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You're capable and competent. You gat this legal Practice. That's what I tell my young self in practice. That's what I tell myself in my first year as a lawyer That's what I tell New wigs. That's what I tell young lawyers That's what I tell any incoming Bar aspirants You are good enough You are capable. You're Competent. You deserve to be here. They may ask, what Experience do you have? How long have you been in practice? Where are you coming from? Rechant this Chant to them. I am Good enough. I am Competent. I am capable. And this here has formed part of my Morning Chant. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐥𝐚𝐰𝐲𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐉𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐫 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐲 "𝐋𝐞𝐭 𝐧𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐡" 𝟏s𝐭 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝟒:𝟏𝟐. Another translation will say, "let no man look down or make fun of your youth" 𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 "𝐋𝐄𝐓" 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦. It's in your hands to give permission for people to look down on you and your legal Practice. 𝐃𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐠 𝐋𝐚𝐰𝐲𝐞𝐫, Guide your mind again the people that are despising or mocking your baby steps. Do not allow them to mess up your psychology. You baby steps is a stepping stone to your Giant Strides, never allow any man to despise that. 𝐊𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐞𝐲𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐚𝐥𝐥. If this is your first time of seeing me or my post. Well, My name is Merit Divine-Abagha (CHcm) , I help young lawyers to practice effectively by sharing tips and tricks that can help them to navigate the maze of Legal profession. Follow us at EAGLITE LEGAL CONSULT Click on the notification button🔔, to get notified anytime I make a post. Because there is more where it came from. IMAGE DESCRIPTION: How I look at Naysayers. #LegalPractice #Year, 2024 #YoungLawyers. #YoungInLegalBlog #NigerianLawyer #YoungLawyerEnthusiast

To all the advocates and attorneys out there, remember this: your work matters. As legal professionals, you have the power to make a positive impact on individuals, communities, and society as a whole. Your work can make a meaningful difference in someone's life. I understand the struggles of non-payment of legal fees and worrying about where to get clients, but it's important to take pride in your work and in your ability to navigate complex legal systems and advocate effectively on behalf of your clients. The feeling of accomplishment that comes from successfully resolving a case or achieving a positive outcome for a client can be a powerful motivator. Many of you are driven by a deep commitment to justice and equality, fighting for the rights of marginalized and underserved populations. Personal fulfillment is another source of motivation for advocates and attorneys, whether it's the intellectual challenge of solving complex legal issues, the opportunity to continuously learn and grow in your profession, or the satisfaction of using your skills and expertise to help others. Remember why you entered the legal profession and focus on the positive impact you can have. By staying connected to your sense of purpose, your commitment to justice, and your personal fulfillment, you can find the motivation you need to navigate the challenges of your profession and continue to serve your clients effectively. As the wife of an advocate, who understand all this, I always remember this verse, take it to heart: "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me" (Philippians 4:13).

Practical and important principles for each legal practitioner to live by 💯!!

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Going through a separation is tough, and we totally get it. But did you know that what you post on social media during this time could have serious consequences? That's right, your posts could have a significant impact on your children and even affect the outcome of your separation. Here are some essential tips to keep in mind: 🚫 Don't air your dirty laundry: Avoid venting frustrations or sharing intimate details about your ex-partner online. It's best to keep personal matters private. 👍 DO focus on positive communication with your ex-partner. Keep the conversations respectful and child-centered. Show that you're committed to co-parenting effectively, even if it's challenging. 📢 DO consider the impact of your posts on your children. They might stumble upon them one day, so make sure they reflect a loving and supportive environment for their sake. 🤐 Think before you post: Before hitting that 'share' button, ask yourself if the content could be misinterpreted or used against you in family law proceedings. 💼 Seek legal advice: If unsure about what is appropriate to post during this delicate time, consult a family lawyer who can provide guidance tailored to your situation. Remember, effective communication with your ex-partner is key when it comes to co-parenting. Let's focus on creating a positive environment for our children! 🌈✨ #FamilyLaw #SeparationSupport #ParentingAfterDivorce #AllenEvansFamilyLawyers

When I started practice, I didn’t want people to know that I am a lawyer. Because, When I walked my child in stroller in my neighbourhood, neighbours would approach me to ask about drafting a will or transfer of property. When I went to saloon to have my hair wash or massage, the hairdresser or masseur would ask me advice about divorce or family matter. When I accompanied my parents to wedding dinners, parents’ friends or relatives would ask for legal advice on various matters. I didn’t get to have my peace of mind then. However, after I set up my own firm, I became more readily to introduce myself as a lawyer to others. When I went jogging in my neighbourhood, I would tell people that I am a lawyer instead of office admin when being asked what was my occupation. When I attended dinners and functions, I would have my name cards ready so that when I was given the chance, I could have enough to distribute it. When I meet new people, I would not mind sharing my working experience as a lawyer so that they could get to know me more and have me in mind when they think of legal services. Ever since I become my own boss, I have started to embrace a totally different approach. Because, I won’t get to have my peace of mind if I don’t get enough people knowing me as a lawyer to refer businesses or cases. When the situation change, the mindset change. The definition of peace of mind also change 🫢 #lawyers #lawyertale #shortstories #season4

🔍 **Understanding Maintenance Rights After Quitting Work** One common concern among spouses seeking maintenance is whether their past employment affects their entitlement. Let me clarify: your decision to stop working does not automatically negate your right to maintenance from your spouse. In my experience, I've encountered cases where spouses questioned their eligibility for maintenance because they had a job before or during the marriage but stopped working later on. However, it's essential to understand that your past employment history doesn't erase your need for financial support, especially if you left work for reasons related to marital or family obligations. I recently handled a similar case where the wife had a job before marriage but ceased working afterward. Despite her past employment, the court recognized her right to maintenance based on various factors, including the standard of living during the marriage and the husband's financial capacity. So, if you find yourself in a similar situation, remember that your past employment doesn't diminish your entitlement to maintenance. Seek legal advice to understand your rights and pursue the support you deserve. #MaintenanceRights #LegalInsights #FamilyLaw #FinancialSupport #DivorceProceedings #lawyers #law #lawyer #legal #lawfirm #lawyerlife #lawyersofinstagram #attorney #lawschool #attorneys #lawstudent #justice #advocate #supremecourt #lawstudents #legalnews #lawyering #court #personalinjury #attorneyatlaw #litigation #indianlaw #clat #lawyerslife #highcourt #advocates #legalupdates #judiciary #lawyerstyle #familylaw

🌟 Walking in Your Shoes: How Compassion Helps Me be a Better Lawyer 🌟 As an estate’s lawyer, I'm privileged to guide individuals and families through some of life's most challenging transitions. Here's why I believe compassion and empathy are integral to doing the best job for my clients: 🤝 Understanding Your Journey: Each client's journey is unique, often marked by profound loss and emotional upheaval. By putting myself in your shoes, I gain a deeper understanding of your experiences, concerns, and hopes, allowing me to provide support tailored to your needs. 💼 Tailoring Legal Solutions: Compassion isn't just about offering a sympathetic ear—it's about using that understanding to craft effective legal solutions. By empathizing with your situation, I can develop strategies that honour your loved one's legacy while addressing your practical and emotional needs. 💬 Open Communication and Trust: Compassion fosters open communication and trust between us. When you know that I genuinely care about your well-being and respect your perspective, it creates a foundation of trust that allows us to work together more effectively toward achieving your goals. 🌈 Navigating Complex Emotions: Estate administration often evokes a whirlwind of emotions, from grief and confusion to relief and closure. My compassionate approach ensures that you have the support and guidance you need to navigate these emotions with grace and resilience. ⚖️ Promoting Fairness and Justice: By understanding your perspective, I can advocate for fairness and justice on your behalf. Whether it's resolving disputes amicably or safeguarding your loved one's wishes, my compassion fuels my commitment to securing the best possible outcomes for you. In summary, compassion isn't just a soft skill—it's a cornerstone of Caring Estates. By walking alongside you with empathy and understanding, I strive to not only meet your legal needs but also provide a source of comfort and reassurance during a challenging time. Your trust and confidence mean the world to me! 🌟💼 #CompassionateProbate #HelpingGrievingFamilies

Help me answer this question, why are lawyers held in such low esteem? Rewind to 2010, the business I was working for was going under. My late wife encouraged me return to school and get a career. After lengthy discussions, we determined the law was the way to go. I had hesitations based on stereotypes, but it still seemed like the obvious choice. So, I enroll in law school. I was waiting to meet the crafty defense lawyer from Law and Order. Was the competition steep? Sure. However, with 2 or 3 exceptions anyone I interacted with was not cutthroat. In fact, the most stressful period is the first semester. On the third day of that semester, my wife gave birth to our second child. Students I barely knew approached me and offered notes or to help me catch up. People only got nicer during those 3 years, as the pressure let up. In the last 15 years, I have interacted with 1000s of lawyers in different capacities. In fact, I pivoted part of my practice to what many describe as the dirtiest area of the law, divorce. Even there, I have certainly met a few shysters. Yet, while most are zealous advocates for their clients, the overwhelming majority are kind people and negotiating with them are a pleasure. So I ask, why is it that lawyers are known to be greedy, selfish, heartless and the like? How is it that a few bad apples cloud the whole orchard? What do you think? #law #lawyer #divorce #attorney