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I am Captain John Martins by name,am from united state of america,am a sea man a
sailor by profession am 57 years of age! I was once married to a woman from Germany
Morrins Reues,am blessed with one son who leaves in the United Kingdom he is 15
years of age, but now am a single dad i divorce my wife 3 years ago for cheating on
me! Right now am in the seashore assigned by the United Nation to deliver vessels
into Spain.
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The world is wonderfully made, it's nice to know about the weather condition over
there.
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I'm Frank Richard, from NYC , United States (USA).. I am an Egineer in the united
states marine corps but presently now in the seashore assigned by the United Nation
to deliver vessels into Spain.
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Well, before I proceed further more I will like to introduce a little biography of
myself to you since I see you as a nice person.
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Talking about myself..., I'm Michael Dubie, from Burlington, Vermont, United States
(USA).. I am a General in the United States army, but presently now in Syria for
peace keeping mission, authorized by the United Nation on the war against
terrorism, as a platform of North Atlantic Treaty Organization (NATO)... Which I
suppose is not new to you.
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How may I address you and where are you from?
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How is the situation of things over there, regards to the economic standard and
security?
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Life is precious and i think nations economy grows as a result of good government
and understanding of the people... What do you think???
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However, I want to ask, have you came across chat communication or encounter chat
with any USA Army and captain via skype here before?
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Oh!I see, So how long have you been using skype for communication with friends and
family?
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Dear, I can see through the way you talk that you are so beautiful nice, honest,
smart with a brave heart of understanding... If I may ask, are you single married
with children?
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Dear, I feel so sad when ever I think about my past life event. But however, I am
looking forward to a better life in future if God will give me another true heart
desire that we can both love and cherish each other forever.
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I am looking for a serious term relationship and nice friend who is honest,
caring,loyal truthful and fun to be with,I need her to be from any part of the
world,someone who is caring and sweet and who love me for who I am and now for what
I have and she will love my son as her own child and we all will be happy together
for a top build big family together.
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I look into the future with hope and would like to create a relationship based on
respect, understanding, trust and love. Seeking a relationship with longevity and
not just something will end in just a blink of an eye.
I have a great sense of humor and can dish it out to make a sad day enjoyable.
Honestly I've all that it takes to be a man, I don't really need anything from my
partner. maybe in terms of circumstances there might some kind of help from each
other, helping to make things right. It's not all that easy meeting that rightful
woman with all those qualities which I'm dreaming off, I love friends and
family...I am a very sincere person who laughs easily, loves to tease and be teased
and who communicates openly and honestly.
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Life is full of joy and great honor when our expectations come true in life, so
tell me, what do you do for a living to overcome economic expenses and to sustain
your family?
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There is a saying that it is difficult to find a prominent personnel as me of high
principles which are responsible online regards to good friendship and business
productivity, tell me your opinion over this?
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Dear, I really wish to let know I'll appreciate us being good friends in a
sincerity honest and trust although we just knew each other, we can always share
ideas and discuss on more better issues as we talk more about ourselves, and as
time goes on there may be something great for us in the future ...What do you say?
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Thanks a lot I can assure you that we will be best of friends that people will envy
you and I,all we need to do is to be sincere in our communication as good
friends... OK
All we need, is to be faithfulness in our communication and jion hands together for
the future to be greater without having Negative thought for each other, or bad
feelings, and we don't have to listen to what others may say.
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Any good friend is who love you,and who you love back,true friend is the person
that will always be there for you when you needs help through the good times and
the bad,and true friend also make you happy when you are sad.
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My dear Friend, can you tell me what are your hobbies interest, life style,
religious believe, culture and plans for future?
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:My friend, You have really made me understand you are a nice and honest friend in
sincerity, I pray the future between us will be brighter as Expected, This is my
email address [email protected] kindly write me your email so that I
can write you more about myself some other time after now.
My friend, I have understand that you are a nice and honest friend in sincerity, I
pray the future between us will be brighter as Expected, This is my email
address.. write me email now to confirm your email on my box
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OK! Thank you very much for you nice and honest chat with me, I really do enjoy
your accompany, However nice to meet you, we will chat more better some other time
again, now I have to go for parade field mission with the parade unit, kindly take
care of your self and family, bye for now
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Calls and cam are not allowed here due to security reasons, It's against the
Militry Law for any Army to use webcam in war zone,since Captain Kelvin Robert
Bruce was killed durring webcam chat with his wife last year.Therefore all our
webcam has been disconnected by the UNSA (United Nation security Agency) The only
cam access we have here are Land line and Radio message communication which is for
our general use only and is being monitored, So all our communications here should
be via email and Skype.
How big is your extended family? What are the holidays like for you and your
family?:
As for my family, I have my parents, one older brother who is married and has an 11
year old son. We rotate among our homes as to where we celebrate holidays. There is
always food, talk, laughter, and often, game playing
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When do you feel most afraid?:
I feel most afraid when my physical safety is threatened - ie: hiking in the
wilderness and fearing a grizzly bear might attack, etc.
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I am hoping to meet someone with whom I want to share the rest of my life - the
good times and the bad
times.
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Does life look good to you right now? .:Describe your current emotional health
Life looks very good to me right now. I have been blessed with a good job,good
health, and a great church. All that is missing is someone to share my life with.
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Describe your spirituality.:
I
have been a Christian since age 10, growing up on a roman catholic
church. I have tried to live as the Lord wants me to live, but
certainly have lots of room to grow, especially in my prayer and bible
reading. My relationship with the Lord could be a lot closer, but most
people that know me would consider me as "religious" and know that I
have pretty conservative values.
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How would you describe your childhood relationship with your mother and/or father?:
Growing
up, I was a very compliant child. I am a firstborn, so my parents were
pretty strict. However, I always respected my parents, doing as they
asked, not talking back or arguing. I was a pretty quiet and sensitive
child. I was and continue to be very close to my mother. Both of my
parents are remarried. I have an ok relationship with my father and my
stepfather. I'm close to them in different ways, but not nearly as
close as to my mother
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Besides love, what one trait have you noticed in couples that have maintained a
successful relationship for many years?:
Communcation is very much apart of it but also acceptance of each others faults and
looking beyond them with much love.
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Describe an interest you have that you would truly hope your partner could share
with you?.:
The sharing of the love of Jesus Christ with others and love of music.
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If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?:
That had more confidence in myself, although I've always accomplished any thing
I've set my mind to do.
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If you could accomplish only one thing during the rest of your life, what would it
be?:
my accomplishment would have to be to live the rest of my life doing what God would
have me to always without waver and to minister to those who have fallen away. I
think it is important to be satisfied with the life that you have and make the most
of it. So the accomplishment would be
appreciating each and every day as a
gift.And the Gift for God because He is One and Only
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Looking back at your life, describe one particular event that you wish you had
handled differently.:
Generally
I find that although we all like to be Monday morning quarterbacks in
reality if we had a chance to turn back the clock for the most part we
would make the same decisions. Every decision whether good or bad
brings us to the place we are today.
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Does life look good to you right now? Describe your current emotional health.:
As
I look around there are so many people with incredibly difficult
burdens to bear I feel thankful for what I have and who I am.
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What interests you the most?:
LIFE
AND BEING ABLE TO HELP OTHERS
OUT NO MATTER WHAT THE NEED,TO BE THERE
WITH A HELPING HAND. REROOF THEIR HOUSE, WORK ON THERE CAR , OR JUST TO
HELP FOLD LAUNDRY. BUT MY HOBBIES ARE ANYTHING OUTDOORS.
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What are you looking for in a relationship partner?
BEING
Honest,open,Caring,Fathfull, Easy Going with a great sence of humer...Also bein
able to help otersout no matter what the need, To be there with a helping
hand well it takes more than love in Relationship
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Describe some personal habits that are important to you.:
PERSONAL HYGENE, PICKING UP AFTER MYSELF. DRESSING FOR THE OCCASSION.
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When do you feel most afraid?:
I
am most afraid when things are beyond
my control and I can do nothing
to stop something from happening. I am a soldier . When things are going
bad, I cannot stop it, or when it may involve me or a loved one, I can
become fearful of the "what if's".
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They say life is about simple pleasures, what is your simplest pleasure, and how
does it make you feel?:
I
have lots of simple pleasures. The lst thing that came to mind probably
won't mean a lot to you, but, I will non the less say it. I love
quilts. I know how to quilt and did get involved at one point in time
with making them. So, when I am not feeling well, under the weather, I
will go and retrieve a quilt, wrap or drape it across me and I have
instant security, peace and a feeling of being taken care of. Another
is planting flowers on a nice sunny day. I put on the gear, head
outside with my new purchase of
flowers and work out a plan in my mind
and dig in. Literally. LOL.... I get a nice feeling of reconnecting
with myself, simular to the quilt feeling and I can think and think and
plant and plant......and think some more ....its a nice warm happy
feeling.
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Tonight you can do anything you want, no penalties, no reprisals, and the cost is
unimportant. What are you going to do?:
Tonight,
tonight...hummm...I am going to get on a plane, head to someplace where
there is an ocean, somewhere I have never been before, have a tour
guide to help me navagate the native land, maybe like Hawaii, and since
the cost is no factor, will reside at the finest prettiest layed out
place with someone to bring me supper, then massage, then tuck me in
with the TV on. I will relax, and be ready for a pampering with nails,
hair and hopefully
attend the fire throwing show tomorrow night if I am
still there. (Silly huh?) By the way, do you have a picture to
post?????? I would like to see you and I have mine posted for
you....Thank you in advance, have a nice evening.....(((SMILE))))
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What do you most like to do on a day off?:
I
love to relax, shopping and sightseeing. Maybe go on a weekend mini
trip or to a sporting event or Christian concert or Church function.
Really it is what we as a couple decide works for us. For instance, you
may like to play golf on Saturday's and I might just putter around the
house cleaning or reading.
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Besides love, what one trait have you noticed in couples that have maintained a
successful relationship for many years?:
Respect for one
another and a high regard for their mate.
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Looking back on your life, of what are you most
proud?:
I
suppose proud is a word that could apply to many events--a friend used
it to show her toddler how pleased she was that he learned to eliminate
bodily wastes into the proper container by saying, "Proud, proud,
proud!" I'm proud of my wonderful daughter and her accomplishments. I'm
proud of a neighborhood where I sold homes to some terrific people who
are managing to bring some security to their families. I'm proud of a
school where I was pleased to be involved in helping with scholarships
for well-deserving students. Personally, I was a scholarship student
with honors in music.
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What is the one dream for your life you most
look forward to having come true?:
JUST TO CONTINUE WAKING UP EVERYDAY WITH A BIG SMILE, AND EVERYDAY BEING HELPFUL TO
AT LEAST ONE PERSON, AND A HINDERANCE TO NO
ONE.
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What do you most like to do on a day off?:
In
the summer it is to go swimming or rather float around in the pool with
a good book to read and a cool drink. I like to play volleyball, read,
visit with family and friends, movies, or dining out.
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If you could accomplish only one thing during the rest of your life, what would it
be?:
Getting in good enough shape to get to the top of one of the fourteeners without
severe injury to myself.
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What do you find
physically attractive? :
Tall,
dark and handsome, of course, but I firmly believe that beauty or
handsomeness comes from the inside, not the outside package, so I do
not believe in judging a person mainly by their physical attributes or
lack thereof. I have a problem with people who say they are only
attracted to "very attractive people" by the world's standards. While
that may be a very honest answer, I think it probably is more telling
about their values. The most outwardly handsome man that I have ever
met was many
years ago and within a half hour, he had offended almost
everyone in the office. It was a good lesson to learn on skin deep only
beauty. Sorry I got on that soapbox.
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What do you like about your body or appearance:
Hmmm...People
say I have beautiful eyes.....So, I guess that they are right. The rest
of me is OK I guess...You know that women are totally critical of
themselves so...it's hard for us to say what we "like" about ourselves..
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Are you doing what you love? If not, what would you rather be doing?:
Yes-
I love my job.... Yes- I love spending time with my child No- Right now
I'm sitting at a computer and typing...I would much rather be with
someone special
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Describe the worst date you've ever been on.:
Sorry- The last "date" I was on was wayyyyyyy long ago.
What is the one dream for your life you most look forward to having come true?:
I
sincerely desire to have a life partner that I can love and be loved
with. (is that a complete sentence?) I think you can see that I am
alluding to a romantic, responsible relationship, not a school girl
type of crush or infatuation. I want someone to laugh and have fun
with, but who is atune and caring about the families we each bring into
the mix. Someone who can share and who is willing to work toward a
successful relationship.
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What are your general feelings about money and personal wealth?:
Hmmmm,
well money is a necessity for basic living expenses and to help people
in need. I consider personal wealth in the wonderful family and friends
I have who have been there for me through good and bad times.!!!! I
would hope that my special Woman would be able to financially support
herself just as I can financially support myself. Money does not make a
relationship, but depending on one salary when both people in the
relationship are able to work and one chooses not to, well I will admit
that I would have a problem with that.
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What do you find physically attractive? :
Physical
attraction is difficult to quantify... probably a mixture of confidence
that
comes through in the way a person carries himself, as well as a
degree of interest in how one presents himself. I like someone who is
as comfortable in a tuxedo as he is dressed to go camping. Fair to say
I don't like mustaches and I can't remember when I've fallen head over
heels for someone with a beard. I could tolerate the unshaven look from
time to time. I don't care if someone is bald or has a head full of
hair. I like a gentleman. I think people feel better when they are
physically fit and clothes fit better. I like it when a man wears
clothes that fit. Show me a man who can cut the rug and I would almost
always step onto the dance floor with him.
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What are your political beliefs?:
I'm
a registered Democrat. I am fiscally conservative and socially liberal.
I believe in being active in public policy -- locally,
nationally, and
internationally. I am drawn to individuals who take stands on policy
issues. I have worked on environmental causes such as smoking bans and
hazardous waste disposal. I am particularly interested in a national
health care plan, believing it should be a priority for America. I am a
strong peace advocate, adamantly opposed to the war in Iraq. I have
campaigned vigorously for campaign finance reform in New York State. I
believe there should be public financing of campaigns.I am opposed to
the death penalty.
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Why did you join eHarmony?:
I
joined eHarmony to maximize my chances of finding a partner who would
like to create a family. At my age this would most likely mean
adoption. I have seriously considered foreign adoption
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What is the most adventuresome thing you've done in the past year?:
I
would have to say graduating with my Bachelor's in early Aug and
jumping into my Master's at the end of Aug and carrying 3 grad classes
and then jumping into a full time teaching position in October with
those three classes...now that's adventurous.
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How
important is it to you that your partner fulfill traditional gender
roles? Would you like a woman who will cook, shop and keep house? Would
you like a man who maintains the cars, manages the finances, and is
handy around the house?:
For the most part those roles are fine with
me but there are also many men that are wonderful cooks and women that
can and often do, handle the finances and are handy around
the house.
It comes down to what you as a couple agree what works for you. It is
part of the adjust and compromise and growing together...not competing.
Following what GOD has planned for you and the succession of authority
He as clearly laid out.
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What do you most like to do on a day off?:
I
love to relax, shopping and sightseeing. Maybe go on a weekend mini
trip or to a sporting event or Christian concert or Church function.
Really it is what we as a couple decide works for us. For instance, you
may like to play golf on Saturday's and I might just putter around the
house cleaning or reading.
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Describe a typical work day in the life of you and your married
partner. Describe a typical play day the same way.:
You
are
funny. These are my own questions. Work day. Get up, maybe
exercise, maybe not. Make a pot of coffee. Discuss the plans for the
day with everyone, maybe watch the news or read the to do list from the
night before. Shower. Get on the computer,work work work, sell sell
sell, run whatever errands need to happen. Talk on the phone about
dinner plans. Get back together at the end of the day, after picking up
my son at school and running him to his sports activities. Have a nice
dinner and watch some TIVO. Go to bed to start it all over again next
day. Play day- get up early, watch the sunrise, maybe do some gardening
or playing in the outdoors, go for a walk, go for a drive, do something
fun or different, or stay home and cuddle. All depends on everyone's
mood and what the menu of opportunities present.
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You
have just come
to the end of a great dinner party with lots of friends.
It was terrific fun. The kitchen is a mess and its late at night. The
garbage can is overflowing. What do you do next?:
If
I'm tired, maybe soak a few dishes to make the work lighter next day. I
really hate waking up to a lot of the previous day's work. I'd be
inclined to try to get it done, HOPEFULLY with a partner to assist.
However, if the partner told me he was going to take care of it for me
the next day, I would HAPPILY go to bed early and not stress about it.
But promises made should be promised kept. If they aren't, I'm out of
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Where do you see yourself and your live in 1 year? in 5 years? What is your view of
retirement and what does that look like?:
I
love where I live right now. On a big hilltop, surrounded by woods and
flowers and wildlife. A
little wild and wooly - I had to buy a Polaris
to do my own snow plowing since the driveway is too scary for most of
those he-man who drive trucks with plows. I look forward to building
two additions to the place where I live - one with more bedrooms and
bathrooms for the 'youngsters' (many of them early 20s and students) to
come and stay - and the other addition a conservatory with large
fireplace. A wonderful all glass room where the fullness of nature's
glory can be enjoyed. Retirement - I plan to stay as active as possible
as long as possible. I don't like the idea of shriveling up in pain or
from inactivity..... Take each day as it comes.
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What is the most adventuresome thing you've done in the past year?:
I
have not done much this past year except to move to NC for three months
then moved back to TN so I did not
have time to go anywhere to do
anything adventturesome.
How big is your extended
family? What are the holidays like for you and your family?:
I
have four children and eleven grandchildren. I spend most of the
holidays with my three children and grandchildren in Tennessee but
travel on Thanksgiving to North Carolina to my youngest daughters.
What is the most spontaneous thing you have ever done?:
After having surgery I drove to Kansas to see my son when he was stationed at Fort
Riley.
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How
important is it to you that your partner fulfill traditional gender
roles? Would you like a woman who will cook, shop and keep house? Would
you like a man who maintains the cars, manages the finances, and is
handy around the house?:
It's nice to have communication and the
ability to step up to what needs to be accomplished
regardless of
gender. But then I don't mind having the door opened for me.
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