Well, I am still watching West Wing as an antidote to the national news. Tonight’s episode focused on a staffer
whose self-denied stress has gotten out of hand.
I have earned, chosen, and been fortunate to live a life surrounded by high achievers. This is a world where people take themselves seriously, do their homework, meet deadlines and do whatever it takes to get the job done well. They rarely pause, but rather move on to the next challenge, and the next and the next.
Through my roles in consulting, HR and running LEADERSHIP, I have listened attentively to the needs of my peers, staff, and bosses. They taught me that no one is as hard on themselves as they are, they rarely feel seen at work or at home, and they often feel lonely.
These people hit their forties and achieve a level of success then, as an alum said to me, “ They ask themself, is that all there is, and the answer is no, take LEADERSHIP. “ Knowing this, the curriculum has a heavy but hidden dose of empowerment, purpose, joy and wisdom. They learn by getting to know fellow achievers whose lived experience is nothing like theirs. The diverse teams and intense exercises give them insight into each others’ lives and invites them to get out of their bubble and stay out.
Chances are that if you read this far you, too, are a high achiever, who may manage other high achievers. I ask you to consider this:
-When is the last time you made a list of accomplishments that make you proud?
-When is the last time you took an hour or day or week off to give your achievement motive a rest?
-When is the last time you gave the high achievers in your staff or family specific positive feedback, or encouraged them to take a brake?
Others often envy achievers for their success but rarely understand the price paid to achieve it, because the best achievers make it look easy.
If you are one, savor your accomplishments, hard work, and good fortune. Thank those who support you in achieving.
We do tend to make it look easy when it is anything but, yet it is all too rare to be thanked for it.
Thank you!
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