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Becoming A Femme Fatale
Becoming A Femme Fatale
A
Femme
Fatale
How to Be a
Femme Fatale
Contents
Introduction
Phase One: Inner Being
The feminine types
Dark feminine energy
Benefits of the dark feminine
Part one: Say hello to your dark side
Dark femininity + shadow work
questions
Self-reinvention: The femme fatale
persona
The 3 Components of a femme fatale
How to have sex appeal
Part two: Investing in yourself
Mental, emotional and spiritual health
Physical appearance
Sexy and powerful affirmations to use
Affirmations to speed up your
manifestation results
Phase Two: Seduction and
Manipulation
How does the femme fatale treat men?
The three ultimate rules of the femme fatale
Detachment
Step by Step: how to make someone obsessed
with you
The Nine Target Types and how to
conquer them all
What are the main reasons for someone’s
obsession?
Why would you want someone to be
obsessed with you?
The Steps: choosing your target, get their
attention, building a friendship, selling
the fantasy, destroying your prey
Step by step how to heal from a breakup and
how to your ex back
Introduction
For many years of my life, I had never been
called beautiful.
Are you:
• Dependent on others? (friends/partners)
• Experiencing shame and self-doubt?
• Struggling with repressed emotions, desires
and trauma?
• Emotionally unstable (not in control of the
release of your emotions and/or reactive to
external behaviours)?
• Insecure?
• Unable to predict the behaviours of those
around you?
• Wanting the ability to seduce and
manipulate but unable to do so?
• Quick to lose friends and unable to sustain
positive relationships with others without
conflict?
• Struggle to be understood by others?
1. Become a mystery
This will be touched on a little later in the
book but this is an important stage in the
reinvention process. A femme fatale is a
mystery to others. She is difficult to
comprehend, unpredictable and different to
the rest of the herd.
As humans are minds thirst for certainty
and stability. Therefore, when we are met
with something that cannot be fully
gauged, our minds work overtime trying to
figure it out. This is why being a mystery
works – it is one of the things that makes
people obsessed with you and their
imagination begins to run wild.
Lets look at Alexa Demie as an example
again. Part of her widespread admiration
and magnetism lies in what we don’t know
about her. What we’re unsure about. She’s
the perfect example of how ambiguity and
mystery triggers curiosity and obsession.
PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
Although energy, attitude and your aura are
fundamentally the most important traits when
becoming a femme fatale, it would be ridiculous
of me to gloss over the blatant power of pretty
privilege and how this can advantage you in your
seduction process. However, the difference
between this and common knowledge is such: you
don’t have to have a specific look or even
conform to modern beauty standards to be a
powerful and seductive woman. You should aim
to look your best (emphasis on your best). No two
women are the same and comparison is a
complete waste of time. Your focus should be to
enhance your appearance and play on your
features to be more attractive.
1. Acceptance
2. Release
3. Allowance
1. THE GEEK
2. THE INNOCENT
4. THE NARCISSIST
7. THE ROMANTIC
8. THE PLAYER
The Steps
1. Immediately after you get dumped,
cut off all contact from your ex. Do
not text, call or grovel with them.
Act completely content with their
decision and do not show them any
vulnerability. Be mature about
things and if you can, end on a good
note. From this you will begin the no
contact period.