Sex Therapists in Lincoln, ENG

Photo of Elizabeth Hicks - Elizabeth Hicks Therapy, MBACP Accred, Counsellor
Elizabeth Hicks Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Lincoln LN2  (Online Only)
I work with psycho sexual issues such as Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation, Vaginismus, Painful Sex, Desire Discrepancies, Sex Addiction (and Partner Work ), and the impact of trauma on the sexual self and relationship .
Navigating around life, work, family, relationships, sex and intimacy, most of us at some point will find ourselves in a situation where we might benefit from some extra support. I work with individuals, couples and families with both a relational and individual focus. I am qualified Psycho sexual & Relationship therapist. Alongside my Private Practice, I have previously worked with Relate, the NHS, Hospices and a Sexual Assault Support Centre. I also work with sex addiction (including support for partners and families). I have an approachable, warm & empathic approach and clients feed back that they find this incredibly helpful.
I work with psycho sexual issues such as Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation, Vaginismus, Painful Sex, Desire Discrepancies, Sex Addiction (and Partner Work ), and the impact of trauma on the sexual self and relationship .
Navigating around life, work, family, relationships, sex and intimacy, most of us at some point will find ourselves in a situation where we might benefit from some extra support. I work with individuals, couples and families with both a relational and individual focus. I am qualified Psycho sexual & Relationship therapist. Alongside my Private Practice, I have previously worked with Relate, the NHS, Hospices and a Sexual Assault Support Centre. I also work with sex addiction (including support for partners and families). I have an approachable, warm & empathic approach and clients feed back that they find this incredibly helpful.
01522 440418 View 01522 440418
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Joe Callaghan
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lincoln LN1
I have experience of working in multiple communities including LGBT with problems related to bereavement, relationship breakdowns, sexuality, PTSD, obsessional compulsions, anxiety disorders and other symptoms of deeper problems that supress our potential.
I believe listening empathetically to your specific individual experiences and thoughts, enables a deeper understanding of why you may be feeling depressed, anxious, lonely and lack direction or purpose in your life. If you have experienced the trauma of abuse or neglect, you may be feeling isolated from others and carry a sense of shame about who you are. I have fifteen years of experience creating individualised approaches centred around the individual needs of people who are experiencing psychological difficulties.
I have experience of working in multiple communities including LGBT with problems related to bereavement, relationship breakdowns, sexuality, PTSD, obsessional compulsions, anxiety disorders and other symptoms of deeper problems that supress our potential.
I believe listening empathetically to your specific individual experiences and thoughts, enables a deeper understanding of why you may be feeling depressed, anxious, lonely and lack direction or purpose in your life. If you have experienced the trauma of abuse or neglect, you may be feeling isolated from others and carry a sense of shame about who you are. I have fifteen years of experience creating individualised approaches centred around the individual needs of people who are experiencing psychological difficulties.
020 4538 4738 View 020 4538 4738
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Tracy Tuffs
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lincoln LN4
I work with a variety of issues, Anxiety, Depression, bereavement and loss, relationship issues, sexual issues.
Hi, looking for a counsellor can be difficult but if you are looking for someone who is empathic, will listen and will try to help you make sense of your feelings in order to make changes or informed choices to improve your future then I am here. I work with children, young people, individuals and couples. I am a Integrative counsellor using the most appropriate theoretical modality suited to you and your needs. I work with a variety of issues from bereavement, anxiety, relationship issues and sexual issues. If you would like to know more contact me and following an assessment session we can decide on the best way forward.
I work with a variety of issues, Anxiety, Depression, bereavement and loss, relationship issues, sexual issues.
Hi, looking for a counsellor can be difficult but if you are looking for someone who is empathic, will listen and will try to help you make sense of your feelings in order to make changes or informed choices to improve your future then I am here. I work with children, young people, individuals and couples. I am a Integrative counsellor using the most appropriate theoretical modality suited to you and your needs. I work with a variety of issues from bereavement, anxiety, relationship issues and sexual issues. If you would like to know more contact me and following an assessment session we can decide on the best way forward.
01400 222202 View 01400 222202
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Amethyst Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Lincoln LN6
Hi I’m Linda, I have been a therapist since 2004 and therefore have a vast amount of experience working with individuals and couples. I offer a variety of therapy approaches which I tailor make to clients specific needs. I work from my home in a quiet village location in Spalford with ample parking and privacy. I offer Counselling, Psycho sexual therapy and Hypnotherapy. Please visit my reviews at ; www.amethysttherapyspalford.freeindex.co.uk
Hi I’m Linda, I have been a therapist since 2004 and therefore have a vast amount of experience working with individuals and couples. I offer a variety of therapy approaches which I tailor make to clients specific needs. I work from my home in a quiet village location in Spalford with ample parking and privacy. I offer Counselling, Psycho sexual therapy and Hypnotherapy. Please visit my reviews at ; www.amethysttherapyspalford.freeindex.co.uk
01522 302737 View 01522 302737
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Sana Counselling and Psychotherapy Services
Counsellor, UKCP Trainee
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lincoln LN3
Post Lock down I am seeing more people whose relationship is under greater pressure due to both being at home, financial worries, anxiety about the changes that are happening in the world around them to name but a few. Others are seeking help due to the loss of a loved one, individuals are feeling isolated and having time to face fears that busy lives help supress. All of these things are things that therapy can help with.
Post Lock down I am seeing more people whose relationship is under greater pressure due to both being at home, financial worries, anxiety about the changes that are happening in the world around them to name but a few. Others are seeking help due to the loss of a loved one, individuals are feeling isolated and having time to face fears that busy lives help supress. All of these things are things that therapy can help with.
01480 772064 View 01480 772064
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Victoria Cobham
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Lincoln LN6
 My specialist areas are: anxiety, depression, trauma, bereavement, anger, low self-esteem, relationship issues (including complex relationships), stress management, divorce, sexual difficulties, desire and communication issues and sexual identity issues, for both individuals and couples.
Hello, I'm Victoria. I am a fully qualified Level 5 counsellor, experienced in treating individuals and couples, and a registered member of the BACP. I am currently undertaking a Master's Degree (Level 7) in Psycho sexual Therapy and working with clients with sexual difficulties and relationship issues - I charge a reduced price for psycho sexual therapy sessions, of £50 an hour for individuals and £65 for an hour and a quarter for couples. In addition, I am a solicitor and member of the Law Society.
 My specialist areas are: anxiety, depression, trauma, bereavement, anger, low self-esteem, relationship issues (including complex relationships), stress management, divorce, sexual difficulties, desire and communication issues and sexual identity issues, for both individuals and couples.
Hello, I'm Victoria. I am a fully qualified Level 5 counsellor, experienced in treating individuals and couples, and a registered member of the BACP. I am currently undertaking a Master's Degree (Level 7) in Psycho sexual Therapy and working with clients with sexual difficulties and relationship issues - I charge a reduced price for psycho sexual therapy sessions, of £50 an hour for individuals and £65 for an hour and a quarter for couples. In addition, I am a solicitor and member of the Law Society.
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Online Therapists

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Daryl Nicholas Counselling and Psychotherapy
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Warwick CV34
As an Integrative counsellor and psychotherapist, I have undergone extensive training which brings together effective contemporary approaches to therapy, drawing from a variety of models to suit your individual needs. I have over sixteen years experience supporting adults and young people to address a range of issues, including: anxiety/panic, depression, stress, loss and bereavement, identity issues, sexuality, trauma/abuse, low self-esteem, relationship issues, life transitions and careers and life direction. I also offer the comprehensive 'INSIGHT self-discovery programmes' (visit darylnicholas.com for more details).
As an Integrative counsellor and psychotherapist, I have undergone extensive training which brings together effective contemporary approaches to therapy, drawing from a variety of models to suit your individual needs. I have over sixteen years experience supporting adults and young people to address a range of issues, including: anxiety/panic, depression, stress, loss and bereavement, identity issues, sexuality, trauma/abuse, low self-esteem, relationship issues, life transitions and careers and life direction. I also offer the comprehensive 'INSIGHT self-discovery programmes' (visit darylnicholas.com for more details).
01926 800596 View 01926 800596
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Tell Us A Tail
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Barnsley S75
I’m sex positive, non judgmental and an advocate for people who have been through sexual, emotional and physical abuse.
I’m a sex, relationship and trauma therapist and rewind practitioner. I work in a solution focused way to build self esteem, confidence and self care. I’m attentive to how you learn and use lots of tools and worksheets to help.
I’m sex positive, non judgmental and an advocate for people who have been through sexual, emotional and physical abuse.
I’m a sex, relationship and trauma therapist and rewind practitioner. I work in a solution focused way to build self esteem, confidence and self care. I’m attentive to how you learn and use lots of tools and worksheets to help.
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Julie Sale
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Letchworth Garden City SG6
The specific issues that I can help with include sex and porn addiction, unusual sexual practices, loss of desire, orgasmic difficulties, vaginismus, erectile and ejaculation difficulties, pain on intercourse, the challenges of coming out, infertility and affairs, with both individuals and couples.
As a sex and relationship specialist my aim is to provide a safe environment in which clients can share their intimate thoughts and problems with no fear of judgement. I honour all sexual orientations and practices, acknowledging that difference does not equal deviance. I am a UKCP Registered and Accredited Psychotherapist, COSRT Senior Accredited Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor. I also teach a two year post graduate course in Clinical Sexology.
The specific issues that I can help with include sex and porn addiction, unusual sexual practices, loss of desire, orgasmic difficulties, vaginismus, erectile and ejaculation difficulties, pain on intercourse, the challenges of coming out, infertility and affairs, with both individuals and couples.
As a sex and relationship specialist my aim is to provide a safe environment in which clients can share their intimate thoughts and problems with no fear of judgement. I honour all sexual orientations and practices, acknowledging that difference does not equal deviance. I am a UKCP Registered and Accredited Psychotherapist, COSRT Senior Accredited Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor. I also teach a two year post graduate course in Clinical Sexology.
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Chantelle Walker
Counsellor, COSRT General
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Manchester M21
I am a Psycho sexual and Relationship Therapist. I am passionate about exploring various relationship dynamics and support partners in using their challenges as catalysts for deeper connection and growth. With sexual health always at the core of my work, I am dedicated to enhancing clients' sensuality and sexual wellbeing.
I am a Psycho sexual and Relationship Therapist. I am passionate about exploring various relationship dynamics and support partners in using their challenges as catalysts for deeper connection and growth. With sexual health always at the core of my work, I am dedicated to enhancing clients' sensuality and sexual wellbeing.
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Carla Devereux
Psychotherapist, MA, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
Solihull B90
Sex is off the menu and so is your intimacy.
I explore practical strategies that support individuals, couples and families dealing with trauma, stress, anxiety, and challenging situations. I delve into the causes of your symptoms and experiences contributing to your current feelings and behaviours. Through a supportive process, you will gain new insights into your situation and acquire new skills to help you cope and move forward. Psychotherapy is relaxed, confidential, and in a safe and friendly environment. Should you feel apprehensive about your first or subsequent sessions, you can bring a friend, parent or partner to the appointment.
Sex is off the menu and so is your intimacy.
I explore practical strategies that support individuals, couples and families dealing with trauma, stress, anxiety, and challenging situations. I delve into the causes of your symptoms and experiences contributing to your current feelings and behaviours. Through a supportive process, you will gain new insights into your situation and acquire new skills to help you cope and move forward. Psychotherapy is relaxed, confidential, and in a safe and friendly environment. Should you feel apprehensive about your first or subsequent sessions, you can bring a friend, parent or partner to the appointment.
0121 312 3546 View 0121 312 3546
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Dawn White - Relationship Living
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Dronfield S18
I work with sexual dysfunctional problems, and help my clients achieve the relationship, love and life they desire.
As a sex and relationship therapist I aim to provide an open space where people can discuss, and explore their intimate concerns and experiences in a non judgemental way. I work with both couples, individuals and multiple partnered people, whilst honouring all sexual orientations and practices. People that are experiencing sexual, emotional or deeper relationship issues, such as high conflict or are separated contact me to explore and understand what they can change and control, and also what patterns are repeating in their relationships. I am a sex positive therapist and have over 20 years extensive experience as a therapist.
I work with sexual dysfunctional problems, and help my clients achieve the relationship, love and life they desire.
As a sex and relationship therapist I aim to provide an open space where people can discuss, and explore their intimate concerns and experiences in a non judgemental way. I work with both couples, individuals and multiple partnered people, whilst honouring all sexual orientations and practices. People that are experiencing sexual, emotional or deeper relationship issues, such as high conflict or are separated contact me to explore and understand what they can change and control, and also what patterns are repeating in their relationships. I am a sex positive therapist and have over 20 years extensive experience as a therapist.
0114 697 2894 View 0114 697 2894
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Chi Ko Psychosexual Relationship Therapist
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
Manchester M3
Specialising in Psycho sexual and Relationship Therapy, Chi is also a Yoga Teacher, working somatically alongside EMDR technique to work with a range of conditions that relate to trauma, addiction, phobia, fear, betrayal, loss and cPTSD.
Chi is a Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist, accredited by BACP and COSRT. He also works with people with sexual addictive behaviour and compulsivity. He has an excellent working knowledge on a range of psychiatric and mental health conditions.
Specialising in Psycho sexual and Relationship Therapy, Chi is also a Yoga Teacher, working somatically alongside EMDR technique to work with a range of conditions that relate to trauma, addiction, phobia, fear, betrayal, loss and cPTSD.
Chi is a Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist, accredited by BACP and COSRT. He also works with people with sexual addictive behaviour and compulsivity. He has an excellent working knowledge on a range of psychiatric and mental health conditions.
0161 696 8319 View 0161 696 8319
Photo of Michelle Jermy, MSc, COSRT General, Psychotherapist
Michelle Jermy
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT General
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Thetford IP24
I truly understand talking about sex can be daunting.
Very often women accept ‘ sex’ is something they used to do when I strongly believe we deserve to enjoy pleasure and to be pleasured. I help women want sex again! Do you have little interest in sex? Has pain on penetration caused a decline in your desire for sex? Is your pelvic floor not as strong as you like? Has the Menopause made your sex drive disappear? Do you question if you will ever feel aroused or reach an orgasm again? Has your body changed over the years, and you are lacking body confidence? Are you feeling overwhelmed, and sex is the last thing on your mind? Contact for a free 1.1 consultation.
I truly understand talking about sex can be daunting.
Very often women accept ‘ sex’ is something they used to do when I strongly believe we deserve to enjoy pleasure and to be pleasured. I help women want sex again! Do you have little interest in sex? Has pain on penetration caused a decline in your desire for sex? Is your pelvic floor not as strong as you like? Has the Menopause made your sex drive disappear? Do you question if you will ever feel aroused or reach an orgasm again? Has your body changed over the years, and you are lacking body confidence? Are you feeling overwhelmed, and sex is the last thing on your mind? Contact for a free 1.1 consultation.
0113 467 8324 View 0113 467 8324
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Dr Michele McCulley
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG5
Together, we will explore your challenges like depression, anxiety, compulsive behaviours, identity, self-esteem, relationship problems, sexuality and figure out why they exist, and thereafter support you as you experiment with trying to do things differently.
I am an integrative psychologist, psychotherapist and sexologist and my training has followed this route because I believe the way we come to understand ourselves develops dynamically in formative years in relationship with our parents, extended families and more broadly the cultures in which families are embedded. In short, we come to know who we are in relationship with other people. That also means that most of our difficulties and adaptive skills - which often cause difficulties later on are formed as we navigate the different demands of these environments too. Becoming aware of these challenge the way to improved mental health.
Together, we will explore your challenges like depression, anxiety, compulsive behaviours, identity, self-esteem, relationship problems, sexuality and figure out why they exist, and thereafter support you as you experiment with trying to do things differently.
I am an integrative psychologist, psychotherapist and sexologist and my training has followed this route because I believe the way we come to understand ourselves develops dynamically in formative years in relationship with our parents, extended families and more broadly the cultures in which families are embedded. In short, we come to know who we are in relationship with other people. That also means that most of our difficulties and adaptive skills - which often cause difficulties later on are formed as we navigate the different demands of these environments too. Becoming aware of these challenge the way to improved mental health.
020 3984 8247 View 020 3984 8247
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Sally Redmond
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Peterborough PE2
My practice supports Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity, Kink Affirmative and Sex Worker Friendly.
I am a fully qualified Integrative Counsellor and a Sex and Relationship Trainee Therapist. The key to the way I work is in the relationship we build with each other, to facilitate exploring your thinking, feelings and experience. I work in a person centred way which is pluralistic, meaning I have a number of training and experience to draw upon and where I believe that you are the expert in your own feelings and experience, although you may not be feel like an expert in yourself at times.
My practice supports Gender, Sex and Relationship Diversity, Kink Affirmative and Sex Worker Friendly.
I am a fully qualified Integrative Counsellor and a Sex and Relationship Trainee Therapist. The key to the way I work is in the relationship we build with each other, to facilitate exploring your thinking, feelings and experience. I work in a person centred way which is pluralistic, meaning I have a number of training and experience to draw upon and where I believe that you are the expert in your own feelings and experience, although you may not be feel like an expert in yourself at times.
01733 964662 View 01733 964662
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Jon King - Addiction Specialist Psychotherapist
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Birmingham B28
My experience within this has been focused on many issues such as loss, anxiety, relationships, work related stress, shame, addictions, abandonment and issues of a sexual nature.
I am a fully qualified and experienced counsellor and psychotherapist with experience working within the NHS, private and charitable sectors. I offer a safe and confidential space in Birmingham and Coventry where clients are able to explore themselves free from judgement. I have extensive experience working within the field of addiction and have also been working within my own private practice for a number of years where i have enjoyed working with clients that present with a variety of different issues such as anxiety, relationship issues, sex issues, anger issues, personality disorders and also bereavement.
My experience within this has been focused on many issues such as loss, anxiety, relationships, work related stress, shame, addictions, abandonment and issues of a sexual nature.
I am a fully qualified and experienced counsellor and psychotherapist with experience working within the NHS, private and charitable sectors. I offer a safe and confidential space in Birmingham and Coventry where clients are able to explore themselves free from judgement. I have extensive experience working within the field of addiction and have also been working within my own private practice for a number of years where i have enjoyed working with clients that present with a variety of different issues such as anxiety, relationship issues, sex issues, anger issues, personality disorders and also bereavement.
0121 285 8149 View 0121 285 8149
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Chloe Jones
Counsellor, COSRT Reg.
Verified Verified
Manchester M22  (Online Only)
I appreciate talking about sex and intimacy is challenging for lots of people.
I work with people that have barriers to a fulfilling sex life. This can include conditions such as erectile dysfunction, premature/delayed ejaculation, low desire, pain during penetration and difficulty achieving orgasm.
I appreciate talking about sex and intimacy is challenging for lots of people.
I work with people that have barriers to a fulfilling sex life. This can include conditions such as erectile dysfunction, premature/delayed ejaculation, low desire, pain during penetration and difficulty achieving orgasm.
0161 524 8141 View 0161 524 8141
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David Kinvig
Psychotherapist, MSc, BACP
Verified Verified
Preston PR2
I work with opposite sex, same sex and transgender couples, covering sexual and sexuality difficulties, identity issues including Inter sex struggles, children, parenting, second and extended families, affairs, anger, domestic violence, communication difficulties, impact of life-stage transitions, separation and divorce as well as illness and bereavement/loss.
I am trained in a range of modalities including CBT, Mindfulness and Systemic Family Therapy. As an accredited Psychotherapist and Supervisor I work across the full spectrum of psychological disorders. I have particular interest in Trauma, OCD, Eating Disorders, High End Groups and Personality Disorders. I work with Autism, Learning Disabilities and Bereavement. I have a passion for working with suicidal people, survivors of suicide, families/friends of those whom live with the aftermath of suicide. I am an experienced couples and family therapist. I am skilled in multi agency working. I am experienced in working with prisoners.
I work with opposite sex, same sex and transgender couples, covering sexual and sexuality difficulties, identity issues including Inter sex struggles, children, parenting, second and extended families, affairs, anger, domestic violence, communication difficulties, impact of life-stage transitions, separation and divorce as well as illness and bereavement/loss.
I am trained in a range of modalities including CBT, Mindfulness and Systemic Family Therapy. As an accredited Psychotherapist and Supervisor I work across the full spectrum of psychological disorders. I have particular interest in Trauma, OCD, Eating Disorders, High End Groups and Personality Disorders. I work with Autism, Learning Disabilities and Bereavement. I have a passion for working with suicidal people, survivors of suicide, families/friends of those whom live with the aftermath of suicide. I am an experienced couples and family therapist. I am skilled in multi agency working. I am experienced in working with prisoners.
01253 335645 View 01253 335645
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Pasquale Forcellati
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Bedford MK40
I understand, that it can be embarrassing for many people to talk so intimately to a complete stranger, especially when it comes to sex.
Having worked in couple therapy for many years, my main observation is the loss of connection most people feel to their partners. Sometimes, this disconnection may play out as, a general feeling of discontent, or constant arguments, maybe there will be a loss of desire. whatever the issue it can only be fixed by agreeing to reconnect. I believe that couples can make a choice to reconnect. My goal is to take couple on a journey from where they are to reconnection. Finding a level of emotional intimacy that will transcend any present and future challenges to the couple relationship.
I understand, that it can be embarrassing for many people to talk so intimately to a complete stranger, especially when it comes to sex.
Having worked in couple therapy for many years, my main observation is the loss of connection most people feel to their partners. Sometimes, this disconnection may play out as, a general feeling of discontent, or constant arguments, maybe there will be a loss of desire. whatever the issue it can only be fixed by agreeing to reconnect. I believe that couples can make a choice to reconnect. My goal is to take couple on a journey from where they are to reconnection. Finding a level of emotional intimacy that will transcend any present and future challenges to the couple relationship.
01234 676656 View 01234 676656

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Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.