My daughter thought she bombed an interview recently. They hired her over 10 other applicants. After she was hired she asked why they hired her when she felt like didn't perform that well in the interview. They told her that she easily maintained eye contact and was able to carry on normal conversation. She told us later, "I didn't realize that bar was so low to get hired." Credit: Buddy Rathmell
Struggling with eye contact is a common trait among the neurodiverse. Using this as a key component of the hiring decision filters out a large segment of a frequently very bright and hardworking population.
When I had graduated from college, most of us had work experience at McDonald's, clothing retailers, other fast food joints, at malls, at banks, internships, etc. Now, I see most recent college grads with zero work experience what-so-ever. You learn a lot on your first job no matter how crappy it is.
I thought bringing my mom was going to be my closer....back to the drawing board.
If you bring your parent, am I hiring both for the position? That would be a perk - twice the productivity for the price of one.
Good for your daughter. I had a long conversation this morning with another 50-something professional about our inability to hire loan officers that carry themselves in a professional manner. Coming on board with us isn't really hard...just don't eliminate yourself. I can't believe that in 30 seemingly short years we've went from a time where we would look for the best of the best to where we look for someone that simply doesn't refer to me as "Bruh". Good, but sad post.
I’ve had many jobs since the age of 16, and not once have I even considered bringing my mom or any person for that matter to an interview. I would love to hear what any of their thought processes were making that decision.
Its tragic that we haven't prepared our youth better for life. Devastating that this is where we are at. Parents out there, pull the silver spoon out of your kids mouths and let them fall on their face time after time and help teach them to stand back up and keep fighting. We can turn this around.
I am speechless that 19% brought their parents to an interview ? Really?
While I have never had an interviewer bring their parent, I have experienced all the rest when attending an interview. When I was in college (the good old days), I read a report that 50% of the workforce was traditionally late or not sober. I think what your daughter discovered is “soft skills” are an important part of work. An aside: There was a study done that found people would rather work with an incompetent likeable person than a competent dislikeable person.
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1moStruggling with eye contact is something many people on the spectrum experience. While 53% of recent college graduates are likely not on the spectrum, I don't believe that maintaining eye contact is necessary in many positions and we should not make the job hunt even more difficult for these individuals. #autismawareness