Swati Mathur’s Post

We all have one fear which is common in each and everyone’s life FEAR OF FAILURE Why Failure is fear 1. Kill our expectations 2. Make us liable to answer ourself 3. Give chance people to pass taunt And endless list I faced the same but do you know what I realised from my failure its just a game of mindset if we command our mind to think about all these things then it will definitely think the same but instead of thinking this if we allow our mind to realise failure is part of life it will make you more successful , Mature , strong and a individual person who can allow himself/ herself to learn from failure instead of blaming .. # Lesson from failure # learning

"Being relentless means demanding more of ourselves than anyone else could ever demand of us, knowing that every time we stop, we can still do more. We must do more. Can we improve our chances of success by learning about others who succeeded, and those who didn’t? Of course. Success is about dealing with reality, facing our demons and addictions, and not putting a smiley face on everything we do. We never saw obstacles or problems, we only saw situations in need of solutions. We learned, we made mistakes, we learned from our mistakes. We kept learning. Relentless is about never being satisfied, always driving to be the best, and then getting even better." Decide. Commit. Act. Succeed. Repeat. #inspire#kobebryant#relentless#timgrover#book

Good morning to all my beautiful audience reading this write up. Today we would continue from where we last dropped off, relating to self - motivation. ****************************************************************** The fifth point is, Learning from failures: Believing that despite all challenge thrown at you, you wouldn't give up. There's always a chance of failures definitely. When you fail that doesn't make you dumb or make you feel less of yourself. It means that, when you fail you give yourself more chances to grow, improve better, know more and understand where you're mistakes come from. Now, when you know you're errors or faults, you begin to improve on it and try over and over again to ensure that you don't make the same mistakes again. In summary, failing is ok but ensure you learn from those failures and look for a better means to go about what you do. If you feel this particular method isn't working so well for you, then try another different method. Keep on trying till you find the perfect nich for you that gives you a chance to succeed. #failure #failureispartofsuccess #findingyourself

Here's a post for 30-day challenges Day8: Overcoming Self-Doubt "Believe in yourself and your abilities! Self-doubt can hold us back from achieving our goals. Today, I remind myself to: Focus on strengths, not weaknesses Practice positive self-talk Embrace failures as learning opportunities Surround myself with supportive people You are capable and strong! Let's overcome self-doubt and reach new heights! #SelfBelief #Confidence #MentalStrength Degree2Destiny

Why are we Failing? how to decode this?? how do we keep learning from these, when we are completely broke down with that emotional situation of failure?? Just don't take things so personal! keep distant from these emotional attachments with success and failures, trust and walk your path to your goals and be motivated!! Always have healthy critic who shows you to yourself which sometimes we miss to see. As always success is a perspective and reflection of your progress it may vary from person to person. #selfimprovement #successmindset #sucess #selflove -KP

The wise learn from their mistakes; the foolish deny them. When you make a mistake, it's important to own up to it and learn from it. Otherwise, you're doomed to repeat it. There are a few things you can do to learn from your mistakes: 1.Identify the mistake: What did you do wrong? Why did you do it? 2. Analyze the mistake: What could you have done differently? What factors contributed to the mistake? 3. Develop a plan to avoid the mistake in the future. :What steps will you take to ensure that the mistake doesn't happen again? It's also important to remember that everyone makes mistakes. It's part of being human. The important thing is to learn from them and move on. #mistake #learning #growth

8 ways I used to demotivate myself ❌ relentless self-criticism Now: I build improvements on what already works. Back then, I used to focus only on the bad. ❌ perfectionism Which didn't allow error making, which again didn't allow learning. ❌ I used to set myself unrealistic goals. The goals I'd set myself used to be simply impractical. ❌ I wasn't humble. In my case, humility means: - you're open-minded to other solutions, ideas, since you don't take your own like the remedy, - you aknowledge you lack knowledge, skills, ❌ I used to be obsessed with the mistakes I'd made. ... and was doing everything to avoid them. Fell into a vicious cycle. ❌ I used to get down to work without asking what for. Basically, I didn't know what was to be done in the first place... ❌ I didn't use to set myself long-term goals I'd plan against. Which resulted in lack of sustainable progress. ❌ I didn't use to celebrate small successes. Rather, I used to start my achievement evaluation with what had sucked. How did you use to demotivate yourself? #motivation #demotivation #progress #career #development #learning

What does failure mean to you? I’ll go first… For me, failure means that I am giving life a go. It means that I'm pushing myself out of my comfort zone. And it is not, by any means, something to hide in shame from. In fact, I've learned that failure is something to be embraced ( I did not always feel this way!) I've learned that failure is my best form of learning And then ... the best bit. I've learned that more often than not, when you fail and learn you won't make the same mistake again. AND you can work out what to try next. This is why it's actually so important that we DO fail, to acknowledge and embrace failure, to review and learn from failure. Thats how we truly move forward and achieve. So how about you, have you failed at something recently? Comment below and tell me what you learned from it? 👇 #failingforward #businesscoaching

Question - how do you handle losing? How do you handle failing? What I mean by this - when you fail or lose, what happens next? When I started the journey of doing a doctorate, myself and my classmates failed 50-60% of the course work that was required before we started the actual thesis.- There were 8 required courses and each one had to be successful in order to move forward to the next. My cohort started with 30 International students from all over the world. Only 3 finished which included myself. Those were hard failures, not just for me but for everyone. We were all successful people and perhaps not accustomed to this rate of failure - We thought - Maybe this was not for us. What I have learned is that the aversion to losing and failing is a complex and multi-faceted aspect of human psychology, influenced by various factors. The inability to handle losing is not innate to all humans; rather, it varies widely among individuals. Human responses to winning and losing are influenced by a combination of psychological, social, and environmental factors. Some people naturally have a more competitive or resilient disposition, making them better equipped to handle setbacks, including losing.  The question then becomes, how do we better equip ourselves to position and view losing and failing as a pathway and journey to success?  It is really really hard. I never harbored a fear of failure during my childhood and I try to teach my children the same. Instead, we see it as a pathway to personal growth, devoid of any sense of shame. Growing up I was encouraged to try new things and if I failed my Dad would say "Big Deal. Now take what you learned and move on." My mother always said to me "we will grow up falling down" I never understood that until recently. My parents taught me from a young age that failing is truly how we learn. It is a fundamental part. Failing is uncovering. Failing is revealing. Failing can be the truth. Magic happens when you have the fortitude to see failure for what it is. Certain Truths. Are you prepared to harness the truth? #failforward #failure #learning #growth #mindset #resilience #fortitude #truth

Trying is more important than knowing because when you know something, you're not learning anything new. You're just reaffirming what you already know. But when you try something, even if you fail, you're learning something new. And that's how progress is made: by continuously learning and expanding your horizons. Trying also allows you to grow as a person. If you never try anything new, you'll never know what you're capable of. You might be surprised at how much you can accomplish if you just set your mind to it and give it your best shot. Sure, there will be times when you fall short of your goals. But don't let that discourage you; instead, use it as motivation to try even harder next time. Remember: the only way to fail is to stop trying. So whatever you do, don't give up. Keep pushing forward, and eventually you'll reach your destination. Do you agree? #mindmarvels #mentalwellbeingquotes #selfesteemquotes #mentalhealthquotes #mentalhealthquote