The Good Behavior Book for Dogs: The Most Annoying Dog Behaviors . . . Solved!
By Colleen Paige and J. Nichole Smith
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The Good Behavior Book for Dogs - Colleen Paige
Introduction
I DIDN’T PLAN TO BECOME A DOG TRAINER. I was a singer, fully engaged in a successful career and recording an album. But my life changed one day when I went through a windshield and almost died. To help me recover, I adopted a dog named Spike, whose life—and tragic death—made me vow to change the lives of dogs everywhere. It became my obsession.
I was a young woman, living alone and recovering slowly, when I decided I needed a healing and protective companion. I was hoping for someone like Clark Gable (well a girl can dream, can’t she?), but when the opportunity arose to share my digs with a homeless two-year-old German shepherd named Spike—even though he had extreme halitosis, pointy ears, and a hairy belly—I felt it was kismet.
I wasn’t really in a position to have a canine roommate in my small apartment, but my heart sheared in half at the thought of him being euthanized at the shelter. I imagined Spike sitting, watching the parade of people, hoping that some love-struck girl would catch the glimmer of magic in his eyes as she approached, but who would be led away by a parent who spotted a more appropriate dog. Many dogs escape this sad place, not into the arms of a new loving family but to a cold, damp room, for their final breath and a trip to the rainbow bridge.
I agreed to keep Spike and was really excited about the decision, but I questioned my mental health for thinking I could keep a 120-lb. German shepherd in an 800-square-foot (244 sq m) condo. Spike was a wonderful companion and an excellent protector, proving himself on more than one occasion: once, when he dislodged a gun from the belt of my roommate’s boyfriend, and again, when he discouraged
an intruder from kicking down my door at 3:00 AM. I loved this dog.
Defining Our Roles
I had had Spike for a year, and was recovering slowly, when I had a setback and wasn’t able to walk him for long periods of time. As time went on, Spike’s lack of socialization and exercise caused him to start chewing on and destroying my personal items, such as shoes, handbags, and furniture. He would also leave huge piles of poop throughout the house. (The fact that I left him a bucket of dog chow to nibble on all day might have had something to do with it.) In my ignorance, I assumed that this was what happened to everyone without a backyard, and I would just have to get used to it. But, every day, I came home and spent an hour cleaning up. I yelled at him, shoved his nose in it, then cried and apologized to him from the guilt of being so angry. I deodorized the carpet daily, until even the underground parking garage smelled like Lysol. It was a nightmare. I knew I had bitten off more than I could chew, but I couldn’t give him back, and there was no way I was taking him to the shelter.
A Turn for the Worse
The final straw was arriving home to find that he had devoured my brand-new cowboy boots, leaving only the two heels sitting in the middle of the living room floor. Convinced that he had done this purposely because I had left him alone all day, I rolled up a newspaper and swatted him twice on the rear. I immediately felt horrible. This dog, who could rip my throat out in a split second, just sat there, shivering, whining, and looking pathetic. I was ashamed of myself. I held him, crying and telling him how sorry I was.
Although potty and chewing incidents continued to happen, I never struck him again. I knew he wasn’t getting what he needed, but I didn’t know what to do. Then he attacked another tenant’s dog in my parking garage. Although he caused minimal injury—I grabbed him off the other dog at the speed of light—I received a letter from the apartment manager, giving me 24 hours to find Spike a new home, or get out.
A friend’s boyfriend said his parents would love to provide Spike with a new and loving home, complete with a yard and children to play with. Although it seemed a godsend, I felt like I was abandoning him. Letting him go was one of the most difficult decisions I have ever made. The next day, I accompanied Spike to my friend’s car, the fur on his neck still damp from my tears. I kept crying as I watched him stare at me through the back window until he was out of sight.
A year went by. I couldn’t bring myself to see him because I wanted him to acclimate to his new home. I was told he was happy and was doing nicely. It was the only solace I had. One night, I dreamed about him, awakening the next morning with a tug at my heart, as if it were a sign that he needed me. I decided to visit him.
I arrived at the house and was introduced to the family. After the usual greetings, I asked, Where’s my boy-boy?
The father gestured toward the back door, and I went out, then lost my breath. There I stood, hoping that Spike would remember me, when I was blasted by the smell of urine and excrement. Chained to a car in the middle of this junkyard was a filthy, emaciated dog—it was my Spike. He had no blanket, no doghouse, just a tub filled with black water and an old, dry bone.
A Day of Reckoning
Here was the love of my life—and I had done this to him. I should have met the family first. I should have taken him to the shelter and told them I would take him back if they couldn’t find a home for him. In desperation, I offered the family money to buy him back, but was refused. I filed an abuse report with animal control, but got nowhere. Spike lived like that for several more years, until, I believe, he could no longer stand the misery. I made a promise to him to do everything I could to educate people and prevent another dog from having to live and die like he did.
My opportunity came a year later, when I met a dog trainer. His dog, ironically a German shepherd, spied me from the other end of a hallway, took off like a gazelle, and pinned me against the wall, licking my face. The dog trainer was apologetic but bewildered at his borderline aloof-and-protective dog’s sudden endearment of me. He told me I had a gift with animals, and asked if I would like to learn how to train dogs. Only a few days later, I started my amazing journey at the National Institute of Dog Training under the brilliant teachings of Matthew Uncle Matty
Margolis.
I trained in all levels of obedience and protection, and went on to work with law enforcement dogs, search-and-rescue dogs, and celebrity-protection dogs. I worked as a veterinarian technician in a busy Los Angeles animal trauma center, and after some intensive schoolwork, received my associate of applied science degree. I went on to work as a paramedic for six years, while continuing my dog training.
Answering My Calling
Eventually, the animals won me over completely. Thirteen more years of university study, coupled with ten years of research and hands-on caretaking of wolves, tigers, bears, dolphins, and elephants, brought me to where I am today.
This book is as much about helping you as it is about helping your dog. It’s about having fun while you learn, giving you alternatives when possible, and helping you let go of the guilt and everyday stress that living with your dog causes you. No matter how good a parent you are, your little ones (children and dogs alike) are bound to act up at the most inopportune times and places. Part of being a good dog parent is not to sweat it if your pooch isn’t perfect. Too many dog parents get unnecessarily strung out over their furry charges’ behavior. Just let it go. Kids are kids, even if they are dogs. Think of me as a "Dogvorce Attorney," always trying to get her clients back together.
The reality of living with a dog is this: you will have dog hair on your mohair, you will need fragrant candles, and you will occasionally feel the need to ask, What’s that smell?
Most of all, though, you will have unconditional love. Join me on a journey into the Whimsical World of Dog.
Chapter One
Maintaining Nutrition and Exercise
Proper nutrition and exercise are crucial to your dog’s health. In fact, food is more essential to your dog’s well-being than family, warmth, comfort, or toys. If you get this element of your dog’s life right, the rest will fall into place much more easily. If you get it wrong, however, you may struggle with behavior issues that no training can help to control. When his diet goes astray, so can your dog. Start off on the right foot by making sure he eats well.
Second only to nutrition in importance is exercise. Providing the right kind of exercise for your dog’s age and breed helps maintain a well-balanced body and releases pent-up energy. It can also ease stress and anxiety and can help your dog gain success in obedience training.
Provide food and treats made with whole grains and no chemical preservatives.
LET’S THINK, FOR A MOMENT, ABOUT BUILDING A house. To ensure your structure will withstand the stresses it will be subjected to, you must start with a strong foundation. A deficient nutritional foundation undermines your dog’s behavior and physical health, and sabotages opportunities for him to learn and behave like a well-mannered pooch. Fortunately, fixing nutritional issues is easy, because when it comes down to it, dogs simply enjoy food—of any kind. They will beg for it, steal it, hide it, and even bury it.
Although a whole, organic, handmade doggy diet tops every canine’s wish list, creating homemade dog dinners may not be realistic for today’s busy families. Putting three hours a day into grinding chicken necks, filleting goose livers, and sautéing beef might be entertaining for some people, but many of us are just too busy to spend that much time in the kitchen for Fido. This leaves him facing the usual bowl of dry commercial kibble day in and day out, rather than the meaty dinner he had hoped for. It’s not hard to understand why he doesn’t leap for joy at every meal. (Would you?) Ever optimistic, poor Fido can only hope that another day will bring a more diverse menu. And so it should.
Not only can a boring menu give your dog the blues, but poor-quality dog food can be the sole cause of behavior problems. It’s as imperative to nourish our dogs with high-quality, nutritionally dense foods as it is to provide our brains and bodies with a healthy diet. Consider the behavior of a child who eats processed sugar all day long. Most likely, this child will have poor health and severe attention-span issues, especially when it comes to learning. We can talk to children and help them make the right choices. Your dog depends on you to make the choices for him.
How can you save time in the kitchen and still make your dog happy? If you can afford it, buy high-quality, all-natural dry dog food, which can be found at pet stores or online, and mix it with ingredients such as good-quality wet dog food, mashed pumpkin, sweet potato, yogurt, green beans, carrots, peas, avocado, ground turkey, organic chicken stock, or boiled giblets. If you can’t find all-natural dog food, buy the best-quality commercial brand available from your local supermarket. Each night, add something new to it. Keep a food diary noting how much your dog ate during that meal to help you remember which foods he seemed to like the most. You should also monitor bowel movements after each new food is introduced, to make sure the food is agreeable with your dog’s tummy.
Food Allergies and Behavior
The most common causes of canine food allergies are ingredients I call the No-No’s.
These ingredients, which include meat by-products, corn, wheat, salt, sugar, and chemical preservatives, are often responsible for allergic reactions, such as itchy