PACT Bootcamp
PACT Bootcamp
As a good negotiator, you have to know the why to the what of the other person
as well as yours.
For a negotiation competition, a judge judges the means to reach the end rather
than the end itself.
Don’t rush to solutions
The crux of every ADR competition is not to react but respond at all times.
Avoiding, compromising, Accommodation, Competing, and Collaborative Style.
(Thomas-Kilmann Test)
Know your style before going to a competition
Figure out other stakeholders and people affected by this situation.
Timing of your approach is also important
Diagnosing the problem is the 1st step.
Practise listening
Make the other person come up with solutions
Empathetic listening thinking
Fixing the relationship between the two parties beyond this deal
Go through the minutes of details of the agreement
Avoiding Techniques
Diagnosing
Interruption
Closed Questions- Does not have a choice to say anything else, to keep people
on the spot, make people defensive.
Solutions
Judging
Getting to Yes by William Yury
Vexatious Virus
Opening statement:
Should not go about talking about the problem in the first 60 seconds. Break
the ice.
Acknowledge the other person
Introduce yourself (about what you are doing and what you are excited
about)
Status of the relationship
What is concerning you about the conflict rather than the facts (summarize)
What you are hoping to achieve in this negotiation
Confirm your authority to settle and the timeline of settlement
If an opening statement shows the intention to settle, it’s very good.
Principles of Mediation:
Clarity
Confidentiality
Voluntariness- Both parties choose their mediator.
Autonomy
Neutrality is also about how you behave during the process.
If you ask too many close-ended questions to one party, it will cast a doubt
on the mediator’s neutrality.
A mediator cannot be called to Court to give testimony. Everything is
confidential, unless explicitly mentioned, it cannot be mentioned in a joint
session.
Parties have to consent to every activity; they undertake from the start till
the end.
The mediator needs to have patience.
Parties are the decision takers; the mediator only helps to take the decision.
Mediator’s Opening:
Introduction about yourself- your expertise, where you are from, and your
credentials (max 10-15 seconds)
“Appreciate for choosing mediation” and not “thank the parties for choosing
mediation”.
Talk about the advantages of mediation.
4 building pillars of mediation, brief them about the procedure- flexibility,
joint session, and single session.
Role of a mediator- what you can expect from me.
Guidelines- not interrupt each other, make notes on your disagreement
Invite the parties to give their own statements
Mediator’s experiences
Emotions (personal)
Authority/Intervention/Informal mediator
Struggling to find the purpose
Negotiation Gap- ZOPA
Too many solutions
Irrational Evaluations
Need for concerns
Give structure