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Cue 1: Time: Bad Habits Are Replaced, Not Eliminated
Cue 1: Time: Bad Habits Are Replaced, Not Eliminated
Time is perhaps the most common way to trigger a new habit. Common
morning habits are just one example. Waking up in the morning usually
triggers a cascade of habits: go to the bathroom, take a shower, brush
your teeth, get dressed, make a cup of coffee, etc.
There are also less commonly recognized ways that time triggers our
behavior. For example, if you pay attention you may notice that you
repeat certain tasks mindlessly at different points during the day:
heading off to get a snack at the same time each afternoon, taking a
smoking break at the same time each morning, and so on.
If these patterns are bad habits, then you may want to take stock of how
you feel at this time of day. In many cases, your habits are a signal of
how you feel. Bored? Maybe your afternoon snacking habit is a way of
breaking up the monotony of the day. Feeling lonely? Maybe your
smoking break is a way to connect with fellow co-workers. The point is,
if you understand the reason why these habits pop up at the same time
each day, then it can become easier to find a new habit to fill the
void. Bad habits are replaced, not eliminated.
How I use it: Time-based cues can also be used to stick with routines
over and over again. This is my preferred method. For example, every
Monday and Thursday I write a new article and post it on
JamesClear.com. The time and date drive this pattern. It doesn’t matter
how good or how bad I feel about the article. It doesn’t matter how long
or how short the article is. All that matters is that I stick to the schedule.
The time triggers the habit loop.
Cue 2: Location
If you have ever walked into your kitchen, seen a plate of cookies on the
counter, and eaten them just because they are there in front of you, then
you understand the power of location on our behavior.
However, location-based cues are not simply things we respond to, they
can also be things we create. Multiple research studies by David Neal
and Wendy Wood from Duke University have discovered that new
habits are actually easier to perform in new locations.
How I use it: When I arrive at the gym, I head to the same spot each
time to get ready, change into my lifting gear, and start my warm up.
This location in the gym is a simple habit cue that helps prompt my pre-
workout routine (more on the power of a pre-game routine). There are
bound to be some days when I don’t feel like exercising, but the
location-based trigger helps me overcome that and get into my workout
ritual as painlessly as possible.
Many habits are a response to something else that happens in your life.
Your phone buzzes, so you pick it up to check your latest text message.
The little notification bar lights up on Facebook, so you click it to see
what it signals. These are examples of habits that are triggered by a
preceding event.
When it comes to cues that are useful for building new habits, I find
preceding events to be one of the most useful. Once you
understand habit stacking you can develop all sorts of ways to tie new
habits into preceding events. (Example: “When I make my morning cup
of coffee, I will meditate for one minute.”)
How I use it: For over two years, I have used a preceding event to stick
with a daily gratitude habit. Each night, when I sit down to eat dinner, I
say one thing that I was grateful for that day. (It’s worth noting, one
reason I believe I have been able to stick with this habit so consistently
is because it is so small. The smaller the habit, the easier it is to build
into your life.)
I like to follow a 3-1-5 breathing pattern: three seconds in, pause for one
second, five seconds out. I’ll usually repeat this sequence three to five
times. I find this little breathing exercise to be a great instant stress
reliever. It’s particularly useful because you can literally do it anywhere.
As far as I can tell, the best way to make use of this information is to
surround yourself with people who have the habits you want to have
yourself. As Jim Rohn says, “You are the average of the five people you
spend the most time with.”
How I use it: I'm not a heavy drinker, but nearly every time I go out
with friends, I get a drink. Why is that? If I'm not yearning for a beer,
why get one? It’s simply a response to the environment that I am in and
the people I am around.