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The Wedding Dance

a Feminist Critique
By:: Jade Catadman

The Wedding Dance tells about the story of Lumnay and her experience with the tradition
and culture of her tribe. Awiyao and Lumnay had built a happy life together, and after seven
harvests of waiting for a child, Awiyao could not bear the fact that Lumnay could not give him a
child and such is pointed out here: “Lumnay,” he said tenderly. “Lumnay, if I did this it is
because of my need for a child. You know that life is not worth living without a child. The men
have mocked me behind my back. You know that.” Awiyao had no other option but to leave
Lumnay and marry another woman. Despite the fact that Lumnay wanted to defy her culture,
stand up to the elders and the chief of the village, her strong belief of their patriarchal society
hindered her from doing so. This signifies the weakness of women in the story and how they are
only regarded as child-bearers or helpers around the house. Their society had an intense hold on
her and she knew the difference in power between men and women. Their patriarchal ideology is
what oppresses women in their tribe and it leads to treating them as if they were not equal to
men, and as if they were required, as a group, to be subservient to men; a society where a
Lumnnay is expected to compromise on everything which comes in her way without question. A
man instead has control over everything right from rules to her in the place she is expected to
consider as her home while she hardly has a say in any matter. Such portrayal showed how
culture would always find its way to triumph and how the ill effects of culture could destroy
women in society. Furthermore, Lumnay’s backing out from defying her tribe only proves that
culture, dominated by men has taken her as prisoner. Lumnay is obviously presented as a person
who is mistreated by such a tradition and how she permits in doing such. In the end, she was
forced to behave in a way that society considers appropriate within its gender roles.

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