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High-Stakes Employment Litigator @ Shah Litigation, PLLC ǀ Licensed in MA, PA, IL, and AL ǀ Leader of SABA Employment Section

I am not supposed to be here. My dad grew up as the sixth child of eight in a village in Gujarat, India. Think no running water, only candlelight, and dirt floors. His father was a struggling rice merchant, and his mother maintained the home because working outside of the home was unthinkable at the time. My dad excelled in school, bringing home recognition as the top student of his class year after year. He worked hard, but he caused a little havoc too. He and his cousins would tell everyone that they were going to use the bathroom in the woods, when in reality, they went to share a no-filter cigarette that they smuggled from the next town over. He would fight with his brothers over the one family bicycle and get crafty over how to sneak in an extra mango for dessert. With limited opportunities for growth, his elder brothers left the family home to move to London for better opportunities. My dad could have played it safe by moving to London with his built-in support system of brothers. Instead, he heard about a place where many Indians were going for better opportunities:  the United States of America. So he packed his bags, put $8 in his pocket, and moved some 8,000 miles away from his hometown and 4,000 miles away from the closest family in London. That was June 28, 1973. He settled on the city of Chicago where the very next day after he landed, he started parking cars in a garage for $2.15 an hour. He then worked at a sweet shop near Wrigley Field and enrolled in college part-time. His love for education quickly turned into a love for business, and he eventually saved enough money to buy the sweet shop. He then moved to Frankfort, Kentucky, where he bought a small motel. Then Athens, Georgia; Eufaula, Alabama; and finally, Dothan, Alabama. He had the vision from his early twenties to make something of his life, and he worked his entire life doing so. At 75, he still keeps busy by selling life insurance. He and my mom (more on her later) put me and my three siblings through college and set us up at a very early age. As they joke with us, they’ve only fed us with silver spoons. And they’re right. We’re extremely lucky. When I visited India earlier this year, I realized that I could have grown up there, where I would have scratched and clawed to find meaningful opportunities. But instead, my parents made incredibly difficult sacrifices to give me opportunities. I went to good schools. I played sports. I went on vacation. And I now have the opportunity each day to make a meaningful difference in the lives of others. So when I think about the role that sheer luck played in my life, I can’t help but think I’m not supposed to be here. Might as well make the most of it.

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Jason R. Markle

Don’t settle for a lawyer who only knows how to settle.

1mo

Great story!

Fantastic story. It was a sincere pleasure to meet your father (and mother) last week - sure puts things in perspective. My father too came from poverty and immigrated to the U.S. for the opportunities it offered. Seems like hard work, risk taking and a mix of good fortune are uniform themes that got many of us here. Thanks for sharing.

Crystal Gargis

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1mo

As a fellow Guju, I am proud to say my parents share a similar story and have worked very hard to come to this country, to make a living and build a foundation for their kids. Thank you for sharing this as it gives us insight into how making the right sacrifices and hard work prevail and reminds us that we should continue to fight for our dreams and aspirations.

Good stuff! Amazing to think back to a series of events that led us to where we are today. I'll write sometime about my 16-year-old grandmother escaping Czech-Hungary right before the Holocaust.

MICHELLE JUNG, ESQ.

Partner & Attorney - | Experienced Board Advisor | Management Consulting | Sustainability | Innovation & Technology Enthusiast | Entrepreneur

1mo

Amazing story Vishal Shah your parents were brave and worked tirelessly to become successful. Obviously, their hard work paid off with you as their son by honoring their legacy and sharing their achievements and journey with all of us.

Adriana Paris

Lawyer -> Attorney Development + Coach for Lawyers + Published Author

1mo

Love hearing fellow immigrant stories!

Aaron Caradonna

Founder | Attorney | Advisor

1mo

Great post Vish!

Joyce Collier

Employment Litigator in Pennsylvania and New Jersey

1mo

Thank you for sharing this amazing life story. I'm so glad he came to America!

Clay Johnson

Senior Corporate Counsel | Commercial Transactions | MBA

1mo

Awesome, Vish! Thanks for sharing and hope you're doing well!

Zachary Hammond

Associate Attorney at Bennett & Belfort PC Employment Attorney/Litigator

1mo

You had me at getting crafty to sneak an extra mango for dessert.

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