From the course: Interpersonal Communication Nano Tips with Selena Rezvani

Disagree without being defensive

- Just because you disagree with someone else, doesn't mean you need to come off as harsh or defensive. To communicate that you have a different take on an issue, you can try making an offer by saying something like, "I have a different perspective on the situation. Would you like to hear it?" Or you could validate an aspect of their point and say, "That's partly true in my experience, but here's what I see as the real issue." And if you flat out think differently, you could say something like, "I don't share that view. I think ABC." Remember, disagreement is a healthy sign in a team. Allow space for it. Encourage others to address their concerns, and be willing to share your own.

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