MSM Guide PDF
MSM Guide PDF
MSM Guide PDF
Kissing
Wanking
Just dont overdo it and pull too hard or for too long or
you could end up irritating your cock and getting NSU an
infection of the urethra, which is the tube in your cock that
you piss or cum through.
Talking
For some, great sex happens with a regular partner they can
trust. Others find casual sex more exciting. Whichever you
prefer, be honest with yourself and with him. If you want love
and intimacy, youre unlikely to get it if you only have one
night stands.
Its down to you to take control of the sex
you have. Dont assume he knows what you
want. Be open about what you want to do
and what just isnt your thing.
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Corpora
cavernosa
Corpus
spongiosum
Seminiferous
tubules and
interstitial
tissue
Urethra
Corpus spongiosum
This is the erectile tissue
through which the urethra
passes, and it runs along the
base of the dick.
The urethra responds to
being rubbed and this is one
of the best places to rub it at
the base of the cock, behind
the balls or just in front of them.
Corpora cavernosa
These are two spongy cylinders
on either side of the dick that
fill with blood when youre
turned on to make the dick
erect.
Cowpers glands
These are two pea-sized glands
just under the prostate gland
that produce pre-cum.
Seminal vesicle
Vas deferens
Epididymis
Corona
Glans
Foreskin
Cowpers
glands
Frenulum
Scrotum
Scrotum
This is the pouch of skin that
holds the balls outside the
body to keep them at the best
temperature to produce sperm.
Some guys like to have their
scrotum played with during
sex. Its fairly resilient, so
can cope with being twisted,
squeezed and pulled. Just
take it easy and communicate
with your partner. Ask him if
he wants you to pull harder
dont just yank away.
Let him know what youre feeling and what you like. You can let
him know how much youre enjoying yourself by making grunts
or heavy breathing sounds that way hell know whats driving
you crazy with desire, and what just drives you crazy.
Dont thrust too hard,
especially not at first. His
mouth and throat will probably
take a while to get used to
your cock so start gently and
respond to the way he reacts.
Chemicals or spermicidal
lubricant, such as Nonoxynol 9,
easily irritate the lining of
the rectum, making it more
vulnerable to infection.
Sphincters
The sphincter muscles stop you
from shitting when you dont
want to and can stop things
from getting up your arse too.
The external sphincter can feel
sensations of hot and cold,
expansion and touch, and we
can learn to tense and relax
this muscle at will.
Anal pillows
The anal pillows inflate with
blood to prevent shit from
coming out of your arse when
you dont want it to and to
prevent things going up your
arse too.
Rectum
Prostate gland
Pubo-rectal sling
Sphincters
Anal canal
Anal pillows
Pubo-rectal sling
This is a strong supportive
muscle that creates the first
curve in the rectum. When
theres pressure or poking, it
can clamp down to close the
rectum, which can be painful
when getting fucked, fingered
or played with.
To help avoid this, try a
position that straightens out
the rectum a bit, such as
squatting down over the cock,
lying on your back or your side
with your knees drawn up to
your chest, or on your knees,
bringing your chest close to the
bed or floor.
Prostate gland
The prostate gland produces
fluids that are added to cum
and it also helps control the
flow of piss. A lot of the
pleasure we can feel when
getting fucked comes from
the cock rubbing against the
prostate, and for this reason
it is often referred to as the
male g-spot.
To find this spot, insert a
well-lubricated finger into the
arsehole and curl it up away
from the back towards the
cock. The prostate is there
about an inch and a half in.
It feels warm, rubbery and
smooth. Flick or run the tip of
your finger crossways against
the prostate. This is usually
intensely pleasurable!
Starting out
If you fuck, condoms used with plenty of water- or siliconebased lube is the surest way to protect you or your partner
against HIV infection and many other STIs too.
Condoms, when used effectively, will prevent exposure to HIV as
they will stop bodily fluids (such as cum or anal mucus) that may
contain HIV from getting into another guys bloodstream through
mucous membranes (in the arse, foreskin, urethra and head of
the penis).
How to fuck
Positions
Booklets
Magazine
HELP
Condoms
You can get free condoms and lube in London from many gay
bars, clubs and saunas. You can buy very good value condoms
and lube online from: www.freedoms-shop.nhs.uk
Web
Helpline
One-to-one
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the gay mens health charity
Charity number: 1076854
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Groupwork
There are lots of different groups and courses for gay men in London
offered by PACE, THT and GMFA. They are advertised regularly in
the gay press or you can visit: www.gmfa.org.uk/gwk
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