Neurosculpting: A Whole-Brain Approach to Heal Trauma, Rewrite Limiting Beliefs, and Find Wholeness
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The synthesis of meditation and modern neuroscience has sparked a revolution—more than ever, we can use specific practices to create positive, lasting changes in our brains. Lisa Wimberger experienced the power of neuroplasticity firsthand. When conventional medicine offered no answers for her deadly seizures, she created her own regimen of meditation and life practices to heal herself. Today, Lisa has successfully taught her Neurosculpting® method to veterans, first responders, and clients in the most stressful occupations. With Neurosculpting, she brings readers a complete guide to this life-changing process, featuring transformative insights and techniques for:
• Engaging the mind-body connection to shape our neural pathways with positive choices and intentions
• Disarming stress triggers, healing trauma, rewriting limiting beliefs, and liberating yourself from unhealthy habits
• Whole-brained meditation—bringing your brain’s left and right hemispheres into harmony to awaken your full potential
• Integrating lifestyle, diet, exercise, and spiritual practice to create the ideal environment for healing and happiness
• Putting it all together—practical guidance for personalizing your own approach to Neurosculpting
“If you could learn to squeeze the vibrancy and beauty out of each moment of your life,” writes Wimberger, “would you say yes to a practice that could get you there?” With an engaging, layman-friendly style that encompasses cutting-edge neuroscience and our human capacity for hope, free will, love, and spirituality, she offers a breakthrough guide for taking charge of our health, happiness, and personal growth.
Lisa Wimberger
Lisa Wimberger is the founder of the Neurosculpting Institute and author of New Beliefs, New Brain. A member of the National Center for Crisis Management and other care associations, she has a private practice in Denver, CO, specializing in helping clients with stress disorders. For more, visit neurosculptinginstitute.com.
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Neurosculpting - Lisa Wimberger
introduction
death doesn’t get the last word
Imagine a normal and uneventful morning where in the midst of washing your face, your life disappeared without warning, along with everyone you loved. I’ve flirted with and dated death since I was fifteen years old, when I had my first near-death experience in the bathroom at my parents’ house. Of course, I didn’t know then that I had a seizure condition that caused me to flatline. I only had an inexplicable, mystical, and painful episode that left me confused and blown open. I had fainted before, but this time was different. I remember standing at the sink, looking at myself in the mirror, and wondering why my face suddenly appeared to be melting. The room quickly closed in on me while I desperately tried to hold on to the counter top. I heard a distant voice say, oh no
as if it came from someone else. And suddenly I was in another space where I was fully conscious yet completely unaware that my body was on the floor. In that other consciousness I had a vivid encounter with Zahara, a mystical female force I’d never forget—one who visited me often in later episodes and who would help shape the rest of my life. I came to know her as The Mother. I don’t know how long I lay on the floor that day listening to her as she told me about neurons and the galaxy. Eventually a faraway buzzing sound grew closer and louder, crushing my ears and shooting pins and needles through each cell of my body. There was nowhere I could retreat to, no pain-free area of my body, no space of clarity in my mind in which I could find shelter.
I prayed for it to stop.
Just underneath that deafening sound-feeling came the whisper of my own moaning. When I opened my eyes, I could see the brown tile underneath the counter. To look elsewhere but straight ahead was a nauseating vertigo nightmare. What happened? Why couldn’t I move? How was it possible to feel stuck to the floor as though a great force pinned me down?
I was in a puddle from head to toe and wondered if I had urinated. The floor tile on my face was cold. Cold was good. That’s all my clouded mind could grasp. I was embarrassed for my family to come home and find me, so I hoped they didn’t. An indescribably long time later I managed to crawl to my room and fall asleep without anyone knowing what happened. I’d keep this a secret for a long time.
I was a very healthy teenager who exercised, didn’t smoke cigarettes, never drank alcohol or experimented with drugs. What could possibly be happening to me? Years later, I learned that my vagus nerve, which is responsible for regulating breathing and heart rate in the medulla of the brain stem, had triggered a very primitive response we all experience sometimes: the freeze response. You know those moments of fear when you hold your breath and remain silent? This is your body engaging in a normal freeze response. Mine, far beyond the normal spectrum, dropped my heart rate so rapidly that it stopped beating. This caused blood and oxygen to be in short supply to my brain. So my brain did what it’s supposed to do in those cases and shut down all cognitive processes. In other words, my cortex and cognitive functions turned off. One minute I was there, the next I was gone.
This continued to happen for the next twenty-five years: a few more times in bathrooms, some of them at my parents’, others at my own home as I got older. One time in my twenties, I regained consciousness with my head wedged between the toilet base and the wall, my legs bent awkwardly under the claw-foot tub. When I was finally able to stand and look in the mirror I noticed a black eye from hitting my face on the windowsill on the way down. Later, in my thirties, I had an episode during a doctor’s exam and awoke to a needle of atropine, or liquid adrenaline, ready to plunge into my heart. I got my actual diagnosis that day: I had a seizure and flatlined. My heart stopped long enough for the nurse to run to the next room, load the needle with atropine, and come back. I had gone into the doctor’s office that day for a routine exam and I left with the news that I had a condition. I now had a story that helped me make sense of the most confusing pieces of my life.
Yet another time I seized and flatlined in a food court in front of my three-year-old daughter. I was unconscious long enough for the paramedics to arrive. They helped me, but of course could do nothing for the emotional scars that this caused my little girl. When I was coming to, I heard her ask the paramedics in her tiny little voice if mommy died.
My worst seizure was when I was almost forty. My husband found me unconscious and crumpled in the corner of the kitchen with my eyes fixed and unblinking and my body rigid. He prompted me to breathe over and over again each time I stopped. I remember feeling the ease with which silence takes over when there’s no breath and no heartbeat. I remember hearing myself bargaining to survive—one self saying I should die for good, the other arguing to stay. My husband kept his hand on my chest for what seemed like forever, and he lovingly crawled with me in slow motion all the way up the stairs to our bedroom, inch by excruciating inch.
These are only a handful of times out of the many episodes that snuck up on me out of thin air and whisked everything away. In these moments of silent heart and mind I’ve experienced a consciousness that has a life of its own—one that seemed to inform the path I’d eventually take in life. Each of these blackouts fully engaged me in an alternate reality I perceived was real, including waking up with visceral memories of events I swore I was engaged in while I was actually unconscious. Fortunately, these alternate narratives gave me vital information through metaphor and storyline, which I never once took for granted. For example, the first day I experienced Zahara, The Mother, during my first blackout, was the day she taught me the importance of neurons as they relate to my ability to communicate and to heal myself.
Because some of us learn best through facts, and others of us learn best through allegory, I was well aware that my visions in these states were as important as what I might learn in a waking logic state. They seemed to be breadcrumb trails to the gateways of my wholeness.
I have spent most of my life navigating these episodes, searching for the cause and the cure, trying to glean meaning that would somehow justify the trauma I felt, and the damage I perceived I did to my daughter’s sense of safety in the world. These events shaped my life in powerful ways and led me to learn about my brain’s neurology and my central nervous system’s wiring. In all of that research and self-exploration I found a way to rise above my conscious and subconscious limitations. I experienced a way to use a whole-brained approach to heal my trauma, rewrite my limiting beliefs, and live from a place of wholeness. This book is the fulfillment of a promise I made to myself to share this powerful work with you in the hopes of empowering those of you on the edge of physical, mental, or emotional collapse.
Although I wrestled with the concept of death as a very real and imminent option for far too long, I am not unique. Death is a very imminent option for you as well, but for the most part, we don’t think about it that way. I’ll bet you don’t normally think the next bite of lunch will be your last or that the magazine you’re reading in the bathroom may be the last thing you ever see. You probably don’t focus on the fact that this may be the very last sentence you ever read. Instead, we easily drift into the illusion that we have the next minute, the next hour, and even tomorrow. We plan for events in the future with excitement in the belief that we will be alive to see them come to fruition. This is a gift that keeps us moving forward, and it can also be a hindrance that causes us to go about our days as an automaton and without reverence. What if you didn’t have the illusion of tomorrow to hold on to? What if today was your very last day? How would you live your life differently? Would you step bravely into your wholeness?
I lost longevity’s grand illusion long ago. In losing that I easily steeped and festered in the grip of fear, anticipating the worst could happen at any moment. We can lock into the search and avoidance of fear and get stuck in a negative loop. This makes us contract around opportunities, too afraid to take risks that may lead to mistakes and pain. Maybe this sounds familiar to you. Maybe you are someone who can’t help but prepare for the worst, always. I spent a long while functioning like this.
But my otherworldly experiences, visions, and meditations informed me of another option: to see in the mind’s eye that life is temporary and fleeting, and to use that lens to extract the juice out of every moment with gratitude as though it were the very last. I have learned to make the most of life because I know it is not a dress rehearsal. This belief or story liberates me, opens me up to possibilities, and gives rise to opportunities of expansion. This belief demands I savor each moment and interaction. This belief causes me to choose forgiveness and compassion over judgment and punishment. I’m hoping over the course of this book you discover what’s possible when you revere each of life’s moments.
As the founder and creator of what I term the Neurosculpting modality, I have marveled at the gifts these life experiences have afforded me. I am committed to helping individuals find a way to move out of fear, rewrite their limiting stories, and savor more of life. I have taught these techniques to first responders since 2007 as a way for them to deal with their daily stress and long-term post-traumatic stress disorders. I am honored to be a civilian who has the unique opportunity to go into the depths of a police agency’s pain and emotional vulnerability and help guide them to lasting healing. I’ve taught this powerful technique to individuals from the CIA, FBI, Secret Service, the U.S. Military, and Homeland Security. I have a private practice teaching those who are stuck in the grip of limitation and fear. Because this work can benefit the masses, I created the Neurosculpting Institute as a place where people could learn how to transform their lives. This often involves introductory experiences, in-depth curricula about neuroplasticity, nutrition, and hands-on meditation exercises. Those who benefit from Neurosculpting get a comprehensive package of exercises and tools for daily use. I’ve created a place where science and mindfulness come together in full support of mind, body, and spirit healing. It’s a place where people come to learn how to embody spirit, understand their physiology, extract more from life, learn how to give from their highest self, integrate their fractured selves, and be agents of change in their own lives. We accomplish this without dogma or formal religion, welcoming all.
The analytical side of me always wanted to put a reason to things. I wanted to find a cause-and-effect relationship for events in my life and to find comfort in thinking I knew something. The mystical side of me always wanted permission to not care about a cause-and-effect relationship or a logical reason for things. It just wanted to be.
My experiences, seizures, and visions showed me that until I found a way to merge the analytical, science-based side of me with the experiential, intuitive, and fantastical side, there would always be a one-sided approach to life. Worse, that one-sided approach would always be in conflict with the opposing and silenced part that had no permission to express itself. I already knew life was too short and too rich to allow for this type of limited existence. I will offer you that same opportunity in this book to access both the analytical side and the fantastical side to find out what they both have to offer in your pursuit of healing and wholeness. The visionary journeys I describe at the beginning of each chapter are an opportunity for accessing the metaphorical content informing the science-based studies I engaged in.
So what fresh perspective could a regular person like me offer to a timeless exploration of head versus heart, body versus spirit? Surely, if I were a guru or political leader, I’d come in as a heavyweight, right? My status or credentials might give my insights extra value or credence in your mind. I want to be as forthright with you as possible because I believe we are establishing a relationship through this work. I have no intention of pretending to be a scientist, doctor, therapist, or any other ist.
I believe this journey we take together offers you something quite special. We begin on a level playing field. From that space, I have the opportunity to converse with you as I ponder some of the big questions and possibilities presented in this book. Generally, I like to ask lots of questions, which has made me a great student. I present many of them here for you to think about, but I may not always offer answers. We’ll explore topics ranging from mental illness to unconditional love to death, and many things in between. Perhaps it is our collective job to derive answers that work best for us. Maybe those are yet to be discovered.
I am a teacher at my core, not because I am an expert, but because I know the best way to learn, synthesize, and integrate is to share what I know so others create their own relationships with that information. As you reflect the information shared, I gain a deeper understanding. So, you see, I need you to find your own way through all of this in order for each of us to understand it more deeply. It is imperative that you question areas of this text, that you take threads of content and go off on your own journey of education and experience, and that you allow content that feels right to you to embed and grow roots in your life. In this way we are synergistic, symbiotic in our application of this information. This is how we create a ripple effect. As this book explores what it means to live in a common language between heart and head, I begin to relate to you differently. You then explore these same ideas and relate to your world differently. Only together can we make lasting change and shift everything.
Some teachings foster a leader-follower relationship, which I personally find disempowering for everyone. It’s easy to fall into a passive role and not do the work if all you have to do is follow someone who has. I had a very uncomfortable and interesting experience once in having to fire a student for this very thing. This student was nice enough, and seemed very interested in applying neurosculpting to rewriting some of her patterns. We worked together for a little more than a year. She came to each session with copious notes about what she observed in her life. She took notes throughout each session. She learned techniques in our private sessions, attended many of my workshops—sometimes twice—and seemed very eager for change. I began to notice that although she spent time in learning sessions with me, there were very few changes in her behavior. At first I began to feel like maybe I wasn’t teaching her very well. Soon I began to receive emails asking for special treatment, extra attention, and discounts or free sessions. At this point I asked how much she was using the many tools I had taught her.
Her answer was that she was not. At that point I had to admit that I could assist no further. As I am not a therapist, it felt as though the teacher-student relationship had shifted in a direction of co-dependence. Her life was still a mess by her own definition. She was well-equipped with acute observation, but she hadn’t applied any of the practices. Observations only go so far, and then one must choose if they are truly ready to change their patterns. In my opinion, cultivating the actual practice is possibly more important than spending years adding layers to our self-reflections. In the spirit of empowerment I am giving you a platform upon which to create a practice of your very own.
I created Neurosculpting out of my own limitations with the many meditation and energetic modalities I’d learned. I perceived some of those teachings to be very one-sided, engaging only pieces of my whole self. I have been meditating since I was a young child. I used meditation for many things: relaxation, coping, healing, exploration, and fun. But as an adult, after decades of a meditation practice with great teachers, I felt like I hit a plateau. Shouldn’t life be much different by now? Much richer? Much more neutral? More magical? Shouldn’t I have a handle on my gripping fears that seemed to be the trigger for my seizures? Yet my life still felt as if I was just holding on, effort-fully attempting to be joyous, barely coping with some of my darkest stories. Why wasn’t I allowed to be my analytical self in meditation? Why wasn’t I allowed to be my intuitive self in my corporate job? Why did I have to compartmentalize pieces of me like hushed children wanting to be heard?
So I dove deeper into my studies of the brain and medical neuroscience.
Huge pieces of this puzzle fell into place as I learned of the mind’s relationship to my thoughts and nervous system. (I use mind
and brain
synonymously, although I recognize a great debate in this area.) I realized that perhaps I was still in my infancy when it came to meditation; that maybe others could access healing I couldn’t because they started from a different place. It was time to take some big steps backwards and stumble right into this design called Neurosculpting.
WHAT IS NEUROSCULPTING?
Neurosculpting is a mental training process that quiets our fight-or-flight center and activates our prefrontal cortex, which is the mind’s seat of our compassion and empathy. It also engages left- and right-brain stimulation and incorporates a somatic awareness for a whole-brain and whole-body approach to meditation and rewiring. It’s a lifestyle of day-to-day exercises, nutritional tenets, and meditations designed to allow dialogue between the compartmentalized and silenced parts of ourselves. It involves learning about a brain-supportive diet, exercising, identifying and enhancing opportunities for neuroplasticity throughout your day, and practicing regular meditations for mental training. The benefits of this regimen are deep and long-lasting. Neurosculpting contributes to increased cognitive functioning, reduces emotional and physical stress, supports a healthy immune system and a reduction in inflammation, increases growth hormones in the brain by way of exercise, stimulates creativity, supports mood regulation, and creates a ripe platform for creating new beliefs.
It is a practice that takes commitment, and a commitment that takes practice.
This lifestyle practice helps individuals identify and create a ripe environment for the brain to drop its old stories and prime it to believe a new and better story or belief about oneself. Our inherent gifts of neuroplasticity showed me that I could program or encode stories or beliefs much better if I primed myself with nutrition, mental dynamics, and the right exercises before trying to tell the new story. And what if that story involved the union of mind, body, and spirit? We’ll explore this idea much more in our time together.
This practice is the thread that sutures together mind, body, and spirit, allowing us to live more fully and in a more integrated way than we have before. Just as language has a grammatical structure and syntax that provides us a foundation from which to express our most amorphous and slippery thoughts, I needed a foundation—a language—that could help communicate my most spiritually expansive desires and experiences in a way that made sense through the body-world in which I live. I was tired of separating and isolating amazing magical moments of awe and expansion as though I could only have those if I were off on some retreat, far away from the daily grind of my life.
The meta-structure of Neurosculpting provided far more than I ever thought possible. My episodes of seizures and flatlining disappeared. At that point, I knew I had to share all of this with anyone who would listen and participate.
HOW TO MAKE THE MOST OF THIS BOOK
Because I was trained as an educator, I present this information in a way that offers you opportunities to make it your own and to perhaps create a study guide. Perhaps you’re like me in believing two halves of the brain are better than one. In that spirit, I’ve begun most of the chapters with some of my meditational experiences, which may engage the experiential side of your brain. While reading these you may feel appeasement for that fantastical side of you. You may find these sections help you get lost in vivid narrative or evoke emotional responses. They don’t follow any rules of logic or evidence-based reality. They are simply what occurred either during my episodes or in my deep meditations. I present them for those of you who want to know more about the visions that have driven my approach to this work and for those of you who want encouragement to explore your own dreams. For those of you wanting a new way to access information about your own life, these visions demonstrate how that can happen. The snippets I’ve chosen for you are some of the ones that have informed my life’s deepest