Spiritual Crisis and Recovery
Spiritual Crisis and Recovery
The other reason is that many in the West today are practising spiritual
techniques which in the past were taught only by highly experienced
spiritual teachers in safe and supportive environments such as
monasteries. This has been described by some as a DIY approach to
spirituality or a 'pick and mix' approach.
There are many possible different triggers for spiritual crisis. The
following are some of the more common ones: ·
← the intense use of spiritual practices such as, for example, prayer
or meditation
← yoga, tai chi, and other similar techniques, particularly if practiced
intensely
← extreme stress, physical or emotional shock or trauma
← childbirth or intense lovemaking
Normalising
Grounding
Food: The general consensus seems to be that heavier foods are useful
for grounding such as grains, root vegetables, pulses, dairy products and
meat. Remembering to eat really helps. Fasting often makes things worse.
Avoid sugar and stimulants such as caffeine.
Exercise: Some people find vigorous exercise, like running, very helpful
because of the amount of energy they are experiencing in their bodies.
Others find gentle walking or yoga to be more what they need.
'Doing ordinary': In an 'extra-ordinary' time, 'doing ordinary' can be
very grounding. By this we mean focusing on ordinary every-day tasks
such as cleaning the house, chopping vegetables, weeding or digging the
garden, walking the dog etc.
Being creative: Many people have found this to be a time where their
creative energies become powerful and can be used as a way of
expressing their experience, releasing emotion and grounding and
focusing.
Support
Not many people can go through this on their own. There is a need to be
supported. This can take many forms, from someone cooking dinners, a
friend who offers a listening ear, a therapist who understands spiritual
crisis, to a whole community offering 24/7 support. Having people around
who understand what is happening can make all the difference.
Environment
The environment has a huge effect on someone who is in a heightened
sensitive state. Reducing stimulation is thought to be helpful. Consider
what may be over stimulating, such as television, noisy busy places,
situations of conflict and high emotion, etc. This will vary from person to
person.
Spiritual practise
However some people find that with insight and care, gentle practise can
provide a sense of safe space and enable integration of the crisis
experience. The important element is whether the practise in question is
grounding and therefore helping to create 'balance'. Anything which
opens an individual up even further to intense spiritual energy is
potentially going to increase the experience of feeling overwhelmed.
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Spiritual Lessons in Recovery
“I am the flyer of the kite”, I repeated again. And, slowly, I began to understand the
lesson. “I have always thought I was just the kite. But God says I am the flyer of the kite.
So, even though the kite may dive and hurl about in the winds of pain and psychosis, I
remain on the ground, because I am the flyer of the kite. I remain. I will be here when the
winds roar, and I will be here when the winds are calm. I am here today, and I will be
here tomorrow. There is a tomorrow, because I am more than the kite. I am the flyer of
the kite.”
The notes in my chart that day probably said I was floridly psychotic. However, for me,
that day was an epiphany. The lesson I learned on that day was a lesson I relearned,
over and over again, in my recovery. Basically, I learned there was a deeper part of me,
that was centered and unmoving and steady and constant and calm. Without this deeper
part of myself, the wind could easily blow me away. This deeper me learned not to over
identify with the good times or the bad times.
Like the kite blasting around on a windy day, my recovery often meant having a difficult
time, with lots of ups and downs, pain and suffering, setbacks and bad days. But God
taught me there was more to me than these ups and downs. Deep down inside, no
matter how rough things got, there was a still, quiet place within me that held steady and
that survived. On some days, recovery, was just about learning to ride the tumultuous
winds, while hanging tightly to the kite string, until the storm passed. At other times in my
recovery, I needed my therapist or a trusted friend to hold the string, until I could
reconnect with the flyer of the kite within me.
If mental health professionals are to support the spirituality of people in the recovery
process, then it is important to remain open to the possibility that people receive
authentic spiritual teachings during periods of what gets called psychosis or psychiatric
disorder. These spiritual teachings can provide a resting place for the weary;
nourishment for the hungry; meaning for those in despair and a compass for those who
are trying to navigate the passage of recovery. Simply allowing a client to discuss the
spiritual teaching, while listening respectfully, can be healing. If the client is willing,
exploring the teaching, applying it to daily recovery, and reminding the client of the
teaching when it’s been forgotten can be helpful.
It is imperative that professionals not invalidate spiritual teachings received during
psychosis or severe emotional distress. It is important not to dismiss such teachings as
delusions. Do not interpret them as symptoms of disordered minds and then ask for an
increase in psychotropic medications. If, as a mental health professional, you feel
uncomfortable listening to spiritual teachings, because you are not an expert in such
matters, own this personal limitation and share it respectfully with clients. Clients are then
free to find other people who are more receptive to talking about spiritual teachings
received during periods of altered consciousness and extreme emotional distress.
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