Colleen Richardson’s Post

Are your career choices being guided by small why’s or your Big Why?   When you first started your career, you likely felt excited and energized by the path ahead. But over time, that initial passion may have faded into a daily routine.   Your life work gets rather dry without the inspiration of your Big Why. What called you to this work originally? Was it tied to a deeper sense of purpose and meaning, or the small why’s?   Small why's come from survival needs and the wound-driven phase of our lives. There is nothing wrong with small why's; they serve a very important function. When we were young we learned certain strategies to please our caregivers and make it to adulthood.   For example, you may work really long hours to please the inner critic who worried that you never did things well enough to please Dad, which gave you the discipline you needed to succeed.   However, using small why's as motivators can get dry as toast over time.   In contrast, your Big Why is your passionate purpose, something that calls you from deep within.   How do you stay in contact with your passionate purpose?   The simplest way is to write it down and post it where you can see it every day where you work. For example, "My purpose is to bring varied pieces into a cohesive whole" or "My mission is to help develop sustainable energy sources for the world."   Yet even that, a statement or three on a piece of paper, can get stale, because it is not dynamically alive the way you are.   The best way to stay in touch with your Big Why is to grow an ongoing two-way relationship with your own inner guidance.   A sustainable relationship with your inner wisdom requires the same kind of time and care as any meaningful relationship. It could happen through meditating, journaling, or contemplating in nature. The most important element is commitment to regular contact.    This allows you to have an evolving understanding of your purpose as well as clarity on the best path for executing it.   Ultimately, don't let yourself get so caught up in the daily tasks that you lose sight of why it matters to you.    By keeping your Big Why front and center, you fuel your career – and life – with inspiration and meaning.   What steps do you need to take to sustain your connection with your passionate purpose?   #mindset #personalgrowth #purpose #motivation

If you're eager for a better personal life, career, or business, embracing the belief that you can improve is crucial. This principle lies at the heart of personal and professional development. The power of belief profoundly shapes our lives. I've personally experienced how embracing change has transformed my life. Fifteen years ago, I was lost and unsure of where I was heading. Belief in my potential to change was the turning point. Believing you can be better influences many of your decisions: - Applying for a job that seems 'too good' for you; - Reaching out to a potential client despite doubts about your offerings; - Choosing to read a book or sign up for a course that could enhance your skills. Today, identify an aspect of your life you wish to enhance. Spend 15 minutes affirming your ability to improve. List actionable steps you can take to better yourself, and then commit to one and act on it. Your life is your story. But you can write a better story. Let today be the first chapter of the new you. #personaldevelopment #professionaldevelopment #newyou #careerdevelopment #personalgrowth #professionalgrowth #careergrowth #growth

Today, I want to address a topic that's been on my mind, and it concerns the conventional wisdom around manifestation and hard work. We often hear advice from well-intentioned individuals, especially those who've experienced life's challenges, about how we should manifest our desires, create vision boards, and work tirelessly to achieve our dreams. While these notions are popular, it's essential to examine them critically. In reality, the hard work that truly matters is the work you do on yourself. It's about recognizing that everything you need to succeed is already within you. It's not about taking on multiple jobs or pursuing endless degrees and titles. Whether you choose to work hard or not, the crucial distinction lies in what you are working on. When you invest in self-improvement and personal growth, you unlock the potential to soar to incredible heights in life. It's a journey toward genuine abundance and freedom. So, let's shift our focus from external pursuits that may provide short-lived relevance to the inner journey that leads to lasting fulfillment and true success. The power to create the life you desire resides within you. #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement

I had a conversation with A about B, C and D. It was an unintentional existential discussion about life, with an old friend A from university. When we were young, we dreamed about where we would go, who we want to be. After over 30 years, we are circling back to the same question - what’s next, after prescribed career life in corporates. I had that clarity a few years earlier while he is only starting to ponder. In the vast expanse of existence, French philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre eloquently painted life as the delicate dance between B and D—Birth and Death. The journey that lies in between in our lifespan, unfolds in the nuanced art of decision-making, where our choices (the enigmatic C) determine the flow of our existence. From the profound decisions that shape our destiny—career, life partner, business ventures—to the poignant moments of choosing between coming and going, starting and ending relationships, we have choices that stretch before us like an infinite horizon. There will be moments when we feel that we have given *ONE* option, do not concede to the view that we have *no choice*. I believe that even in these situations, we retain the power to choose between acceptance, or to resist and feel victimized by the forces that seem to constrain us. What choices do you need to make today? Choose, knowing the impact and implications; Choose to have ownership for your life and live it well. Then brace it and move on – you will get somewhere. #choices #decisionmaking #career #life

🌟 Have you met your future self? 🌟 When was the last time you thought about what you want for your future or who you want to be in your future? In the journey of life and career, connecting with your future self is like gazing into the compass of your destiny. 🧭 It’s not just about setting goals and identifying your values; it’s about cultivating an extreme focus on who you aspire to become. Why is this so important? It is said that we don’t attract what we want; we attract who we are. ✨ So become the person you want to attract. Your future self is the beacon guiding you towards a purpose-driven life and career. Ready to connect with your future self? Start by envisioning the person you aspire to be - professionally and personally. Select a time in your future (6 months, 1 year, or 5 years from now) and imagine you are expressing your best possible self. ↳How do you feel? ↳What is your life like? ↳How do you take action? ↳What are your daily habits? ↳What are your views on life? ↳How do you make decisions? ↳What impact are you making? ↳What goals have you accomplished? ↳What are the qualities that define your future self? ↳How are you dressed and how do you carry yourself? Take on the identity of the person you want to become. Identity drives your behavior. It also dictates your values, mindsets, and personality. If you begin acting like the future version of yourself, you will start to become that person in the present. Who do you aspire to be? Please share in the comments below and let's celebrate each other. 💜 #FutureSelf #CareerTransformation #WingstoTransformation

Have you ever paused to ask yourself, "What truly motivates me?" In our fast-paced world, understanding the source of our motivation is crucial for both personal satisfaction and professional success. 🌟 Reflect on Your Passions: Often, our deepest motivations are intertwined with our passions. What are those activities or topics that ignite your enthusiasm? 🌟 Clarify Your Goals: Goals give us direction. Think about your aspirations in your career, personal life, or learning. How do these goals shape your motivation? 🌟 Learn from Your Successes: Our past achievements can reveal a lot about what drives us. Was it the challenge, the recognition, or perhaps the learning curve that motivated you? 🌟 Resilience in Adversity: Sometimes, our motivation becomes clearest in tough times. What keeps you pushing forward when obstacles arise? Understanding our motivations can transform how we approach our goals, leading to a more fulfilling career and life. I'm curious to hear from you - what motivates you? How have you discovered what drives you in your career and personal life? #Motivation #SelfDiscovery #CareerGoals #LinkedInCommunity

Ask Yourself This Powerful Question: "Does this support the life I'm trying to create?" Feeling stuck in a rut? Don't quite feel like you're moving towards your dream life? We all get there sometimes. But what if there was a simple question you could ask yourself to make better choices and create a life that truly lights you up? The magic question: "Does this support the life I'm trying to create?" This powerful prompt can be applied to every area of your life, from your career decisions to your daily habits. Here's how it works: Considering a new opportunity? Ask yourself if it aligns with your long-term goals. Does it offer the growth and fulfillment you desire? Tempting to stay up late scrolling? Think about how that impacts your energy levels and productivity the next day. Does it support your goal of feeling well-rested and focused? Feeling drained by a negative interaction? Consider if this relationship aligns with the kind of supportive network you want to build. By consistently asking this question, you become more mindful of your choices. Over time, you'll find yourself making decisions that propel you towards your vision of success and happiness. Ready to take control? Start asking yourself this question today! #lifealignment

I lacked DIRECTION until I discovered this…Now, I am passionately fuelled EVERY DAY! Success can feel like a double-edged sword. You've poured your heart and soul into your work and achieved remarkable heights. But beneath the surface, you might face an unexpected adversary: complacency. 🤔 On the surface, everything might seem perfect – you've achieved financial stability, recognition, and respect in your industry. However, beneath this façade lies a profound dilemma. What used to be exhilarating has become routine, leaving you feeling uninspired. You're not content with simply maintaining the status quo. There's an inner restlessness, a nagging feeling that there's more to be achieved, more heights to conquer. This unease can keep you up at night, gnawing at your sense of fulfillment. Success has a gravitational pull, and it's too easy to fear that any deviation from your current path might lead to a loss of momentum or even a downfall. 🌟 The Solution lies in walking a path to create an identity that isn’t attached to your career path as your identity. You have a greater purpose in this life. Everyone, including me, has this inner desire to do something bigger than what they are doing to earn money and create success. Are you aware of what that nagging desire is? Have you explored it or invested in it? 🔥 I was once where you are, and I understand how it feels to have a deep desire to do more, help people, do something to impact the world and not even know where to begin. I can guide you toward a brighter future. You are meant to do much more in this life than create a successful career and accumulate cash. When you are at the end of your life, will that hold any value at the end of the day? 🌠 Or will spending the rest of your life pursuing a path that fulfills that deep desire to make a difference and help others be the thing that leaves you knowing you lived a good life? Create a life for yourself that will leave you knowing you had a tremendous positive impact on the world and created a legacy for future generations. 💡 Together, we can explore new avenues and embrace a path to personal and professional growth. 🤔 Ready to discover the transformation you've been searching for? Comment or DM me with the word THRIVE. #careercoaching #businesscoaching #leadershipcoach #lifecoaching #executivecoach

„To be honest, sometimes I am not sure what is the right decision to make“ At some point, we’ve all found ourselves at life’s crossroads, paralyzed by indecisiveness, wondering which path to take. Indecisiveness isn’t just about not being able to make a choice, but more so a question of what aligns with our values, aspirations, and the impact we wish to have. Here’s a simple guide to moving beyond indecision and embracing a life filled with purpose: 1. Embrace Uncertainty: Recognize that uncertainty is a part of life. It’s the soil from which new possibilities grow. Instead of fearing it, see it as an opportunity to explore what truly matters to you. 2. Reflect on Your Values: Take a moment to consider what you truly value. Understanding your core values acts like a compass, guiding your decisions and ensuring they lead you towards a life filled with meaning. 3. Seek Small Wins: Overcoming indecisiveness doesn’t have to involve a monumental leap. Small, deliberate actions aligned with your purpose can gradually build the confidence to make more significant decisions. 4. Connect with Others: Often, a conversation with someone who understands your aspirations can provide clarity and perspective. Don’t hesitate to reach out to mentors or peers who can share insights and encouragement. 5. Allow Yourself to Experiment: Life is a series of experiments. Each decision you make is a learning opportunity, leading you closer to understanding what gives your work meaning and purpose. Remember, finding meaning in your career isn’t about making the perfect choice every time. It’s about making decisions that resonate with your inner self, even if that means occasionally taking the road less traveled. Here’s to embracing our choices with courage and curiosity! 🔝💪🏻