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Why the Language We Use with Our Dogs Matters The way we communicate with our dogs is not just about the words we use but the sentiments they convey. The language we choose can frame our entire relationship with our animals. Lets look at some examples (and there are many more!). "COMMAND" VS. "CUE": Why Not "Command"? The word "command" suggests that ‘no’ is not an acceptable answer. If our learner (dog or human!) declines to perform a trained behavior, “debugging” the problem is our best first response. A great exercise for us humans is to think about sitting at a red light in our car when the light turns green, and yet we don’t go forward. What might some good reasons be for not responding to that cue? Saying "I command you" may evoke feelings of dominance and control in us, which can strain the bond with our dogs. On the other hand, the word "cue" suggests an opportunity to perform. It implies a partnership where we’re working WITH our dogs. If they don’t respond as expected, making adjustments to our training for their success will strengthen our bond. "DOG OWNERSHIP" VS. "DOG GUARDIANSHIP": Referring to ourselves as "dog owners" reinforces the idea of pets as property, which can subconsciously affect how we treat them. "Dog guardianship" emphasizes the responsibility, care, and bond we share with our pets. They aren’t just our possessions; they're sentient beings we're entrusted to care for. "BAD DOG" VS. "UNWANTED BEHAVIOR": Labeling the Dog: By calling a dog "bad," we assign a  permanent, negative, character trait to the animal, which is unjust, and can have a negative effect our interactions with our dogs. Instead, focusing on the behavior we’d like to change allows us to address the underlying cause leading to the behavior, and guides us in teaching better alternatives without labeling or stigmatizing the dog. Remember, it's not the dog that's "bad" but rather the behavior that might not be serving us or the situation. The language we use with our dogs goes beyond mere semantics. It frames our relationship, impacts training, and sets the tone for our interactions. By choosing words that reflect respect, understanding, and partnership, we foster a bond built on trust and mutual respect, paving the way for a harmonious relationship. #VirginiaDogTrainer #DogTrainer #JoyfulDog #TimetoTrain #FearFreepets #Pets #Animals  #Dog #Dogs #PetsofInstagram #DogOwner  #PetLovers #PetLover #Pet  #LoveYourPet #Family #DogSafety

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