Self Esteem Counselling in Reading

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Kayleigh Rainbird
PTUK
Verified Verified
Reading RG1
I am a therapist who has a holistic approach to helping children to heal by supporting both parents and their children . Through my work I have noticed that children with low confidence and low self-esteem can express this through becoming withdrawn and avoidant or becoming angry and controlling. Parents come to me and tell me their child always wants control or they feel like they are stepping on eggshells when around their child. I offer play therapy, parent coaching, parent-child attachment play and life story therapy which is for fostered or adopted children. Please see rainbirdtherapy.co.uk for more information.
I am a therapist who has a holistic approach to helping children to heal by supporting both parents and their children . Through my work I have noticed that children with low confidence and low self-esteem can express this through becoming withdrawn and avoidant or becoming angry and controlling. Parents come to me and tell me their child always wants control or they feel like they are stepping on eggshells when around their child. I offer play therapy, parent coaching, parent-child attachment play and life story therapy which is for fostered or adopted children. Please see rainbirdtherapy.co.uk for more information.
01256 591396 View 01256 591396
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Sonia Diane
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reading RG1  (Online Only)
I am a licensed, registered Counsellor with the BACP and have been practicing online since the beginning of lockdown. Previous to that I worked with clients face to face. Having worked with clients who have various different issues including relationship problems, low self esteem, trouble in dealing with emotions, fear of rejection, and more. I have the experience in lots of different issues but realise that everyone is an individual and deals with things in different ways so there is no 'one size fits all' . You are the expert on you, so I shall sit with you and support you in your quest to find a solution.
I am a licensed, registered Counsellor with the BACP and have been practicing online since the beginning of lockdown. Previous to that I worked with clients face to face. Having worked with clients who have various different issues including relationship problems, low self esteem, trouble in dealing with emotions, fear of rejection, and more. I have the experience in lots of different issues but realise that everyone is an individual and deals with things in different ways so there is no 'one size fits all' . You are the expert on you, so I shall sit with you and support you in your quest to find a solution.
0118 338 5048 View 0118 338 5048
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Amreeta Chapman
Counsellor, PsychD, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reading RG5
My Clients over the last 18 years have ranged from having simple symptoms ( i.e. sleep disturbances, anxiety about interviews or social anxiety ) to severe symptoms (i.e. severe depression, insomnia, PTSD, OCD, Borderline Personality or sexual abuse). My clients are looking for tools that will help them reduce or eliminate those symptoms but they are also wanting to develop long term functional habits that will help them lead a healthier life. Most of my clients are highly functional but they are struggling with emotional issues in their relationships with childhood abuse, addictions, fears, self-esteem and others.
My Clients over the last 18 years have ranged from having simple symptoms ( i.e. sleep disturbances, anxiety about interviews or social anxiety ) to severe symptoms (i.e. severe depression, insomnia, PTSD, OCD, Borderline Personality or sexual abuse). My clients are looking for tools that will help them reduce or eliminate those symptoms but they are also wanting to develop long term functional habits that will help them lead a healthier life. Most of my clients are highly functional but they are struggling with emotional issues in their relationships with childhood abuse, addictions, fears, self-esteem and others.
0118 214 8554 View 0118 214 8554
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Cathryn Bullimore
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reading RG4
I specialise in all types of anxiety, especially Health Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) I also have a lot of experience with phobias, social anxiety and low self esteem. I use innovative ways to reduce all forms of anxiety. I understand completely how these disorders can ruin lives and my aim with all clients is to find solutions that allow them to live well again.
I specialise in all types of anxiety, especially Health Anxiety and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) I also have a lot of experience with phobias, social anxiety and low self esteem. I use innovative ways to reduce all forms of anxiety. I understand completely how these disorders can ruin lives and my aim with all clients is to find solutions that allow them to live well again.
0118 230 8214 View 0118 230 8214
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Sarah Comerford
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Reading RG30
I have several years experience working with issues around depression, low mood, anxiety, anger management, loneliness, trauma, relationships, family issues, low self esteem, stress, panic attacks, bereavement and loss, self harm, physical, emotional and sexual abuse and assault, gender, identity.
People come to counselling for many different reasons. You may have something specific that you are looking to change or gain help with. It may be that you're feeling stuck, experiencing feelings of depression, anxiety, uncertainty and/or feeling overwhelmed. You may have experienced trauma and feel ready to explore this further. Maybe you are looking for an opportunity to get to know yourself better. Counselling allows you to do all of these things, it is a time and space for you. It is an invitation to escape distractions, pressures and your external demands and explore who you are.
I have several years experience working with issues around depression, low mood, anxiety, anger management, loneliness, trauma, relationships, family issues, low self esteem, stress, panic attacks, bereavement and loss, self harm, physical, emotional and sexual abuse and assault, gender, identity.
People come to counselling for many different reasons. You may have something specific that you are looking to change or gain help with. It may be that you're feeling stuck, experiencing feelings of depression, anxiety, uncertainty and/or feeling overwhelmed. You may have experienced trauma and feel ready to explore this further. Maybe you are looking for an opportunity to get to know yourself better. Counselling allows you to do all of these things, it is a time and space for you. It is an invitation to escape distractions, pressures and your external demands and explore who you are.
01344 596171 View 01344 596171
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Dr Claudia, Willow Psychology Service
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Reading RG10  (Online Only)
Are you feeling stuck, isolated or overwhelmed by your difficulties? Reaching out for support can be hard, especially if you have not spoken with a psychologist before. My name is Claudia and I’m a compassionate and dedicated clinical psychologist, with over 8 years of experience working in the NHS. We will start by making sense of how your life experiences may have influenced your current problems, and then combining this understanding together with your own personal strengths, to create a treatment plan that will help you develop aspects of life that are important for you and reduce unwanted symptoms.
Are you feeling stuck, isolated or overwhelmed by your difficulties? Reaching out for support can be hard, especially if you have not spoken with a psychologist before. My name is Claudia and I’m a compassionate and dedicated clinical psychologist, with over 8 years of experience working in the NHS. We will start by making sense of how your life experiences may have influenced your current problems, and then combining this understanding together with your own personal strengths, to create a treatment plan that will help you develop aspects of life that are important for you and reduce unwanted symptoms.
020 4538 5521 View 020 4538 5521
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Rebecca Soniah Greedharee
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reading RG1  (Online Only)
We all meet challenges, issues and pinch points in our lives and I am no exception. Whether it be making important decisions, dealing with loss, coping with challenging experiences/trauma, low confidence/ self esteem it can be difficult to navigate our way through to lead our lives the way we want. You may be considering or are ready to make a change. Change could mean; reducing stress, coping with life in healthier ways, building confidence/ self esteem, coming to terms with change/loss or just about anything that helps you move in your desired direction. Talking therapy can help!
We all meet challenges, issues and pinch points in our lives and I am no exception. Whether it be making important decisions, dealing with loss, coping with challenging experiences/trauma, low confidence/ self esteem it can be difficult to navigate our way through to lead our lives the way we want. You may be considering or are ready to make a change. Change could mean; reducing stress, coping with life in healthier ways, building confidence/ self esteem, coming to terms with change/loss or just about anything that helps you move in your desired direction. Talking therapy can help!
0118 230 0550 View 0118 230 0550
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Emma Rigby
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Reading RG1
Waitlist for new clients
Thank you for taking the time to view my profile and find out more about my experience as a therapist and how I practice.  If you, or someone you care about are struggling, and certain aspects of life are feeling overwhelming, reaching out for help is such an important first step. Many of us are affected by mental health issues at some point in life, through our own experiences, or somebody close to us. I am dedicated in helping you to better understand these difficulties and to provide you with the tools you need to achieve emotional wellbeing.
Thank you for taking the time to view my profile and find out more about my experience as a therapist and how I practice.  If you, or someone you care about are struggling, and certain aspects of life are feeling overwhelming, reaching out for help is such an important first step. Many of us are affected by mental health issues at some point in life, through our own experiences, or somebody close to us. I am dedicated in helping you to better understand these difficulties and to provide you with the tools you need to achieve emotional wellbeing.
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Sara Gamba
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reading RG1
I work with adults, couples and young people, and with those experiencing a range of various difficulties including, but not limited to, anxiety, depression, relationships, self-esteem, identity issues and grief. I also have experience working with survivors of trauma and sexual abuse, and the distressing ongoing effects this can have on everyday life. I also work with LGBTQ+ and GSRD (gender, sexuality and relationship diverse) individual and people who are questioning their gender identity, sexual orientation or relationship styles.
I work with adults, couples and young people, and with those experiencing a range of various difficulties including, but not limited to, anxiety, depression, relationships, self-esteem, identity issues and grief. I also have experience working with survivors of trauma and sexual abuse, and the distressing ongoing effects this can have on everyday life. I also work with LGBTQ+ and GSRD (gender, sexuality and relationship diverse) individual and people who are questioning their gender identity, sexual orientation or relationship styles.
01442 971871 View 01442 971871
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Abi Gray
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Reading RG10
Waitlist for new clients
As an experienced and qualified counsellor, I will help you to make sense of what's happening in your life as I believe that this understanding will open up options for you to move forwards and past the uncomfortable feelings you are experiencing. You might be wanting to deal with past/current difficult and distressing experiences; improve personal or work relationships; overcome fears or anxieties; develop confidence or self-esteem; or find more purpose, motivation or fulfilment in your life.
As an experienced and qualified counsellor, I will help you to make sense of what's happening in your life as I believe that this understanding will open up options for you to move forwards and past the uncomfortable feelings you are experiencing. You might be wanting to deal with past/current difficult and distressing experiences; improve personal or work relationships; overcome fears or anxieties; develop confidence or self-esteem; or find more purpose, motivation or fulfilment in your life.
01344 949716 View 01344 949716
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Viviane Hill
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Reading RG20
Are you feeling anxious, depressed, stuck ? Not quite yourself ? Perhaps you’re struggling with unexpected changes… difficulties in your relationship, the loss of a loved one, health problems? Or maybe you are wanting to move on from a situation that's holding you back, recover from a hurt or disappointment or regain your sense of self and what to do with your life? Whatever our age or circumstances, there are times when we could all use some support to light our way forward and to develop a deeper understanding of ourselves and our current situation.
Are you feeling anxious, depressed, stuck ? Not quite yourself ? Perhaps you’re struggling with unexpected changes… difficulties in your relationship, the loss of a loved one, health problems? Or maybe you are wanting to move on from a situation that's holding you back, recover from a hurt or disappointment or regain your sense of self and what to do with your life? Whatever our age or circumstances, there are times when we could all use some support to light our way forward and to develop a deeper understanding of ourselves and our current situation.
01903 684002 View 01903 684002
Photo of Michelle Contreras, MBABCP, Psychotherapist
Michelle Contreras
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Reading RG2  (Online Only)
Are you striving for a more fulfilling and meaningful life but find anxiety or low mood holding you back? I’m here to support you. I provide a compassionate, non-judgmental environment and have the expertise to help you unlock your potential and achieve your goals. My name is Michelle I am an accredited Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist with a decade of experience in primary and secondary mental health care setting and this has helped my knowledge and training in providing support for wider presentations of mental health issues while also addressing life changes and challenges.
Are you striving for a more fulfilling and meaningful life but find anxiety or low mood holding you back? I’m here to support you. I provide a compassionate, non-judgmental environment and have the expertise to help you unlock your potential and achieve your goals. My name is Michelle I am an accredited Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist with a decade of experience in primary and secondary mental health care setting and this has helped my knowledge and training in providing support for wider presentations of mental health issues while also addressing life changes and challenges.
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Ellie Ewbank
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Reading RG30
I enjoy working with adolescents and adults. My areas of special interest and experience include Depression, Anxiety disorders, low self-esteem, and long-term health conditions.
I enjoy working with adolescents and adults. My areas of special interest and experience include Depression, Anxiety disorders, low self-esteem, and long-term health conditions.
0118 230 2061 View 0118 230 2061
Photo of Claire Capek, MA, MBACP, Counsellor
Claire Capek
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Reading RG1
If you are feeling a variety of emotions such as anxiety, overwhelm, sadness, emotional pain, low self esteem or experiences from trauma, I can work with you in a supportive space to talk about past pains and present challenges so to help you make sense of these and understand yourself better. With this process there can be exploration into what decisions you want to make to move forwards in your life with positive change.
If you are feeling a variety of emotions such as anxiety, overwhelm, sadness, emotional pain, low self esteem or experiences from trauma, I can work with you in a supportive space to talk about past pains and present challenges so to help you make sense of these and understand yourself better. With this process there can be exploration into what decisions you want to make to move forwards in your life with positive change.
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Photo of Catherine Walford Smith, MBACP, Counsellor
Catherine Walford Smith
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reading RG31
Reaching out for help can be tough but it’s an important first step to feeling better. You don't have to cope alone, I'm a fully qualified counsellor offering a place to explore, understand and share your difficulties. I work with adult clients who are struggling with various mental and emotional challenges. This includes anxiety, low self-esteem, work stress, relationship and confidence issues. Many clients may not be aware of why they are struggling but often it can be attributed to a trauma which may have taken place either recently or in the past. I specialise in supporting clients understand and move through their symptoms.
Reaching out for help can be tough but it’s an important first step to feeling better. You don't have to cope alone, I'm a fully qualified counsellor offering a place to explore, understand and share your difficulties. I work with adult clients who are struggling with various mental and emotional challenges. This includes anxiety, low self-esteem, work stress, relationship and confidence issues. Many clients may not be aware of why they are struggling but often it can be attributed to a trauma which may have taken place either recently or in the past. I specialise in supporting clients understand and move through their symptoms.
0118 230 9381 View 0118 230 9381
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Godiva's Counselling Home Ltd
Counsellor, DCounsPsych
Verified Verified
Reading RG31
Are you longing for support in navigating your mental and emotional challenges through the lens of your Christian faith? I am Godiva Princewill, an experienced Christian Counsellor. What sets me apart is my ability to apply both professional and Christian faith aspect in creating a safe and non-judgmental space for you to explore your thoughts, emotions, and experiences in regaining your mental well-being or desired change. I can provide you with tailored support to successfully assist you in wide range of concerns, including depression, low self-esteem, relationship issues and other concerns. View clients reviews at www.gchlove.com
Are you longing for support in navigating your mental and emotional challenges through the lens of your Christian faith? I am Godiva Princewill, an experienced Christian Counsellor. What sets me apart is my ability to apply both professional and Christian faith aspect in creating a safe and non-judgmental space for you to explore your thoughts, emotions, and experiences in regaining your mental well-being or desired change. I can provide you with tailored support to successfully assist you in wide range of concerns, including depression, low self-esteem, relationship issues and other concerns. View clients reviews at www.gchlove.com
0118 230 1915 x44 View 0118 230 1915 x44
Photo of Simi Onatunde, MSc, MBACP, Counsellor
Simi Onatunde
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reading RG1
How have you been feeling recently? Low, depressed, lonely? Many of us feel this way but have difficulty expressing ourselves or finding the people in our lives willing to listen. This is where talking therapies such as counselling and psychotherapy could help you. I have extensive experience providing support to clients through a range of issues such as childhood trauma, depression, family conflicts, low mood, anxiety, identity issues, grief, loss, cultural conflict, loneliness, sexuality, stress, neurodiversity, ASD, ADHD/ADD, narcissistic abuse, PTSD, race, self-harm, anger, relationship problems, self-esteem and confidence.
How have you been feeling recently? Low, depressed, lonely? Many of us feel this way but have difficulty expressing ourselves or finding the people in our lives willing to listen. This is where talking therapies such as counselling and psychotherapy could help you. I have extensive experience providing support to clients through a range of issues such as childhood trauma, depression, family conflicts, low mood, anxiety, identity issues, grief, loss, cultural conflict, loneliness, sexuality, stress, neurodiversity, ASD, ADHD/ADD, narcissistic abuse, PTSD, race, self-harm, anger, relationship problems, self-esteem and confidence.
01344 959926 View 01344 959926
Photo of Emma Swiatek, MBACP, Counsellor
Emma Swiatek
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reading RG1
You may be finding life challenging, struggling with anxiety, depression, low- self esteem, grief, hopelessness or overwhelmed with whatever is troubling you. I offer a warm and empathic space where we can explore together your thoughts and feelings in confidence. The sessions are your space to use as you wish and together we can think about whatever you feel you want to bring to the session. Feeling heard and having the space to talk things through in a non-judgmental environment can lead to a better understanding of ourselves which can give clarity and the possibility to find a path forward to positive change.
You may be finding life challenging, struggling with anxiety, depression, low- self esteem, grief, hopelessness or overwhelmed with whatever is troubling you. I offer a warm and empathic space where we can explore together your thoughts and feelings in confidence. The sessions are your space to use as you wish and together we can think about whatever you feel you want to bring to the session. Feeling heard and having the space to talk things through in a non-judgmental environment can lead to a better understanding of ourselves which can give clarity and the possibility to find a path forward to positive change.
0118 230 0939 View 0118 230 0939
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Rhoda Gillespie
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Reading RG6  (Online Only)
In my work with Adults, I have worked with a wide range of issues, including, anxiety, family relationships, sexual abuse, grief and loss, self esteem, and trauma.
In my work with Adults, I have worked with a wide range of issues, including, anxiety, family relationships, sexual abuse, grief and loss, self esteem, and trauma.
0118 230 8148 View 0118 230 8148
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Veronica Prasad-Woodcock
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Reading RG1
Sometimes things such as stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, bereavement, sadness, discrimination, identity or relationship issues may feel overwhelming. Whether you are considering counselling because you are struggling now or maybe trying to better understand something in particular in the past or present, talking to a counsellor can be very helpful. A supportive, nurturing, safe and non-judgemental space allows for exploration, discovery and better understanding, this can then lead to new or different ways of being in the world. Student counsellors are very welcome.
Sometimes things such as stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, bereavement, sadness, discrimination, identity or relationship issues may feel overwhelming. Whether you are considering counselling because you are struggling now or maybe trying to better understand something in particular in the past or present, talking to a counsellor can be very helpful. A supportive, nurturing, safe and non-judgemental space allows for exploration, discovery and better understanding, this can then lead to new or different ways of being in the world. Student counsellors are very welcome.
0118 230 8606 View 0118 230 8606

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Self Esteem Counsellors

When should a person seek therapy for low self-esteem?

When self-esteem problems begin to disrupt the healthy daily functioning of an individual, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not engaging with friends for fear of being judged, not completing work assignments because they don’t think they’re capable, or not finding romantic love because they don’t feel they’re worthy of it, a therapist may be able to help.

What are the signs of low self-esteem?

Low self-esteem is a common issue that can affect a person's mental and emotional well-being. Some common signs of low self-esteem include negative self-talk, perfectionism, social anxiety, difficulty making decisions, an inability to set boundaries, people-pleasing, and others. A lack of belief in oneself or one’s abilities and a feeling of not being worthy or deserving underlie most of these characteristics.

What causes low self-esteem?

Feelings of low self-worth can begin in childhood or adulthood. Being raised by a highly critical parent or growing up feeling constant disapproval can stay with a person well into adulthood. Specific issues in adulthood may also be a cause of low self-esteem. An unhappy relationship, a dysfunctional work or school experience can impact a person’s feelings of self-worth.

How can therapy improve self-esteem?

Therapists can help identify negative thought patterns that keep the client stuck in a loop of destructive self-talk and develop coping skills to change the voice in their head. A therapist can help with goal-setting, so that clients are better able to stay on task and build confidence from successfully completing work they’re proud of. Coaching a client on how to better communicate can improve relationships. These skills can result in someone with low self-esteem feeling empowered and living with less fear.