The document discusses the author's communication style and their journey to improve their skills. While the author is a good listener, they struggle to choose the right words when communicating. As a child, they were overly critical of themselves during interactions. As an adult, they have made progress but still have difficulties with perception and self-image. The document provides tips on how to improve communication skills through practice, such as recording conversations to identify filler words and reduce their use.
The document discusses the author's communication style and their journey to improve their skills. While the author is a good listener, they struggle to choose the right words when communicating. As a child, they were overly critical of themselves during interactions. As an adult, they have made progress but still have difficulties with perception and self-image. The document provides tips on how to improve communication skills through practice, such as recording conversations to identify filler words and reduce their use.
The document discusses the author's communication style and their journey to improve their skills. While the author is a good listener, they struggle to choose the right words when communicating. As a child, they were overly critical of themselves during interactions. As an adult, they have made progress but still have difficulties with perception and self-image. The document provides tips on how to improve communication skills through practice, such as recording conversations to identify filler words and reduce their use.
Being able to communicate effectively is perhaps the most
important of all life skills. It is what enables us to pass information to other people, and to understand what is said to us. I am good at listening to someone but when it comes to delivering proper words or appropriate words for them is one of my struggles. Improving my communication skills has been a work in progress starting back in the early years of my life. I have always been my own worse critic. Usually beating myself down through interpersonal communication. Now as an adult I have made great improvements but still have trouble dealing with perception and self-image.
We live in a social and interactive world. Our success in life
depends on our ability to communicate and interact with each other – at home, at school, at work, everywhere. Think of how often you communicate with different people, whether they are your friends, your parents, your neighbors, your colleagues, or complete strangers. Especially at colleges and universities, we have to face many different people, and we have to adapt our communication styles effectively to make a good impression or achieve the results we are looking for. We write emails, facilitate meetings, participate in conference calls, write papers and reports, give presentations, JOHN PAUL P.AQUINO debate with friends and classmates, and so much more. Practice by talking to friends and family. You don’t even have to be practicing a speech, sales pitch, or interview questions; just talk to your friends as normal, with one tiny difference. Pay attention to your use of hesitation words such as ‘like’, ‘um’, ‘ah’, ‘ok’, etc. and notice how often you use them - is it when you don’t know what to say? When you can’t express yourself properly? Or is it just a habit? The easiest way to do this when you first try is to record yourself and listen back to what you’ve said. You’ll realise two things: firstly, how much you hate the sound of your own voice, and secondly, what your hesitation words are and how often you use them. By becoming aware of them, and consciously trying to reduce their use in daily conversation, you’ll gradually eliminate them out of your everyday vocabulary and improve verbal communication skills.
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