DEAR ANNIE: I’m a single 52-year-old male who needs your advice, please. I come from a close-knit family of four. I am my handicapped nephew’s personal home caregiver, taking care of him 24/7, 365 days a year. I live a normal, happy life with no interference.
Lately, I’ve been stuck in a rut of sorts, and I cannot figure it out. I am a Type 2 Diabetic who maintains and watches my health very well and carefully. I eat right and walk a mile or two every other day. I go to my doctor’s appointments when needed and stay on top of everything else that is important for me and my family.
I don’t know if it’s a midlife crisis kind of thing or something else. I’ve been feeling a little sluggish and down and out, but I don’t feel anything else out of the ordinary. Annie, am I possibly going through something here?
I never married and don’t have children, so I am not sure what this could possibly be. I don’t have any outbursts or PTSD. All I’m feeling is like life is slowing me down and I haven’t a clue as to why. I am writing you to see what condition or conditions that may be affecting me. Thank you in advance! -- Oblivious in New Mexico
DEAR OBLIVIOUS: Seeking the help of a professional doctor is your best bet. It could be physical, in which case a general practitioner could help you. It could be psychological, in which case your general practitioner will guide you to seek help from a therapist. You sound like a wonderful human for taking care of your nephew 365 days a year. Maybe you just need a little vacation.
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