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The Biochemistry of Love: An Oxytocin Hypothesis: C Sue Carter Stephen W Porges
The Biochemistry of Love: An Oxytocin Hypothesis: C Sue Carter Stephen W Porges
Abstract
Love is deeply biological. It pervades every aspect of our lives and has inspired countless works
of art. Love also has a profound effect on our mental and physical state. A broken heart' or a
failed relationship can have disastrous effects; bereavement disrupts human physiology and
might even precipitate death. Without loving relationships, humans fail to flourish, even if all of
their other basic needs are met.
As such, love is clearly not just' an emotion; it is a biological process that is both dynamic and
bidirectional in several dimensions. Social interactions between individuals, for example, trigger
cognitive and physiological processes that influence emotional and mental states. In turn, these
changes influence future social interactions. Similarly, the maintenance of loving relationships
requires constant feedback through sensory and cognitive systems; the body seeks love and
responds constantly to interaction with loved ones or to the absence of such interaction.
Without loving relationships, humans fail to flourish, even if all of their other basic needs are
met
Although evidence exists for the healing power of love, it is only recently that science has turned
its attention to providing a physiological explanation. The study of love, in this context, offers
insight into many important topics including the biological basis of interpersonal relationships
and why and how disruptions in social bonds have such pervasive consequences for behaviour
and physiology. Some of the answers will be found in our growing knowledge of the
neurobiological and endocrinological mechanisms of social behaviour and interpersonal
engagement.
Nothing in biology makes sense except in the light of evolution. Theodosius Dobzhansky's
famous dictum also holds true for explaining the evolution of love. Life on Earth is
fundamentally social: the ability to interact dynamically with other living organisms to support
mutual homeostasis, growth and reproduction evolved early. Social interactions are present in
primitive invertebrates and even among prokaryotes: bacteria recognize and approach members
of their own species. Bacteria also reproduce more successfully in the presence of their own kind
and are able to form communities with physical and chemical characteristics that go far beyond
the capabilities of the individual cell [1].
As another example, insect species have evolved particularly complex social systems, known as
eusociality'. Characterized by a division of labour, eusociality seems to have evolved
independently at least 11 times. Research in honey-bees indicates that a complex set of genes and
their interactions regulate eusociality, and that these resulted from an accelerated form of
evolution [2]. In other words, molecular mechanisms favouring high levels of sociality seem to
be on an evolutionary fast track.
The evolutionary pathways that led from reptiles to mammals allowed the emergence of the
unique anatomical systems and biochemical mechanisms that enable social engagement and
selectively reciprocal sociality. Reptiles show minimal parental investment in offspring and form
non-selective relationships between individuals. Pet owners might become emotionally attached
to their turtle or snake, but this relationship is not reciprocal. By contrast, many mammals show
intense parental investment in offspring and form lasting bonds with the offspring. Several
mammalian speciesincluding humans, wolves and prairie volesalso develop long-lasting,
reciprocal and selective relationships between adults, with several features of what humans
experience as love'. In turn, these reciprocal interactions trigger dynamic feedback mechanisms
that foster growth and health.
Of course, human love is more complex than simple feedback mechanisms. Love might create its
own reality. The biology of love originates in the primitive parts of the brainthe emotional core
of the human nervous systemthat evolved long before the cerebral cortex. The brain of a
human in love' is flooded with sensations, often transmitted by the vagus nerve, creating much
of what we experience as emotion. The modern cortex struggles to interpret the primal messages
of love, and weaves a narrative around incoming visceral experiences, potentially reacting to that
narrative rather than reality.
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It also is helpful to realize that mammalian social behaviour is supported by biological
components that were repurposed or co-opted over the course of mammalian evolution,
eventually allowing lasting relationships between adults. One element that repeatedly features in
the biochemistry of love is the neuropeptide oxytocin. In large mammals, oxytocin adopts a
central role in reproduction by helping to expel the big-brained baby from the uterus, ejecting
milk and sealing a selective and lasting bond between mother and offspring [3]. Mammalian
offspring crucially depend on their mother's milk for some time after birth. Human mothers also
form a strong and lasting bond with their newborns immediately after birth, in a time period that
is essential for the nourishment and survival of the baby. However, women who give birth by
caesarean section without going through labour, or who opt not to breast-feed, still form a strong
emotional bond with their children. Furthermore, fathers, grandparents and adoptive parents also
form lifelong attachments to children. Preliminary evidence suggests that simply the presence of
an infant releases oxytocin in adults [4,5]. The baby virtually forces' us to love it (Fig 1).
Figure 1
As a one-year-old Mandrill infant solicits attention, she gains eye contact with her mother.
2012 Jessie Williams.
Emotional bonds can also form during periods of extreme duress, especially when the survival of
one individual depends on the presence and support of another. There is also evidence that
oxytocin is released in response to acutely stressful experiences, possibly serving as hormonal
insurance' against overwhelming stress. Oxytocin might help to assure that parents and others
will engage with and care for infants, to stabilize loving relationships and to ensure that, in times
of need, we will seek and receive support from others.
The case for a major role for oxytocin in love is strong, but until recently has been based largely
on extrapolation from research on parental behaviour [4] or social behaviours in animals [5,6].
However, human experiments have shown that intranasal delivery of oxytocin can facilitate
social behaviours, including eye contact and social cognition [7]behaviours that are at the
heart of love.
Of course, oxytocin is not the molecular equivalent of love. It is just one important component of
a complex neurochemical system that allows the body to adapt to highly emotive situations. The
systems necessary for reciprocal social interactions involve extensive neural networks through
the brain and autonomic nervous system that are dynamic and constantly changing during the
lifespan of an individual. We also know that the properties of oxytocin are not predetermined or
fixed. Oxytocin's cellular receptors are regulated by other hormones and epigenetic factors.
These receptors change and adapt on the basis of life experiences. Both oxytocin and the
experience of love change over time. In spite of limitations, new knowledge of the properties of
oxytocin has proven useful in explaining several enigmatic features of love.
To dissect the anatomy and chemistry of love, scientists needed a biological equivalent of the
Rosetta stone. Just as the actual stone helped linguists to decipher an archaic language by
comparison to a known one, animal models are helping biologists draw parallels between ancient
physiology and contemporary behaviours. Studies of socially monogamous mammals that form
long-lasting social bonds, such as prairie voles, are helping scientists to understand the biology
of human social behaviour.
The modern cortex struggles to interpret the primal messages of love, and weaves a narrative
around incoming visceral experiences, potentially reacting to that narrative rather than reality
Research in voles indicates that, as in humans, oxytocin has a major role in social interactions
and parental behaviour [5,6,8]. Of course, oxytocin does not act alone. Its release and actions
depend on many other neurochemicals, including endogenous opioids and dopamine [9].
Particularly important to social bonding are the interactions between oxytocin and a related
peptide, vasopressin. The systems regulated by oxytocin and vasopressin are sometimes
redundant. Both peptides are implicated in behaviours that require social engagement by either
males or females, such as huddling over an infant [5]. It was necessary in voles, for example, to
block both oxytocin and vasopressin receptors to induce a significant reduction in social
engagement either among adults or between adults and infants. Blocking only one of these two
receptors did not eliminate social approach or contact. However, antagonists for either the
oxytocin or vasopressin receptor inhibited the selective sociality, which is essential for the
expression of a social bond [10,11]. If we accept selective social bonds, parenting and mate
protection as proxies for love in humans, research in animals supports the hypothesis that
oxytocin and vasopressin interact to allow the dynamic behavioural states and behaviours
necessary for love.
Oxytocin and vasopressin have shared functions, but they are not identical in their actions. The
specific behavioural roles of oxytocin and vasopressin are especially difficult to untangle
because they are components of an integrated neural network with many points of intersection.
Moreover, the genes that regulate the production of oxytocin and vasopressin are located on the
same chromosome, possibly allowing a co-ordinated synthesis or release of these peptides. Both
peptides can bind to, and have, antagonist or agonist effects on each other's receptors.
Furthermore, the pathways necessary for reciprocal social behaviour are constantly adapting:
these peptides and the systems that they regulate are always in flux.
In spite of these difficulties, some of the functions of oxytocin and vasopressin have been
identified. Vasopressin is associated with physical and emotional mobilization, and supports
vigilance and behaviours needed for guarding a partner or territory [6], as well as other forms of
adaptive self-defence [12]. Vasopressin might also protect against shutting down'
physiologically in the face of danger. In many mammalian species, mothers behave agonistically
in defence of their young, possibly through the interactive actions of vasopressin and oxytocin
[13]. Before mating, prairie voles are generally social, even towards strangers. However, within
approximately one day of mating, they begin to show high levels of aggression towards intruders
[14], possibly serving to protect or guard a mate, family or territory. This mating-induced
aggression is especially obvious in males.
By contrast, oxytocin is associated with immobility without fear. This includes relaxed
physiological states and postures that allow birth, lactation and consensual sexual behaviour.
Although not essential for parenting, the increase of oxytocin associated with birth and lactation
might make it easier for a woman to be less anxious around her newborn and to experience and
express loving feelings for her child [15]. In highly social species such as prairie voles, and
presumably in humans, the intricate molecular dances of oxytocin and vasopressin fine-tune the
coexistence of care-taking and protective aggression.
The biology of fatherhood is less well studied. However, male care of offspring also seems to
rely on both oxytocin and vasopressin [5]; even sexually naive male prairie voles show
spontaneous parental behaviour in the presence of an infant [14]. However, the stimuli from
infants or the nature of the social interactions that release oxytocin and vasopressin might differ
between the sexes [4].
Parental care and support in a safe environment are particularly important for mental health in
social mammals, including humans and prairie voles. Studies of rodents and lactating women
suggest that oxytocin has the capacity to modulate the behavioural and autonomic distress that
typically follows separation from a mother, child or partner, reducing defensive behaviours and
thereby supporting growth and health [6].
During early life in particular, trauma or neglect might produce behaviours and emotional states
in humans that are socially pathological. As the processes involved in creating social behaviours
and social emotions are delicately balanced, they might be triggered in inappropriate contexts,
leading to aggression towards friends or family. Alternatively, bonds might be formed with
prospective partners who fail to provide social support or protection.
Males seem to be especially vulnerable to the negative effects of early experiences, possibly
explaining their increased sensitivity to developmental disorders. Autism spectrum disorders, for
example, defined in part by atypical social behaviours, are estimated to be three to ten times
more common in males than females. The implication of sex differences in the nervous system,
and in response to stressful experiences for social behaviour, is only slowly becoming apparent
[8]. Both males and females produce vasopressin and oxytocin and are capable of responding to
both hormones. However, in brain regions that are involved in defensive aggression, such as the
extended amygdala and lateral septum, the production of vasopressin is androgen-dependent.
Thus, in the face of a threat, males might experience higher central levels of vasopressin.
In highly social species [] the intricate molecular dances of oxytocin and vasopressin fine-tune
the coexistence of care-taking and protective aggression
Oxytocin and vasopressin pathways, including the peptides and their receptors, are regulated by
coordinated genetic, hormonal and epigenetic factors that influence the adaptive and behavioural
functions of these peptides across the animal's lifespan. As a result, the endocrine and
behavioural consequences of stress or a challenge might be different for males and females [16].
When unpaired prairie voles were exposed to an intense but brief stressor, such as a few minutes
of swimming or injection of the adrenal hormone corticosterone, the males (but not females)
quickly formed new pair bonds. These and other experiments suggest that males and females
have different coping strategies, and possibly experience both stressful experiences and even
love in ways that are gender-specific.
Love is an epigenetic phenomenon: social behaviours, emotional attachment to others and longlasting reciprocal relationships are plastic and adaptive and so is the biology on which they are
based. Because of this and the influence on parental behaviour and physiology, the impact of an
early experience can pass to the next generation [17]. Infants of traumatized or highly stressed
parents might be chronically exposed to vasopressin, either through their own increased
production of the peptide, or through higher levels of vasopressin in maternal milk. Such
increased exposure could sensitize the infant to defensive behaviours or create a life-long
tendency to overreact to threat. On the basis of research in rats, it seems, that in response to
adverse early experiences or chronic isolation, the genes for vasopressin receptors can become
upregulated [18], leading to an increased sensitivity to acute stressors or anxiety that might
persist throughout life.
oxytocin exposure early in life not only regulates our ability to love and form social bonds, it
also has an impact on our health and well-being
Epigenetic programming triggered by early life experiences is adaptive in allowing
neuroendocrine systems to project and plan for future behavioural demands. However, epigenetic
changes that are long-lasting can also create atypical social or emotional behaviours [17] that
might be more likely to surface in later life, and in the face of social or emotional challenges.
Exposure to exogenous hormones in early life might also be epigenetic. Prairie voles, for
example, treated with vasopressin post-natally were more aggressive later in life, whereas those
exposed to a vasopressin antagonist showed less aggression in adulthood. Conversely, the
exposure of infants to slightly increased levels of oxytocin during development increased the
tendency to show a pair bond in voles. However, these studies also showed that a single exposure
to a higher level of oxytocin in early life could disrupt the later capacity to pair bond [8]. There is
little doubt that either early social experiences or the effects of developmental exposure to these
neuropeptides can potentially have long-lasting effects on behaviour. Both parental care and
exposure to oxytocin in early life can permanently modify hormonal systems, altering the
capacity to form relationships and influence the expression of love across the lifespan. Our
preliminary findings in voles suggest further that early life experience affects the methylation of
the oxytocin receptor gene and its expression [19]. Thus, we can plausibly argue that love is
epigenetic.
Given the power of positive social experiences, it is not surprising that a lack of social
relationships might also lead to alterations in behaviour and concurrently changes in oxytocin
and vasopressin pathways. We have found that social isolation reduced the expression of the
gene for the oxytocin receptor, and at the same time increased the expression of genes for the
vasopressin peptide (H.P. Nazarloo and C.S. Carter, unpublished data). In female prairie voles,
isolation was also accompanied by an increase in blood levels of oxytocin, possibly as a coping
mechanism. However, over time, isolated prairie voles of both sexes showed increases in
measures of depression, anxiety and physiological arousal, and these changes were seen even
when endogenous oxytocin was elevated. Thus, even the hormonal insurance provided by
endogenous oxytocin in the face of the chronic stress of isolation was not sufficient to dampen
the consequences of living alone. Predictably, when isolated voles were given additional
exogenous oxytocin this treatment restored many of these functions to normal [20].
On the basis of such encouraging findings, dozens of ongoing clinical trials are attempting to
examine the therapeutic potential of oxytocin in disorders ranging from autism to heart disease
(Clinicaltrials.gov). Of course, as in voles, the effects are likely to depend on the history of the
individual and the context, and to be dose-dependent. With power comes responsibility, and the
power of oxytocin needs to be respected.
Although research has only begun to examine the physiological effects of these peptides beyond
social behaviour, there is a wealth of new evidence indicating that oxytocin influences
physiological responses to stress and injury. Thus, oxytocin exposure early in life not only
regulates our ability to love and form social bonds, it also has an impact on our health and wellbeing. Oxytocin modulates the hypothalamicpituitary adrenal (HPA) axis, especially in
response to disruptions in homeostasis [6], and coordinates demands on the immune system and
energy balance. Long-term secure relationships provide emotional support and downregulate
reactivity of the HPA axis, whereas intense stressors, including birth, trigger activation of the
HPA axis and sympathetic nervous system. The ability of oxytocin to regulate these systems
probably explains the exceptional capacity of most women to cope with the challenges of childbirth and child-rearing. The same molecules that allow us to give and receive love, also link our
need for others with health and well-being.
The protective effects of positive sociality seem to rely on the same cocktail of hormones that
carry a biological message of love' throughout the body
Of course, love is not without danger. The behaviours and strong emotions triggered by love
might leave us vulnerable. Failed relationships can have devastating, even deadly, effects. In
modern' societies humans can survive, at least after childhood, with little or no human contact.
Communication technology, social media, electronic parenting and many other technological
advances of the past century might place both children and adults at risk for social isolation and
disorders of the autonomic nervous system, including deficits in their capacity for social
engagement and love [21].
Social engagement actually helps us to cope with stress. The same hormones and areas of the
brain that increase the capacity of the body to survive stress also enable us to better adapt to an
ever-changing social and physical environment. Individuals with strong emotional support and
relationships are more resilient in the face of stressors than those who feel isolated or lonely.
Lesions in bodily tissues, including the brain, heal more quickly in animals that are living
socially compared with those in isolation [22]. The protective effects of positive sociality seem to
rely on the same cocktail of hormones that carry a biological message of love' throughout the
body.
As only one example, the molecules associated with love have restorative properties, including
the ability to literally heal a broken heart'. Oxytocin receptors are expressed in the heart, and
precursors for oxytocin seem to be crucial for the development of the fetal heart [23]. Oxytocin
exerts protective and restorative effects in part through its capacity to convert undifferentiated
stem cells into cardiomyocytes. Oxytocin can facilitate adult neurogenesis and tissue repair,
especially after a stressful experience. We know that oxytocin has direct anti-inflammatory and
anti-oxidant properties in in vitro models of atherosclerosis [24]. The heart seems to rely on
oxytocin as part of a normal process of protection and self-healing.
A life without love is not a life fully lived. Although research into mechanisms through which
love protects us against stress and disease is in its infancy, this knowledge will ultimately
increase our understanding of the way that our emotions have an impact on health and disease.
We have much to learn about love and much to learn from love.
C Sue Carter
Stephen W Porges
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Acknowledgments
Discussions of love and forgiveness' with members of the Fetzer Institute's Advisory Council on
Natural Sciences led to this essay and are gratefully acknowledged. We especially appreciate
thoughtful editorial input from James Harris. Studies from the authors' laboratories were
sponsored by the National Institutes of Health. We also express our gratitude for this support to
our colleagues whose input and hard work informed the ideas expressed in this article.
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Footnotes
The authors declare that they have no conflict of interest.
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