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Hi there! Seeing that you’ve taken the time to grab yourself a copy
of my book on how to attract and keep that special Aquarian man
in your life, I want to take a brief moment to let you get to know
who I am and why I’ve written this book.
It was on this trip that her incredible knowledge of what was going
on in my love life, all from me telling her what his Zodiac sign was,
that really piqued my interest in astrology. It was on this trip that I
decided I, too, must learn the things that she knew.
You see, I once was in a relationship with this amazing man, and I
still am, actually, who pushed me away and right into the art of as-
trology. If not for that visit with my aunt I don’t think that our love
would have lasted this long and be so strong. Not because we
didn’t love one another, but because we didn’t understand one
another.
It is for this reason that I have written this series books on how to
better understand the different Zodiac signs and really connect on
a level that will help you in building that relationship that may
seem just outside your reach. Now, after years of working with
charts, stars and my personal clients, I’ve been able to glean a
great deal of knowledge about each sign and how they relate in
relationships and my goal is to share this with you.
Luckily for my friend and her Aquarian man, they both wanted the
same thing, they just went about it in completely different ways.
She found him to be aloof and kind of an enigma, while he just
couldn’t see the value in planing every little thing down to the
minute. Once we looked through his chart, I showed her who their
planets worked together and pointed out some areas where she
Long story short, my Virgo friend learned to let her Aquarian man
just be who he was, and once he realized that she did understand
his inner workings like nobody else, he appreciated it enough to
actually commit. If you know anything about Aquarian men, you
know what a huge deal it is for one to totally commit too a rela-
tionship. Things were’t perfect, but what in life is?
As you flip through the pages of this book, you will learn not only
how to attract an Aquarian man, but also how to understand his
Anna Kovach
Each sign has certain things that we associate with it, Aquarius is
no different. Aquarius is ruled by Uranus and is a Fixed sign with
the element of Air. Aquarius’ season is winter, and as you might
imagine is closely linked to that amazing aqua blue color that can
remind us of both water and air. Each sign also has a part of the
body that it associates most closely with; for Aquarius this is the
lower body, the legs, calves, and circulatory system.
So what does all this tell you about your Aquarian man? Well, not
a whole lot just yet, unless you are already well versed in astrolo-
gy. As we go through all of the parts of a horoscope and delve into
the brilliant mind of Aquarius you’ll start to really be ale to piece it
all together and gain a better, deeper understanding of not just
how to relate to him, but also how to get him to relate to you.
There are many facets to each and every horoscope and birth
chart. To start off with, we’ll begin with what gives us our vitality
and the very life force that drives us; the Sun.
Now, there is, as I have said, much more to your horoscope than
simply where the Sun is located. You may have your Sun in Gem-
ini but your Mercury (Gemini’s ruling planet) in another sign; we’ll
say an Earth sign. This will give you the duality of a Gemini Sun
on the surface, but a more earthy feel to how you communicate.
Think of the Sun as the foundation of who you are; it is the core of
your personality.
You may be wondering why I’m going into all the technical as-
pects of astrology just to find out how to attract an Aquarian. This
is because to be able to fully grasp the whole picture of your
Aquarian guy you must also be able to understand and kind of
decode the remainder of his personality. Think of the old adage of
not judging a book by its cover. Least of all the signs, you do not
want to simply think you understand an Aquarian personality
based upon where his Sun lies.
Getting a bit deeper into how a natal chart is created, you will see
that there are not only signs and planets, but also what we call
houses. Visualize a wheel inside of a wheel, a double wheel if you
will. Around the outer rim of your natal chart, or of your Aquarian
man’s chart, we see the signs, but inside of this we find the plan-
ets within the different houses.
Your Aquarian man being a fixed Air sign will remain true to his
own sense of who he is. Some may even see him as being stub-
born, yet rather flippant in how he acts. Stability and loyalty are
just a couple of the characteristics of a fixed sign that you will find
in him, even though he may seem argumentative and standoffish
at times, at his core he will never falter in his loyalty to a friend or
to a cause without good reason.
The Air signs are all quite good at communicating with others and
are more cerebral than most. Aquarius is actually a sign that we
see to represent brilliance. Aquarius was once thought to be ruled
by Saturn, a very karmic and almost stodgy planet, yet unwaver-
ing in the personal belief system set in place by its influence. Now
we see that Aquarius is ruled by Uranus, mythologically speaking,
Saturn’s son.
Other “fixed” signs include Leo, Taurus and Scorpio. Fixed houses
refer to the 2nd, 5th, 8th and 11th, but we won’t go too much fur-
ther into this, as you don’t really need to get into the depths of un-
derstanding astrology to come to an understanding of your Aquar-
ius man. Just remember that in any given chart, the planets found
The fixed signs, although quite different at times, are all very
steadfast in their attainment of goals. Yes, the goals may be dif-
ferent, but the approach to reaching them will be much the same.
Persistency and an unwavering attitude of “I will do this” is found
in all of the fixed signs and none will be easily swayed in a differ-
ing direction than the course they have set upon. I bet you are
starting to see a glimmer of your Aquarian man in these descrip-
tions. Just wait, it only gets better from here!
Why is an Air sign made to look like a water sign? Well, because
this is the sign of humanity. Aquarians tend to be loners in the
sense that they are fiercely independent, however, you will rarely
find an Aquarian who hasn't got a darn good idea of just what it
would take to solve all the worlds problems. Idealistic and have I
mentioned brilliant? This is a general description of Aquarians and
it is pretty spot on.
Aquarians think big, they are dreamers and idealists who imagine
a perfect utopian world where we can all live together peacefully.
You probably know your Aquarian man to be someone who
makes big plans and is always a step ahead of the rest. With an
Aquarian guy, the bottom line is that you’ve got to be able to un-
derstand this about him and not try to stifle his ambitious side.
Sure, you may know that some of his ideas are simply impossible,
but if you want to be by his side, you’ve got to steer clear of bring-
ing him down.
The thing about Aquarians is that while they are the dreamers of
the Zodiac and can come up with some incredible plans to solve
all the world’s problems, they actually lack the fortitude to out
Because Aquarians are known for their out there attitudes, their
eccentticism and sometimes their aloofness, they can be pretty
difficult to read. At the core he is unconventional, in fact, he works
at being this way, even if only subconsciously so. You see, it is in-
grained in the Aquarius man to stand out in a crowd.
You can’t talk about Air signs without thinking about the more in-
telligent signs of the Zodiac. This doesn’t necessarily mean that
Air signs are smarter than everyone else, but that naturally those
born under this element are natural communicators and operate
on a level that is more intuitive and intellectual. If you’ve ever
been in a relationship with an Air sign- you know that they are
largely the thinkers of the world and kind of live with their heads in
the sky. You’ll see these airy personalities easily go from one con-
versation to another without skipping a beat, and typically the
conversation will be moving quickly from one topic to another.
In this section we’ll take a look into how you can begin to really
understand the inner workings of your Aquarius man. Whether
you are wanting to snag yourself a hot Aquarius guy, or even if
you are just looking to deepen the relationship you already have
with an Aquarian, this guide will help you to do just that.
Keep in mind that this is just a glimpse into the psyche of the male
water bearer. We will go into much more detail as we make our
way through the different sections of this book. You already have
a good idea already of how charts work and what gives your
Aquarius guy his quirky tendencies, now we will look specifically
into the mind the male Aquarius.
When you first meet and interact with your Aquarius guy, he isn’t
going to immediately take things to the physical level. Far from it,
actually. This is the kind of guy who wants to know that you have
your wits about you and he may even test you a bit, just to make
sure that you are also on the level—Because he knows that he is.
The best bit of advice I can give when it comes to building a ro-
mantic relationship with your Aquarian man is to not fence him in.
He lives to grow and to seek out new and exciting things in life. If
you can manage to be right there and experience these things on
a level that allows you both the freedom to enjoy life and learn
while still having each other to depend on, you’ll be golden. The
flip side to this is that if you question him about the relationship, it
will likely come to a screeching halt.
Freedom is huge to the Aquarian man, and he will offer you the
same. You never have to worry about being smothered by him.
Once connected, an Aquarian guy will stand by your side and be
the best friend/partner you could ever imagine. He isn’t the jeal-
ous type, I mean, the way he sees it, he has nothing to worry
about because he wouldn’t be in a close relationship with you if
you weren’t trustworthy.
He is Genuine
You’ll never meet anyone who is more real and genuine than your
Aquarian guy. So many guys out there try to be something they’re
not. Worse yet, a lot of guys will try to meld your personality and
his into one. You know the type, controlling and always in your
business—Think joint Facebook accounts—Your Aquarian man
will never try to make you be anything less than genuinely who
you are. He sees your flaws and he loves them because they
make him able to let his guard down around you.
Beyond letting you be who you are, he will never be fake or pho-
ny. In fact, he will do his dead level best to excite you without try-
ing to entertain you. This is a very specialized skill set that Aquar-
ians are simply born with. While he may be aloof from time to
time, he will never step out on you; it’s just not in his DNA to be a
two timer. Also, the level of loyalty you’ll get with an Aquarian man
is to be admired. If you are lucky enough to get into his heart, you
must also be uniquely you. What could be better than that?
He is Simply Brilliant
We’ve all had those relationships where day to day life with your
partner becomes about as exciting as watching paint dry on a
rainy day. This is something that you never have to worry about
when it comes to dating an Aquarian man. He isn’t your typical
kind of guy, so you won’t have your typical kind of relationship, it’s
as simple as that. There is something about Aquarians that makes
them shine in a crowd. That whole dinner at the same restaurant
on the same “date night” of the week thing, that will never happen
when you are dating an Aquarian. Dinner on top of the Eiffel tower
to celebrate your 18 day anniversary, now that is more like what
you can expect—the unexpected.
Now, let’s get down to the nitty gritty here and talk about what
you’ve been wondering about anyway—Sex. When you reach the
level of intimacy that it takes to get down and dirty with an Aquari-
an man it means that he really does value your companionship.
You see, Aquarians don’t want to just have sex with anybody, they
He can be totally into you, yet his mind is a million miles away.
The odds are he is contemplating ways to solve world hunger with
some type of Goldberg device or something that can, at the time,
seem infinitely ridiculous when you feel there are pressing rela-
tionship matters to discuss. When you run into this, just give him
space. Aquarians are loners even though they feel the need to
connect us all universally. This paradox is one of the things that
makes them both amazing and frustrating at the same time.
He Can Be Indifferent
For those of you who have had the experience of pissing off an
Aquarian, you know what I am talking about. Those strong com-
munication skills come out full force when he is hurt and what was
once a delightful intellectual exchange can become a war of
words and it can come out of nowhere. Yes, there must be a rea-
son for him to act so cold, but with that strong Uranian influence,
Aquarians tend to strike unexpectedly.
Really and truly, if you have done something that warrants this
kind of reaction from an Aquarian man, you probably shouldn’t be
together anyway. He is someone who demands equality in a rela-
tionship. You be good to him and he will be good to you. Cross
him by being dishonest and he will never, ever forget it.
When it comes down to it, there are a few basic things to consider
when entering into a relationship with an Aquarian guy. First off,
he isn’t going to jump into a relationship without putting real
thought into it, and definitely not before he feels that the two of
you are compatible. You see, for the Aquarian man a relationship
is a way of clipping his wings, so to speak. Aquarians are all about
personal freedom and getting into a serious commitment is just
not what this revolutionary thinking man is all about.
He will not play games with you, not in the traditional sense any-
way. The trivial and often base head games that people play with
one another stemming from jealousy or the need to control their
partner are not welcome in the Aquarian guys bubble. In fact, try-
ing to snag him by playing silly mind games will only lower his
opinion of your personal intelligence. He can see right through
anything that isn’t genuine.
If you are in a situation where the Aquarian guy you’ve got your
eye on isn’t going to be a staple in the background for an extend-
ed period of time, you are best to make it known to him that you
want to get to know him and enter into his circle of friends. Aquar-
ians in general tend to not stay in one place for too long, so being
timid and afraid to talk to him could backfire. If he is a co-worker,
you could get to work one day, ready to talk to him socially for the
first time, and find that he has moved on to another job. It can get
a bit tricky here, but you have to figure out a way to strike while
the iron is hot and he is in your presence, but not come on as to
make it seem like you want to pin him down into something seri-
ous.
For some of you this is no problem, but for those of you who can
get a little clingy, and you know who you are, it will behoove you
to lose the cling and work toward a relationship that is built on
personal freedoms and trust. The more you let him do his thing,
the more he will want you right there with him, as long as you can
keep up with the conversation, of course.
Along with his free spirit will come the tendency to bring about
chaos into whatever he touches. The best partner for an Aquarius
man, and how you will know if you are really compatible all lies in
your ability to find brilliance within the chaos.
Despite all of the great things that come along with coupling your-
self with an Aquarius man, there're also some not so great traits
that these guys possess that can be a real downer. This goes
back to balance in all things. I mean, without the darker side the
positives wouldn’t seem all that positive, now would they?
So what are the things you need to avoid or watch out for when it
comes to a relationship with an Aquarius man? Well, I’ll tell you:
It isn’t that these guys so much mean to make you cry, but the
blatant honesty and the way that he articulates his thoughts can
send chills down your spine and have you rethinking your whole
existence if you get on his bad side.
I guess the answer here is to not get on his bad side, but that isn’t
really a practical goal. We’re all human, we all make mistakes,
just keep in mind that some mistakes can’t be unmade and if you
cross him, he will come at you full force and he results of this can
be quite hurtful.
Now, it would take a lot to get him to engage in activities that are
centered around revenge and wasting his time on a cause that is
not beneficial in some way to his cause, whatever that may be at
the time. However, if you end up tangled up with him in some
manner that winds up with hatred on both sides, or something ex-
treme like that, he will go all out and he will do so in ways you
would have never even considered.
It is hard to get into the headspace of the Aquarian man and his
aloof tendencies can make you feel like he just genuinely doesn't
care whether you exist or not. This can be disheartening if you
have been on the track of thinking that things were going well. All
of the sudden you just may not hear fro him for days or weeks,
even.
The odds are he does still care, if he cared at all to begin with, but
when you go from full on talking every day to nothing it can make
you question what is wrong with you. The answer to that is noth-
ing—Nothing is wrong with you if he stops calling or texting, so
don’t let yourself fall into the way of thinking that you aren’t worthy
of his attention or something equally negative. He can still be in-
terested in you, but much like someone who has ADD, he is very
easily distracted.
It can be more than just a little bit difficult to tell when that Aquari-
an guy is into you. This can be frustrating and can sometimes
even make you feel like you should just give up and move on to a
different Zodiac sign for partnership. Don’t give up so easily. The
ways that Aquarian men show they have feelings for you can ac-
tually be pretty easily decoded if you know what you are looking
for.
Many Aquarian men are the type who will become something re-
sembling an engineer in the professional world. Not to say that
they are all engineers, not by a long shot. Aquarians are the
thinkers of the world, the dreamers, the inventors and the so-
called quacks.
If he comes to you for advice and actually takes what you say to
heart you will know that he trusts and values what you have to
say. Now, it isn’t that it is such a big feat for an Aquarian to ask for
advice, in fact, he likes to get the standpoint of others. Typically
this is so that he can either make the best possible judgement, or
simply because he wants to better understand how your mind
Aside from sharing knowledge with you, bringing you weird gifts
and valuing your opinions, if you reach a point where he makes
the effort to share his emotional side with you, you will know that
he is smitten with you. By now it comes as no surprise to you that
gaining the level of trust with an Aquarian that is required to get
him to be emotional is a pretty big deal.
He exists in a different plane than those who live with their hearts
on there sleeve. If he runs into a situation that brings out the emo-
tions full force and you are who he comes to, he is into you on a
level that warrants the closeness of a relationship. He doesn’t
easily let his guard down, so in doing so he is showing you that
you are someone he can be emotional with, and that is a pretty
big deal.
You see, the Aquarian man is a weird mix of self confidence and
also insecurity that lies deep within. He is strong and fierce, yet on
the inside he has emotions just like the rest of us. The key here is
getting to the point to where he is comfortable sharing this side of
himself with you. The side of him that goes beyond friendship and
into the realm of love will to come out in the first few days of
knowing him, but with time and when you know what to look for,
If you want to get to the heart of an Aquarian man you have got to
stand for something. It is kind of like that old saying that if you
don’t stand for something you will fall for anything, this is how his
mind thinks. He knows where he stands on just about every topic,
and if he doesn’t yet know he is carefully contemplating the right
choice. He uses his mind and is confident in stating his opinions,
even if others don’t agree with him. If you let yourself be easily
swayed from your points of view just because you think it will ap-
Keep up with the changing times but have respect for the wisdom
of some of the old ways of thinking. Finding that middle ground
between moving forward and considering the thoughts and ideas
of those before you can sometimes be difficult, but if you can
maser this you will gain a level of respect with him that is integral
to relationship development.
There are many articles out there that espouse there are strictly
compatible and strictly incompatible Sun signs. This is wildly inac-
curate, as there is really no such things as two signs that just
don’t stand a chance based solely on their Sun placement in their
natal charts.
While those articles are helpful, and even fun to read, there are
many elements of one’s chart that help to determine the level of
compatibility that stands between two people. Yes, there are
things about certain signs that make them more compatible right
off the bat, but if someone tells you that you couldn’t possibly
make it work with someone all based upon their Sun sign you
need to move on and talk to someone who is a bit more educated
on the topic of zodiac compatibility.
That being said, some relationships definitely take more effort and
understanding than others to make things work. That’s one of the
great things about astrology, though, is that you can pretty much
read the two charts, or have them read for you, and figure out
where your strong and weak points are in any given relationship.
Beyond just looking at a natal chart, there are also what we call
synastry charts where you basically overlay your chart and that of
your partner and look at how your planets all work together. This
acts as a sort of roadmap for relationships and is a very handy
tool to have at your disposal! We can get more into this later.
Many people believe that signs with like elements work best to-
gether, and on a superficial level this can be true. In other words,
Earth signs with Earth signs-Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn. Air
signs with Air signs-Gemini, Libra and Aquarius. Water signs with
The reason these like minded signs work well together is that,
generally speaking, they operate fundamentally on the same
wavelength. For instance, a Gemini and an Aquarius will automat-
ically have in common that they are more cerebral in their ap-
proach to life and relationships, making their conversations flow
rather easily. This in no way means that someone who is a Virgo
can’t have great conversations and develop an amazing relation-
ship with an Aquarius, though. Really, it all boils down to how your
planets interact, as well as your personalities, of course!
Before you get into a full compatibility reading, your astrologer will
want to gain a good sense of how you operate and what makes
you tick by fully exploring your own natal chart first. After all, be-
fore you can ever even begin to understand someone else or how
you will be able to relate to this other person you’ve got to first
understand yourself. Astrology can help you to learn things about
Once you’ve gone through your own chart and have an under-
standing of what all of your planets and aspects mean it’s time to
see how well your chart meshes with that of your partner. To ac-
curately complete compatibility charts it is always best to have
each person’s full birth information, to include the time of birth.
The reason being that only with the time of birth included can the
houses of one’s chart be determined. This plays a pretty impor-
tant role in seeing where two people connect. Aspects between
planets and sign/element placement can show how you relate to a
partner, but having that added information of where adds depth to
your compatibility reading, which is pretty important.
I definitely recommend that all couples, whether they are just get-
ting into a relationship or have been married for fifty years, have
compatibility charts drawn up. You’d be amazed at the things you
can learn from your partners planetary placements. If you think of
all these charts as roadmaps for life, the compatibility charts offer
you the chance to decode your partner and figure out how to be
the best partner you can be in the relationship. It can be a real
help, too, for those times when things get rocky and you just don’t
know how to handle problems that arise.
We won’t get too much deeper into compatibility charts and all
that, not in this book anyway. For now, let’s take a look at the ba-
sics of Sun sign compatibility to help you relate to and wow your
Aquarius man.
There can be some frustration found with this match, however, but
this is true of all relationships, now isn’t it?
As an Aries, you have a lot of drive and passion for all that you
do. You are high energy and want to get things done right now.
Aquarius is also pretty high energy, but can spend long moments
deep in contemplation of things that your Aries and just can’t wrap
around why anyone would stop moving for such an extended pe-
riod to just sit and think. The thing is, Aquarius is all about forward
movement, he’s just a bit more detached than you are when it
comes to putting things into motion.
One huge thing that you and your Aquarius have in common is
determination to get what you want out of life. Both of you are dy-
namic in your actions and your approach to life, both can see the
future and have no problem reaching for the stars because you
each believe firmly that you will actually be able to grab a handful
of them. The difference in your approach to life, though, is that
your Aries personality will jump into a new situation and totally
commit yourself to this—whatever it takes, you will succeed.
Aquarius, on the other hand, is rather squeamish about that whole
commitment thing and, while he will work tirelessly to reach his
goals, he will do so in a more detached manner.
The tricky part to this relationship is really just making it work for
the long term. Neither Aries nor Aquarius are great when it comes
to compromise. Aquarians are more likely to be the ones heading
a protest about war, while Aries will be the General leading the
troops into battle. If you can make it work with an Aquarius man,
you could potentially rule the world, just so long as you don’t set
each other aflame in the process. It bears mentioning that when
Mars and Uranus meet up in the skies something notable and ex-
plosive almost always happens out of the blue, although it isn’t
always positive. Hiroshima occurred under the influence of a
Mars-Uranus conjunction, if that tells you anything of how these
two energies tend to mix.
When it comes down to sex, things can get quite exhilarating with
an Aquarius man. You both crave new experiences and excite-
ment, and you both want for the other person to be as into it as
you are. You will probably be the one to dominate the situation,
but your Aquarius man will have plenty to add between the
sheets. Your Aries personality, being ruled by Mars and your
Aquarius man, ruled by Uranus, may actually shock yourselves
with how many sparks will fly once you get going. The combina-
tion of passion and the element of surprise has all the makings for
Not many will look at the combination of Taurus and Aquarius and
see a match made in heaven. In fact, these two signs are just
about as different as you could get. Taurus is a particularly earthy
Earth sign, while Aquarius, well, here you have one of the airiest
of the Air signs. Both of you are stubborn as can be, and both
looking at the world through completely different lenses. If you are
a Taurus and have your sights set on an Aquarian man, you cer-
tainly have your work cut out for you.
There are several things that these two signs have in common,
with loyalty to a friend, partner, or a cause being at the top of the
list. Both are fixed signs, which we learned earlier related to their
more stubborn side, and neither will be willing to move an inch
when it comes to making a stance for something that they believe
in. The all sounds pretty good so far, but there is a lot more to
these two Zodiac signs when it comes to romantic compatibility
than just loyalty and refusal to give up on making their dreams
come true.
You like to spend time at home, this is your safe haven and where
you place all of the treasures collected throughout life. Aquarius
likes to feel able to roam free and not be tied down. For these
reasons, you will often be left feeling like you are always waiting
at home for your Aquarius man to return. The feeling of being
constrained to just one spot can be overwhelming for Aquarius
and, although he is fiercely loyal, he may decide to bail if things
get too humdrum in your day to day life together. Aquarius values
freedom above all else and would rather lose a relationship that
lose their sense of independence and personal freedoms.
Now, the Aquarian man will pique your interest, no doubt of that.
He is intelligent, witty, and someone who has great plans for the
future. He may not know exactly where he is going, but he does
know that he will get there. This is very admirable and his foot-
loose and fancy free approach to life is something you find your-
self in envy of.
You don’t envy this for too long, though, as once you realize how
far out there he can get you start to reel it in a bit and reevaluate
whether or not you are really equipped for his quixotic and rebel-
lious adventures that will probably take place far from the com-
forts of your home base. If you are able to get past your differ-
ences and settle on a common relationship goal, your respective
tenacity can make for something like a super power-couple. Also,
when it comes to fun between the sheets, your sultry side and his
adventuresome side can make for some exciting rendezvous. You
may be a little put off by some of the things he proposes, but if
you are willing to give it a try you just might be in for the night, or
nights, of your life!
If you have ever been close with an Aquarian man then you know
that he doesn’t easily back down from anything if he believes
strongly enough in the cause. Being the Gemini in this equation
you may find yourself at odds with one another when the Gemini
tendency to change your mind gets in the way of standing your
ground in a joint effort.
Honestly, when you, the Gemini, link up with an Aquarian guy, you
can expect to be able to finally settle down in an unsettled and
unconventional way. You won’t find yourself settling down quickly
and building a white picket fence kind of life, but you do stand a
chance of building a long lasting and ever-rewarding relationship.
One thing that stands true when you couple yourself with an
Aquarian is that you can actually make the whole long distance
relationship thing work better than almost any other couple out
Now, I know you are wondering how the sex is if the other parts of
this love match are so great. Let me tell you-It can be amazing!
You like to try new things and your Aquarius man will never dis-
appoint when it comes to excitement between the sheets. You can
open his eyes to fresh ideas and he…well, he will open your eyes
to inventive ways to get down and dirty. Overall, this just might be
a match made in heaven.
As a Cancer, you want to care for and settle down with someone
you can build a nice stable life with. Aquarian guys aren't really all
that into the idea of settling down, so this can present a bit of a
problem when it comes to creating a long lasting relationship. The
problem here is that, being a Cancer, you tend to put yourself out
there emotionally and you need your partner to reciprocate. With
an Aquarian this isn’t impossible, but it will require a little work.
While you are busy worrying about what is happening in the lives
of your closest family members, your Aquarian counterpart is busy
worrying with the current state of humanity as a whole. Now, your
Aquarian will have a great appreciation of how much you genuine-
ly care for others. Even though, as a Cancer, you tend to be a lit-
tle on the shy, quiet side, your Aquarius man will be intrigued by
your ability to intuitively connect with others.
When you mix Air and Fire signs things tend to get hot very quick-
ly. Fire needs Air to live and to grow and Air can help the Fire to
spread and reach new horizons. Both Aquarius and Leo are
fiercely loyal and would never intentionally do anything to hurt the
other. Theses are signs that are what we call polarities, though,
and although this can help to add balance to the relationship, it
can also add tension to the union.
As a Leo you are incredibly creative and also very warm and lov-
ing and Aquarians are drawn to your charm and fierce determina-
tion to make things happen. You see, Aquarius is just full of inno-
vative ideas and loves to make plans and you have the ability to
bring these plans into fruition. For this reason, and many others,
the relationship between Aquarius and Leo can be very fruitful
and mutually beneficial.
Where these two signs don’t see eye-to-eye so much is when Leo
gets to acting TOO regal. Aquarius has great admiration for Leo’s
charming ways, I mean, who isn’t charmed by you Leo types? But
charm sometimes turns into arrogance on the part of Leo and this
is where Aquarius can get a little turned off by the relationship. If
the Leo in this relationship gets too demanding, as you royalty
type lions tend to do from time to time, Aquarius may decide to
head for the hills. It isn’t because the Aquarian man doesn’t care,
but because he doesn’t understand the lion’s way of thinking
here.
In the bedroom things can get rather kinky and you will both abso-
lutely love it! The Aquarius man likes to experiment and you love
to be in the spotlight. Sex with the lights on is something that nei-
ther of you will back away from and you both are into trying new
things between the sheets. With your powers of intellect and intu-
ition combined, along with the Leo’s propensity toward making
things happen, the two of you could very well rule the world and
have a tremendous time doing so.
With Aquarius and Virgo we find these two to have a lot in com-
mon, but there are some elements of this match that could make
for a deal breaker when it comes to building a lasting romance.
Honestly,, here it will depend a lot on the other elements in the
natal and synastry charts of this pair to really know which way
things will go. Virgo seeks out stability and someone who can be
relied upon for day to day things, as well as the big-deal aspects
of life.
As a Virgo you are unique in your Earthy nature. You are one of
the more intellectual signs, being ruled by Mercury, and if there is
one quality that an Aquarian man looks for in a mate it is intellect
You need stability in life and to be able to plan for the future, both
long term and immediate. I mean, you plan for what time you eat
dinner, take a shower, and probably even what time you will check
the mail. Aquarius, although also a very analytical sign, tends to
plan for more grandiose things. Virgo is a rule follower, Aquarius
is a rebel with little regard for those rules that he finds to be su-
perfluous and routines can be seen as a hinderance to progress.
The potential for friction in your day to day lives is definitely there,
but you can work through the things that irk you about one anoth-
er. For you, this means letting loose and for the Aquarian man this
means he may have to buckle down a bit and live in reality, at
least from time to time. You fascinate one another, though, and
the initial spark will be there. If you are a Virgo who absolutely
Aquarius and Libra are each Air signs and for this reason will al-
most automatically get along and be able to relate to one another
right off the bat. Where things can get hairy is with the difference
in your approach to relationships. As a Libra you need to have a
partnership, you need a mate, probably more so than any of the
other signs. Aquarius, being the independent type who could take
it or leave it when it comes to getting super involved in a real rela-
tionship can get bogged down with the co-dependency issues that
pop up with this pair.
There are many elements of this relationship match that are great,
so please don’t get me wrong talking about all of the co-depen-
dency issues that may arise. The thing is, once the Aquarius man
offers love and the reassurance that you need things can go
tremendously well. You both have the need to be socially active
and Libra isn’t typically the jealous type, so with you the Aquarius
man gets freedom to socialize and generally do his thing and you
both equally enjoy the social scene. Libra may enjoy it a bit more
than Aquarius, but together you make a great team. As friends
you can be the ultimate wing-man for each other.
Libra has this innate ability to solve problems with diplomacy and
to keep the peace. This allows Libra to work through the more
stubborn side of Aquarius. Arguments between these two are few
and far between, just the way you both like it.
It will take some work and a lot of give and take, but if your Aquar-
ius man can offer the commitment and emotional stability that you
definitely need and if you can allow him his personal freedom
without needing to know where he is and what he is doing then
you could create a pretty powerful bond. Without each of your ex-
pectations for the relationship outlined in the beginning, though,
you should keep looking for a partner that is more suitable to your
needs.
The sex will be pretty amazing. Scorpio is the more erotic and
sexually explorative and will treat the Aquarian man to a night he
will not soon forget. In this instance, Aquarius may actually be the
one who is shocked or surprised by what his partner brings to the
bedroom. You know how Aquarius likes to explore and try new
things, so this romp in the sack will be erotic and amazing.
The hitch comes after the post-coital bliss when Scorpio expects
for Aquarius to stick around. That’s when the intensely jealous
and possessive nature of Scorpio is unleashed. Overall, this could
be an interesting fling, as long as Scorpio knows that it is just a
fling, but the success rates are nothing to write home about be-
tween Aquarius and Scorpio.
You and to look at life through the same proverbial lens as the
Aquarian man, which makes the initial connection rather easy to
solidify. You, being a Sagittarius, thirst for knowledge and you val-
ue justice and doing the “right thing” above all else. You’ve both
got that wanderlust that makes it impossible to settle down into
one spot for too terribly long and you seem to both understand
and appreciate this about your mate.
Eventually you will settle down together and build a life, but this is
a situation where long distance relationships can actually stand a
chance. There is the possibility of infidelity, but this is largely be-
cause neither of you really lay any guidelines for what you expect
of the other person. You are comfortable enough within yourself to
allow each other to sow those wild oats before you would ever
expect one another to do anything crazy like buy a house and get
a boring 9-5 job.
In the Aquarius man you find a fellow visionary. You never cease
to amaze one another and you offer one another a great deal of
support. You relate to one another on unintellectual level and love
just sort of grows throughout time. There isn’t a whole lot of stabil-
ity here at first, but as long as neither of you are seeking some-
thing stable then neither of you will be disappointed.
Aquarius is all about the latest and greatest, the things that are
cutting edge, unique and anything that breaks the mold. Capricorn
is thought of as being more traditional and cautious. I know, I
You are both very strong willed, but the Aquarius man just can’t
seem to satisfy the Capricorn need to create stability and just
slow down for a minute, or a lifetime. You see the way that Aquar-
ius acts and you just can’t seem to wrap your head around him.
You just don’t get it—How can he be so frivolous and carefree
and not worry with creating a cushion of material security? But
this intrigues you and you don’t quite understand that either. Con-
versely, the Aquarius man is a little bit amazed at your ability to
complete tasks and make it look so effortless. There’s a lot that
you can learn from one another if you both just take the time to
listen and pay attention.
What you get when you couple one Uranian mind with another is
a couple of weirdos who really make a great match. With this
Aquarian/Aquarian combo things will always be interesting and
unusual and neither partner will ever feel they are completely
misunderstood. The most important part of this relationship is that
strong foundation of friendship that will undeniably be there if two
Aquarians decide to give romance a chance with one another.
You Aquarians are the dreamers and the innovators of the world.
You love to be social and to feel like you are making a difference
in the way the world thinks or operates. You make wonderful part-
ners for one another, period. With this being the case it does
stand to question why all Aquarians don't just hook up with like
signs and be done with it. Well we all know love isn’t as simple as
that, but if you do get the chance to get with a fellow Aquarian,
give it a try at least. You’ll be happy you did.
Worst case scenario here is that the relationship fizzles out and
you are left with a long standing close friendship with someone
just as quirky and brilliant as you. Really, this is a win-win. Sexual-
ly speaking, two Aquarians can have an absolute blast. Seriously
though, there may be fireworks involved, so come prepared. It
may even become something of a contest to see who can come
up with the most weirdly erotic scenario out of the two of you.
Trust me, it will be amazing and you will enjoy every kinky little
moment you share between the sheets, or in the park, or on a
train. You see where I’m going with this.
Now, don’t get me wrong, there can be instances in which the wa-
ters get a little stormy for this pair. Pisces naturally leans toward
co-dependent relationships, which is something that Aquarius is
basically allergic to. This can put a lot of strain on the relationship
if you aren’t careful. The remedy is to simply not fall into that pit of
needing and demanding something of the Aquarius man that is
simply not there. Let him be him and he will let you be you, you
can meet somewhere in the middle and things can be just mar-
velous.
One of the biggest positives for this union, and honestly a huge
part of what keeps Pisces and Aquarius together, is the way that
Pisces is able to soften the tougher edges of the Aquarian man.
Neptune is a dreamy, creative, caring kind of planetary energy
By now you know just about all there is to know about the Aquar-
ius man and how to attract him. We’ve gone over compatibility
and how Aquarius relates to each of the Zodiac signs and we’ve
looked at what to do vs what not to do if you want to find yourself
on a hot date with a sexy Aquarian man. Now, let’s take a look at
how you can build a relationship with an Aquarian man that can
stand the test of time.
This can be a bit tricky, all things considered. Aquarian men give
off this energy that is so independent and aloof that you may think
he will never settle down for the long term, but it is possible. In
fact, it is very possible as long as you know what you are doing.
And, of course, as long as the emotional and spiritual connection
is there between the two of you.
As I’ve stated earlier in this book, the Aquarian man will connect
with you on an intellectual level before he will ever connect with
you on a physical level. If you want to make this relationship
something that will last forever you’ve got to respect this fact in
It is so very important that you always show him that you are still,
and always will be, friends. Look at it this way—When you are in a
romantic relationship you are going to have arguments, it is just
human nature. If you are sitting there and at him and you have
nothing to fall back on, as far as remembering why you value him
so much as a partner AND a best friend, it makes getting past the
hurts that go along with arguments all that much more difficult.
He needs to know that you will always be there for him and he will
always be there for you as a lover and a friend. You can have the
friendship without the love but you can’t have it the other way
around with an Aquarian man. Truly, this is an awesome quality in
a relationship. I can guarantee you that if more people worked to
maintain friendships with their lifelong partners, divorce rates
would drop significantly.
Aquarians as Parents
Aquarians make the kind of parents who are a little bit different
from the other parents. They are up to date on the current slang
kids are using, they take a real interest in their children's lives and
they care oh-so deeply for their offspring and would do anything
to protect them from harm. Where things can get a little shaken
up is when Uranus transits come through and wreak havoc.
The family home where you live with your Aquarius man and your
children will very likely become the “it” house where all the kids
like to hang out. This comes as no surprise when you consider
how much Aquarians enjoy the company of those they care for,
and even those they don’t particularly care for. This can be very
One important thing to point out is that often times Aquarian par-
ents treat their children more as equals rather than as children. It
is important to establish your roles early on and provide rules and
some structure for the kids to adhere to. Respect is an all-impor-
tant element in the parent-child relationship and you may have to
reel your Aquarian man in from time to time and remind him that
he is the parent and they are the children.
Sure, it can be difficult to deal with his avant garde ways of ap-
proaching life sometimes. This is especially true when you are
feeling that the situation is being handled in a manner that is just
too unorthodox and perhaps requires a more traditional approach.
Have faith that there is a method to his madness and more often
than not you will see the desired end result come to fruition.
I wish you all the very best in life and love, and I always love to
hear from my readers, so please, never hesitate to be in touch if
you’ve got questions about things we didn’t cover.
Now, what are you waiting for? Get out there and create the rela-
tionship you’ve always dreamt of with your Aquarius man!
P.S. Hey, I'd absolutely love to hear from you! If you've got any
questions or need some extra help with your specific situation,
feel free to email me directly at [email protected] and I'll
be happy to help you out as soon as I grab some time. For tech-