I was giving the keynote. There she was, sitting in the third aisle, centre row, smiling that sexy, inviting smile. It came at me full wattage, and I felt like I’d been hit by a brick, almost wrong-footing my presentation.
Later, we caught up and chatted at the bar, pretending like the Tinder thing had never happened, enjoying the chance encounter. That night, I tried to find her Tinder profile again, but it had been deleted, or at least I couldn’t find it. I couldn’t find her on Facebook, which, at the time, I thought was weird, but then again, people delete their accounts all the time. When we did manage to go for dinner a few weeks later, Tinder came up, but she was quick to dismiss it, like it was somehow beneath her, and social media, in general, was something that haphazardly got stuck to the bottom of her shoe.
It was the first of many lies.
Social media was her haven.
A stomping ground she owned.
LavishLondonLashes had five hundred thousand followers at the time and was growing by the day.
Serena was genetically blessed with the thickest and longest lashes I had ever seen, parked under perfectly framed eyebrows, lit by ice-grey eyes. Her Instagram account was her growing business empire. An influencer on the rise who was rapidly monetising as she learnt to work the angles.
A star in the making.
‘Would you call your relationship with Serena on-and-off
at the beginning?’
‘We dated a few times, and then she'd disappear and reappear, but it’s not my definition of on-and-off
. It wasn’t like we argued or fell out. We both had busy lives, so it was... you know... convenient. It worked. It was adult. Casual at the beginning.’
‘But it’s fair to say that it kept you intrigued?’
I think about his question and its implications for my future.
‘She was great fun. Sexy. We were each other’s shiny new toy if you know what I mean.’
‘Did you date in between?’
‘In-between what?’
‘Seeing her.’
I chew on his question.
‘It wasn’t like we’d declared our undying love for each other. We didn’t have kids and a mortgage and a dog and credit card debt. But no. I didn’t date in-between.’
‘Did she?’
‘Did she what?’
‘Think that the relationship between you was exclusive?’
I let his question dance in the air because my problem with Teddy-Boy is simple. He’s in his early sixties, and we are worlds apart in how we view relationships, even if he did once take psychedelics and dance naked at festivals back in the day. So how do I explain fucking on Tinder to a dinosaur without convicting myself in the process?
‘I didn’t ask her, and she never mentioned it.’
‘Is it fair to say that the disappearing and re-appearing intrigued you, even excited you?’
‘Can't say I gave it much thought.’
‘The high arousals of an intense relationship, especially at the beginning, followed by low-to-non-existent intimacy, can create a sense of danger, even fear. This kind of interaction can make healthy relationships
boring by comparison. It’s an addictive emotional cocktail that can have devastating impacts within a relationship.’
‘Ted, we had some ups-and-downs, which you know about, and she could be a livewire. But I want us to be clear. I didn't kill her.’
Chapter 2
I hang up from a call with a client, one that I shouldn’t have taken, glancing at the time on my laptop.
Fifty-three minutes to finish off and get out of here and over to my next meeting.
Tight.
Doable.
I start to edit the final slide on my deck when the door to my office opens. It’s Abbie, our team secretary. I wave her away, but she ignores me, stepping past the threshold of my office as if I had beckoned her in and not out. She’s young and trendy and always smiling, as well as stubborn and wholly entitled.
I like her.
She’s fun and witty.
She also has a first-class degree from Manchester in economics and should be doing something better with herself than running around after us. I make a mental note to discuss her career and see if she’d be interested in becoming an account director. It has to be better than making tea and taking calls.
‘There’s a woman at reception to see you. Says she has a four-thirty with you today. It’s been in the diary for two months, apparently! The Leaf-Project. Something to do with Indonesia.’
I frown: ‘Leaf-Project? Indonesia?’
Abbie shrugs.
I switch screens and bring up my calendar.
‘It’s not there,’ Abbie says. ‘I’ve checked.’
‘She’s here, now?’
‘In reception.’
‘You’ll have to apologise profusely and rearrange for next week. I need to finish this and get out of here.’
Abbie turns to leave when I call out.
‘What did you say her name was?’
‘I didn’t. But it’s Scarlet Jackson from ZBA Environmental Research Institute. They don’t come up on Google. Says she met you at the Awareness Conference in Bath.’
‘Does she have brunette hair, tallish?’
Abbie smiles, and it’s a touch familiar, but I guess I asked for it.
She nods.
I check the time again and sigh, more to myself than Abbie.
‘Send her in.’
I glance at my presentation, irritated, more at myself for leaving it so late, but buoyed by the sudden stabs of excitement that attack my emotions.
I shut the lid of my laptop, staring through the glass that divides my office from the open-planned space beyond. I concentrate towards the reception, swelling with pride as Scarlet Jackson, aka Serena Brown, glides around the first desk that separates our main floor space from the reception area.
It’s twenty-seven degrees outside, and Serena is wearing a tight-fitting dark-blue dress, more suited for a club than walking the streets in a heatwave. Her hair is in a ponytail, braided to an arrow and glows under the spotlights above. She’s wearing white scuffed Nike’s. As she
follows Abbie, she swings her hips, legs moving in front of her with the poise and strength of Lipizzaner Stallion. The whole motion is subtle enough not to be obvious but striking enough to glue your attention.
I watch on myopic, sensing a quietness descend through the office as her presence suffocates the natural hubbub.
Our Finance Director, who is sitting in the office next to me, throws me a lucky-bastard smirk as I stand to greet Serena, who glides into my office with a surge of energy that threatens to swallow me and Abbie whole.
‘It’s true!’ Serena says with a cock-sure grin that delicately creases her flawless skin.
‘What’s true?’
‘That you’re a CEO with a view of Green Park. I stand humbled. I bow before you.’
‘You checking me out?’
‘Don’t be silly. You wouldn’t lie to me; it’s not in you.’
Abbie steps out of my office, smirking behind her eyes. I can’t decide if Serena’s poking fun at me or just playing—but then I never can. She has this knack of catching people off guard, which I both distrust and like in equal measures.
‘The Leaf-Project! Sneaky!’
‘Thinking on my feet.’
‘Is this a surprise visit, or are we in this part of town?’
‘I have a meeting around the corner, and when I stepped out of the taxi and saw that I was early, I thought, well, I can go for a coffee, or I can come here and check on my gorgeous man.’
She leans in, smelling of lilac and pine, and kisses me on the cheek, wiping the residue of lipstick from the side of my face.
‘Oops,’ she giggles. ‘I wouldn’t want to get you into trouble.’
‘That’s hard, seeing as I’m the boss.’
‘Only here, darling,’ she says with a wink.
I smile.
‘Do you have time for a coffee?’ she says, her long eyelashes fluffing in front of me.
‘As wonderful as it is to have you here, I do have an important meeting in fifty minutes. I should be finished at six-thirty. Seven, latest. When will you be done? We could get something to eat afterwards if you’re free?’
‘Would love to, honey, but I’ve planned dinner with my colleague.’
I half wait for the rest of the sentence, but it doesn’t come, and I suddenly view how she’s dressed in a different light.
A club.
A night out.
A colleague.
A male.
She steps to my window to admire the view of Green Park, and a jealous rage smashes through me. We’ve been dating for six weeks, and we both have opposite-sex friends who aren’t intimate. The last thing I want to do is come across as the possessive, controlling type, which I’m not and never have been, but she has a way of pushing those buttons within me.
‘I’m assuming we’re still good for Friday?’
‘Are you really that busy that you can’t spend ten minutes with me?’
I knew before I opened my mouth she wasn’t going to answer my question about Friday.
My jealousy antenna flicked again.
‘We’ve been on this one for nearly eight months and are at the sharp end of the deal. I need to kick you out. I’m sorry.’
‘Don’t be silly, it’s me that’s sorry. I should have called. You can at least spare two minutes for the abridged tour of the office as you push me out the door?’
‘I can.’
I open my office door and lead the way. Our office space is small, with only forty employees, and the building itself is thin and narrow, having recently undergone a refurbishment before we took the lease. We share the floor with four other start-ups. The open design and frosted sections give a spacious atmosphere despite the odd dimensions from a 1750s original build.
We walk past finance and marketing and then IT.
Serena pops her head into one of our break-out rooms and comments on the space. Our head of account management stops to introduce herself, and I prickle with embarrassment as I get caught between saying a ‘good friend’ rather than my ‘girlfriend’. It makes me question what we represent to each other apart from being sexually compatible in a way that I’ve never experienced before.
Conscious that the minutes are counting down, I border on frog-marching Serena towards the main elevators.
We chat.
The small talk, a touch strained, like it’s a first date. I’m struggling to take my eyes off her dress, which hugs her figure in a way that drives me crazy.
‘You look good in a white shirt,’ she says. ‘You should wear one the next time we climb into bed.’
‘Hopefully, that’ll be Friday.’
She doesn’t comment on our pending date, and I want to kick myself for showing my insecurity.
The lift pings open, and it saves me from myself. I seem to have developed into that person who can’t believe his luck at dating the prettiest girl in his group.
‘Oh… sorry, do you have a toilet I can use? Sorry, sorry, I know you’re pushed.’
‘Sure, there’s one down here.’
I guide her to my right, and we walk toward the bathrooms. As I approach, I see the office caretaker put a sign outside.
Out of Order.
I huff, irritated.
‘We have one in our office. I’ll have to get Abbie to see you out if that’s okay?’
‘Didn’t I walk past a disabled toilet on my way in? I’m sure that’s closer?’
I have to think for a second, but she’s right. There’s one on the other side of the corridor, away from our reception area but closer to this point.
‘Sorry,’ she says, smiling.
It’s sexy.
Naughty.
Controlling.
‘It’s okay. This way.’
We walk on when I get this tightness inside, like she’s toying with me. She’s walking slower. She doesn’t really need the toilet. She wants to start another conversation.
I say my goodbyes and mumble that I’ll call her later when she steps in close. The surprise and speed of movement are enough to nudge me backwards. I stumble backwards into the toilet, helped by the kiss she plants on my lips to help me on my way. The lights flicker on, and she locks the door behind her, leaving her lips on my mouth.
Were we seen is all I can think.
It could cost me everything I have worked years to achieve and some.
But it doesn’t stop me.
I don’t want to.
I’m lost to a new lust I’ve recently discovered, grateful, somehow, that I’m the beneficiary of this moment and not somebody else.
My Friday night has come early.
I grab for the hem of her dress as my career shoots through my mind.
I blank the thought, rocked by a deeper sense that I’m crossing more than a professional line as my hand slips inside her pants, and a groan drowns my fears.
Chapter 3
I leave Teddy-Boy’s Practice and head for the station as my anger gyrates from peaks of rage to lows of self-pity. It’s an internal rollercoaster I’m struggling to contain. The more I scratch at this mess, the more confused I become and the more desperate I feel. And despite Teddy’s so-called impartial stance, his inquisition into my personal life is more prosecution-led than he’s letting on.
It’s a situation I’ll discuss with my barrister when we next speak.
I walk on, having secretly hoped these sessions would throw some light on how I got sucked into this maelstrom. They haven't, and I’m beginning to doubt that they ever will. I’m growing more convinced that his nit-picking is an underlying jealousy towards who I am and my lifestyle in general. I’m sure he’d tell me I’m suffering from Transference Neurosis or some other Freudian bullshit, but I’ve seen that green-eyed trait enough times in my short career to recognise it a mile off. Inadvertently, he has taught me my biggest danger is myself. I’ve become self-obsessed, where I’m the centre of a circular conversation about my predicament and my pending doom.
I need to stop.
To stop fretting about my defensive shows with Teddy, trusting that the old fool is wise enough to see through my fragile ego and give a fair assessment of who I am. He doesn’t have to like me. He just has to see the truth. If he can’t, or won’t, then that’s why I have an expensive barrister to do my barking and to tell the world I’m a normal Joe who’s drowning in a shit-swamp of someone else’s making.
Wrong place.
Wrong time.
I have to keep this at the forefront of my mind, or I’m going to sink to the bottom of the sea like thousands of others before me.
I enter the station, realising I had unintentionally lied to Teddy-Boy.
I don’t ever recall asking my inner circle if they liked Serena or not. I assumed they did. What wasn’t there to like about her had been my default thinking. She was fun, gregarious, and had a knack for remembering everything you ever said. She had this gift of being present, never distracted by others or her own thoughts, even if you bored her. It was a mesmeric, easy charm. Unique in our distracted world. I would buzz with excitement when we were out together and she turned heads, which inflated mine. I’m not going to apologise for the adrenaline rush I got from her being on my arm.
Our finance director at Eco-Blue drooled over her if we ever went for team drinks and Serena joined. She would playfully flirt with him. He took it well, and he liked her. They got on. My best mate, Daniel King, thought we were a great match, and he wished us luck. Hatti, his wife-to-be, wasn’t a Serena fan, but then other women weren’t, from what I could tell. They were scared Serena was going to steal their man, but she wasn’t like that. She was proud of her sexuality and saw female jealousy as part and parcel of life’s negotiations. An unavoidable Tax. From what I could tell, those eyelashes pissed off every woman she ever met.
Teddy-Boy’s right about the excitement Serena generated within me. He knows I’m lying to him. At the beginning of my relationship with Serena, I was never sure if we were dating or not, and it kept me on my toes. I was busy with work and life, so it didn’t overly matter. I would sometimes stop to think about where she was and what she was up to. She did have this knack of when I thought she'd left my life for good, butterflying back into my sphere with plausible excuses of business deadlines and dramas at work, bamboozling me with attention and compliments.
We’d go out and eat gourmet, guzzle champagne, followed by intense sex. Combined, it nulled my lingering doubts about commitments and our future together. All of which I’m struggling to articulate to Teddy-Boy.
I sense he’s secretly scoffing at the casualness of online dating. He thinks I’m a player. I’m not. He doesn’t seem to get that people lie about who they are and what they do. Photoshopped pictures dot every page. The whole process is a hit-and-miss lottery of avoiding the desperate and the unbalanced. It’s all underpinned by a swathe of unwritten rules that you need to learn the hard way. It sounds cheap when you begin to articulate them, and so what if you sleep with a few people you don’t like to get your needs met? And if churn is your game, then dating apps give you that choice.
I don’t care about Teddy, but I do care about the jury.
Nobody seems to believe me that I met Serena at the Awareness Conference. It’s true, as was her Tinder Profile. The reason I remember her Tinder Profile so vividly is the picture she used. She was dressed in a flimsy summery dress at what I assumed was a pool party in the Med. She was holding a glass of champagne, sunglasses delicately balanced across her head. She had a fresh, honey-coloured tan, a sulky smile and a twinkle in her eye, which suggested so much more, and one I can vouch she delivered on.
Then there were those lashes and eyes.
I remember swiping right and thinking this girl is going to be hit on by everyone whose profile she matches. It even crossed my mind that she was too good for me, and I was embarrassed at my lack of self-respect. It’s why when we did match and initially chat, it struck a deep chord.
One I will never forget.
Our first date was at a hotel bar near Piccadilly. I’m never late, but she beat me at my own game. I’d have bet serious money she was going to play the fashionable ten-minute late rule. Instead, there she was, waiting at the long bar with a bottle of champagne on ice and an empty seat beside her. I can still recall that surge of adrenaline at seeing the bar stool, knowing it had my name rubber-stamped across it. I was struck, too, at how different she looked from the conference. Shortly after, she invited me to a Japanese-themed party to celebrate a marketing deal she’d been involved in. Serena showed up as