“First, to the colleague above and so many others, I am very sorry for my tone. I have been angry and sad, and that made me forget the even in speaking out against injustice, we must try not to offend people’s delicate sensibilities. I now realize that sounding angry when calling out IsraeI’s bombing of refugee camps, hospitals, schools, and mosques, and murdering PaIestinian civilians nonstop with US tax money and weapons, is just as bad as doing the above things. I am so sorry for upsetting you with my brusque tone of voice.”
Vu Le, please know that you and I agree that the war in Gaza is an unspeakable tragedy – to take one innocent life is to destroy an entire world. All must apply pressure to both Hamas and Israel to accept the current ceasefire proposal. That said, language around the conflict must be chosen with care. Antisemitic incidents in the States have risen dramatically in the last 8 months, and online microaggressions are not helping. There are even microaggressions in this post. It’s not about hurt feelings – it’s about being thoughtful so that we are not enabling more violence. May the hostages be freed, a ceasefire ensue, and Palestinians and Israelis begin the path towards an enduring peace.
I have been disappointed and infuriated by the silence in our community and the cowardice of nonprofit and philanthropy colleagues. Your leadership and voice has been so essential in this moment. Thank you.
I’m having a very similar experience in my social and professional circles. It’s a topsy turvy world where expressing outrage over what is clearly an obscene over-response by Israel towards Hamas, the Palestinian people be damned, is anti-Semitic, supportive of terrorism of any kind, and morally wrong. And worse, I am funding this atrocity against my will. The thing is, this conflict is a massive land mine that very few are spared when opining on what happened before, during, and after October 7. It’s complex beyond most of our understanding as lay people with limited knowledge. It’s also extremely emotional. I called Congresswoman’s Barbara Lee’s office yesterday after reading a few news articles on this conflict. And I was so emotionally charged, that I practically vomited on the staffer that answered the call. She was aloof and annoyed, which, I suppose I s normal if you are on the receiving end on the daily. But telling people not to feel or worse, be messy with your emotions, is not the solution. That is why we are in the mess we are in as humanity: we’ve numbed, suppressed, and ignored, our innate ability to feel an emotions when they arise.
You introduce a great conversation on whether we can measure and compare oppressions. Most of the offended have experienced single issue oppression. To them, theirs weighs the most. They believe that Any response is ethical for liberation. They appreciate allyship until someone brings in intersectional language and justice for all. Suddenly, their response to oppression is no longer privileged. As Freire says, without love, the response of the Oppressed is often to recreate the oppressive action they experienced. It is their model. I'm feeling my own way as I continue to think on this.
Thank you for pointing out the hypocrisy in the sector. Keep hurting people’s feelings in the name of truth and justice.
With ice cold sarcasm, Vu Le takes on the widespread support (or silence at best) in the nonprofit sector for the g3nocide against Palestine, and the convoluted rationalizations, frailties, ignorance and denial that are used to justify. 🇵🇸 #FreePalestine
Tone policing in the nonprofit sector? You must be joking, I’ve never ever seen that happen before. Remember we are all above all nice, kind, helpful over achievers that lack boundaries or a voice
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2moNah, keep at it. We, the Zionist Jews, are having a field day, wait, month, - a whole year - finally seeing true faces of people who think they bring light but worship the death cult. It's been great to finally exhale and know exactly who you and your ilk are. Don't stop.