Glad You Asked!: Answers to 28 Tough Questions Teens Are Asking About God and the Bible (That Adults Need to Know, Too!)
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"Youth care! Don't let anyone deceive you into thinking they're not interested in spiritual things - they want something real, direct, honest, and relevant to the world they live in...the questions in this book reveal some of the issues they are struggling with, and our answers show how the Bible directly addresses these issues." -Carl
Reasons for Hope
Reasons for Hope is a ministry dedicated to presenting, proclaiming, and defending the biblical worldview (apologetics) through bold public speaking, educational and entertaining videos, print resources, and online education. Launched in 2011 by Carl Kerby, our mission is to train and equip a new generation to stand boldly on the Word of God.
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Reviews for Glad You Asked!
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5This review includes a brief scan and not a full reading of the book (no audiobook available at the time of the review).
PROS
+ Great defense of the Gospel and of the most urgent questions of young people (How did the world and everything on it come into being; Why does our Lord allow suffering; Does He always heal and why not; Why can’t evil be stopped? ...).
+ Great defense of the 6x 24 hour-creation week and their case against Theistic Evolution. Quote: "First, is there any evidence that suggests that dinosaurs and man inhabited the Earth at the same time? YES."
+ A great format with precise questions, short but very informative and well-investigated answers, and good summaries ending short chapters.
+ Good to see interracial marriages being promoted; shocking to hear about churches actually having their own bylaws forbidding this and enforcing it through 'deacons who scan' their congregation ...
+ As far as I could see a very biblical defense, especially when it comes to the hot topics of abortion and sexuality.
+ No endorsement of a particular denomination noted.
+ Use of NKJV, ESV and NASB Bible.
CONS
- No mention in the book of the Greek Old Testament / Septuagint, although it deals with the transmission of Scripture. It is very important to point out that the -entire- Bible was for 5-6 centuries predominantly read in Greek, both the OT and NT. Many of the contradictions / supposed errors / contradictions mentioned in this book exist only because the RCC fed us in 405 AD with a new 'original' Bible.
- The authors state that creation is 6000 years old, which is at odds with the Greek Old Testament. We know today that our Masoretic texts had been manipulated in less than 1% of the text, and we should reflect this knowledge of the ~5554 BC creation date (which is also less a stumbling block for unbelievers).
- They argue for a young earth, which does not accurately reflect Gen 1:1-2. We can have an older earth (the foundation of the core and water covering it) without implying any evolution or created beings / nature. The earth is older than 8000 years. It could be 8001 years, or 8000 million years old. We don't know. Important is the fact that the earth was there and that it was flooded, that there was no human nor animal life before Adam, and that creation as we know it came to be ~7600 years ago. Old earth, young creation.
- Several endorsements of the highly problematic teacher Norman Geisler, who teaches Big Bang and Theistic Evolution, which is fundamentally contradicting this book (he is also a Calvinist / soft Catholic; defense of Jesuits as Christians; friends with Andy Stanley ...).
Geisler goes as far as to actively oppose what this book teaches - quote from his book: "Intelligent Design is not Creation Science either, ID scientists don't make claims that so-called Creation scientists make. They don't say that the data unambiguously supports the 6x 24-hour day view of Genesis or a worldwide flood; instead they acknowledge that the data for ID is not based on a specific age or geologic history of the earth."
- 2 Quotations from C.S. Lewis (believed in purgatory; Tao is the highest morality; rejected biblical inerrancy; theistic evolutionist; considered Hindu, Buddhist and Muslims as brothers in Christ).
- Endorsement of the MacArthur Study Bible, John Piper and Joni Eareckson Tada (all Calvinists).
Book preview
Glad You Asked! - Reasons for Hope
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
Carl Kerby
This book fulfills a ministry dream that dates back to January 8, 2011, when Reasons for Hope started. From the beginning, our heart has been to reach a younger generation and encourage adults in their faith. When we initiated this project, we really had no idea where it would go—we just knew we had to do it. Let me begin by thanking key supporters who pushed us to go after the issues addressed within these pages.
When you read studies about why the younger generation doesn’t trust the Word of God and why so many end up walking away from their faith, the statistics always involve questions that were never answered or inadequate answers to those questions. This being the case, we took the approach that we did: We asked teens what issues posed the most significant questions or doubts about their faith, and we addressed them deeply enough to provide the substance needed but lightly
sufficient to keep their attention.
I have to give a huge shout-out to Hannah Dukes, Holly Varnum, Juan Valdes, Bub Kuns, and Ben Cole. These folks did the heavy lifting for this project and pulled it off. I’d also like to thank our printer, The Copy Center Plus, as they have been so gracious to us and pulled out all the stops to make the printing of this book happen quickly.
Lastly, and most importantly, we must thank the Lord Jesus Christ for putting this eclectic team together and giving us the desire to pursue things that aren’t so comfortable sometimes. Some of these questions are tough, and there really isn’t an easy answer to them. We’ve done our best and will leave the rest to the Holy Spirit. Please, come quickly, Lord Jesus!
The REAL Reason
for Our Hope
The Bible teaches that God created everything and called His creation very good. He created man in His image, then He made a woman from the man, and the man, Adam, named her Eve. God gave them dominion over all creation, and He also gave them free choice (Genesis 1 & 2).
Man and woman were in perfect paradise, naked and unashamed, with only one restriction—they were commanded not to eat from a specific tree in a garden where God had placed them. God warned them that if they disobeyed Him, it would be sin, and death would follow (Genesis 2:17). Tempted by Satan through the form of a serpent, Eve ate from the forbidden tree, then gave the fruit to Adam. He ate it, too. At that moment, mankind had sinned against God. A holy God must deal justly with sin, so He did (Genesis 3). Because man had dominion over all God created, the entire universe was cursed, meaning we all now live in a corrupt and fallen world full of death, suffering, pain, evil, tears, and toil. The sin nature had entered reality.
Since then, we have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23), and the consequences are terrifying. Dead in our trespasses, we are all doomed to eternal destruction away from the presence of the Lord and from the glory of His might (Romans 6:23). There is nothing—not one thing—you or I can do to save ourselves. BUT HERE’S THE GOOD NEWS—here’s the GOSPEL: God loves us so much that He sent His one and only Son to rescue us (John 3:16)—Jesus, Emmanuel, God with us—fully God and fully man, born of a virgin, conceived by the Holy Spirit.
Jesus lived a perfect and sinless life, which makes Him uniquely qualified to pay for our sins and rescue us from God’s wrath. Not only did He step down into humanity, but He was executed on a cross in our place. He was pierced for our sins and crushed for our rebellion. Upon Him was our punishment, and by His wounds, we are healed (Isaiah 53:3–6). Amazing love … amazing grace. But that’s not all. Jesus, after being placed in a tomb for three days, was resurrected, thus conquering the last enemy—death. So powerful is the work and name of Jesus that whoever believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life (1 John 4:10).
So wonderful is His mercy and grace that all who call upon His name, confess with their mouths, and believe in their hearts that He was raised from the dead shall be saved (Romans 10:9). And the one whom Jesus saves is no longer condemned (Romans 8:1) but is completely set free and will dwell in the unimaginable new heavens and new earth with Jesus and His co-heirs forever (Revelation 21:1–3). There will be no more pain, no more sin, no more suffering, no more death, no more evil, and no more tears or toil. Why? Because Christ Himself will make all things new (Revelation 21:4,5). This is the full gospel and the most important message you’ll ever hear.
WELCOME TO THE BATTLE!
We may not like to admit it, but yes, we are in a spiritual battle, and it can feel overwhelming! In this battle, since it’s often the younger generation facing the heaviest attack, we decided to emphasize reaching youth and equipping parents. At Reasons for Hope, our marching orders are: To train and equip the next generation to stand boldly on the Word of God!
This book is one of the ways we can accomplish that. It is a compilation of the most-asked questions given to all our speakers combined, and each one of these questions actually came from a teen or a youth in their 20s. One vitally important lesson we have learned is that instead of telling the youth what the issues are, we have to let them tell us!
To find out what’s really running through their minds on day one of a camp week, we hand out index cards to the attendees and tell them: Write down the questions that are keeping you from selling out for the Lord Jesus Christ because THAT’S what we’ll be addressing while we’re with you.
Trust me when I tell you that IT WORKS! The first time I did this, the camp directors were VERY skeptical. They had scheduled me to speak once in the morning and once in the evening every day. I asked them for additional speaking times, and they told me that it just wouldn’t work because they had free time
in the afternoon so the kids could enjoy the ziplining, boating, disc golfing, etc.–all the fun
stuff!
I told them we could make it a voluntary session, and whoever came, came! I didn’t care if only one student showed up, I’d give that one everything I had. If no one showed up, so be it! Well, guess what? Over two-thirds of the youth came to the voluntary session at that camp!
The results have been the same every time I’ve done this since. YOUTH CARE! Don’t let anyone deceive you into thinking that the younger generation isn’t interested in spiritual things. They’re VERY interested, but you better bring your A
game if you want to reach them.
The bottom line is that today’s youth think differently than they used to, even ten years ago. They want something real, direct, honest, and relevant to their world. I recently read a perfect example of why youth are walking away from Christianity in a secular book entitled iGen: Why Today’s Super-Connected Kids Are Growing Up Less Rebellious, More Tolerant, Less Happy–and Completely Unprepared for Adulthood and What That Means for the Rest of Us. I know, a long title, but fantastic information if you want to reach today’s youth. Jean Twinge, the author, on page 13 of her book, states that ... many young people feel a disconnect between their church and what they experience outside of it, including science, pop culture, and sexuality. For example, half of 13- to 17-year-olds want to pursue a science-related career. Yet only 1% of youth pastors say they have addressed any science-related subject in the last year.
There’s MUCH MORE evidence that backs this up as well.
The questions we’ve included in this book reveal some of the issues that youth are struggling with, and to reach this generation, we must be able to show how the Bible directly addresses these issues. Teaching this younger generation critical thinking and a biblical worldview needs to become our number one priority after preaching the Gospel!
Reasons for Hope has been blessed over the years to compile an amazing team of teachers/speakers, and this has been a team project for us. We even brought in some outside experts to get the best responses possible. The book of Proverbs tells us there is wisdom in godly counsel, and I greatly appreciate everyone who has made this book a reality. As a young Christian, I would have loved to have a book like this addressing the issues with which I was struggling. Thus, I’m thrilled that we can now put this in the hands of the youth, parents, teachers, pastors, and anyone who loves and cares about the young people in their lives.
Note to parents: YOU CAN DO THIS! You need to study these things and have answers for your children. We desire that these resources will make you a hero to your children. Please download our app: just go to your App Store and search for Reasons for Hope.
Look for the blue asterisk *
after the title. There are MANY more resources there for you to use FREE OF CHARGE! May God richly bless and keep you. Let us know how we can serve you, and most importantly, Stay Bold!
Writers/Editors
Carl Kerby
Juan Valdes
Managing Editor
Holly Varnum
Copy Editors/Proofreaders
Holly Varnum
Hannah Dukes
Contributing writers:
Hannah Dukes
Frank Figueroa
Dave Glander
Marc Jacobs
Bub Kuns
Dan Lietha
Candace Nordine
Dr. David Ross
Brian Scoggin
Illustrator
Dan Lietha
Chapter 1
DID JESUS COMMIT SUICIDE?
ISN’T THAT A SIN?
Original question: If suicide is a sin, didn’t Jesus commit suicide on the cross?
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Juan Valdes
Since the Bible clearly teaches that Jesus voluntarily chose to die, the obvious question arises: Did Jesus commit suicide or not? While natural death can result from an accident, an illness, a crime, or old age, suicide is different. A person who dies in an accident does not choose to die; death surprises them. A person who passes away from an illness or old age usually does not desire death. Those who died due to a crime did not choose to die that day. Unlike the other forms of death, where the person did not choose to die, suicide is a deliberate choice to end one’s life.
How one responds to the question above, therefore, has the potential to unearth serious theological inconsistencies. If Jesus’ death is considered suicide, it can no longer be said that Jesus was sinless … and it’s all downhill from there. Therefore, this question merits serious consideration. The short answer to the question is that the death of Jesus on the cross was not death by suicide; thus, Jesus did not sin, but that response needs to be clarified.
WHAT IS THE SIN OF SUICIDE?
Clearly defining our terms is of utmost importance if one is to judge whether the death of Jesus qualifies as suicide or not. Although it seems obvious that suicide means killing oneself purposefully, it is essential to consider a more formal definition. The CDC defines suicide as death caused by injuring oneself with the intent to die.
² It is also important to note that most of the time, people who commit suicide do so because they are under tremendous stress.³ There is a connection between desiring to end one’s own life and feelings of desperation, depression, hopelessness, etc. Are these feelings sinful?
While the emotions that lead to suicide are not necessarily sinful, the Bible clarifies that taking one’s own life is a grave sin. The sixth commandment states, You shall not murder
(Exodus 20:13, NKJV). It seems rather apparent that it implies not murdering ourselves either. Paul makes the connection even more evident when he relates this and the other mandates with Jesus’ teachings, concluding that they are …all summed up in this saying…, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself’
(Romans 13:9, NKJV). The assumption is that one does not engage in harmful behavior against oneself and should treat their neighbor likewise. The gravity of the sin of suicide is that man is an image bearer of God; thus, murder (including self-murder) is the taking of a life made in the image of God (Genesis 9:5–6). So, did Jesus commit the grave sin of suicide?
WAS HIS DEATH ON THE CROSS A SUICIDE?
No. Jesus did not injure himself with the intent to die,
as defined above. This is clear for at least three reasons.
First, the injuries He suffered were not self-inflicted. The Romans were the ones who beat and crucified Him.
Second, Jesus did not desire to die, a fact made evident by His request, O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will
(Matthew 26:39, NKJV).
Third, Jesus was not depressed and hopeless, but quite the contrary. Humanity was desperate, and Jesus was giving us a reason for hope.
The question then arises, didn’t Jesus say that He laid down His own life and that no one took it from Him? The passage in question is from John 10, where He states, I lay down My life that I may take it again. No one takes it from Me, but I lay it down of Myself…
(John 10:17–18, NKJV). It is important to remember that verses must always be taken in context. Always. This entire chapter has Jesus referring to Himself as a shepherd. He speaks of Himself as the true shepherd in the first paragraph and then as the good shepherd in the immediate context of the verses in question. Most importantly, He is contrasting the good shepherd
(Himself) and the hireling.
Notice the contrast.
I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd gives His life for the sheep. But a hireling, he who is not the shepherd, one who does not own the sheep, sees the wolf coming and leaves the sheep and flees; and the wolf catches the sheep and scatters them. The hireling flees because he is a hireling and does not care about the sheep (John 10:11–13, NKJV, emphasis added).
What Jesus is emphasizing in verse 11 and again in verse 15 is that "I lay down My life for the sheep. His death was not a suicide but a sacrifice. Jesus’ death was analogous to a soldier in combat who heroically gives his life to save the lives of other soldiers. Christ demonstrated the greatest love of all by being willing to die to save the lives of His sheep. Just a few chapters later, He says,
Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends" (John 15:13, NKJV). And yet, an even more important question arises from this one.
WHY DID JESUS HAVE TO
DIE IN THE FIRST PLACE?
Jesus did not have to die. The Bible is clear that Jesus voluntarily chose to die. Jesus could have chosen not to die, in which case humanity would be lost in sin and separated from God forever. Jesus chose to die because we had accrued a debt to God that we could not pay. God’s perfect justice demands that all transgressions receive just punishment.
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Jesus’ death was analogous to a soldier in combat who heroically gives his life to save the lives of other soldiers.
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The punishment for man’s transgression—his sinful aggression against God—is death. Jesus chose to die on our behalf because He loves us and does not want anyone to pay the ultimate price of death for their sins (Romans 3:23; 6:23).
By choosing to die on our behalf, Jesus chose to pay the debt for our transgressions in full (Colossians 2:14, NKJV). But some may ask, Couldn’t God have saved man without Jesus having to die such a horrible death?
COULDN’ T IT HAVE BEEN
DONE ANOTHER WAY?
From our limited perspective, it is foolish to question the wisdom of God’s plan for redemption. Furthermore, it seems rather arrogant for man to believe he can produce a better plan
or a better alternative
to God’s plan. In His omniscience (the state or quality of knowing all things), God will always choose the best possible course of action in any given circumstance to accomplish His perfect will. Had there been a better way–a way that would have kept Christ off the cross–we can be sure God would have chosen it.
A quick survey of the two most common alternatives that have been proposed highlights the sharp contrast between man’s foolishness and God’s wisdom.
Some have argued that God could have created man without the option to sin, rendering Jesus’ death unnecessary. While this sounds good, careful consideration reveals the folly. God created man perfectly. Part of what makes us perfect is that God created us as free beings; we are not robots. If God created us without freedom, that would not have been good; it would have been evil. While our freedom makes sin possible, it doesn’t make it necessary. We choose to exploit our freedom when we sin. Nevertheless, God’s plan accounted for our abuse of freedom and included a plan for redeeming man from his fallen state.
Others propose that God could have chosen to forgive everyone. This way, Jesus didn’t have to die on the cross, and everyone would go to Heaven. Once again, that sounds great, but upon closer consideration, it doesn’t work either.
First, when man freely disobeys God and is unrepentant, forgiveness and restoration are impossible (2 Corinthians 7:9,10).
Second, the idea suggests that God is unwilling to forgive some people. This is not true! God’s salvation and forgiveness are available to ALL who repent and believe (John 3:16–17, NKJV), but no one is forced to believe or accept it.
Furthermore, the idea of everyone going to Heaven violates man’s free will—many do not want to go to Heaven. For those who freely reject God and affirm that they want nothing to do with Him, being forced to spend eternity with Him