Breach of Contract Marriage
Breach of Contract Marriage
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This article is for general informational purposes only and is not meant to be used or
construed as legal advice in any manner whatsoever. All articles have been scrutinized by a
practicing lawyer to ensure accuracy.
You’re engaged to the love of your life. The wedding ceremony is set, invitations have been
sent, and you’ve even paid the down payment for your new home. But one day, your spouse-
to-be breaks it off with no apparent reason.
You’re heartbroken and confused. And after reality sinks in, you need a solution for the hefty
sum you’ve already spent on the marriage that isn’t going to happen. Can you sue your ex-
fiance for the money?
The answer depends whether you formed a contract when you promised to marry each other.
And one essential ingredient of contracts is your intention to be bound by law. Of course,
most people don't follow up the "I do" with a "Yay, now please sign this contract!". So, in
absence of a written contract that's been signed by you and your (now) ex-fiancee, how does
the law decide if you both had such an intention?
This will take some time to explain, so if you're looking for a quick answer to the marriage
question, scroll right down to the second-last paragraph. Otherwise, let's talk presumptions!
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Yep, the law can be a bit of an ass. Credit: eagleonline.com
In Malaysian law, we recognize that usually formal documents show an obvious intention,
and it’s difficult to enforce promises made in casual conversation due to a lack of
documented proof. However, we’ll later see that there are exceptions to these rules. There are
always exceptions
But let's start off with how presumptions work in these two general rules....
Whenever you perform a transaction, the law presumes you intend to form a contract. After
all, buying and selling is really just promising money in exchange for goods and/or services!
It’s obvious but worth mentioning: when merchants make business transactions in huge
amounts of money and goods, the law must enforce these agreements or we’d be in a whole
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lot of trouble when Ah Beng one day decides to run off with our goods instead of delivering
it.
In an old case law, Carlill v Carbolic Smoke Ball Co, the Carbolic Smoke Ball Company
made a “smoke ball” that they claimed would cure the flu. They had so much confidence in
their product that they promised £100 (a lot of money at the time) to whomever caught the flu
after using the smoke ball. Ms. Carlill had been using the smoke ball for a few months, but
still contracted the flu. No prizes guessing that the company refused to pay her any money.
The test used in court was "how would an ordinary person understand this". Have a look at
Carbolic Smoke Ball Co's advert yourself!
Read plainly, these are promises made to people to convince them that the company is
trustworthy and has a good product. Needless to say, the Court of Appeal decided the £1000
the company set aside for the rewards showed enough sincerity to be bound by law.
With family and friends, the law assumes that we don’t intend to involve legal consequences.
In yet another old case of Balfour v Balfour, a husband promised to give his wife a monthly
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allowance while his government post abroad kept them apart. Later, after they separated
permanently, the husband stopped paying and the wife sued for the allowance.
The Court ruled that in favor of the husband because there are promises in social contexts
(even those involving money) which do not form contracts, for example: agreeing to take a
walk together. The most important factor is again, whether both parties intended to be bound
by law.
We’ve stuck with this presumption for a century because well, it would be weird if the law
controlled parts of our private lives. Imagine a lawyer pressuring mum to buy Little Marcus
that toy she promised, or suddenly being called to court for the dishes you didn’t wash...
Yeah.
Some of us have run into situations where we’re a “special case” that doesn’t fall within the
system. And while the presumption of binding law is helpful in most commercial situations,
businesses also require the freedom to create non-binding promises, like Memorandums of
Understanding (MoUs). In business, sometimes you don’t know if that deal with your client
will be signed (yet), or you might not want to tie yourself down to one supplier for 5 years. In
Ayer Hitam Tin Dredging Malaysia Bhd v YC Chin Enterprises Sdn Bhd, it was explained
that:
After a relationship goes wrong, we’re not sure if we can still trust the other person to honour
promises. The law is very understanding of this, and will enforce agreements made when
parties are not on good terms with each other. In the case of Merritt v Merritt, a couple going
through a divorce agreed that the wife would take their matrimonial home if she paid off the
rest of their mortgage. She made the payment, but the husband refused to give her the house.
It was decided that because they were a divorcing couple, they would want everything cut
and dried, and wouldn’t rely on honourable understandings. So the court decided that a
binding contract was indeed created.
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Exception 3: Believing in empty promises
Say you’ve agreed to sell your house to your friend because he said you could rent a room at
his place, and after your house is sold, your friend tells you that he can’t rent you a room
anymore. This kind of arrangement could be merely a friendly agreement, but is also
commonly carried out as business contracts.
You’ve made a decision that relies heavily on your friend keeping his promise, to your loss.
The law can step in here to protect you. However, if you went to buy a particular company’s
shares because your uncle told you “the price can fly soon” though, you’re on your own; the
law doesn’t protect reliance on baseless talk.
Sometimes we say things we don’t mean, like your friend swearing he'll give his car away if
Annie would arrive on time for once. The amusing case of Weeks v Tybald had a father
advertising a promise of £100 (this was in the year 1605, so it’s big money) to the person
who would woo his daughter and marry her - with his consent, of course. The eventual suitor
later sued for the promised amount, but the court ruled against him with the reasoning that the
promise was not directed to anyone in particular and was therefore not legally binding. Here's
the ruling in 17th Century English:
"It is not aver'd nor declar'd to whom the words were spoken, and it is not reason that
the defendant should be bound by such general words spoken to excite suitors."
Even when a promise so precise was made it was not considered a contract because this was
the kind of statement that we don't seriously mean - it’s just a figure of speech or a joke.
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So... can you sue someone who promised to marry you?
Now that you know some of the conditions under which the law will protect your promises,
the quick answer is - Yes, you can.
It's all dependent on the facts surrounding the case; and factors like perspective, intention,
and the order of events can all affect the outcome. Yet, cases have happened in Malaysia,
such as Doris Rodrigues v Bala Krishnan; where Doris sued Bala for breach of promise to
marry after Bala married someone else despite the fact that Doris lived with him as husband
and wife for several years.
Compensation for hurt feelings, ruined reputation, and marriage costs have also been given in
the past. The court can also award compensation to punish the promise-breaker almost
entirely at their discretion (see Dennis v Sennyah and Tan Siew Hoon v Lee Lap Shun).
But still, seek advice from a trained lawyer who can help you reach a settlement.
To conclude with a common example: your friend wants to borrow a lot of money from you.
Whether or not you trust her, it would be best to put it in writing if it’s important enough to
iron out the details. Also, even when the law is on your side, the practical measure is to settle
the matter outside of court, and to be prepared with alternative solutions like holding your
friend’s car as security in your agreement. Legal fees are expensive, and court proceedings
can take months to settle. Tread wisely!
Remember: the protection from contracts is not for when everything is fine, they’re for
if things go downhill!
P.S: If you're interested to find out what happened in the case laws, they usually require a
subscription for online access. We managed to find a few sources for you as linked above, as
well as this article which explains a few cases on the intention to contract.