Infidelity Therapists in Denver, CO

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Molly Jenkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST, CHT
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80211
I specialize in infidelity and affairs.
Whatever brought you to this page, chances are you're feeling stuck, confused, misunderstood, or at odds with someone you love. There is hope. By seeking help, you're already making things better. I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist. I work with individuals, couples and families using a combination of approaches to help heal your relationship with yourself and with the people you're close to. Let's collaborate to create realistic and achievable goals, measuring our progress along the way. Let's talk specifically about what you want so we can get you there.
I specialize in infidelity and affairs.
Whatever brought you to this page, chances are you're feeling stuck, confused, misunderstood, or at odds with someone you love. There is hope. By seeking help, you're already making things better. I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist. I work with individuals, couples and families using a combination of approaches to help heal your relationship with yourself and with the people you're close to. Let's collaborate to create realistic and achievable goals, measuring our progress along the way. Let's talk specifically about what you want so we can get you there.
(720) 263-4216 View (720) 263-4216
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What's The Point? Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFTC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80204
I specialize in infidelity, rebuilding after betrayal, sex therapy, and ethical non-monogamy.
The process of trying to find a therapist can be overwhelming. I often describe it as akin to shopping for a car: it's worth test driving a few models to make sure you choose the right fit. I offer a free 20 minute consultation phone call during which we can get to know each other, ask questions, and see if we're a good match. Email or call to schedule!
I specialize in infidelity, rebuilding after betrayal, sex therapy, and ethical non-monogamy.
The process of trying to find a therapist can be overwhelming. I often describe it as akin to shopping for a car: it's worth test driving a few models to make sure you choose the right fit. I offer a free 20 minute consultation phone call during which we can get to know each other, ask questions, and see if we're a good match. Email or call to schedule!
(720) 782-6842 View (720) 782-6842
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Margarita Kogan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80209
Waitlist for new clients
Not accepting New Clients.....Seeking to overhaul your relationship with yourself or others, you've come to the right place. Whether it's revitalizing communication, resolving trust issues, or recovering from infidelity, I specialize in guiding couples through these transformations.
Not accepting New Clients.....Seeking to overhaul your relationship with yourself or others, you've come to the right place. Whether it's revitalizing communication, resolving trust issues, or recovering from infidelity, I specialize in guiding couples through these transformations.
(833) 315-0172 View (833) 315-0172
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Marina Blake
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, Gottman, Method, EMDR
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80203
Waitlist for new clients
I will be out of the office until 9/19/24. COUPLES: Is there a lack of joy in your relationship? Do you and your partner fight all the time? Has there been a betrayal? A lack of intimacy? Couples who use my tools create more joy and connection - permanently. For the cost of a divorce you can instead have the loving, connected, joyous relationship you want. I'm a Certified Gottman Therapist, which is the "gold standard" of couples method. NOW Offering Discernment Counseling: if you aren't sure if you want to end the relationship, this is a process to help you gain clarity and confidence about your decision, whatever you choose.
I will be out of the office until 9/19/24. COUPLES: Is there a lack of joy in your relationship? Do you and your partner fight all the time? Has there been a betrayal? A lack of intimacy? Couples who use my tools create more joy and connection - permanently. For the cost of a divorce you can instead have the loving, connected, joyous relationship you want. I'm a Certified Gottman Therapist, which is the "gold standard" of couples method. NOW Offering Discernment Counseling: if you aren't sure if you want to end the relationship, this is a process to help you gain clarity and confidence about your decision, whatever you choose.
(720) 465-8926 View (720) 465-8926
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Eric R Crowley
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80222
I work with couples and individuals who are struggling to overcome habitual patterns of behavior that are preventing them from experiencing a satisfying connection with each other and themselves. If you and your partner have experienced betrayal, addiction issues or have simply allowed your relationship to become stagnant, I can help you find your way back to a secure and fulfilling bond. I use a blend of therapeutic techniques including Brainspotting to help you first understand and then have a new experience of yourself and your partner.
I work with couples and individuals who are struggling to overcome habitual patterns of behavior that are preventing them from experiencing a satisfying connection with each other and themselves. If you and your partner have experienced betrayal, addiction issues or have simply allowed your relationship to become stagnant, I can help you find your way back to a secure and fulfilling bond. I use a blend of therapeutic techniques including Brainspotting to help you first understand and then have a new experience of yourself and your partner.
(720) 575-2389 View (720) 575-2389
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Dawn Goers
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80203
My work with individual adult clients includes an emphasis in infidelity.
After working with children and families for 15 years in foster care and adoption settings, I developed a passion for empowering people who have experienced trauma, grief and loss, and who struggle with relationship issues. Life always presents challenges and the ability to move through those challenges with a strong sense of self is important. I work closely with clients to develop a strong therapeutic relationship, which engenders an environment of safety and promotes healing. I am an EMDR Certified Clinician which integrates attachment theory, CBT and emotion regulation. I also use child-centered play therapy with children.
My work with individual adult clients includes an emphasis in infidelity.
After working with children and families for 15 years in foster care and adoption settings, I developed a passion for empowering people who have experienced trauma, grief and loss, and who struggle with relationship issues. Life always presents challenges and the ability to move through those challenges with a strong sense of self is important. I work closely with clients to develop a strong therapeutic relationship, which engenders an environment of safety and promotes healing. I am an EMDR Certified Clinician which integrates attachment theory, CBT and emotion regulation. I also use child-centered play therapy with children.
(303) 814-9173 View (303) 814-9173
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Dr. Mark L Held
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80237  (Online Only)
Common issues include affairs, conflict, poor communication, relationship and sexual issues, depression, and addiction issues.
I have over 45 years of experience doing individual, couples and family therapy. My approach is directive, caring and interactive, and usually short to intermediate term in duration. I use insight and cognitive-behavioral methods as well as other techniques and methods. My goal is to be effective in bringing about constructive change to improve relationships and overall functioning. I take pride in servicing the best interests of my clients. You can call me at 303-903-5110 to see if I'm the right therapist for you.
Common issues include affairs, conflict, poor communication, relationship and sexual issues, depression, and addiction issues.
I have over 45 years of experience doing individual, couples and family therapy. My approach is directive, caring and interactive, and usually short to intermediate term in duration. I use insight and cognitive-behavioral methods as well as other techniques and methods. My goal is to be effective in bringing about constructive change to improve relationships and overall functioning. I take pride in servicing the best interests of my clients. You can call me at 303-903-5110 to see if I'm the right therapist for you.
(720) 408-6975 View (720) 408-6975
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David L Ragsdale
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80237
I also have extensive experience in treating sex addiction and recovery from marital infidelity.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 35 years serving the Denver community. As a psychotherapist, I utilize an integrative, individualized treatment plan, drawing from cognitive-behavioral, solution-focused and system's approaches which foster deep and lasting change. I will work with you to develop your personal goals and plan your therapy toward the achievement of these goals. I am a graduate of Denver Seminary and also provide faith-based counseling. My post graduate training included the Menninger School of Psychiatry in Marriage and Family Therapy.
I also have extensive experience in treating sex addiction and recovery from marital infidelity.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 35 years serving the Denver community. As a psychotherapist, I utilize an integrative, individualized treatment plan, drawing from cognitive-behavioral, solution-focused and system's approaches which foster deep and lasting change. I will work with you to develop your personal goals and plan your therapy toward the achievement of these goals. I am a graduate of Denver Seminary and also provide faith-based counseling. My post graduate training included the Menninger School of Psychiatry in Marriage and Family Therapy.
(303) 900-7040 View (303) 900-7040
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Debra L. Kaplan
Counselor, MA, LPC, CSAT-S, PACT, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80206
Patrick Carnes IITAP; a CSAT therapist and Supervisor, and the author of, "For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial Betrayal," "Battle of the Titans: Mastering the Forces of Sex, Money and Power in Relationship.
I specialize in attachment trauma, sex and porn addiction, and financial therapy (money, work and financial disorders). I provide in-person and virtual sessions in Arizona, and teletherapy for Colorado based clients. I work with couples and individuals to resolve their life issues for increased well-being and life fulfillment. I am faculty for Dr. Patrick Carnes, CSAT Supervisor/ therapist for IITAP, and integrate the PACT approach for couples.
Patrick Carnes IITAP; a CSAT therapist and Supervisor, and the author of, "For Love and Money: Exploring Sexual and Financial Betrayal," "Battle of the Titans: Mastering the Forces of Sex, Money and Power in Relationship.
I specialize in attachment trauma, sex and porn addiction, and financial therapy (money, work and financial disorders). I provide in-person and virtual sessions in Arizona, and teletherapy for Colorado based clients. I work with couples and individuals to resolve their life issues for increased well-being and life fulfillment. I am faculty for Dr. Patrick Carnes, CSAT Supervisor/ therapist for IITAP, and integrate the PACT approach for couples.
(520) 203-1943 View (520) 203-1943
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Karina Mueller
LCSW, CCPS-C, MSSW, MPA
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80203
A partner's secretive experiences can come in many shades, from a one time incident or pornography, to affairs or sexual compulsions and addictions.
Has your world been turned upside down after learning of your partner's secret romantic or sexual experiences? Do you feel furious, devastated, numb and confused all at the same time? One moment you feel love and the next extreme anger, one moment you're screaming and the next you're crying, one moment you're determined to leave and the next wondering if you can forgive? Or perhaps you've been dealing with this for a while and you feel stuck; you still can't trust or forgive, can't stop thinking about what happened, and worry about it happening again? I understand how you feel and am so deeply sorry that you're going through this.
A partner's secretive experiences can come in many shades, from a one time incident or pornography, to affairs or sexual compulsions and addictions.
Has your world been turned upside down after learning of your partner's secret romantic or sexual experiences? Do you feel furious, devastated, numb and confused all at the same time? One moment you feel love and the next extreme anger, one moment you're screaming and the next you're crying, one moment you're determined to leave and the next wondering if you can forgive? Or perhaps you've been dealing with this for a while and you feel stuck; you still can't trust or forgive, can't stop thinking about what happened, and worry about it happening again? I understand how you feel and am so deeply sorry that you're going through this.
(720) 776-1823 View (720) 776-1823
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Sarah Harrison
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80012
I am trained in how to treat issues such as affairs, addictions, and trauma within the couple unit.
When you are alone you understand why you feel lonely. When you are in a relationship and you feel you are alone, that is different. Our need for relationships is hardwired into our biology. It goes against the grain for us to remain alone during our lifespan. However, relationships are tough. They require humbleness, honesty, and sacrifice. As a Certified Gottman Method Therapist, I am trained on the work of Drs. John & Julie Gottman and their over 5 decades of research on relationships.
I am trained in how to treat issues such as affairs, addictions, and trauma within the couple unit.
When you are alone you understand why you feel lonely. When you are in a relationship and you feel you are alone, that is different. Our need for relationships is hardwired into our biology. It goes against the grain for us to remain alone during our lifespan. However, relationships are tough. They require humbleness, honesty, and sacrifice. As a Certified Gottman Method Therapist, I am trained on the work of Drs. John & Julie Gottman and their over 5 decades of research on relationships.
(720) 515-1282 View (720) 515-1282
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Sherron Kilgore
Registered Psychotherapist, MBA, BBS, ECE, CSAT
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80014
I specialize in spouse/partner betrayal recovery, couples recovery, as well as pornography, sexual, love and romance addiction recovery. I can help you get the life you have always wanted. Together we will customize your therapy to fit your needs. I have been trained specifically to work with people in need of this very personal help. I will support you through your journey using a gentle path process. I am Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT) trained and a member of the International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals. I am also trained in behavioral sciences and early childhood developmental education.
I specialize in spouse/partner betrayal recovery, couples recovery, as well as pornography, sexual, love and romance addiction recovery. I can help you get the life you have always wanted. Together we will customize your therapy to fit your needs. I have been trained specifically to work with people in need of this very personal help. I will support you through your journey using a gentle path process. I am Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT) trained and a member of the International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals. I am also trained in behavioral sciences and early childhood developmental education.
(970) 673-4620 View (970) 673-4620
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Katy London
Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80228
Using trauma training in Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing, Emotion Focused Therapy for Couples, as well sex therapy specializing in desire, betrayal trauma, ENM/non-traditional relationships, and kink.
I am a professional counselor specializing in individual trauma and couples issues. I work collaboratively with clients to help them move forward from distressing past experiences using a specialized technique called EMDR. I also have a passion for working with couples going through difficult or low points. I most often work with couples dealing with differences in desire, healing and moving forward from betrayal, and breaking negative conflict cycles. My goal is to create a safe and non-judgmental space for you to heal.
Using trauma training in Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing, Emotion Focused Therapy for Couples, as well sex therapy specializing in desire, betrayal trauma, ENM/non-traditional relationships, and kink.
I am a professional counselor specializing in individual trauma and couples issues. I work collaboratively with clients to help them move forward from distressing past experiences using a specialized technique called EMDR. I also have a passion for working with couples going through difficult or low points. I most often work with couples dealing with differences in desire, healing and moving forward from betrayal, and breaking negative conflict cycles. My goal is to create a safe and non-judgmental space for you to heal.
(720) 613-2909 View (720) 613-2909
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Robyn Lipkowitz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW, CCPS
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80230  (Online Only)
I work to create a safe, supportive and nurturing environment that validates the pain and trauma of sexual betrayal.
Finding out that your partner is a sex addict is a devastating moment in your life and can feel like an emotional roller coaster with many different feelings coming one after another or at the same time. You are feeling like your world has been shattered. I am here to help you work through your trauma, validate the pain you are experiencing and provide a safe supportive space to help you heal.
I work to create a safe, supportive and nurturing environment that validates the pain and trauma of sexual betrayal.
Finding out that your partner is a sex addict is a devastating moment in your life and can feel like an emotional roller coaster with many different feelings coming one after another or at the same time. You are feeling like your world has been shattered. I am here to help you work through your trauma, validate the pain you are experiencing and provide a safe supportive space to help you heal.
(833) 945-1136 View (833) 945-1136
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Sophia L. O'Connor [Currently On Waitlist]
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80209
My areas of specialization are sex addiction, open relationships (poly/ENM), conscious uncoupling (discernment), pre-marital therapy, infidelity & sex therapy.
Relationships & sex are both such important parts of our lives. I help couples & individuals with intimacy, attachment & sex therapy. I work with people with low desire or different sex drives in relationship (wanting more or less sex). Another niche of mine is working to help people strengthen their open relationship (or start the process). I enjoy men's work on ED, vulnerability, & compulsive sexual behavior. Let's talk about what's happening right now that's troubling you. I have a lot of confidence we can collaborate on finding solutions that will get you back to a place of feeling connected to yourself and those around you.
My areas of specialization are sex addiction, open relationships (poly/ENM), conscious uncoupling (discernment), pre-marital therapy, infidelity & sex therapy.
Relationships & sex are both such important parts of our lives. I help couples & individuals with intimacy, attachment & sex therapy. I work with people with low desire or different sex drives in relationship (wanting more or less sex). Another niche of mine is working to help people strengthen their open relationship (or start the process). I enjoy men's work on ED, vulnerability, & compulsive sexual behavior. Let's talk about what's happening right now that's troubling you. I have a lot of confidence we can collaborate on finding solutions that will get you back to a place of feeling connected to yourself and those around you.
(720) 741-7067 View (720) 741-7067
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Kayla Sapakoff
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFTC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80210
I work with individual and couples to address issues related to infidelity, low self-esteem, identity, family and relationships, substance abuse, anxiety, life transitions and trauma. I welcome individuals and couples of all identities and backgrounds and am particularly passionate about working with women and LGBTQIA+ individuals. I am grounded in the belief that therapy should be available to everyone and am committed to creating a space where your voice can be heard. My approach is curious, warm, and direct as I try to understand how you create meaning in your life.
I work with individual and couples to address issues related to infidelity, low self-esteem, identity, family and relationships, substance abuse, anxiety, life transitions and trauma. I welcome individuals and couples of all identities and backgrounds and am particularly passionate about working with women and LGBTQIA+ individuals. I am grounded in the belief that therapy should be available to everyone and am committed to creating a space where your voice can be heard. My approach is curious, warm, and direct as I try to understand how you create meaning in your life.
(720) 636-9565 View (720) 636-9565
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Sparked Life Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80222
Hi! I'm Karen Holland. I want to help you live a sparked life. This means, I want to help you get free from the past and build capacity to deal with your current struggles. I have a lot of experience working with: anxiety, breakups, grief, infidelity, relationship struggles, self esteem and self confidence, all kinds of trauma and dealing with chronic pain and illness. I know you want to heal, improve your ability to cope and find a way to enjoy life again.
Hi! I'm Karen Holland. I want to help you live a sparked life. This means, I want to help you get free from the past and build capacity to deal with your current struggles. I have a lot of experience working with: anxiety, breakups, grief, infidelity, relationship struggles, self esteem and self confidence, all kinds of trauma and dealing with chronic pain and illness. I know you want to heal, improve your ability to cope and find a way to enjoy life again.
(720) 780-6936 View (720) 780-6936
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Lina Therapy Clinic
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MFT-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80246
Are you struggling in your relationship right now? Have you tried different ways to fix the issues but nothing works? I know exactly what that feels like and how hard it is to go through that alone. I have extensive experience and have helped hundreds of couples get to a better place. You could be struggling with communication issues, lack of intimacy, infidelity, difficulties with life transitions and sexual problems. Most couples struggle with at least one of these issues in their relationship, and through therapy it is possible to change the patterns that keeps you stuck and unsatisfied with your relationship.
Are you struggling in your relationship right now? Have you tried different ways to fix the issues but nothing works? I know exactly what that feels like and how hard it is to go through that alone. I have extensive experience and have helped hundreds of couples get to a better place. You could be struggling with communication issues, lack of intimacy, infidelity, difficulties with life transitions and sexual problems. Most couples struggle with at least one of these issues in their relationship, and through therapy it is possible to change the patterns that keeps you stuck and unsatisfied with your relationship.
(720) 408-3950 View (720) 408-3950
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Pamela Peters--Couple's Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MFTC, MAMFT, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Denver, CO 80211
Do you and your partner(s) constantly fight or avoid each other? Interested in an Open Relationship or Consensual nonmonogamy? Are you reeling from infidelity or betrayal? Has conflict in your polycule caused negative impacts in your daily lives? Need support navigating a big life change? Is there disconnect between your current beliefs, how you were brought up, and how you want to live NOW? I can help you embrace these differences and move beyond the beliefs that no longer serve you. Together we can bring your way of life and relationships in line with your beliefs.
Do you and your partner(s) constantly fight or avoid each other? Interested in an Open Relationship or Consensual nonmonogamy? Are you reeling from infidelity or betrayal? Has conflict in your polycule caused negative impacts in your daily lives? Need support navigating a big life change? Is there disconnect between your current beliefs, how you were brought up, and how you want to live NOW? I can help you embrace these differences and move beyond the beliefs that no longer serve you. Together we can bring your way of life and relationships in line with your beliefs.
(720) 414-9674 View (720) 414-9674
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Dana Fox
Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Denver, CO 80206
I specialize in working with 20-somethings, 30-somethings and 40-somethings and 50-somethings with: Decision-making, Career, Relationships, Personal Responsibility, Self Awareness, Family Issues, Anxiety, Panic, Shyness, Worrying, Overwhelm, Stress, Depression, Guilt, Shame, Self-defeating behaviors, Trauma, Sexual Abuse, Infidelity, Problematic Drinking.
You want to feel better, right? I take pride in my commitment to helping you achieve this. I will help you understand yourself better and work through blocks so that you can have more enjoyment, worry less, and function better in work, relationships, and life. I listen for what's underlying your issues and then help you find resolution. I work with you to relieve worries, racing thoughts, poor concentration, panic, moodiness, irritability, relationship problems, and work-related problems.
I specialize in working with 20-somethings, 30-somethings and 40-somethings and 50-somethings with: Decision-making, Career, Relationships, Personal Responsibility, Self Awareness, Family Issues, Anxiety, Panic, Shyness, Worrying, Overwhelm, Stress, Depression, Guilt, Shame, Self-defeating behaviors, Trauma, Sexual Abuse, Infidelity, Problematic Drinking.
You want to feel better, right? I take pride in my commitment to helping you achieve this. I will help you understand yourself better and work through blocks so that you can have more enjoyment, worry less, and function better in work, relationships, and life. I listen for what's underlying your issues and then help you find resolution. I work with you to relieve worries, racing thoughts, poor concentration, panic, moodiness, irritability, relationship problems, and work-related problems.
(303) 848-8591 View (303) 848-8591
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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.