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UX researcher | Conversation designer | Anthropologist | Educator | Using data to find answers and form actionable insights - Looking for new opportunities in Uusimaa area or remotely

Friday rant! 😤 Or rather, some instructions on how to support a friend who’s sad, tired, and frustrated from job searching. I bet you all have such a friend — maybe you also are one yourself. So. My version. 🚫 DO NOT: ❌ Tell your friend, “Oh, you should update your resume/go network/write compelling cover letters/seduce the ex-boyfriend of that hiring manager to know what perfume he prefers and wear it to the interview.” Someone has probably told them that already, maybe a hundred times — three of those times today. In fact, the only resource job seekers are not lacking is free advice. Starting with advice sounds like, “You don’t have a job because you’ve been doing it wrong. Let me tell you the right way!” Come on. With 300 applications per position, there are a lot of people doing everything right, being nearly there but not quite. Which, basically, is as good as nothing. And most of the job searchers are already doing a lot and as right as they can. (this "no unsolicited advice" does not apply to you, of course, if you’re writing an advice post on LinkedIn to boost your profile a bit. That’s a completely legit thing too, but let’s be clear about the goals 🎯 ) ❌ Tell them, “Oh, and having a job is not so important. Your worth isn’t determined by your position, and you’ve got time to be with your kids.” Don’t devalue their aspirations, and, specially, do not ask a woman why she wants a career at all. 🙄 This is northern Europe, 21st century — can we skip the justification part? (or just come and babysit those kids a bit) ✅ DO: 👂 Listen to them. Sending hundreds of applications and getting a bunch of standard “thank you, but” letters every Monday makes a person feel unseen, unheard, and non-existent. Perhaps, offer a tissue. 🧻 (perhaps not the one this emoji depicts. this one was chosen by chatGPT) ✅ Ask if you can help in any way. Offer the help you can and would like to offer. If you can and want to. Advice makes you feel good about yourself; help shows the person that they’re not alone. 💼 Send them a job advertisement that might work for them. 🔗 Send them a link to an interesting event. 📌 Tag them in a post when you see an opportunity for networking. 📝 Offer to proofread their CV if it might be helpful. 🤝 Offer to show their CV to someone who might be interested, if you can. And sometimes, there’s nothing you can offer. And that’s absolutely okay. This feeling of “nothing to be done right now” is not unknown to job seekers. Don’t try to throw pile of advice upon it immediately. ⏳ Time moves, and something will change. Let's be kind and supportive to each other, while we're all doing our best. Rant finished, now a call for solicited opinions! 📜 What help from friends and connections has been most useful to you during your job search? What was the "oh no not again" part?

Evgeny Nosov

Embedded software engineer, system engineer, FPGA, DSP, SoC

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Natalia Alvarez Gonzalez

UX Research | Service Design |Sustainability | Digital Accessibility | Digital Marketing

1w

Commenting for visibility so more people see this helpful tips 🙌🏻

Karina O.

Project manager and mentor | ScanAgile organiser | Head of operations | P3express Practitioner | Kanban Management Professional | Humanist | Rationalist

1w

Surprisingly valuable recommendations for assisting job seekers during a crisis-ridden employment market.

Angelika Shakhina

Content Creator | Social Media | Copywriter | Digital Marketing Strategist

1w

really helpful tips, and some of them can be applied to other areas of life too. being empathetic and understanding towards others is all about offering them support 💜

Elena Golovanova

Frontend / Fullstack Developer

1w

Anna love these advices🫶🔥

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