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Serving Moms of Adult Children With Addictions and/or Mental Illness | Reclaim Peace In Your Home and Heart | Encourage Recovery By Replacing Your Intuitive "Mom Code" With The More Effective Love Another Way Framework

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด Have you ever thought your actions could be enabling your sonโ€™s or daughterโ€™s disease? ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒโ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด. โ€œIf I say yes to his request, am I helping him get better or enabling his disease?โ€ โ€œIf I lend her money for transportation, am I helping or enabling her?โ€ โ€œIf I do this, am I loving or enabling them?โ€ These are questions all of us ask ourselves almost every day. Sometimes it can be nerve-wracking to figure it out because their behaviors are so erratic. You canโ€™t tell if youโ€™re helping or enabling. Their disease is so good at lying and getting what they want. But not anymore. One person with addiction in the LoveAnotherWay JumpStart Guide ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜€๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—น๐˜†โ€ฆ ๐—˜๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ผ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ โ€œ๐—”๐—›๐—”โ€ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐˜†. Suddenly, everything became clear. Now, they started SEEING which kind of behavior is loving and which kind is enabling. And they see why. Once you invest in the LoveAnotherWay JumpStart Guide, youโ€™ll see what the fine line is. As clear as day. Itโ€™s a refreshing revelation that no one has talked about. Only people with addiction know this. Now itโ€™s your turn. Click below to invest in the LoveAnotherWay JumpStart Guide and youโ€™ll see what I mean. https://lnkd.in/ep_jMRa4 Find a pocket of joy in your day today. Barbara ๐Ÿ™ P.S. LoveAnotherWay JumpStart Guide is perfect for moms who want to dip their toes and evaluate whether Love Another Way works for them without pouring in too much time and money upfront. ๐—๐—ผ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐˜† ๐—”๐˜‚๐—ด๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿด ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ฒโ€™๐—น๐—น ๐—ด๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—”๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ช๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ-๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ. #addiction #recovery #loveanotherway

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