Widowers Walk: One Man's Journey From Grief to Joy
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No one prepares you for the loss of your spouse. It is a gut wrenching journey that can make the biggest man crumble. It may even lead to a crisis in faith. Dr. Robbins has experienced the pain, the grief, the loneliness and the rediscovery of life after marriage and weaves his insight into the hard lessons learned with practical recommendations and spiritual connection.
James A. Robbins DMIN.
Dr. Robbins is a retired professional in food safety and production as well as a pastor and missionary to Uganda. His studies include a doctorate in chemistry and a doctorate of ministry in transformational leadership. He has 2 grown children. His wife and he were married 39 years before her death from myotonic muscular dystrophy type 1. He has a unique insight to caregiving over several years and the adjustment to life without his bride. Several years after his wife died, Dr. Robbins was blessed with a new wife, the dream his first wife had wanted for him.
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Widowers Walk - James A. Robbins DMIN.
Widowers
Walk
One Man’s Journey
From Grief to Joy
JAMES A. ROBBINS, DMIN.
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WestBow Press rev. date: 01/02/2024
CONTENTS
Chapter 1 Being Ready – Part 1
Chapter 2 Being Ready – Part 2
Chapter 3 Baby Steps – Part 1
Chapter 4 Baby Steps – Part 2
Chapter 5 Baby Steps – Part 3
Chapter 6 Gratitude
Chapter 7 How Can You Mend a Broken Heart?
Chapter 8 Rekindle Old Hobbies
Chapter 9 Take Care of Yourself!
Chapter 10 Companionship
Chapter 11 Getting Out
Chapter 12 Pay Tribute
Chapter 13 Explore New Opportunities
Chapter 14 Between the Dashes
Chapter 15 It Ain’t Easy!
Chapter 16 Letting Go
Chapter 17 Where Do I Go from Here?
Chapter 18 Continue to Make New Memories
Chapter 19 Making Peace with The Past
Chapter 20 Mama Told Me There Would Be Days Like These
Chapter 21 Oh, the Holidays
FOREWORD
It is with great confidence that I highly recommend the book by my friend, Dr. Jim Robbins, - Widower’s Walk. Jim wisely bears his heart and soul about his challenging and meaningful journey as a widower. He aims to encourage people in similar circumstances to keep moving forward in life... and to nurture their relationship with Christ. He succeeds! You will be moved by this honest, practical, and thoughtful work.
Pastor Cliff Lea
First Baptist Church
Leesburg, Florida
INTRODUCTION
It Could Never Happen to Me!
My dear sweet bride and I were joyously united in marriage on March 20, 1976! What a glorious day - we thought our earthly marriage would never end. But suddenly on July 17, 2015, my life turned upside down. I came home from a business trip and found my dear bride standing in the bathroom, holding on to her walker and gone to heaven! The shock I can only describe as someone ripping out half of my body.
I was stunned and confused. I called 911 and they asked me to stay on the phone until the paramedics arrived. When I let them in, I remember them asking me where Pat was, and I took them to the master suite. Someone blurted out, DB.
One very kind paramedic grabbed me and said let’s get out of here and he took me to my neighbor’s house. I told them what occurred, and they told me to sit down and gave me some water. I looked at my phone, and realized I was still on the line with 911. The operator asked me who to call and I gave her my pastor’s name and the funeral home. She told me she would get everyone there and for me to hang up.
I did and the next thing that came to my mind was I needed to call my children - oh how I hated making those calls. My son volunteered to call several family members and I remembered Pat’s best friend, Palma. I called her and she screamed and said it is not true and hung up. She called me back