From Across The Room and I Think You Are Really Beautiful ... Can I Offer You A Drink or Something?"
From Across The Room and I Think You Are Really Beautiful ... Can I Offer You A Drink or Something?"
Oh man ... I used to suck so bad it was crazy. I remember getting rejected so
many times it's not even funny!
I used to have a crush on this girl called "Jennifer" ... she was perfect and a total
sweetheart: Beautiful, intelligent, a great sense of humor ...
But when I *finally* got the courage together to ask her out, she told me that she
wasn't really that attracted to me. Right there, my heart was shattered in a million
pieces in less than a second.
When I got older and started going to bars, clubs or parties ... there would always
be one or two women who stood out from everyone else, and I always wondered
"what do I have to do ... to get her number and have a date with her?"
I usually just tapped her on the shoulder, said something like "Hi, I noticed you
from across the room and I think you are really beautiful ... can I offer you a drink
or something?"
They either just wanted to be friends ... or told me to go away! Well that sure
sucked ... and I really HATED the fact that I just wasn't good enough when it came
to women and dating.
I didn't want to stay a poor, lonely schmuck for the rest of my life!
I wanted to get GOOD with women! ... Not just good ... but GREAT!
I wanted to walk into any room ... a coffee-shop, a bar, a restaurant, anywhere...
and be able to pick-up ANY woman, no matter how beautiful, sexy or arrogant she
may be ... and GET HER to be my girlfriend!
I wanted to be able to have what most guys can only dream of!
But to get that success, I had to find out what really works with women!
I'm talking about the real stuff ... none of those mainstream crap dating tips, they
are useless. I've used them for years and never got anywhere.
And the best part is ... that ANYONE, no matter how rich, tall or handsome you
may be ... can EMULATE what I did, and have even MORE success with women as I
have.
... and I'm about to share with you some of my biggest secrets, tricks and methods
for meeting, attracting and dating the kind of women that YOUalways wanted ...
RIGHT NOW!
have already done all the hard work for you! I must have tested thousands of
different lines and gone through a massive amount of rejections. But now, I have the
cream of the cream with a success rate that blows your roof off!
Here is just a small sample of what you will learn from me:
Whenever I was trying to ask a woman for her number or wanted to get her to
come on a date with me, she just responded with "Well, I have a boyfriend". This
really sucked.
Yes, that's right. They want to know if you are up to the challenge.
Obviously, women just can't go on a date with every single guy who asks them
out. That's why they want to get rid of all the boring men who will just waste their
time.
You: Hey slow down girl, I don't want to get all personal just yet. I
don't even know you. I just wanted to kick it for a minute.
My book is jam-packed with great ready-to-use lines and techniques just like the
one above. Once you have read it you can go out the same AFTERNOON, apply it and
see positive reactions instantly!
It took me a lot of years to figure this out, but I am now passing it on to you!
First of all , you do not need to look like a hunk to become successful with
women. Of course the media and the society want to tell you different, but good-
looks ain't that relevant in this game.
Why would we men instantly go to bed with any good looking woman without
even actually knowing what she's like?
We men don't really care about a woman's personality the first time we see her. If
she is good looking, then we would like to get to know her and wouldn' mind that
much sleeping with her. But for women it is a big issue. Why?
Because attraction doesn't work the same way for women as it does for
men! … it's twisted!
We men don't go out with the intention of meeting some nice and polite women.
We like pretty girls with a great body, soft skin, a cute face and long legs - that's
what we want! Everything else is only secondary for the moment!
You don't see yourself sayting to your friends: “Hey guys, how about if we go out
tonight and meet some very polite and intelligent women with great personalities?
How does that sound like?”
Women do the exact opposite. In the back of her head lingers the thought of a
nice, polite and sweet man that makes her laugh, is nice and respects her - a Prince
Charming who sweeps them off their feet if you will.
That's why guys who are handsome have a "very hard time" getting
women ... because as soon as they open their mouths they bore women to death
and don't know which buttons to press. It's a common problem out there that relying
on looks will never cut it with women. Period!
But that's only because women rate men first by attractive personality traits and
THEN how they look like. Very attractive women will still go out with you if you have
a beer belly as long as your personality is sexy and you know how the secret
psychology of this dating game works.
Movies and magazines tell you different, but don't say "I love you"too
early to a woman you started to date dating. It freaks them out!
Do you have a boyfriend?
Always assume she doesn't have a boyfriend! There is simply no need
to bring the subject up. If she doesn't have one, she won't bring it up
either so don't ask. Women even like to use it as an excuse but I
already explained how to counter this effectively in section 1.
Would you like to come have a drink with me sometime?
Another classic that is doomed to fail. So many men who try to get a
particular woman on a date always ask if she wants to have a drink
sometime. You have to be different! The last 10 men that wanted to
"hang out" with her didn't get anywhere with that line, so why would
you want to make the same mistake they made?
Do you want to party some more at my place?
If you want to get a woman you like to your place, please don't use
that line. It has been used so many times and become so transparent
that it tells right away that you want to have sex with her. Women
need to be persuaded a little more, so you have to be smoother than
using the old party-at-yours tactic.
Buying dinner, gifts and taking her to the movies!
The only thing that matters is does she feel that gut level emotion called
attraction towards you!
You see, if your personality outweigh your looks then women don't care if you
have a beer belly or aren't rich.
If she feels that magical emotion called attraction, she will be into you!
...and the best part, I will show you exactly HOW you can create that
attraction anytime and anywhere!
The first step is to grab a woman's attention so she notices you and
looks you in the eyes. All you really have to do is open your mouth
and say HEY! ...she will turn around instantly. If you are in a coffee
shop or in a bar, sit next to her. If she is walking down the street,
wait until she is near you. If she is standing a few yards away from
you, just walk over. It's no biggie once I have told you how it
works.
Use a killer line
The best way of getting her number is to say "Hey, what are you
doing just now? I have to go to get a few things...you can keep me
company if you'll be nice" or "Hey, what are you doing tomorrow? I
have to go do X, you can keep me company if you like". Then you
take out your cell-phone, hand it over to her and say "Here...let's
trade number anyway. Type it into my cell...". It's as simple as
that!
Leave!
In many cases she already has plans for today but she will give you
her number anyway. Once you have her number ...leave! This way
you are still this mysterious but interesting man she just met. It
also prevents you from screwing things up. But getting her number
is very easy, and it will only take around 8 minutes max!
You can go out right now, use this simple step-by-step plan and I will guarantee
that you will get at least 3 phone numbers in four approaches!
This includes paying a lot of unnecessary and nicey-nice compliments. They don't
get a woman sexually attracted to you. As a rule of thumb:Attraction cannot be
bought!
Paying for dinner, offering drinks and buying flowers, a nice card or chocolate is
even worse!
The biggest turn-off for a woman is if a man behaves like a wimp she can just
walk all over. Women don't want what they can have easily. They want a challenge!
... and by being nice, polite and clingy, you aren't much of a challenge for a woman.
That's why arrogant jerks, bad boys and rebels who love to break all the rules
make a woman's heartbeat go wild!
But did you really think that all those mainstream magazines and TV programs
were going to tell you that? ...they want you to be nice, they want you to act polite
and treat women like princesses because it's the moral thing to do! ... the only
problem is, it just doesn't work!
So my quick tip is this: If you don't like what a woman does or asks from
you...just say NO! Be a little hard to get and play by your own rules!
If she wants something from you, don't do it right away! If she behaves like a
brat, tell her she can do that around any other nicey nice guy, but not you!
Respect is everything, and if they have to fight for something...you are the
challenge and she will now try to get YOU, not the other way around!
If you have known a woman for some time now and you have already talked to
her occasionally or maybe even had a longer chat over a drink but want to take
things further with her, LISTEN CAREFULLY!
If you are nice to her, compliment her a lot and maybe even show her how you
feel about her...then it is over!
She isn't thinking "wow, this guy is sexy...I wonder when he will ask me out on a
date." She doesn't see you as boyfriend or relationship material but more of a friend.
If you have been courting a woman for weeks because you want to get her
number, a kiss on the mouth or a real date then you are doing something wrong! It
only takes a couple of minutes to get a woman attracted to you and willing to do all
of the above!
What she is most likely thinking is "Well, he's nice, but I'm just not attracted
to him. He's a good friend though..."
Every time you see her again is crucial if you want to turn things around to finally
GET HER to be with you!
The only way you can fix this situation with that (or any!) woman you like, is to
start pressing the right buttons. Not tomorrow, not after breakfast ...but NOW!