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🕶 Founder - CultureC Consulting ♟ Culture Strategist 📣 Keynote Speaker (SXSW 2021/22) 📐 Experience and Event Designer👂🏻 Facilitator 🤝 #CultureFirst Community Builder

While walking in Mexico City last night, I decided to walk into one of the best restaurants in the world and see, by some chance, if they had space for one. Guess what..they had a random cancellation and only one seat available, but this post has nothing to do with food. The restaurant is El Pujol in Mexico City and was just ranked #15 of the top 50 in the world; I've never had a meal of quite this caliber. It was only me, and I was sat at the bar for the 8-course tasting. For anybody who loves food, this is like walking up to the box office on the day of the Taylor Swift show and getting a seat in the front row section. However, this post is about connection, not food. I sat next to two other people who were also there alone. Both were from completely different places with randomly different life stories, but for those three hours, we shared a moment that we all knew was genuinely special and something we would never be able to fully describe to anybody else. At the end of the three hours, we said our goodbyes and returned to the world, never to see one another again. I’ll never forget Michael and Darbin; they will always be part of an incredibly special memory. Somebody once told me that there are friends for a reason, friends for a season and for life; these two men were friends for a reason and it was awesome! Two main takeaways I have from this night: 1) Sometimes in life, you simply need to show up. Nobody could believe that I just walked in, and it was a long shot, but none of this would have happened if I didn't show up and ask. What would it look like to SHOW UP for what you really want and that you may believe is out of reach? 2) Appreciate the relationships and opportunities with others for what they are, letting go of any need for reciprocation or validation. I believe these types of events happen all the time in our professional lives. If we can appreciate those around us for the moments we are together, we can find more joy and satisfaction in the time we spend working without the pressure of future expectations. To my Pujol friends, I will appreciate you both more than you will probably ever know. #CultureFirst

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Anthony Donato, SHRM-SCP (He / Him)

Head of People | Culture Builder | Strategic Business Partner | Talent Management | Organizational Development | Performance Management | SaaS | Human | Dog Lover

1y

That's awesome. I've had some amazing experiences dining alone. I once popped into Spago in Vegas for lunch and ended up having the wildest conversation with Siegfried (of Siegfried & Roy). He was with a friend having lunch at the table next to me.

Sarah Giencke

Helping working professionals release stress, anxiety, tension & trauma from their body | Top 2️⃣5️⃣ Emerging Culture Creators of 2024 in Wellness | Resilience & Nervous System Coach 🧠 Facilitator & Community Builder 🌍

1y

So cool, love those serendipitous moments. Ps. we are friends for life Craig 💖

Cherry Ward

Supporting leaders and organisations to drive systemic change for a thriving, sustainable future 🌱 𝗖𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵 | 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁 | 𝗣𝗼𝗱𝗰𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝗛𝗼𝘀𝘁

1y

Love this Craig! I had a similar experience in Japan earlier in the year. I wasn’t alone (with my husband) but seated with 12 strangers and had one of the most amazing evenings. Connection was electric, laughter was explosive and we’ll probably never see each other again.

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Josh Horowitz

Co-Founder of Kunik. Our business is your people. Kunik elevates employee experience and drives retention & performance.

1y

get that mole!

Aimee Wilkinson

Director of Account Management EMEA at Culture Amp

1y

This is one of my fav posts of yours! I am exceedingly envious that you ate there. So pleased you had such a magical time ✨

Susan David, Ph.D.

Psychologist. Harvard Medical School. TED Speaker. Author of the #1 WSJ bestseller Emotional Agility. Co-Founder of Institute of Coaching.

1y

I love this Craig!

Lo Bukowski, MS, SHRM-SCP

Aurora Solar People & Climate Geek * Strategic Human Resources Leader, Coach & Builder* Scales orgs effectively and inclusively * SHRM-SCP, MS

1y

I love everything about this and am not surprised that you manifested such an amazing life experiences, and of course, it was centered around people, not food!

Gwen Beckton

Personal Assistant and Bookkeeper

1y

Sharing and enjoying connecting with a total stranger is validating and humbling. The experience somehow has a beautiful truth about acceptance.

Damon Klotz

I host the Culture First Podcast to create a better world of work, one conversation at a time. 75+ Episodes - 25K+ Hours of Listen Time - 25K+ Subscribers

1y

Love this story and love Pujol! The first trip I took to Mexico City was because I secured a reservation to Pujol and that was the main reason for the trip. Then a few years ago when I was back in Mexico City I had the chance to meet Enrique Olvera the owner at his small tortilla shop. Lovely human and someone who's very conscious of the importance of creating spaces for connection.

Colin H. Mincy

Founder and Chief Engagement Officer @ Going Beyond the Work, LLC | Global HR + DEI Fractional C-Suite Executive | Board Chair, WPTI | CNBC Contributor | Hacking HR Faculty/Trainer | Kunik Expert | Godfather x4 |

1y

I love everything about this post

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