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New Online Course! 🚀 A few months ago, a dear client, now friend/ collaborator, came back from a dinner with former colleagues with a heavy heart.😔 “Everyone was feeling miserable - kind of accepting that that was their life and that there wasn’t much else to do about it. It was so depressing!” Things like: … I have no life. I live for my job; and even there, I feel undervalued. … I chose the wrong career - Architects / x / are Always underpaid. … My wellbeing is the least of my priorities, I need to make ends meet. … I'm drained (I don't have a drop of energy left). … I have everything to be okay, and yet I'm not fulfilled. … I always thought my life would be different… We had worked together in the past, and she was now in a better place, so she knew there was more to life than that. We had to do something to help. Because one thing I've learned is that life isn't meant to be experienced that way. 🌈 And so, I gathered a team and we set out to take these people on a journey.  A journey to take them from ‘stuck in a dull routine’ to ‘excited by life’s possibilities!’🌟 With a single premise: the clear understanding that if they didn’t change anything, nothing would. And so, this new course “Nothing Changes if Nothing Changes” came to life. If you are in a similar space, or know someone that is, I invite you to check it out and help me spread the word! This was made with love and with the deep trust that we are the creators of our own life experience. All we need to do is take responsibility for it! ❤️ Love, Paula PS: Official Go live is Jan 1st! Secure a special price by pre-ordering before Dec 31st! 🚀 Link in comments 🙂 #tobehonest #onlinecourse #nothingchangesifnothingchanges #personaldevelopment #transformation

Imagine you’re a successful man and: You realize you want something more in life So, to remedy how you feel, you try 1. Changing jobs 2. Figuring things out on your own 3. Or doing nothing, because you don’t know what to do But that isn’t helping, so you 1. Feel more frustrated 2. Consider giving up 3. Bottle up your feelings and keep them to yourself 4. Engage in unhealthy behaviors to fill the void inside Then, you seek help and hire a coach and: → You start feeling a sense of relief because the coach has a plan → You feel a sense of hope for the first time → You feel motivated because you have support → Fear of the unknown and fear of change is no longer holding you back Within 8 weeks, you start to: → Regain your confidence → Gain crystal clear CLARITY on your new direction → Start feeling whole again- like the successful man you really are → Overcome those fears holding you back from making a change → Create a path leading to purpose and meaning by design- not by default Now, your narrative reads: “I got my life back! I have purpose, and meaning and wake up excited about my life and career again” 3 ways I help you get the BIG result: — Working 1:1 — Through my transformational 8-week program — Being available every day for support and questions You need a proven system to get unstuck and get your life back. To create your next chapter by design, not by default, and find the purpose and meaning you’re looking for → I can help you do it Ps- You’re over 40, and the clock is ticking

Life lesson- Part 5 final week !!! 12 years ago throwback picture. Over the past 5 weeks, I have being sharing my experience working in the media for over 12 years, I started my journey in May of 2012, and it has being a beautiful experience for me, Trust me I have the good, the bad and the ugly, but all of them were just preparing me to become this great amazing person you see The ninth lesson is make sacrifices- In life you must learn to be selfless and available for others, it doesn't always have to be about you, you and you. Learn to give and make sacrifices for others no matter how little, it will go a long way and be beneficial to you. Show up for others, do not be selfish, but be willing to go out of your way for others sometimes, do not do this though at the detriment of your career and health, but then people will know if you truly make sacrifices or you are just pretending. The last lesson is surround yourself with trustworthy/reliable people- As you get older, you'll see that no man is truly an island; we all need different individuals at different stages of life to help us get through difficult situations. Do not mix the position of friends, know and recognise the lines. Some you will trust to tell your secrets to, some you will never trust or else the world will hear, some you hang out with, eat and gist and some you discuss business with. In life understand that you need people, you can't do it all alone, we will always need shoulders to lean on, just decide whose shoulder to lean on, once you can get this clear, you can avoid drastic mistakes in life, and spare yourself unnecessary heart breaks, because no matter what happens we still need people to go far. See you in my next series. #life #lessons #lifelessons #media #digitalsales #career #myjourney #learningcurve #lifeisaprocess #rightattitude #attitude #workersday #patience #time #may #12years

You don't get to skip the hard work. I am back at the airport this morning - heading to Dana Point. I've been on this travel schedule for the last six months. I am away from home 3 of the next four weeks. Oh, and by the way... I am getting paid $0. Why do I choose to do it? Because the man I was in January is VASTLY different than I am today. My confidence and certainty as a coach, trainer, speaker, consultant, and teacher are absurdly high. The time spent under tension leading hundreds of men and women, the reps guiding people to breakthroughs and transformation, 'is invaluable. Every month, the work compounds on itself. Every four weeks, my value as a man skyrockets. There is a price you have to pay to get what you want. The work you do today won't be realized for weeks, months, or even years. And this is where most of you start to get fucked in the head. Because you don't see immediate results and are focused on short-term "ROI" and fast cash, you devalue the work and stop doing it. Then you wonder why your life looks exactly the same as it did a year ago. Because you REFUSED to do the basic boring work EVERY FUCKING DAY and fall in love with boredom. At some point, you will have to become obsessed with the life you want to create. Only then will you do the work that is required. There is no life hack or shortcut to success. It's fucking work. A lot of it. But the person you become along the way can never be taken away from you. Get after it today.

Are you feeling stuck in your career and life? You're not alone. Many professionals in their 30s and 40s face challenges that hinder them from living the life they truly desire. But here's the good news: you have the power to take action and live the life you want. If you're experiencing career dissatisfaction, work-life balance issues, financial stress, or relationship tension, it's time to take a step back and reflect. Start by prioritizing your values, passions, and goals. What truly matters to you? What kind of life do you want to create for yourself and your loved ones? Investing in your personal and professional growth is also essential. Seek mentors, coaches, and resources that can guide you on your journey. And don't forget to prioritize your well-being by establishing boundaries that honor your physical, mental, and emotional health. Remember, getting what you want is not impossible unless you don't know what you actually want. Start by reflecting on these three points and share with me what the biggest struggle you're facing right now. For more guidance on how to get what you want out of your career and life, check out https://lnkd.in/gs862v9R

It's absolutely okay to #PressPause in your life!  Remember, you're in charge—the length of your break, when you jump back in, these are your decisions. Own them! Take full responsibility for your time away. Embrace everything that comes with it - the outcomes, the missed opportunities, the 'what ifs'—all of it. Do you feel guilt? Throw it out! That's a useless emotion. Why? For starters, sulking over what you missed sours the sweet memories of your break. And guess what? You can’t rewind time. So, what can you do? Learn from it! Every choice has its price. Recognize it, accept it, and use this knowledge to craft your future decisions better.  Appreciate everything you've gained -the good and the challenging. Both are invaluable.  Stay focused, accept what you have, and pursue what you aim for.  Let's move forward, not just with hope, but with a #plan! #MondayMotivation #OwnYourDecision #TakeABreak

My life is getting wasted. 👎 And I can’t do anything. The frustration of not realizing our full potential or simply feeling like we're not accomplishing enough keeps us awake at night. And let’s get real for a moment. Sometimes it’s not others that prevent us from taking that leap of faith and pursuing our genuine purpose, but ourselves. The 3 major reasons why we don't act to realize our potential are as follows: 😨 Fear 😟 Worry 😓 Insecurity Oh, and there's one more reason, the big 'O’…feeling overwhelmed! It’s like a rollercoaster ride without a seatbelt, which leads to: 💔 Powerlessness 🚫 Inability to reclaim our life ❓ Cluelessness about what steps to take next But hey, chin up! There are solutions to this predicament. Check out these 3 game-changers: 🌟 Taking a short break or vacation to recharge and come back with a fresh mindset. 🌱 Attending workshops, seminars, or events related to our interests. Experimentation can lead to surprising discoveries. 💡 Talking to a career counselor, life coach, or therapist who can help us identify our strengths and passions and align them with potential career paths. Now, take a deep breath, believe in yourself, and take action. Your purpose is waiting to be uncovered, and you have the strength to pursue it. So go ahead and dance on this exciting journey of self-discovery. You've got this! ------------------------------------------------------- Follow me and hit the 🔔 to stay updated. Read my short articles to get inspired. -------------------------------------------------------

The number 1 regret of the dying is not living a life true to themselves, and living a life of what others expect of them. As a society we are influenced by: → Our parents expectations for us → What our friends are doing  → How successful other people “look” → Social prestige associated with professions  → How much money we'll earn → Whether something sounds “secure” Notice the theme? Other people and external validation.  Very few people choose life paths based on themselves, and what they truly love. Deep down, everybody reading this will know whether their life is something they’re TRULY happy with, or if they’re settling. It usually isn’t until people get to their mid careers where they begin to look in the mirror. They realize that life is to be lived, and their talent is being wasted. They have so much to offer the world, but they don’t know where to start. They've spent years in the wrong places, and know something needs to change. Creating a life by design instead of default, is exactly what I work through with my clients. We map out and dive into every area of their life - unpacking every piece.  Once we’ve unpacked everything, we then put the pieces back together, but intentionally. We work through the things that matter most to them only. We get aligned on: Their career path. Their social circles.  Their passion projects.  Their habits and routine Their long term life plan – Their whole lifestyle. We develop a lifestyle that gets them out of bed energized, excited, and ready to take on the world. Don’t be a person that regrets not living a life true to themselves, and wishes they had found their “thing”. For information on my personalized 1:1 coaching programs, DM me “lifestyle” and I'll send the details. _________________________ 🌴 I help people get unstuck and bring their dreams to life 📲 Book a free discovery call in my bio