Rockaway: Surfing Headlong into a New Life
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Unmoored by a failed marriage and disconnected from her high-octane life in the city, Diane Cardwell finds herself staring at a small group of surfers coasting through mellow waves toward shore—and senses something shift. Rockaway is the riveting, joyful story of one woman’s reinvention—beginning with Cardwell taking the A Train to Rockaway, a neglected spit of land dangling off New York City into the Atlantic Ocean. She finds a teacher, buys a tiny bungalow, and throws her not-overly-athletic self headlong into learning the inner workings and rhythms of waves and the muscle development and coordination needed to ride them.
As Cardwell begins to find her balance in the water and out, superstorm Sandy hits, sending her into the maelstrom in search of safer ground. In the aftermath, the community comes together and rebuilds, rekindling its bacchanalian spirit as a historic surfing community, one with its own quirky codes and surf culture. And Cardwell’s surfing takes off as she finds a true home among her fellow passionate longboarders at the Rockaway Beach Surf Club, living out “the most joyful path through life.”
Rockaway is a stirring story of inner salvation sought through a challenging physical pursuit—and of learning to accept the idea of a complete reset, no matter when in life it comes.
Diane Cardwell
DIANE CARDWELL is an award-winning journalist who has covered a variety of subjects, including alternative energy, popular culture, politics, crime, and New York’s hospitality industry. A former reporter for the New York Times, she was among the inaugural writers of “Portraits of Grief,” the Times’s signature profiles of those killed in the 9/11 World Trade Center attack, and helped found Vibe. She lives, gardens, and surfs in Rockaway Beach, New York.
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- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5A little bit of surfing mixed in with a lifestyle change and a move to a new surfside town. Okay read.
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Rockaway - Diane Cardwell
Contents
Title Page
Contents
Copyright
Map
Prologue: Over the Falls
At Sea
First Light
Hooked
Run Aground
In the Shaping Bay
Five Feet High and Rising
Taking the Plunge
Chasing Daylight
Dropping Anchor
Hustle and Flow
Under the Dome
Unmoored
Treading Water
In the Curl
Reeled In
Epilogue: Safe Harbor
Notes on Sources
Acknowledgments
About the Author
Connect with HMH
First Mariner Books edition 2021
Copyright © 2020 by Diane Cardwell
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: Cardwell, Diane, 1964– author.
Title: Rockaway : surfing headlong into a new life / Diane Cardwell.
Description: Boston : Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2020.
Identifiers: LCCN 2019045702 (print) | LCCN 2019045703 (ebook) | ISBN 9780358067788 (hardcover) | ISBN 9780358307136 | ISBN 9780358311270 | ISBN 9780358067825 (ebook) | ISBN 9780358561965 (pbk.)
Subjects: LCSH: Cardwell, Diane, 1964– | Women surfers—United States—Biography. | African American surfers—Biography | Surfing—United States—Biography. | Women journalists—United States—Biography. | African American journalists—Biography. | Divorced Women—United States—Biography. | Rockaway Beach (New York, N.Y.)—Biography.
Classification: LCC GV838.C34 A3 2020 (print) | LCC GV838.C34 (ebook) | DDC 797.3/2092 [B]—dc23
LC record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2019045702
LC ebook record available at https://lccn.loc.gov/2019045703
Select text excerpts from the essay High Water
first appeared in the January 2013 issue of Vogue. Written and used by permission of the author.
Several chapters include portions of Rising Tide of Money Erodes a Long Island Holdout
and Surfing Headlong into a New Life,
both by Diane Cardwell, which originally appeared in the New York Times on July 2, 2010, and on May 31, 2015, respectively, are copyright the New York Times and used here by permission.
Map by Chrissy Kurpeski
Author photograph © Nina Subin
Cover photograph © Getty Images/Cavan Images
Cover design: Michaela Sullivan
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Prologue:
Over the Falls
February 2013
Still I must on; for I am as a weed
Flung from the rock, on Ocean’s foam to sail
Where’er the surge may sweep, the tempest’s breath prevail.
—LORD BYRON, Childe Harold’s Pilgrimage
Is this how it ends?
The thought burned through my head, surprising and unbidden. I was straddling a surfboard in a thrashing ocean, breathless and struggling to stay upright, my arms so tired and aching I could barely lift them. Looking up, I saw my friends waiting for me on the shore, but they and the palm trees lining the cliffs all appeared to be receding. I’d been trying to get back to the beach for what felt like an eternity, and every time I took a moment’s rest the heaving aquamarine waters tugged me farther away from the stretch of sand I needed to reach. I felt overwhelmed and small, as if in the clutches of a liquid bully tossing me this way and that, while wind whipped my dark, wet curls against my cheeks, salt spray stung my eyes, and surging water plugged my ears and gushed into my mouth and up my nose. The current was pulling me parallel to the coast, where bulkheads of razor-sharp coral and rocks could shred my flesh like a cat-o’-nine-tails. As my body started to fail, it dawned on me for the first time that I might not make it back.
Just an hour before, I’d been relaxed and happy. I’d arrived at the beach near the northwest corner of Puerto Rico with a friend, a feisty, green-eyed brunette I’d met back home as I’d haplessly tried to learn to surf over the past few years. She was not only my regular buddy in the waves but also one of the first new friends I’d made in a decade—part of the social life I was building as I slowly emerged from the wreckage of a divorce. Rented boards in hand, we were excited to escape the February chill of New York City and the rubble-strewn mess of my neighborhood in Rockaway Beach, still in recovery from the battering of Superstorm Sandy. Standing under the canopy of fanning leaves in the dirt parking lot overlooking the beach, we ran into a few friends from Rockaway who had just finished their sessions. Sure, it was a little choppy, with the swirl of the current making spirals of white foam amid the translucent peaks, but the waves were weaker than they looked, one of them said, and not much to worry about.
Watch out for the current, though,
another friend told us. Make sure you don’t let it take you out to the left. Just paddle at an angle the other way.
Maybe I shouldn’t do this, I’d thought, eyeing the waves as they reared up and twisted before violently crashing toward the shore. But I’d quickly silenced that voice. As long as I kept to the right, I’d be fine. I’d always been able to handle myself in the ocean at home on the East Coast, and I was aching for the balm of wild water on my skin—I just couldn’t resist.
Plus I needed this break from the rest of my life, which felt in shambles. Over the past five years I’d been lashed by loss after loss—my marriage, my father, my chances of bearing a child. I was, in every sense of the word, adrift.
Surfing, despite my distinct lack of aptitude and struggles to find my balance in the ocean, consistently brought me joy and a sense of purpose. On a surfboard I could feel powerful and free and in tune with the universe, if only for an instant. The rest of the time I felt the opposite.
And now there was a clear and present danger confronting me. After I had stepped into the warm, inviting water sliding over the sand, I had focused so intently on charging through the walls of foam lining up in front of me that I hadn’t noticed the current, stronger than I realized, taking me exactly where I didn’t want to go: to the left.
So despite my efforts to paddle back, I was now stuck outside
—the term surfers use for the zone beyond where the waves are breaking—and far from where I could safely return to shore. My surf buddy was nowhere to be seen in the water, having probably, and wisely, ditched the effort sooner. It doesn’t matter how many people you’re surfing with, I thought. In the end you’re alone, just you and the ocean.
What if I can’t get in by myself? I wondered as I contemplated my predicament. I closed my eyes and saw an unlikely fever-dream pastiche of lost-at-sea images: sunburned survivors found in life rafts, having subsisted on raw fish, birds, and their own urine; old-style paintings of half-nude women, shipwrecked and flung upon the sand; headlines about teenagers who’d fallen prey to rip tides, seemingly every year, in the Rockaways; the Andrea Gail, buffeted by mammoth seas before sinking; Gilligan and the Skipper losing control of the S.S. Minnow on what was supposed to be a three-hour tour.
I peered at the beach. I was even farther from my friends, who now looked like stick figures on the sand. Can they tell I’m in trouble? Can they call in a rescue? Can I hold on long enough, or will I get swept out to sea? Are there sharks out there?
Resting, I tried to tamp down the rising sense of dread, but I couldn’t keep other kinds of doubts from creeping in. Maybe I was just not meant for this. If I’d so wrongly assumed I was ready for this ocean, I might very well have been wrongly convinced that I could actually have a roll-with-the-swells surfer’s life—that I could, in middle age, pivot from my get-ahead, career-focused existence to something that seemed more meaningful. Maybe it was too late for that, just like it was too late to save my marriage, too late to get pregnant, too late to find another great love. I was clinging to a rented surfboard and maybe to a rented life—one I could dip into from time to time but couldn’t really make my own. I looked around and took in the spectacular beauty of the place, seeing how close to and yet still so far from safety I was. What a ridiculous place to die.
Suddenly something in me snapped. So what? So what if I didn’t have the answers, or a partner, or the picture-perfect life I thought I was building? I’d bought, not rented, this new life, and now I had to live it. You got yourself into this mess, and it’s up to you—and you alone—to get out of it.
I sat up and took a deep breath as I arched my back and stretched out my chest, squeezing my shoulder blades together and shutting my eyes against the brilliance of the sky. Overcome, I yelled out, No, not now,
words that were immediately swallowed by the water’s roar. I flopped back down on the board and began pulling my arms through the chop, hardly able to hold up my chest and head but willing myself to ignore the soreness and near paralysis settling into my shoulders, arms, and back. You can do this,
I chanted, over and over, like a mantra, cackling at how insane and uncool I must have looked—a million miles away from one of those sinewy surf babes I was trying to become. Dig deeper!
Eventually I cast an eye toward the shore and saw the stack of logs that doubled as stairs between the beach and the parking lot and realized that I was almost where I needed to be. Looking out toward the horizon, I noticed waves cresting and threatening to break, waves that looked like they could swallow and pummel me. I needed to get beyond them, where I could maybe catch one or slip back in between them. One began rising up beside me, so I slowly spun the board around and headed toward it with what little strength I had left, thinking I could punch through the lip.
But the ocean had a different idea. As I began sailing through to the other side, I felt a force, like the hand of Poseidon, grab the tail of my board, spin it around, and thrust it down the crumbling face of the wave. Water churned and rumbled around me as I gripped the edges of the board and lifted my chest, hoping that would keep me afloat and off the ocean floor.
As I hurtled along, the curtain of water swaddling my head parted and I could see that I was speeding toward the shore, where my friends were jumping up and down, yelling and gesturing for me to stand up and actually surf the wave. But I had noodles for arms and nothing left to launch my cramping body onto my feet. I was missing a shot at the very thing I’d traveled for: a ride on a wave, my skin bathed in sunlight and droplets of warm water. It was a disappointment, but I barely had the energy to care. As I neared the beach, I rolled off the board in exhaustion and relief, dragged it out of the water, and dropped it in the sand, then hunched over to rest my elbows on my knees. I stayed there, panting, and listened to my heartbeat slow as the waves crashed and receded somewhere behind me and a sense of security returned. I’d survived the ordeal with no real harm—at least not to my body. I would live to surf another day, and that, in this moment, was all that mattered.
Part I
At Sea
I suddenly realized that I was no member of the crew—simply a blind passenger.
—Frederick Kohner,
Gidget, the Little Girl with Big Ideas
1
First Light
June 2010
It was summer and I was desperate for a way out of the city. Under normal circumstances I’d have had summer plans already: a weekend share somewhere with my husband, visits with friends upstate, or a long trip vineyard-hopping in France or Northern California or hiking and kayaking in Canada or Maine. But I was nearly three years divorced and this summer was mine, all mine, and looking really empty. As I sat at my desk in the third-floor newsroom of the New York Times in midtown Manhattan, bundled in a scratchy wool cardigan against the air-conditioned chill, I peered through the glass skin of the building at the people striding along the sidewalks below and at the buses winding up through the maze of ramps stacked above the Port Authority transit terminal across the avenue. It seemed that everyone was on the move.
I’d been a reporter at the Times for nearly a decade and had a new beat covering the city’s hospitality industry for the Metro desk. I’d convinced my editor that since so many of the restaurateurs, hoteliers, business executives, celebrities, and others from that scene would be heading out of town for the season—especially to the east end of Long Island—I should follow the annual exodus for my next article. But I hadn’t yet found a specific story idea good enough to justify the expense of a trip, so I was on the phone fishing for leads with Jim, a longtime colleague who spent summers in Montauk, the remote and quirky fishing village at the island’s prow.
Ooooh,
he said, I know what you should write about—it’s such a good story—but I almost don’t want to tell you. I just kind of don’t want to draw attention to it.
Oh, c’mon,
I said into my headset, "you’ve got to at least tell me what it is. If you don’t want me to write about it, I won’t, but if it’s such a good story somebody else, like the Wall Street Journal, is going to figure it out and do it first."
Yeah, yeah, okay, you’re right,
he said. Plus I know it’s kind of crazy to think I can keep anything about Montauk under wraps.
I heard a deep inhale and then his voice dropped low, as if to arrange a parking-garage rendezvous to spill state secrets. The Montauket’s for sale. They’re asking, like, $17 million.
What’s the Montauket—and is that a lot of money for it?
Oh my god—the Montauket!
Jim said, his voice back to normal volume. It’s a big deal if it sells.
The Montauket, it turned out, was a scruffy bar and motel perched high on a bluff overlooking Fort Pond Bay on Montauk’s northern coast that had been considered for generations to be the best place in the area to watch the sunset. Though the End, as the town is known, is technically an unincorporated hamlet that’s part of greater East Hampton, it had long eschewed that gloss and instead clung fiercely to its maritime history, blue-collar ethos, and hippie surfer vibe. But as wave after wave of development replaced mildewed budget lodgings with whitewashed boutique hotels catering to the fashionable set, the Montauket had become the last bastion of the townies, Jim told me, and a kind of stand-in for the place’s soul.
It was, as Jim said, a good story, and, since the Fourth of July was approaching, a good time to tell it, as editors always wanted a fun, summery piece to run near the holiday weekend. Which was why, on a Saturday afternoon a week or so later, I sat at the bar of the Montauket breathing the salt air of the bay and scribbling in a reporter’s notebook. I took in the framed portraits of fish and seascapes on the walls, drinks listed on chalkboards, and heavy wood beams crossing the ceiling. There was a cigarette machine near the entrance, a jukebox in a corner, and a manual cash register behind the bar that was actually in use, not just for show. The place was practically empty, but a young man and woman were out on the back patio, hardly able to keep their hands—or mouths—off one another.
The bartender, an efficient, no-frills woman in a black tank top, leaned her head out through an open window toward them. I’d tell you to get a room, but we don’t have any,
she yelled. I’m sick of looking at you licking each other like ice cream cones.
She came back in and passed by me on her way to another task, rolling her eyes and shaking her head. The whole thing was feature-story gold.
A few hours later the sunset crowd descended. I stepped outside and watched them quickly fill the picnic-table benches and patio chairs under the soft glow of string lights and the descending sun, masked by cottony clouds hovering over the calm ripples of the bay. The jukebox blared Springsteen’s No Surrender
and a man in cargo shorts and a CLAM POWER T-shirt held aloft his Amstel Light, bellowing along, No retreat, baby!
I slipped back inside the bar and, scanning the tightly packed room, spotted two men who appeared to be in their sixties. I introduced myself in the hope that they could tell me some of the history.
How long have you been coming here?
I asked.
Since the seventies,
said one of them, a retired contractor with thinning dark hair and a button-down shirt. It was an old man’s bar, and I was a younger man then. Now I’m the old guy.
The place, they told me, was a popular spot for fishing vacations among Jones Beach lifeguards once the season ended, and a favorite of Billy Joel’s.
It used to be like time stopped here,
said the other man, a white-haired guy in a coral polo shirt and khakis whose family had begun spending summers in Montauk in the 1920s. Everything was held in place, like a picture of Roosevelt.
Now, he said, because of the trendy hordes that routinely swamped the town, we’re just trying to hold back the floods.
I looked around at the crowd as the occasional raucous laugh shot through the din of weekend-night voices ricocheting off the ceiling. Outside, streaks of persimmon and periwinkle, the dying embers of sunset, hovered at the horizon’s edge. I wondered what would become of the time-capsule charm here if a sale went through—whether the rough edges would get buffed away by the inexorable march of money, much as it had in so many quarters of the old Manhattan where I had grown up in the 1970s and ’80s. The owner of the place, a petite woman with a slim hoop through her eyebrow whose family had run it since 1959, when a relative won the right to buy it in a poker game, had told me earlier that afternoon that, money aside, it was simply time to move on, to try something new.
I thought I knew what she meant. With my marriage over, I was still wrestling with the lingering feeling that I was waiting for my real life to start. I’d rented out the elegant townhouse I’d shared with my ex-husband, Eric, in Brooklyn and moved to a small apartment in a tenement on an unloved stretch of Bedford-Stuyvesant and, emerging from the slag heap of the divorce, was trying to sally forth on a path of my own, wherever it might lead. Maybe someday I’d again get to feel like that couple on the deck. Back in my twenties, when I started dating Eric—tall and broad-shouldered, with dazzling green eyes—we, too, couldn’t keep our hands off each other in public, and made out all over downtown Manhattan. But those days were long gone, and for the moment, getting used to being single for the first time in almost twenty years and not feeling miserable was enough.
I woke up the next morning in my room at the Beachcomber, a complex of shingled Sea Ranch–style efficiencies separated from the Atlantic by Old Montauk Highway. I felt good about how the reporting had gone: I’d covered all the bases I needed to and thought I had a firm handle on the character of the town and the Montauket’s place in it. But I felt a nagging itch as I made my usual morning brew of espresso with a splash of cream and filled a bowl with yogurt and granola. I hadn’t gotten the perspective of any surfers. I was a little nervous about what kind of reception I might get at the main surfing beach, given the reputation surfers have for territoriality and a kind of antiestablishment worldview, but I decided to head over anyway to a stretch of the coast called Ditch Plains before making the drive back to Brooklyn.
Shit! I thought as I sped along the sunbaked highway, seeing too late the small white pole marking the road to Ditch. That was it! Why do I always have to be this way? I was irritated with myself for yet again screwing up a straightforward trip. I had learned to drive late—at thirty—and some fifteen years later still couldn’t navigate very well on my own. I was always missing a turnoff or heading the wrong way and having to double back to get on the right path. Luckily, within a few minutes I came to another intersection, so I returned and wound down the street, buoyed by how pretty and familiar it seemed, like the back roads of Cape Cod, where I’d spent summers as a child. My parents, Depression-era strivers, hadn’t been well off, but my father, a midlevel executive at a small savings bank, had an uncle who lived in Hyannis, near the mouth of the Cape. My mother was a public school teacher, so as soon as classes let out she would whisk me and my older sister up there for the summer.
As I made my way toward Ditch, the weathered cottages and shingled houses that peeked from behind stands of scrubby pink or white rugosa roses reminded me of the ones we’d seen every day on our way to the beach. I rounded bend after bend with warm sunlight streaming through the trees onto my bare shoulders under the open sunroof until I finally saw the East Deck Motel, a collection of attached spartan rooms where I’d been told the surf spot was, and found a place to park.
It was my first visit ever to a surf beach, or break, and I had no idea what to expect. I walked back to the motel and through its parking lot to the dune above the beach, where a tan camper selling food stood at the entrance. Just beyond, a couple of people in wetsuits were sitting on a bench, with surfboards lying next to them.
When I finally made it to the sand, what I saw in the glittering indigo waters below stopped me cold. Surfers, dozens of them, were propelling themselves before mellow knee-high waves, hopping easily to their feet, and then rolling lazily along, skipping and cross-stepping up and down the length of their boards. One woman, her skintight black wetsuit shiny with water and her long dark hair glistening in the sun, looked like some sort of enchantress of the break as she moved toward the shore, incanting a spell as she waved her arms up and down and swung her hips to the same rhythm.
Dumbstruck, I felt as though I’d stumbled upon a secret tribe of magical creatures—fairies and nymphs frolicking in a hidden bay. I couldn’t believe this was surfing, a sport to which I’d never given much more than a glancing thought. Growing up, I figured you had to be insane to want to ride those heaving walls of water they showed on Wide World of Sports, the competitors’ bodies mere specks sliding down (and down and under) the giant turquoise seas. Then, too, the popular image of surf culture—those laid-back stoners and tattooed dudes—wasn’t so appealing to me. I’d grown up inside Manhattan’s pressure cooker of ambition and possibility and, as I traversed my young adulthood, preferred to blow off steam with a night at the disco rather than a day at the beach.
But far from the skyscraper-high monsters I’d long seen on TV, here were waves small and inviting, nudging their way slowly out of a sequined sea and ushering the riders along. I stood there for what must have been an hour, transfixed. My eyes would steal away from time to time to rest on the rainbow of surfboards, a few of which looked like something Frankie and Annette might have ridden in Beach Party, stretched across the dune; or on the guy strumming a guitar under a makeshift tent fashioned from driftwood logs and fluttering cloths; or on the packs of lithe young women in bikinis sunbathing amid a scattering of bonfire remains.
But my attention was repeatedly drawn back to the wizards of the waves. This is surfing? Then another, quieter voice rumbled up from deep inside: Maybe I could do that. I almost chuckled at the thought of myself, a once timid and not-so-athletic girl from Manhattan, surfing, but I could feel it taking hold.
A tingling in the skin across my cheekbones broke me out of my trance, signaling the beginnings of a sunburn. I’d stayed longer than I meant to, and I hadn’t even talked to anyone yet. But since I had a tight deadline, I figured I should skip interviewing the surfers and get going so I could beat the afternoon traffic back to my sweltering apartment in Brooklyn. As I walked through the parking lot and to the street, I noticed a yellow cottage with a handwritten FOR RENT sign in the window, which jumped out at me as if it were flashing red neon.
Kismet, I thought as I stared at it, my heart beginning to race and my brain suddenly feverish. I wondered what it was like inside, imagining myself walking over to the beach with coffee in the mornings, spending my days in the waves, boiling lobster at night. I’d visited Montauk only once before, years ago, when I had come out for a cold early-spring weekend with Eric to see the seals that had been returning to a rock outcropping near the lighthouse after a long absence. I fell for the place then—the dark-blue waters and comfortable, worn-around-the-edges aura felt familiar to me, more nautical and rusty, like Cape Cod, than the manicured Hamptons.
God, I’d love to spend time here, I thought. And then I walked on.
It’s probably too expensive, I told myself, or available when you aren’t.
What will you do out here all by yourself?
How will you learn to surf? You don’t have a board or a wetsuit and you don’t know anything about how to get them.
What if