Self Esteem Counselling in Warlingham

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Faye Starr
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Warlingham CR6
I am an experienced and fully qualified integrative counsellor / psychotherapist specifically trained to work with young people of all ages to offer support and relief from overwhelming and confusing feelings that leave them feeling vulnerable. I offer long-term and short-term therapy for all ages from my garden room in Warlingham, Surrey (near Croydon, Caterham and Purley).
I am an experienced and fully qualified integrative counsellor / psychotherapist specifically trained to work with young people of all ages to offer support and relief from overwhelming and confusing feelings that leave them feeling vulnerable. I offer long-term and short-term therapy for all ages from my garden room in Warlingham, Surrey (near Croydon, Caterham and Purley).
07403 936060 View 07403 936060
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Erica Jane Ruse Whalley
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Warlingham CR6  (Online Only)
I work with anxiety, depression, self esteem, bereavement, all life events and relationship issues.
Hi, sometimes it no longer seems enough to talk to friends or family, and we need further support and insight to get back on track. I work with adults, teenagers and children, offering a range of therapeutic methods, to find which suit you best. I am a fully trained and accredited Counsellor with the British Assiciation of Counselling and Psychologists, I am trained in person centred, Psycho- dynamic and CBT and I offer many creative techniques such as Jungian Kallffian Sandplay which is a gentle but extremely effective way of working with children, teenagers and adults. I would really like to hear from you, please send a text (0781 209 7293) or email ([email protected]) so that we can arrange a time for an initial phone call to discuss how I can help you.
I work with anxiety, depression, self esteem, bereavement, all life events and relationship issues.
Hi, sometimes it no longer seems enough to talk to friends or family, and we need further support and insight to get back on track. I work with adults, teenagers and children, offering a range of therapeutic methods, to find which suit you best. I am a fully trained and accredited Counsellor with the British Assiciation of Counselling and Psychologists, I am trained in person centred, Psycho- dynamic and CBT and I offer many creative techniques such as Jungian Kallffian Sandplay which is a gentle but extremely effective way of working with children, teenagers and adults. I would really like to hear from you, please send a text (0781 209 7293) or email ([email protected]) so that we can arrange a time for an initial phone call to discuss how I can help you.
020 3962 1569 View 020 3962 1569
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Kelly Thatcher She-Her
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Warlingham CR6
I have experience supporting individuals in a breadth of presenting issues including trauma, identity issues, self-harm, suicide ideation, low self-esteem, work-related stress, as well as anxiety and depression. Working collaboratively, to aid you towards a deeper level of understanding, offer insights and perspectives, explore strategies and coping mechanisms, and support you to achieve the personal development and growth you desire.
I have experience supporting individuals in a breadth of presenting issues including trauma, identity issues, self-harm, suicide ideation, low self-esteem, work-related stress, as well as anxiety and depression. Working collaboratively, to aid you towards a deeper level of understanding, offer insights and perspectives, explore strategies and coping mechanisms, and support you to achieve the personal development and growth you desire.
01883 778995 View 01883 778995
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Chloe Afferson
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Warlingham CR6
As human beings we have natural, healthy needs, to feel seen, understood, valued, and included. When these needs go unmet, either in childhood or as adults it can cause deep psychological wounds, leading to a range of difficulties including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and relational challenges. Change can be daunting even when wanted and needed, it can be difficult to make the step towards something new and unknown. Successful therapy acknowledges this and gently questions the, often unconscious, habits keeping us stuck. It opens up new possibilities and perspectives, empowering authentic and lasting change.
As human beings we have natural, healthy needs, to feel seen, understood, valued, and included. When these needs go unmet, either in childhood or as adults it can cause deep psychological wounds, leading to a range of difficulties including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and relational challenges. Change can be daunting even when wanted and needed, it can be difficult to make the step towards something new and unknown. Successful therapy acknowledges this and gently questions the, often unconscious, habits keeping us stuck. It opens up new possibilities and perspectives, empowering authentic and lasting change.
01883 779628 View 01883 779628
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Paul Fitzpatrick
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Warlingham CR6
I have been in that unimaginable place, where I did not know where to turn or even where to begin to make the necessary changes to improve my life. It is through my own positive experiences of counselling that I decided to train to become a counsellor. I understand that taking that first step towards seeking support can seem very challenging. It is with this empathetic thought in mind, and the ethical framework that I work within that I always endeavour to establish a transparent and trusting therapeutic relationship, without judgement, in a safe and confidential environment.
I have been in that unimaginable place, where I did not know where to turn or even where to begin to make the necessary changes to improve my life. It is through my own positive experiences of counselling that I decided to train to become a counsellor. I understand that taking that first step towards seeking support can seem very challenging. It is with this empathetic thought in mind, and the ethical framework that I work within that I always endeavour to establish a transparent and trusting therapeutic relationship, without judgement, in a safe and confidential environment.
01689 664649 View 01689 664649
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Katherine Ward
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Warlingham CR6
I am a warm and caring Relate trained counsellor. I offer couple and individual counselling and sex therapy. Maybe you've been growing apart, or something has happened that has disturbed the core of your relationship? Or you're an individual questioning whether you can be in a/ or any relationship. You don't have to face these issues alone. Sometimes counselling isn't about reaching a conclusion, it can be the start a longer process. The important thing to recognise is that the moment you have got in contact; you will begin to move forward. I counsel on a general level too.
I am a warm and caring Relate trained counsellor. I offer couple and individual counselling and sex therapy. Maybe you've been growing apart, or something has happened that has disturbed the core of your relationship? Or you're an individual questioning whether you can be in a/ or any relationship. You don't have to face these issues alone. Sometimes counselling isn't about reaching a conclusion, it can be the start a longer process. The important thing to recognise is that the moment you have got in contact; you will begin to move forward. I counsel on a general level too.
01883 779996 View 01883 779996
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Mags Giza
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Warlingham CR6
Hi, I’m Mags. I'm a BABCP Accredited Senior CBT Therapist, Integrative Psychotherapist and Supervisor with 15 years of experience with the NHS, as well as offering psychotherapy in private practice. A lot of my clients come to therapy when the emotional pain or anxiety have taken over their life; they seek my help to reclaim it, and start living to the full again. I will always strive to put all my knowledge and experience into our shared effort to help you heal, make changes and feel fulfilled, if you choose to embark on your therapeutic journey with me.
Hi, I’m Mags. I'm a BABCP Accredited Senior CBT Therapist, Integrative Psychotherapist and Supervisor with 15 years of experience with the NHS, as well as offering psychotherapy in private practice. A lot of my clients come to therapy when the emotional pain or anxiety have taken over their life; they seek my help to reclaim it, and start living to the full again. I will always strive to put all my knowledge and experience into our shared effort to help you heal, make changes and feel fulfilled, if you choose to embark on your therapeutic journey with me.
01883 771350 View 01883 771350
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Therapy Works Surrey
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Warlingham CR6
Therapy Works Surrey, provides a private Counselling and Psychotherapy service Old Coulsdon, previously Caterham. In general, counselling and psychotherapy can help you achieve a happier and more fulfilling life by bringing about changes in the way you think and behave. Improving your Mental Health, balancing mind and Wellbeing. Offering short and longer-term individual counselling, psychotherapy & couples counselling; to help with your personal issues by tailoring her integrative skills to meet your needs & goals.The practice ensures you are provided with the best standard of care.
Therapy Works Surrey, provides a private Counselling and Psychotherapy service Old Coulsdon, previously Caterham. In general, counselling and psychotherapy can help you achieve a happier and more fulfilling life by bringing about changes in the way you think and behave. Improving your Mental Health, balancing mind and Wellbeing. Offering short and longer-term individual counselling, psychotherapy & couples counselling; to help with your personal issues by tailoring her integrative skills to meet your needs & goals.The practice ensures you are provided with the best standard of care.
01883 772965 View 01883 772965
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Gill Weaver
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Warlingham CR6
Waitlist for new clients
Hello and welcome. I am an integrative, humanistic counsellor working with adults and young people. I offer long and short term talking therapy within a warm, non judgemental and empathic therapeutic relationship. Here, you will feel enabled to explore your past, finding ways to cope with your present and move towards a more fulfilling future with increased self agency. Together, we will explore relational and behavioural patterns, intrusive or unhelpful thoughts all of which may influence your emotional thinking, behaviours and responses in the here and now.
Hello and welcome. I am an integrative, humanistic counsellor working with adults and young people. I offer long and short term talking therapy within a warm, non judgemental and empathic therapeutic relationship. Here, you will feel enabled to explore your past, finding ways to cope with your present and move towards a more fulfilling future with increased self agency. Together, we will explore relational and behavioural patterns, intrusive or unhelpful thoughts all of which may influence your emotional thinking, behaviours and responses in the here and now.
020 3376 8374 View 020 3376 8374
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Ina Spellings
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Warlingham CR6  (Online Only)
I am a Clinical Trauma Therapist specialising in helping adult survivors of childhood abuse. As a Certified Clinical Anxiety Specialist and Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor, I offer support through a blend of neuroscience, grounding techniques, and psychoeducation. Additionally, I work with individuals diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, utilising Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) techniques. My approach is holistic and empathetic, dedicated to fostering healing and resilience in a safe and supportive environment. I work bilingually in English and Romanian.
I am a Clinical Trauma Therapist specialising in helping adult survivors of childhood abuse. As a Certified Clinical Anxiety Specialist and Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor, I offer support through a blend of neuroscience, grounding techniques, and psychoeducation. Additionally, I work with individuals diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, utilising Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) techniques. My approach is holistic and empathetic, dedicated to fostering healing and resilience in a safe and supportive environment. I work bilingually in English and Romanian.
020 4538 0219 View 020 4538 0219

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Dr Zarina Prayag
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Whyteleafe CR3  (Online Only)
I am a Clinical Psychologist with over 15 years’ experience working with clients with a range of difficulties, including low mood, self-esteem issues, worry, anxiety, social anxiety, OCD, phobias, relationship issues, trauma, psychosis, schizophrenia, and bipolar affective disorder. I have a special interest in working with clients with anxiety-related difficulties, and self-esteem and self-confidence issues. I am experienced in working with clients in the corporate sector, and people in sport. I also have experience working with clients with Asperger’s Syndrome, and adapt therapy to meet the needs of my clients.
I am a Clinical Psychologist with over 15 years’ experience working with clients with a range of difficulties, including low mood, self-esteem issues, worry, anxiety, social anxiety, OCD, phobias, relationship issues, trauma, psychosis, schizophrenia, and bipolar affective disorder. I have a special interest in working with clients with anxiety-related difficulties, and self-esteem and self-confidence issues. I am experienced in working with clients in the corporate sector, and people in sport. I also have experience working with clients with Asperger’s Syndrome, and adapt therapy to meet the needs of my clients.
01883 779613 View 01883 779613
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Thomas Smithson
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
South Croydon CR2  (Online Only)
Hello, my name is Tom, and my aim is to offer you a supportive and kind space to experience change, healing and to help you explore whatever it is you are going through. Much of my work supports clients with depression, anxiety, relationships, connection, identity, self-esteem, existential thoughts and the search for meaning. You might also be going through life changes, looking to explore yourself or understand, challenge & change behaviours. I work with all adults and specialise in working with queer communities & those who are neurodivergent. These will be your sessions and I aim to help you work towards whatever goals you have.
Hello, my name is Tom, and my aim is to offer you a supportive and kind space to experience change, healing and to help you explore whatever it is you are going through. Much of my work supports clients with depression, anxiety, relationships, connection, identity, self-esteem, existential thoughts and the search for meaning. You might also be going through life changes, looking to explore yourself or understand, challenge & change behaviours. I work with all adults and specialise in working with queer communities & those who are neurodivergent. These will be your sessions and I aim to help you work towards whatever goals you have.
01798 305067 View 01798 305067
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Jazz Vienna Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Caterham CR3
Hello, and a very warm welcome to you. Making the decision to start therapy can be a difficult step, but a positive and rewarding one for many. I am a warm and compassionate integrative therapist offering indoor face to face counselling, online sessions, and outdoors walk and talk therapy. You as a person are at the centre of my approach. When life becomes overwhelming, it can be surprisingly helpful to speak to someone who really listens, with warmth, understanding, and without judgment. My aim is to provide a welcoming, safe, and confidential space for us to explore the challenging issues that may have brought you here today.
Hello, and a very warm welcome to you. Making the decision to start therapy can be a difficult step, but a positive and rewarding one for many. I am a warm and compassionate integrative therapist offering indoor face to face counselling, online sessions, and outdoors walk and talk therapy. You as a person are at the centre of my approach. When life becomes overwhelming, it can be surprisingly helpful to speak to someone who really listens, with warmth, understanding, and without judgment. My aim is to provide a welcoming, safe, and confidential space for us to explore the challenging issues that may have brought you here today.
020 4538 5685 View 020 4538 5685
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Mindremedies
Psychologist, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
I am a HCPC registered Psychologist , I am also a fully accredited cognitive behavioural psychotherapy with the BABCP. I have over 13 years’ experience which includes working in both the private and public sector .I currently work in private practice providing short, medium- and long-term cognitive behavioural psychotherapy and EMDR. I treat a wide range of difficulties ranging from anxiety, depression, stress, insomnia, low self-esteem, OCD, and PTSD. I also work with adolescents treating common mental health problems such as depression and anxiety and exam stress.
I am a HCPC registered Psychologist , I am also a fully accredited cognitive behavioural psychotherapy with the BABCP. I have over 13 years’ experience which includes working in both the private and public sector .I currently work in private practice providing short, medium- and long-term cognitive behavioural psychotherapy and EMDR. I treat a wide range of difficulties ranging from anxiety, depression, stress, insomnia, low self-esteem, OCD, and PTSD. I also work with adolescents treating common mental health problems such as depression and anxiety and exam stress.
01883 776062 View 01883 776062
Photo of Dr Fabio Massaro, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych., Psychologist
Dr Fabio Massaro
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Caterham CR3
I am a warm and friendly Clinical Psychologist with specialist experience in complex mental health difficulties in adolescents and adults (such as, anxiety, self-harm, low mood, trauma-related problems, low self-esteem, and social isolation). Over the past 11 years I have worked in a number of NHS and non-NHS settings including, child and adolescent generic and specialist services (CAMHS) and adult community and inpatient services, providing specialist assessments and evidence-based treatment to neurotypical and neurodivergent individuals who were at risk.
I am a warm and friendly Clinical Psychologist with specialist experience in complex mental health difficulties in adolescents and adults (such as, anxiety, self-harm, low mood, trauma-related problems, low self-esteem, and social isolation). Over the past 11 years I have worked in a number of NHS and non-NHS settings including, child and adolescent generic and specialist services (CAMHS) and adult community and inpatient services, providing specialist assessments and evidence-based treatment to neurotypical and neurodivergent individuals who were at risk.
07774 721107 View 07774 721107
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Aleksandra Amoev
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chaldon CR3
My name is Aleks and I am an integrative psychotherapeutic counsellor practising in Purley. I am a fully qualified and experienced counsellor working with a wide range of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship problems, loss, stress, low self-esteem and other psychological difficulties. I offer both short term and open-ended counselling and my aim is to help you make sense of whatever is happening in your life and empower you to make positive and lasting changes.
My name is Aleks and I am an integrative psychotherapeutic counsellor practising in Purley. I am a fully qualified and experienced counsellor working with a wide range of issues including depression, anxiety, relationship problems, loss, stress, low self-esteem and other psychological difficulties. I offer both short term and open-ended counselling and my aim is to help you make sense of whatever is happening in your life and empower you to make positive and lasting changes.
01883 779991 View 01883 779991
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Clare Buchanan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
South Croydon CR2  (Online Only)
Welcome! My aim as your counsellor is to provide you with a safe and accepting space in which we can explore the reasons that bring you to counselling, and work together to bring you to a place of healing, growth and restoration. My integrative approach draws on different ideas and strategies, allowing flexibility to suit the needs of the individual. I will work with you to set goals and allow you to set your own pace. I am experienced in working with anxiety, depression, eating disorders, self esteem and body image. I can help you to manage stress, or identify unhelpful behavioural patterns that are keeping you stuck.
Welcome! My aim as your counsellor is to provide you with a safe and accepting space in which we can explore the reasons that bring you to counselling, and work together to bring you to a place of healing, growth and restoration. My integrative approach draws on different ideas and strategies, allowing flexibility to suit the needs of the individual. I will work with you to set goals and allow you to set your own pace. I am experienced in working with anxiety, depression, eating disorders, self esteem and body image. I can help you to manage stress, or identify unhelpful behavioural patterns that are keeping you stuck.
01883 776073 View 01883 776073
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Pia Hansen
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
South Croydon CR2
Right now, as you read this, you are likely not in a good place. You may be feeling distressed and hopeless or overwhelmed. This may have been going on for a long time and you may have tried to cope in different ways - but it's no longer working? You have tried talking to friends and family but that isn't working either? Maybe there are things that happened a long time ago in your childhood and this is still affecting you today - therapy can be a place to begin to look at all of this and can be the start of beginning to feel better and with improving self-esteem.
Right now, as you read this, you are likely not in a good place. You may be feeling distressed and hopeless or overwhelmed. This may have been going on for a long time and you may have tried to cope in different ways - but it's no longer working? You have tried talking to friends and family but that isn't working either? Maybe there are things that happened a long time ago in your childhood and this is still affecting you today - therapy can be a place to begin to look at all of this and can be the start of beginning to feel better and with improving self-esteem.
01798 305037 View 01798 305037
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Paul Lipman
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Caterham CR3
Inspired by my own therapy which solved long term anxiety, fear snd trauma from my early life, I have for more than a decade been helping individuals and couples resolve the deepest of issues. Not tools and techniques but lasting core change: emotionally, psychologically and behaviourally and giving my clients the ability live comfortably and confidently. I am trained to be good at understanding peoples problems and not only do I know what its like to have little idea about therapy or how to help myself, just feeling vulnerable, my knowing goes beyond books and I can sensitively and safely guide you through counselling.
Inspired by my own therapy which solved long term anxiety, fear snd trauma from my early life, I have for more than a decade been helping individuals and couples resolve the deepest of issues. Not tools and techniques but lasting core change: emotionally, psychologically and behaviourally and giving my clients the ability live comfortably and confidently. I am trained to be good at understanding peoples problems and not only do I know what its like to have little idea about therapy or how to help myself, just feeling vulnerable, my knowing goes beyond books and I can sensitively and safely guide you through counselling.
01883 772265 View 01883 772265
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Anita Evenden
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
South Croydon CR2
Do you want someone to listen and understand how things are for you? I am passionate about being with you in your concerns. Whatever they may be. I am currently working online and face to face. if you are nervous about this, please give me a call and I can arrange a taster session. Sometimes we all need someone to listen, accept and help us to work through our problems and just be with us in times of distress. Give me a call or email and see if we can work together? I work regularly with clients across the country but also locally. I have a garden office which is purpose built for sessions and is comfortable and confidential.
Do you want someone to listen and understand how things are for you? I am passionate about being with you in your concerns. Whatever they may be. I am currently working online and face to face. if you are nervous about this, please give me a call and I can arrange a taster session. Sometimes we all need someone to listen, accept and help us to work through our problems and just be with us in times of distress. Give me a call or email and see if we can work together? I work regularly with clients across the country but also locally. I have a garden office which is purpose built for sessions and is comfortable and confidential.
020 3909 8944 View 020 3909 8944

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Self Esteem Counsellors

When should a person seek therapy for low self-esteem?

When self-esteem problems begin to disrupt the healthy daily functioning of an individual, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not engaging with friends for fear of being judged, not completing work assignments because they don’t think they’re capable, or not finding romantic love because they don’t feel they’re worthy of it, a therapist may be able to help.

What are the signs of low self-esteem?

Low self-esteem is a common issue that can affect a person's mental and emotional well-being. Some common signs of low self-esteem include negative self-talk, perfectionism, social anxiety, difficulty making decisions, an inability to set boundaries, people-pleasing, and others. A lack of belief in oneself or one’s abilities and a feeling of not being worthy or deserving underlie most of these characteristics.

What causes low self-esteem?

Feelings of low self-worth can begin in childhood or adulthood. Being raised by a highly critical parent or growing up feeling constant disapproval can stay with a person well into adulthood. Specific issues in adulthood may also be a cause of low self-esteem. An unhappy relationship, a dysfunctional work or school experience can impact a person’s feelings of self-worth.

How can therapy improve self-esteem?

Therapists can help identify negative thought patterns that keep the client stuck in a loop of destructive self-talk and develop coping skills to change the voice in their head. A therapist can help with goal-setting, so that clients are better able to stay on task and build confidence from successfully completing work they’re proud of. Coaching a client on how to better communicate can improve relationships. These skills can result in someone with low self-esteem feeling empowered and living with less fear.