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Saturday the 10th of August 2024: 𝗤𝘂𝗼𝘁𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗮𝘆: “We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.” - Sir Winston Churchill Another poignant quote highlighting the difference between simply existing and making the most of life. Similarly to yesterday, the lesson of today’s quote is about the satisfaction in selflessness. Today however, the virtue of selflessness is promoted through the act of giving. Be it giving in a relationship, giving in a friendship, giving in a workplace. Giving is an inherently satisfying action, however, when should we draw the line between giving and expecting to receive? This is a question with which I constantly struggle! I prefer to err on the side of positive action, i.e. giving rather than the expectation of receiving. I believe that our legacy truly is the best chance that we have at another life. The more we give - symbolic of making positive impact to the lives of others in this quote - the more positive that our legacy will be remembered. Personally, I love to continually look for ways in which I can give back. Currently, I am waiting for my application to be a Justice of the Peace to approved. I am confident that this is another meaningful way that I can give back to my community and am keen to get started.

In offering courage, insight and clarity on the work that we put forth into the world, these friendships not only add to the overall quality of our lives but underline the value of creative communities more broadly. https://lnkd.in/grXsQ_2Y

What an enjoyable, inspiring and thought provoking conversation tonight. Thanks to all our Mid Life Thriving community members and our visitors for getting involved and of course Nanci Hogan, ACC FRSA for sharing her experience, stories and leading the conversation about creating our legacy. Having explored - what a legacy looks like and how they are unique to each of us. - how we all leave a legacy of some sort, it's up to us whether its an intentional one. - whether we can really decide on our legacy, or whether that is up to others to assess. - how a legacy definitely doesn't have to be about money. We all have resources - our skills, knowledge, network, time. - a legacy doesn't have to be large. - that some of the people who have left the greatest legacies, never set out to create them. And much more ... One conclusion we came to was that what we can do is be intentional about giving back in some way with commitment, clarity and focus. What do you think?

You can’t pour from an empty cup. At Make Birth Better, we’re all about collective care and looking after ourselves when things are tough. So we can better support you when you need us. Today on World Friendship Day we’ve put together some kind words of affirmation for you take take a look at. Pick up what you need and leave the rest. They’re ready when you need them. P.S. our friends at Civil Society Consulting CIC have created 32 Steps to Togetherness, a manual of 32 practical actions that we, as individuals or as community leaders, can take to build connections within and between communities. Click here for more information: https://lnkd.in/dX_Fi-Hn

In these profound words, General Sam Houston encapsulates the true essence of a life well-lived. Let's delve into why service may be the cornerstone of a meaningful and impactful legacy: Touching Lives: Service extends a helping hand to those in need, leaving a positive imprint on countless lives. By dedicating ourselves to the well-being of others, we create a ripple effect of goodness. Elevating Purpose: Our lives gain depth and purpose when we commit to serving a cause greater than ourselves. Whether in our personal or professional spheres, service infuses meaning into our endeavors. Community Building: Through service, we strengthen the bonds that tie us together. We forge connections, inspire unity, and contribute to the betterment of our communities, both local and global. Inspiring Others: A life of service serves as a beacon of inspiration for others to follow. By modeling compassion and altruism, we encourage a cycle of goodwill that continues to flourish. As we navigate our journey, let's remember that our legacy is defined not by the wealth we accumulate, but by the lives we touch through service. Embrace the opportunity to make a difference, leaving an indelible mark on the world. #LegacyOfService #MakeADifference

In moments of adversity, how do you find your 'milestone' or anchor? When nature and events go off-script, how do you script your response?

If you are new to a country, don’t sit on the couch and wait for assistance. Do the reverse, go out there and volunteer. Because you bring with you skills and values that can add value to a community. “People tend to return the favours they receive” This is one important lesson from the book Influence by Dr. Robert Cialdini. 4 crucial elements of service and reciprocity that I learned and applied from the book: 1/ Connection Intentionally engage in acts of kindness. Be a bridge, and use your unique and diverse perspectives to connect with people. Because service is all about bridging the gaps that often separate us. It also shows your ability to be open-minded and adapt. 2/ Gratitude Appreciate the opportunities you have been given and don’t take anything for granted. Because when you are grateful, you will inspire others around you to feel the same way. In search of a better life, it is important to leave the world in a better place. 3/ Compassion Extend a helping hand to others in similar situations. I use writing to give away 100% of what I know. Use your position as a leader or advocate, to help others in triumph over adversity. 4/ Self-Esteem “Only I can define my self-worth” Believe in your abilities and leave behind what is familiar. Have a desire to prove to yourself before you prove anything to others. Because high self-esteem is transformative for your journey. — Connection, gratitude, compassion and self-esteem have no borders and backgrounds. Thrive in this new environment and contribute with your unique story. P.S. Serve and add value to people’s lives.

For my blog interview with Peacebuilders, I was asked what advice I would want to share with a fellow youth. Check out my answer down below, as I believe everyone can benefit from this! What advice would you share with fellow young individuals? Nebiyou: The advice I would give is to acknowledge the power of kindness. Show kindness, love everything you do, always have the heart to help people, and make people’s day, even if it’s a simple gesture. Because a simple act of kindness goes a long way and will take you much farther than you expect, kindness and discipline will take you to a place where hard work won’t. Full Blog post: https://lnkd.in/gDNaK7gn

Sitting in the comforts of my home I am grateful to have a roof over my head. I have freedoms and my thoughts are unlimited. For all my desires and expectations, I have privileges and I dare to dream and work hard to achieve. I am responsible for my actions, I am responsible for my intentions, my mother’s words are comfort too my soul. 1. Always treat people how you want to be treated. 2. Your word is your worth , it’s your credit in how you work with your community. Without credit you are working for self-gratification. 3. Know what you are good at. 4. Learn every day from the people you met and children are the best teachers. 5. Be your best version of yourself. 6. Nana Vera’s favourite “Don’t be no up start jumped up C U next Tuesday”…Be you! As Voice elected and a member of the collective Region 1… All I ask for is some time to find our feet before we stand, figure out our strengths before we speak, and know how to use our voices for the betterment of our community. These are important processes to develop as we learn to be the best versions of ourselves and we must hold our truths as our starting point of this long conversation. It is all of our beginnings.