9 Basic Human Needs
9 Basic Human Needs
Each of us has three primary needs, meaning three needs that are more important than the other six
needs, which we have to a lesser degree. When people do not get their needs met, they can become
agitated, belligerent or driven to use the negative aspects of their needs.
Each of the needs is described below, with their positive aspects (how they work in positive ways) and
their negative aspects (how people use more forceful or destructive ways to get their needs met).
Each person is responsible for seeing that they get their own needs met - this is an inside job, not
something that is fulfilled by another person. People who share the same needs will feel a connection
or common bond.
Two people who do not share at least one common need will feel little connection with another
person. Co-workers who do not share similar needs will have a hard time working together. Close
friends, partners and mate relationships will usually share two or three needs in common.
Security
Security is the need to feel safe, to feel assured that they know what is going to happen, to know
ahead of time what the plans are. What constitutes Security can be different for different people.
Positive aspects: Whatever makes you feel safe, balanced, grounded, connected, safe, secure,
trusting that things will be OK in your life.
Negative aspects: Overly cautious, fearful, paralyzed, indecisive, frozen in place, unable to function
due to insecurity, retaliation against someone who they believe destroys their sense of Security.
How this need affects the workplace: People who have a need for Security will be more deeply
affected by sudden changes, unforeseen events, real or perceived threats to their job, their livelihood,
or their sense of self. Their fear will keep them from functioning in times of crisis or potentially cause
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them to react strongly to someone that they feel is threatening their sense of security. People who
have a high need for security will be drawn more to working in government or public sector jobs than
to entrepreneurial enterprises.
People who have a low Security need or have a need for Adventure may welcome change of any
kind, while those with a high Security need may react very strongly at even minor changes. A
manager who has a need for Adventure with a staff with high Security needs can create havoc and
traumatic reactions very quickly.
Adventure
Adventure is the need for an adrenaline rush, to have new experiences, to travel, to have BIG
experiences, to have drama in their life, to have a sense of anticipation about upcoming events.
Negative aspects: Reckless regard for life and limb, irresponsibility, cutting themselves off from people
(hermit), judgmental of others who are less adventurous, creating crisis or drama inappropriately.
How this need affects the workplace: People with a need for Adventure will be leading the pack to
find new things to do, new places to visit, new markets to open, new products to sell, new ways of
doing things, new ways of organizing the company.
They make excellent sales people, who love the thrill of making a sale or opening doors to new
clients/customers. They could be a customer service representative who gets a thrill every time the
phone rings with a new problem, or they could be an entrepreneur who starts companies over and
over.
If things get too boring, people with a need for Adventure will find a way to liven them up - either in a
positive way by initiating something new or in negative ways by going off on their own, taking great
risks or by criticizing others who can't see that the new Adventure is wonderful!
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As mentioned in Security, the conflict between people with a need for Adventure and those with a
need for Security can create havoc. Some people have both Security and Adventure in their highest
three needs; this creates a particularly challenging situation for them as they seem to be opposites. To
handle both appropriately, a person might enjoy travel to new places (Adventure) yet will carefully
plan out the trip (Security) - satisfying both needs in a positive way for themselves. Or, they might find
themselves constantly torn by conflict between the two. If they realize they are responsible for
resolving their own needs, the conflict can be managed in a positive way.
Freedom
Freedom is the need for independence and spontaneity. It is also the need to have choices and to
feel in control of making those choices. In many people, Freedom might be combined with
Adventure, since a person who has a need for Freedom might be willing to partake of more
Adventures, than a person who has both Freedom and Security. Freedom does not care for plans or
heavy structure. What constitutes Freedom for one person may be very different from another's need
perception of Freedom.
Positive aspects: Independence, self-confidence, high self-esteem, teaching others, clarity, a way out
of martyrdom (feeling stuck, trapped or sorry for yourself)
Negative aspects: Relationship avoidance, fear of commitment, separation and distancing from
others, inability to understand others and be understood, manipulative (imposing on people's
freedom).
How this need affects the workplace: People with a need for Freedom may resist any and all attempts
to impose new rules on them. If they work in an "open" environment, they may excel at projects that
require or reward independent thinking and spontaneity. They will make good teachers of people
who are expected to exercise independent judgment.
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Someone who manages a person with a need for Freedom will get along best with them when they
recognize and respect that person's to make choices for themselves. People with a need for Freedom
must recognize that need in themselves and not take jobs that are very rule-oriented; rather they must
look for situations where their need for Freedom can be exercised appropriately.
Exchange
Exchange is the need to trade information and knowledge with others, not just to mingle or socialize,
but also to deliver and receive something of value. That something of value may be information,
conversation, communication, energy, friendship, services, money, gifts, love, justice, shared
experiences. People with a need for exchange are concerned about the flow of energy in all types of
relationships. They like to see things "moving" in some way that expresses balanced equality, integrity
and an equal exchange.
Positive aspects: Positive role model for relationships; maintaining an equal balanced flow of
<whatever> in a relationship; keeping things moving (knowledge, information, communication,
energy); promoting equality in all interactions; working with money, contracts, justice, ethics, integrity,
wholeness, balance.
How this need affects the workplace: People who have a need for Exchange work well with others with
common goals. If a person who has a need for Exchange meets someone that does not interact well
with them, they will "write off" the person and the relationship, finding no common ground for
interaction. If this other person is a boss, client or coworker it will be very hard for them to continue any
further interaction with the person.
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A person with a need for Exchange needs to feel they are getting something of value from someone
else and that they are giving something of value. They will be very distressed by unethical or
discriminatory behavior, or learning that information has been withheld from them.
Power
People with a need for Power need to be in a position of authority and responsibility. They need to
explore Power, leadership and accomplishment. People with a need for Power tend to be good
organizers and accept responsibility, setting an example of leadership.
Negative aspects: Viciousness, abuse of power, dictatorship, inappropriate control and manipulation,
anger, violence against others or things.
How this need affects the workplace: People with a need for Power will gravitate to situations that
allow them to exercise their leadership skills and responsibility. This may be on a grand scale or on a
smaller level. When they cannot exercise their need for Power, they may become manipulative
through coercive power, threats or over-control. A person with a need for Power may exercise it in the
workplace, find outlets in a community setting or in teaching others about the use of appropriate
Power.
People with a need for Power may be noticed when they enter a room because they carry a strong
sense of leadership and are used to be in command. These are good folks to put in charge when
something needs accomplishing. They will be happiest when they feel powerful. They will be
unhappiest when someone or something prevents them from exercising Power in some way, or if they
feel a sense of personal failure.
Expansion
Expansion is the need to build something, to add onto, to create an empire, to expand horizons, to go
where no one has gone before.
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• Building a company
• Building a personal or political empire
• Creating a personal fortune
• Expanding a collection of any kind
• Saving rare art, rare books or historic buildings from destruction
• Protecting the environment because it benefits humanity
• Building new buildings, cities, communities, roads
• Expanding a market niche
• Creating new knowledge
• Discovering new ways of doing things
• Expanding the boundaries of science, art, medicine, music or nature
• Expanding the knowledge of physical and spiritual laws
• Understanding how the Universe works and explaining it to others
• Seeing the bigger picture
• Becoming an astronaut, oceanographer, medical researcher or scientist focused on exploring
new worlds
• Exploring uninhabited lands or regions
• Becoming a minister, preaching about people's connection with a larger spiritual reality
• Creating new breeds of animals or plants
Positive aspects: Growth and expansion; recognizing the value of others; recognizing the value of art,
science, nature, physical and spiritual laws; working with cosmology; recognizing a connection with
great spiritual teachers (Christ, Buddha, the Higher Self); working with the study of intuition and psychic
interests; understanding how the Universe works and how they fit into it; understanding themselves and
others.
Negative aspects: Indiscriminate growth (cancer, huge weight gains, hoarding things, large collections
of odd things), confusion, loss, abandonment, betrayal, loss, suicide, atheism, evil, sin, spiritual
separation.
How this need affects the workplace: People with a need for Expansion will constantly be trying to
expand their knowledge and the boundaries of that knowledge. This is good if they are in positions
where that energy can be focused on assisting a company grow, creating new knowledge or creating
new products. It can be bad if their only outlet for expansion is to take from others. When their need for
expansion is thwarted, they may turn that need into inappropriate and harmful ways.
Acceptance
Acceptance is the need to accept yourself and be accepted by others. This includes a feeling of
belonging. People with a need for Acceptance are usually very easy-going and pleasant to have in a
group.
• Feeling loved
• Accepting whatever comes up in life
• Doing things that make others feel good
• Being nice regardless of the situation or the person
• Being tolerant of self and others
Positive aspects: Understanding and participating in love and loving situations, romance, bondedness,
sense of family or tribe, self-esteem, self-forgiveness, forgiveness of others, altruistic, humanitarian.
Negative aspects: Rejection, jealousy, prejudice, guilt, shame, hate, xenophobia (group prejudice,
fear of different classes of people)
How this need affects the workplace: People who have a need for Acceptance are a valuable
addition to any group. They will often be a stabilizing presence and help others tolerate each other a
little better. They may "go along" to whatever proposals are made to avoid any conflict in a group. It is
very hard for them to express any different opinion because of their fear of being rejected.
A person with a need for Acceptance needs to feel they are accepted, as well as accepting others.
They can be seen as a "doormat" with no opinion of their own or their time may be abused since they
will rarely criticize others or say "no." Because of this, they may be rejected by others, which causes
them more severe pain because of their high need for Acceptance.
Community
People with a need for Community like having people around. They are highly social and will express
their enjoyment of gatherings. These are the best folks to put in charge of parties and company
gatherings. They will seek out people and are able to maintain large numbers of relationships. The
need for Community is different from the need for Exchange in that the need for Community does not
require the exchange of anything.
Positive aspects: Need to be around other people; highly social; need to be tribal; ability to have and
relate to children, grandchildren, distant relatives; need for family; need for bonding at a wider level;
political and ecological participation; responsibility as a citizen; sense of one's own importance and
dignity in relation to the rest of humanity.
How this need affects the workplace: People with a need for Community will be with people every
chance they can get. They may be the center of the gathering or on the sidelines. They may be the
ones bringing forth proposals that point out a company's responsibilities to the environment or the
community.
These are not people to be sent to work in an isolated laboratory, work the midnight shift or sent on a
mission where they will not be able to socialize with others. Because socializing is such an innate talent
with them, others may feel jealous and not understand the high need to be with other people. Others
who are less social may be compared inappropriately and told, "If they can do it, so can you." That's
not necessarily so. Not everyone has an inherent need (or even tolerance) for very high social contact.
The less-social folks may want tag along occasionally, letting those with Community gather the crowds.
Expression
Expression is the need to be artistic, to be seen, to be heard, to be felt. It is the need to express oneself
through words, speech, actions, dress, art and self-creations of all types.
• Expressing through the Internet (creating web sites, writing newsletters, creating graphic art,
stating opinions)
• Writing books, poems, articles
• Reading poetry at coffee houses
• Writing opinion articles for newspapers and magazines
• Public speaking about topics that are near and dear to the speaker
• Creating art in all forms (painting, jewelry, crafts, interior design, graphic design, furniture design,
architecture)
• Teaching creative thinking classes or workshops
• Designing company logos or ad campaigns
• Coaching children in creative arts
• Dancing or teaching dance in all forms
• Acting in movies, plays or local theaters
Positive aspects: Demonstrating individual creativity, showing balance, getting in touch with creativity,
promoting understanding (by revealing self) through art, words, behaviour; being a living expression of
"who I am."
Negative aspects: Invasion of other's space (too much self-expression), self-centered, temperamental,
blind to other's value, lying, creating or expressing a false image.
How this need affects the workplace: People with a need for Expression will be happiest when they are
free to express their inherent creativity. Examples might be through writing or designing a company
newsletter; creating a company logo; developing company brochures; designing a new work space
arrangement; creating designs for new products, services or related materials; designing or
maintaining a company's Internet web site; giving speeches on behalf of the company's values, goals
and mission (if they reflect the person's values and beliefs).
In many companies, expression of individuality is rigidly controlled and monitored. This may lead to
destruction of an individual's ability to function fully and productively in that environment.
For a person with a need for Expression, such an environment will either drive them toward negative
expressions or they will go where their creativity is valued. People, who cannot be creative or
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expressive through their work, may find outlets in community activities that are sufficient to satisfy their
need for Expression.
How to use this information for yourself and for understanding others
You may find that some needs seem to be of equal importance or that you can't decide between the
3rd and 4th highest. That's OK. If the needs are very strong, consider them to be in your "top tier."
Sometimes, unmet needs exert extra force so we pay attention to them for a while.
Once you are fairly sure about where your needs rank, think about the people you are closest to and
what their needs might be (spouse, partner, coworkers, close friends, children, etc.)
Talking to others about what your needs are, how they affect your life and how they affect your
interaction is a valuable exercise to gain understanding. For working teams, learning what is important
to each member of the team helps reduce friction and improves communication.
Knowing the needs of others helps us understand that they may be acting from their own highest
needs, not just doing something to frustrate us!