I have a tendency to really lock in when I am focused on something, usually a game or something business-related. I become blind to my surroundings and dialed in on what is right in front of me. This has been good for sports and business, so it is both a quality I value about myself and one that I dislike at the same time.
We spent an awesome night at Andretti's in Orlando when we were there in June. My wife and I had a great time! One of our favorite things to do is to go to Dave and Buster's so this was a step up from that in my opinion!
This photo reminded me of something, though, that I have been trying to change about myself (I have gotten MUCH better about this though!).
I often get so focused on what I am doing that I miss key moments that mean so much more. This could have been a great photo for my wife and I to share, but I had zero clue the camera was even there.
For the first 6 years of my business, I missed so many moments with those closest to me because I was always focused on work.
I've played many rounds of golf where I get too dialed in and focused on my score that I don't take advantage of the time alone with friends or family outside on the course.
I have trouble letting loose and always seem to be in competition with myself.
I have found so much more balance in my lifestyle today because I became aware of this. Photos like this when I catch myself doing it are great learning opportunities for me to be a better husband, friend, son, and brother.
While I know we both had an awesome time and this picture was probably just a wrong place, wrong time moment, I love seeing my wife smile and wish I would have seen it when it happened.
Focus is important and being able to lock-in every day will take you as high as you want to go, but remember to relax from time to time. There is more to life than winning.
#perspective #orlando #andrettis #datenight
Executive Leadership | Strategy | Policy | External & Public Affairs | Economic Development
1moGreat leaders build great teams and they remain humble. You are a great leader! Indy is lucky to have you!