Doctors often hesitate to treat addiction due to a lack of institutional support. A recent NIH study reveals that most physicians face barriers like insufficient resources, training, and support from their organizations. Addressing these issues is crucial for better addiction care. Read more about the findings and the need for systemic changes. 🌟 https://lnkd.in/eJTtByQS #OvercomeAddiction #RecoveryJourney #LoveAnotherWay
Live Well and Fully
Professional Training and Coaching
Where moms of adult children with addictions shed their 'Mom Code' & fight the disease with Love Another Way strategies.
About us
Hi, I’m Barbara Decker, Parent Recovery Advocate. I’m a Certified Family Recovery Specialist (CFRS) and founder of Live Well and Fully. Read reviews of our work here: https://endorsal.io/reviews/live-well-and-fully. I help parents of adult children with the disease of addiction free themselves from the non-stop worry. I help them reclaim pockets of peace and joy in their lives. We do this all in a way that gives the child every possible opportunity to choose recovery. I came to this work through my own journey with my son Eric’s addiction. It shocked me to the core when I learned he’d become addicted to meth. I spent years agonizing over every little thing I said or did. I tried to keep him close. Tried to help him. All I did was push him further away. I was at my wits’ end and ready to give up all hope, when a wise clinician taught me something I’ll never forget. She said: “You Can’t Change Anyone Else. The Only Person You Can Change Is You.” It was a hard truth to accept. Once I did, everything changed. I went from being frantic and worried all the time… to being calm, peaceful and serene. Even while Eric was still using. I stopped paying his bills and driving him all over town… and made myself the priority instead. I never stopped loving my son. I stopped trying to prove I loved him by constantly trying to rescue or fix him. I now refer to this compulsion to “prove our Mom-hood” as the Mom Code. I ditched my Mom Code. Instead, I began to love my son another way. And the fire of addiction began to recede until he eventually chose recovery for himself. He’s been in recovery since 2018, and he’s grown into the man I knew he could be. And he’s now an active part of my work helping moms reclaim peace in their lives and support their kids in ways that actually work.
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https://livewellandfully.com/
External link for Live Well and Fully
- Industry
- Professional Training and Coaching
- Company size
- 2-10 employees
- Type
- Self-Owned
- Founded
- 2018
- Specialties
- Family Recovery, Addiction Recovery, Boundary Setting, Love Another Way, Transformative Boundaries, Mental Health Awareness, Coaching, Certified Family Recovery Specialist, Codependency, and Enabling
Employees at Live Well and Fully
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How Moms of Addicts Reclaim Control of Their Child’s Crisis Situations to Restore Peace I peacefully regained control of my addict child’s ‘crisis situations’ by using this '4 step decision process' to restore my health again. My heart would break every time I got a late night call. My world would spin out of control as I dropped everything to ‘rescue him’. Even when deep down I knew I was doing him no good long term by ‘bailing him out’ again. Everyone close to me would repeat the same thing: “Set boundaries” and “don’t enable.” But even when I set boundaries and rules - nothing changed. But his struggles not only controlled his life… they controlled mine. I searched for a solution everywhere. And when I was out of options, I took a step back, and developed my own process. Then I tested it on my son Eric. The next time he called with a new ‘emergency’, I was able to take back control of the situation. And finally the situation actually CHANGED. I felt in control. I regained power over the situation. I no longer faced the manipulation and the chaos. This entire process started by pausing and making a decision on what to do by asking myself a set of 4 questions. This process also turned into the catalyst for my son turning his life around. Today he has a promising career and a loving relationship with a wonderful lady. I’m so proud. And according to my son, it was the shift in ME that allowed HIM to choose recovery. After seeing this worked for me and him, I’m convinced of this: This is the strongest love a mother can offer. And because I’m so passionate about bringing change to even more lives… I’ve created a quick, digestible blueprint that walks you through this 4 step process. I call it the “Managing Any Chaos Blueprint” A downloadable document along with a walk-through video on how to use this 4 step process. This process would have saved me YEARS of chaos and worry. (Not to mention saving me thousands of dollars spent on ineffective counseling.) https://lnkd.in/gtZ-bRvp Find a pocket of joy in your day today. Barbara 🙏 #OvercomeAddiction #RecoveryJourney #AddictionFreedom #LoveAnotherWay
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These numbers are more than just statistics—they represent real lives, real families struggling every day. If you’re facing this battle with a loved one, you’re not alone. There’s strength in seeking support and understanding the challenges ahead. Let’s keep the conversation going. 💙 Support is available here: https://lnkd.in/es9MFs_t #EndTheStigma #OpioidCrisis #SupportEachOther #LoveAnotherWay
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You deserve peace, even when life feels messy. 💖 Protect it, because you’re worth it. #selfcare #selflove #selfrespect #loveanotherway
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Self-sabotage in addiction recovery is a common hurdle. It’s when individuals engage in behaviors that disrupt their progress. Understanding why this happens and addressing it with strategies like therapy and new routines can make a big difference. Learn how to support your loved one and help them overcome these challenges. https://lnkd.in/edVn6UXh #RecoveryIsPossible #AddictionAwareness #LoveAnotherWay
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Connecting with others who understand can make such a difference. Every step forward, no matter how small, is a victory. 💪✨ Together, we grow stronger. ❤️ So proud of you Nansi. This is the program that changed Nansi's relationship with her son: https://lnkd.in/eFY7R5cC #AddictionFreedom #HealingFromAddiction #LoveAnotherWay
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Ladies, your voice matters. Let’s make today about speaking up for what you need and deserve. 💪 #selfcare #selflove #selfrespect #loveanotherway
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A new natural analgesic might replace opioids long-term, offering hope in the fight against opioid addiction. Researchers have found aniquinazolin B, a substance from marine fungus, that binds to opioid receptors with fewer side effects. This could be a game-changer for pain management and the opioid crisis. 🌿 Learn more about this promising discovery and its potential impact. https://lnkd.in/emphirSU #addiction #addictionrecovery #loveanotherway
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Time to Erase Pointless Understanding Recently, I wrote about the crux of your relationship challenges. Pointless Understanding. This means trying to figure out why other people behave as they do can seem like a futile exercise, often leading to feeling powerless and full of frustration. When you decide you've had enough of the Pointless Understanding syndrome, I invite you to explore our Love Another Way Framework. This solution will forever change how you experience relationships. This game-changer in improving relationships is Loving Another Way. Sounds unusual, doesn't it? It's a whole new approach to relationships that you'd probably want to learn more about. Stop trying to figure out why people behave as they do and focus on mastering Loving Another Way. This shift lets you erect potent boundaries and ensures productive communication, empowering you in the truest sense. Curiosity piqued? Don't fancy the idea of fighting the same battles over and over again? Head over to one of these links and peek inside and see what we're up to: Love Another Way applied in how you set real boundaries https://lnkd.in/gKYccVra Love Another Way applied in how you communicate. https://lnkd.in/gT2AwtDp Trust me, this revelation is so epic, you'll question how you got by without it. Indeed, it's the ultimate antidote to what keeps you up at night: Pointless Understanding. Find a pocket of joy in your day today. Barbara 🙏 #strongwomen #healing #KnowYourWorthLadies #loveanotherway
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You deserve to be valued and respected every single day. 🌸 Take a deep breath, trust in your strength, and let go of anything that doesn’t align with your worth. 💪❤️ You’ve got this. #selfcare #selflove #selfrespect #loveanotherway
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