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THE STRUGGLE AGAINST DOWRY

Posted on July 28, 2011 by


Manikuntala Sen
Manikuntala Sen (1910-87), a member of te undi!ided "ommunist Party of #ndia, $as
famous for% er un$a!erin& 'oliti(al ideals and er sin(ere efforts for te u'lift of
$omen% )om in )a*risal, no$ in )an&lades, Manikuntala left er (onser!ati!e ome
e!en+$ile se% $as a (olle&e student and (ame to "al(utta *oinin& te (ommunist
mo!ement% Se tra!elled e+tensi!ely trou& rural )en&al durin& te ,amine of 19-. and
in te aftermat of te 'artition of 19-7, settin& u' Maila Samitis and $omen/s &rou's
and so(ieties% Se $as ele(ted t$i(e t' te 0est )en&al 1e&islati!e 2ssembly in 1932
and 1937 and on te se(ond o((asion be(ame te de'uty leader of te 4''osition%
#n 56e Stru&&le 2&ainst 7o$ry/, a (a'ter from In Search for Freedom, An Unfinished
Journey, te 8n&lis !ersion of er autobio&ra'y, 'ublised in 2001, Manikuntala
re(ords te 'assin& of tl*e 7o$ry 5Proibition 2(t in Parliament (1991), and 'oints
out,te diffi(ulties of makin& te la$ effe(ti!e% Se stresses te need for te $omen
temsel!es to or&anise a&ainst tis 'ra(ti(e so demeanin& to $omen%
6e Hindu Code Law
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$as duly 'assed but it did not 'ro!ide beleaguered
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$omen res'ite
from te !iolen(e tat &ri''ed teir li!es% 8!en no$, tanks to a dis&ra(eful so(ial
'ra(ti(e, many $omen lead li!'s of anguish,

often findin& res!i"e


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only in deat% 6e
name-of tis 'ra(ti(e is do$ry and many $omen,/ irres'e(ti!e of $eter tey are 'oor
o+ ri(, are its unted !i(tims% 6e la$ 'roibitin& su( 'ra(ti(es ad been 'assed mu(
earlier in t #Lo$ Sabha%
&
)ut one must remember tat te Congress
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(ould only &et te
la$ 'assed by a''lyin& te !ar"y whi!
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on its o$n members% #n oter $ords, e!en $itin
te "on&ress tere $ere differen(es of o'inion% #n te (!!osi"ion
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too te or"hodo)
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fou&t a&ainst te bill%
0en te la$ $as bein& otly debated, $e too arran&ed many meetin&s and &aterin&s
amon& $omen, and (olle(ted many si&natures in its su''ort% 0e found tat many 'oor
ouse$i!es in to$ns and !illa&es and many 'easant $omen s'oke u' a&ainst te bill%
6is
$as 'rimarily out of fear% #f a $oman (ouldn/t &et married $itout 'ayin& a do$ry, ten
$at $as te 'oint of su''ortin& te la$: 7urin& our sessions $e eard o$ mu( land
'easant families or lo$er and u''er middle (lass families ad to &i!e u' or o$ many
ad be(ome ban$ru!"
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in tryin& to &et teir dau&ters married% Still, tey (ould ; not
&ater (oura&e to state, 5<o, $e sall not 'ay do$ry anymore%/ 6is $as be(ause
someo$ or te oter a $oman must be married off% 6e (ondition of te $oman $as
'ateti(= e!en if se $as edu(ated or i&ly a((om'lised in mana&in& a ouseold, se
ad no $ort in so(iety/s eyes% >er $ort lay in terms of ances"ral
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*e$ellery, money or
'ro'erty tat $ould be &i!en $it er% )urdened $it tis insult and seddin& tears at te
tou&t of er bankru't fater, te &irl $ould a!e to sit on te bridal !iri or stool% >o$
else $ould se &et to a!e a family of er o$n and belon& to and run a ouseold: 2fter
all, o$ many (ould be like Snehala"a+
,
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6ese days, o$e!er, te numbers of Snealatas are &radually in(reasin&% 0en a bride/s
fater (ould not meet all te do$ry (laims at te time of te marria&e, e $ould 'romise
to do so later, buying "ime%
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)ut if te 'romised amount (ould still not be 'aid $itin te
&i!en 'eriod, in (ertain (ases, te ne$ bride fell !i(tim to te !iolent atta(ks 5 of er
usband and 'arents-in-la$% Su( in(idents did not, take 'la(e only in 'oor families but
also amon&st rich -arwaris%
u
6e% &room/s family often didn/t set limits to its (ruelty?
te bride (ould be killed or dri!en to sui(ide% >is family dreamt of a ne$ marria&e for te
&room , $iti ne$ do$ry% Su( in(idents are often, 'ublised in ne$s'a'ers today% 8!en
te Mar$aris a!e *oined te anti-do$ry 'ro(essions%
#n s'ite of ram!an"
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disre&ard of te anti-do$ry la$, te &o!ernment (ould not enforce
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it% 4ter$ise, o$ $ould $e a((ount for te e+tra!a&ant dis'lay and o!ulen"
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$eddin&s
of te ri( in te eart of "al(utta: >o$ $as it tat e!en durin& 'eriods of a(ute
ele(tri(ity (risis, ri( 'eo'le/s omes da@@led $it li&t: 0y did not te 'oli(e kee'
tra(k= of $at $as bein& e+(an&ed in tose 'la(es: 0y $eren/t e+am'les made of a
fe$ bla"an"
n
offenders:
"ertainly, if te ri( $ere e)onera"ed,
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ten $ere $ould te needy find selter: # a!e
seen te (ruel im'a(t of do$ry in te !illa&es% #n to$ns, it $as 'era's $orse% # (ame
a(ross/'arents, des'erately 'oor, makin& ends meet by $orkin& Aas ser!ants in many
ouses% Bet for
teir dau&ter/s marria&es tey $ould a!e to &i!e te bride&room a transistor, a
$rist$at(, a &old rin&, &old buttons and a (y(le as &ifts% 6e &room may be an ordinary
'easant or a small farmer% #f te/'arents (ould not satisfy is (laims e!en by instalments,
te dau&ter (ame ba(k to er% 'arent/s ome% )e(ause te law "ha" banned, !olygamy
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(ould not be enfor(ed, te &room $ould remarry $it im!uni"y%
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6ere is *ust one $ay to &et rid of tis degrading
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(ustom% #t lies in te ands of $omen%
2s lon& as tey do not unite a&ainst do$ry, tis barbari( 'ra(ti(e $ill s'read, not
diminis% 6ose uns(ru'ulous men $o $ent to 8n&land at teir faters-in-la$ 5s
e+'ense or took (as and lu+ury items from tem, tose mean-minded men $o (annot
s"and u! "o
2.
teir 'arent/s base demands, (an only be brou&t to teir senses if $omen
for(e tem to mend teir $ays% #f $omen temsel!es do not stand u' a&ainst su( men,
ten neiter so(iety nor &o!ernment (an 'rote(t teir onor or teir li!es% 6e cam!aign
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a&ainst do$ry sould be an essential item o te agendas
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of all $omen/s or&ani@ations%

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