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648 days sober. No major milestone - just feeling super grateful. Sharing one of my favorite photos with one of my favorite humans Rachel Beck! As I continue to navigate life as someone in recovery, sitting in meetings and listening to those thinking about their own sobriety, I have simple words of advise: There is no perfect time to stop drinking. There will always be the next weekend, the next party, the next holiday, the next happy hour, the next wedding, the next night, etc. There will always be a reason to put off our decision to stop drinking. For years I operated under the assumption that someday, for some reason, I would be able to either manage my drinking or give it up entirely. Through either instantaneous enlightenment or for medical reasons I figured I would one day be able to manage it. That without effort I could will my way (or wish my way) into being a normal or non-drinker. But deep down, I knew that isn’t how addiction works. Symptom one of addiction is denial. But symptom two is likely false hope. Hope that something will just change all on its own without any commitment or action required by us. Hope that one day we will wake up, and our desire to drink and inability to stop will be lifted from us. But the harsh reality is it doesn’t really work that way. Recovery is a path of action. It’s imperfect, and messy, and daunting - but it’s also exciting, joyous, and fulfilling. And it all starts with acceptance and asking for help. Today is as good of day as any to begin the journey to sobriety. And man, I’m thankful to be sober today. ODAAT.

🌟 Keep Going, Your Journey Matters! 🌟 To those in addiction recovery, we want to remind you how incredible you are! Each step you take towards healing and reclaiming your life is a testament to your strength and resilience. 💪 🌈 We know the road may be challenging at times, but remember that you are never alone. Lean on your support system, seek guidance from professionals, and embrace the power of community. Together, we can overcome any obstacle. 🤝 ✨ Believe in yourself and your ability to create positive change. Have patience with yourself, for recovery is a journey that takes time. Celebrate each milestone, no matter how small, and remember that setbacks don't define you. It's the courage to keep going that sets you apart. 💙 🌟 Your story is one of strength and hope. By sharing your experiences, you inspire others to seek help and embark on their recovery journey. Your vulnerability creates a ripple effect of healing and transformation. Embrace your journey, for it has the power to change lives. 🌟 💫 Today, we want to remind you that your recovery matters. Your future is filled with endless possibilities, and we believe in your ability to achieve lasting sobriety and happiness. Keep going, keep growing, and keep shining your light. You are making a difference, and we are proud of you! 🌈💙 Know that when or if you need support, we are here to help: https://lnkd.in/gT-5jTZe. #RecoveryMatters #recoveryjourney #addictionrecovery

I want to address the often unspoken effect of overdose, addiction and suicide deaths. It is so hard to lose someone we love, and very complicated when the death is difficult to explain, describe or understand. My workshop is not really about the death, but about the life that is still left for we who still live. Grief And Relief, Dark and Light, Living Beyond Loss. If you are interested in having me host this workshop please get in touch.

🌟 Empowering Recovery Through Compassion 🌟 Recovery is a journey of strength and resilience, and every step forward is a triumph worth celebrating. 🎉 It's not just about overcoming challenges; it's about reclaiming a life filled with hope, purpose, and joy. How Can You Support Recovery? · Listening Without Judgement: Sometimes, all someone needs is a listening ear. Be there to hear their struggles, victories, and everything in between. · Offering Encouragement: A simple word of encouragement can uplift spirits and remind someone that they are not alone on this path. · Understanding Relapse: Recovery can be a bumpy road. Understand that relapse is a part of the journey, not a failure. · Educating Ourselves: Knowledge is a powerful tool. Learn about addiction and recovery to provide informed support. · Respecting Boundaries: Respect their boundaries and choices. Recovery is a personal journey, and everyone's pace is different. The Power of Compassion: Compassion is the driving force behind supporting someone through recovery. It's about extending a hand of understanding, kindness, and love. 💕 It's about standing with them through the highs and lows, being their anchor in stormy seas. Remember, your support can be a lifeline to someone in recovery. Your belief in them can spark the belief they need in themselves. Let's continue to educate ourselves and be a source of strength for those on the path to recovery. Together, we can help them rediscover the beauty of life beyond addiction. 🌈 📞 Get in touch with Recalibrate Recovery today and be part of the journey towards a brighter future. Your support can make all the difference. 🌟 #SupportRecovery #CompassionMatters #RecoveryJourney #RecalibrateRecovery

Here's WHY my addict son finally chose recovery... I made one key change (and avoided the mistakes most parents make). It took me years to learn this. And quite frankly, it was a painful truth. But suddenly I realized why everything I did to “fix” my son’s addiction was actually making the situation WORSE. I realized why the books and support groups never helped. And finally I realized what my son truly DID need from me… …(which ended up being the very thing that would bring peace back to my own life). See, here’s where we can be our own worst enemies. As parents, we are wired to love our kids. And that’s a great thing. But it can backfire when addiction enters the picture. Our natural way of loving our children keeps them locked in their ways - and DISCOURAGES them from choosing recovery. Look, I am NOT saying we need “tough love” with our kids. When people talk about being “too hard” on our kids or “too soft” - they’re missing the point entirely. There’s no such thing as too hard or too soft. And if there was some magic blend of “hard” and “soft” that created change in our kids… We all would have found it a long time ago. Instead, we need to completely rethink the way we parent our addicted children. We need a fresh view of what they really need… and what we can really do. The good news is that we have incredible power. There IS hope. And it is possible to reclaim our own lives and the lives of our children - while encouraging them to recover. I’m happy to say that my son eventually chose recovery. I’m so proud of the mature and responsible man that he has become. And he is the first to tell you that it was the change in ME that encouraged him to change. All because I finally understood why almost all parents get it wrong… And what I needed to do instead. Since then, I’ve made it my mission to share this information with as many parents as possible. Let me share those concepts with you today in a free video workshop. It’s time to start your journey toward hope and peace: https://lnkd.in/eHB8ypBF

🔥Today topic:🔥 Embrace Your Journey in Recovery Let's talk about the importance of avoiding judgment in our recovery journeys. Every one of us has a unique story, a path filled with challenges, triumphs, and setbacks. Comparing ourselves to others or judging their journey not only diminishes their efforts but also hinders our own progress. Here's why it's detrimental to compare or judge your recovery to someone else's: 1️⃣ Each journey is unique: What works for one person may not work for another. We all have different backgrounds, triggers, and experiences that shape our recovery process. 2️⃣ We're all in this together: None of us are better than the other. Addiction doesn't discriminate. It affects people from all walks of life. Instead of judging, let's support and uplift one another. 3️⃣ Judgment hinders growth: When we judge others, we're often too focused on their journey instead of our own. This can distract us from focusing on our personal growth and healing. Here's how we can practice gratitude and avoid judgment in our recovery: 1️⃣ Focus on your own journey: Instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on your progress and celebrate your victories, no matter how small they may seem. 2️⃣ Practice empathy and understanding: Remember that everyone's journey is different, and we all face our own challenges. Offer support and encouragement to others without judgment. 3️⃣ Be grateful for where you are: Reflect on how far you've come in your recovery journey and be grateful for the progress you've made. Each step forward is a testament to your strength and resilience. Let's build a community of support, acceptance, and understanding in our recovery journeys. Together, we can overcome judgment and thrive in our paths to healing. #RecoveryJourney #NoJudgment #Gratitude 🌟

Here's WHY my addict son finally chose recovery... I made one key change (and avoided the mistakes most parents make). It took me years to learn this. And quite frankly, it was a painful truth. But suddenly I realized why everything I did to “fix” my son’s addiction was actually making the situation WORSE. I realized why the books and support groups never helped. And finally I realized what my son truly DID need from me… …(which ended up being the very thing that would bring peace back to my own life). See, here’s where we can be our own worst enemies. As parents, we are wired to love our kids. And that’s a great thing. But it can backfire when addiction enters the picture. Our natural way of loving our children keeps them locked in their ways - and DISCOURAGES them from choosing recovery. Look, I am NOT saying we need “tough love” with our kids. When people talk about being “too hard” on our kids or “too soft” - they’re missing the point entirely. There’s no such thing as too hard or too soft. And if there was some magic blend of “hard” and “soft” that created change in our kids… We all would have found it a long time ago. Instead, we need to completely rethink the way we parent our addicted children. We need a fresh view of what they really need… and what we can really do. The good news is that we have incredible power. There IS hope. And it is possible to reclaim our own lives and the lives of our children - while encouraging them to recover. I’m happy to say that my son eventually chose recovery. I’m so proud of the mature and responsible man that he has become. And he is the first to tell you that it was the change in ME that encouraged him to change. All because I finally understood why almost all parents get it wrong… And what I needed to do instead. Since then, I’ve made it my mission to share this information with as many parents as possible. Let me share those concepts with you today in a free video workshop. It’s time to start your journey toward hope and peace: https://lnkd.in/eN8SPrHs

Experiencing the diagnosis of a life-limiting illness can be an overwhelming and emotionally complex journey, with one of the profound aspects being the grieving of future plans. When someone receives news of a life-limiting illness, it often shatters the expectations and dreams they had envisioned for the future. The realization that certain milestones, aspirations, and long-held dreams may not come to fruition can lead to a profound sense of loss. This form of grief is unique in that it involves mourning not only for the present but also for a future that now takes on a different and uncertain shape. The individual may grapple with the idea of not being able to witness key life events, accomplish personal and professional goals, or share meaningful moments with loved ones as originally planned. Coping with this grief involves navigating the acceptance of a new, unexpected reality while finding ways to cherish and make the most of the time that remains. It's a deeply emotional process that requires support, compassion, and understanding from both the individual and those close to them. If you or someone you know has been diagnosed with a life-limiting illness, reach out, our Supportive Counselling program can help! For more information, please call Sidney Grocott, Community Social Worker, (705) 325-0505 ext. 211 or visit https://lnkd.in/gxGuFee6

Celebrating My Daughter's One-Year and 4 month Sober Anniversary: A Journey of Strength and Triumph As a parent, witnessing my daughter battle and overcome addiction has been both heartbreaking and inspiring. Today, I am filled with immense pride and joy as I share the remarkable journey she has taken to reach her one-year and four months anniversary of sobriety. I wanted to shed light on her incredible strength, determination, and the valuable lessons I've learned along the way. 1. Acknowledging the Darkness: One cannot truly appreciate the light without experiencing the darkness. I recount the initial signs of addiction, the difficult conversations we had, and the realization that my daughter was in the fight of her life. Literally, her liver was failing! By honestly addressing and accepting these struggles, we opened the door to a journey of healing and recovery. 2. Seeking Professional Help: Sharing the importance of seeking professional assistance is a crucial aspect of my daughter's success story. 3. The Power of Support: Throughout this harrowing journey, our family discovered the profound impact of a strong support system. Remembering the importance of fostering open and honest communication, attending support groups, and surrounding our daughter with love, understanding, and support. I emphasize how these connections, whether with family, friends, or mentors, have been a crucial part of her recovery process. 4. Cultivating Healthy Habits: Creating a new life after addiction meant replacing harmful patterns with healthier ones. I highlight the positive changes my daughter made in her daily routine, such as adopting a balanced diet, prioritizing physical fitness, engaging in hobbies, and pursuing personal growth. These new habits have not only brought stability and fulfillment into her life but also helped her sustain her sobriety. 5. Celebrating Milestones: Each milestone in the recovery journey is worthy of celebration, and I share the significance of recognizing and acknowledging these achievements. From the initial days of sobriety to the one-year mark, we honored every small step forward, reminding ourselves of the strength within each milestone and the resilience it took to reach it. 6. Embracing a Future of Hope: To conclude, I paint a picture of the bright future that awaits my daughter as she continues her sober journey. I remind her daily the importance of ongoing support, relapse prevention strategies, and the exciting possibilities that come with a life free from addiction. Most importantly, I express my belief in her ability to thrive and create a fulfilling life built on love, purpose, and newfound strength. Conclusion: This milestoneI symbolizes her resilience, transformation, and the unwavering support that surrounds her. I hope to inspire and provide guidance to those navigating similar journeys, offering a testament to the power of love, determination, and the possibility of a brighter future beyond addiction.

𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝗻𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 Have you ever thought your actions could be enabling your son’s or daughter’s disease? 𝗧𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲’𝘀 𝗮 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝗻𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴. “If I say yes to his request, am I helping him get better or enabling his disease?” “If I lend her money for transportation, am I helping or enabling her?” “If I do this, am I loving or enabling them?” These are questions all of us ask ourselves almost every day. Sometimes it can be nerve-wracking to figure it out because their behaviors are so erratic. You can’t tell if you’re helping or enabling. Their disease is so good at lying and getting what they want. But not anymore. One person with addiction in the LoveAnotherWay JumpStart Guide 𝗽𝗵𝗿𝗮𝘀𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗲𝗻𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘀𝗼 𝗰𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗹𝘆… 𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗺𝗼𝗺 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗹𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗲𝗻𝘁 “𝗔𝗛𝗔” 𝗶𝗻𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗹𝘆. Suddenly, everything became clear. Now, they started SEEING which kind of behavior is loving and which kind is enabling. And they see why. Once you invest in the LoveAnotherWay JumpStart Guide, you’ll see what the fine line is. As clear as day. It’s a refreshing revelation that no one has talked about. Only people with addiction know this. Now it’s your turn. Click below to invest in the LoveAnotherWay JumpStart Guide and you’ll see what I mean. https://lnkd.in/ehUaFMBv Find a pocket of joy in your day today. Barbara 🙏 P.S. LoveAnotherWay JumpStart Guide is perfect for moms who want to dip their toes and evaluate whether Love Another Way works for them without pouring in too much time and money upfront. 𝗝𝗼𝗶𝗻 𝘂𝘀 𝗯𝘆 𝗔𝘂𝗴𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝟭𝟴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘄𝗲’𝗹𝗹 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗻 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗼 𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗔𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗪𝗮𝘆 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗶-𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗳𝗿𝗲𝗲. #addiction #recovery #loveanotherway