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A Qualitative Study On IDENTITY FORMATION
A Qualitative Study On IDENTITY FORMATION
2015
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Meresman, Rebekah M., "I googled. "How do you know you're gay?" : a qualitative study on LGBTQ identity
formation and the Internet /" (2015). Masters Thesis, Smith College, Northampton, MA.
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Rebekah Meresman
I Googled, “How do you know
you’re gay?”: A Qualitative Study on
LGBTQ Identity Formation and the
Internet
ABSTRACT
This qualitative, exploratory study examined the impact of the internet on the identity
formation process of LGBTQ individuals. This study aimed to answer the question: How and
why do some LGBTQ-identified adults use the internet as a tool to formulate their sexual/gender
identity? Through an anonymous online survey, LGBTQ identified participants were asked
several open-ended questions about their identity formation experiences, and the role of the
Fifty individuals participated in the study, from a wide range of sexual and gender
participants, most indicated that the internet was helpful in their identity formation, citing social
media, blogs, and e-mail communication as the most commonly used platforms. Participants
described the internet as useful for combatting isolation, experimenting and exploring, seeking
out information, learning new conceptualizations of identity, and increased authenticity and
intimacy. Negative experiences online were also discussed. The research indicated that clinicians
working with LGBTQ and questioning clients should bring online efforts into the therapeutic
space, and assist clients in managing the risks and benefits of internet use. Areas for further
Rebekah Meresman
2015
This thesis could not have been accomplished without the assistance of many people whose
contributions are gratefully acknowledged.
I wish to thank: Al for the puppy, Badboy for the cheerleading, the class president and her
Avery for their bi-coastal love, my dad for his calculations, the Fun Uncle house for the
cupcakes, Narviar for her infectious positive attitude, and all the queers and allies at Smith and at
home for their undying love and idealism in a difficult world. And, lastly, thank you to all the
anonymous participants online without whom this thesis could not exist.
Thanks, internet!
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS .................................................................................. ii
CHAPTER
I. INTRODUCTION ...................................................................................... 1
REFERENCES ................................................................................................... 52
APPENDICES
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LIST OF FIGURES
Figure Page
3. Socio-economic Status at
Time of Identity Formation ....................................................................... 28
4. Geographical Situation at
Time of Identity Formation ....................................................................... 29
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CHAPTER I
Introduction
I’m looking to connect dykes who love the net: girls who use their computers for work,
rest and play. Tell me what you love and what you hate about the net, let me into your
most intimate moments with your computer. Do you think the net is changing the ideas of
what it is to be a dyke? Are we blazing trails for the future, or are we just a sad bunch of
lesbo-geeks?
These questions were asked in 1994 when the internet was still a slow, text-based, and expensive
way to connect to anonymous strangers whose faces you would likely never see. I came across
this passage while reading an online blog in Autostraddle.com on a chapter in a book by Lisa
Haskell entitled “cyberdykes: tales from the internet” (1996). While many may now take the
internet for granted, with blogs a more common reading material than a paper book and with the
term “cyberdyke” confusingly obsolete, professionals still use the same theories of identity
formation and identity creation that were authored in the seemingly distant pre-internet time. The
current research sets out to answer Lisa Haskell’s question sent over a primitive internet in 1994,
were these cyberdykes “blazing trails for the future”? The purpose of this study is to investigate
use of the internet in the identity formation process of LGBTQ-identified people. Specifically,
how and why do some LGBTQ-identified adults use the internet as a tool to formulate their
sexual/gender identity?
The internet was first available to the public in 1982, but its widespread use did not gain
popularity until the 1990’s (DiMaggio, Hargitaii, Neuman & Robinson, 2001). Currently, 95% of
teens use the internet (Zilberstein, 2015). While there is much research on LGBTQ identity
formation across generations, there are few studies on the impact of the internet specifically. The
literature suggests that online interaction affords a higher degree of anonymity, greater choice in
disclosure, and the possibility of “trying on” new identities, including false ones (Turckle 1995).
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Several facets of online behavior, such as selective disclosure and identity experimentation, are
also integral aspects to theories of LGBTQ identity formation, such as stage theories like the
Cass Model of Homosexual Identity (Cass, 1979) or relational identity theories such as
Although there is existing research on LGBTQ teens and their internet usage (Craig,
McInroy, McCready, Cesare & Pettaway, 2015; DeHaan, Kuper, Magee, Bigelow & Mustanski,
2013), these studies focus on teens with an established LGBTQ identity, rather than questioning
youth and adults who utilize the internet as part of the identity formation process. This omits a
segment of the LGBTQ population with later onset of identity formation (Calzo, Antonucci,
Mays & Cochran, 2011). Additionally, these studies admit that they focus on lesbian, gay, and
bisexual youth and fall short when addressing trans* youth and the internet’s impact on gender
identity formation (Craig et al., 2015; DeHaan et al., 2013). Because studies show that LGBTQ
youth continue to struggle with higher levels of mental health challenges than their heterosexual
peers (Grossman & D’Augelli, 2007; Mustanski, Garofalo & Emerson, 2010; Shilo & Mor,
2012), it is vitally important that clinicians learn how internet usage can help and/or hinder the
identity formation process of questioning clients who may subsequently identity as LGBTQ.
This qualitative research aimed to examine this phenomenon through the actual voices of
LGBTQ people. People over the age of 18 who identified as LGBTQ and reported utilizing the
internet in their identity formation process were invited to complete an anonymous online
survey, asking open-ended questions about how and why they utilized the internet in forming
their identity. The survey asked four questions, in addition to demographic information: (1) Do
you feel the internet played a role in establishing your identity as LGBTQ? If yes, how? (2) What
activities did you engage in online, and why? How much time did you spend online? (3) How did
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your online identity compare to your “real life” identity? and (4) Looking back, do you feel that
the internet was useful to you in forming your identity? Through a combination of convenience
and snowball sampling utilizing Facebook, 50 responses were collected, many of whom
Throughout this study, several population-specific terms are used. “LGBTQ” is used
and queer individuals. This term is meant to include a variety of sexual and gender identities not
listed that participants self-identified as falling under the umbrella “queer,” such as pansexual,
androgynous, agender, gender fluid, and a multitude of identities that are not considered
[Queer] is a fluid label as opposed to a solid label, one that only requires us to
acknowledge that we’re different without specifying how or in what context. It is also a
concise word that people may use if they do not feel like shifting their language along
with their ever-evolving gender, politics and/or sexuality. It may also be an easier and
more concise identity for some people to use if and when people ask, because they do.
Additionally, I use the word trans* to refer to transgender, transsexual, and gender-
nonconforming individuals also as an umbrella term. This term first became popular around 2010
as a way to refer to a multitude of identities, and refers to the way an asterisk is used in computer
search engines to include all terms that begin with “trans,” and is meant to “help transcend the
gender binary and provide more space for people who are in the middle, who move back and
forth, or who don’t identify with the binary at all” (Ryan, 2014). In this spirit, I also use the
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pronoun “they” when a subject’s gender or preferred pronoun is not known, so as to avoid the
Overview of Research
critical analysis of the Cass Theory of Homosexual Identity Formation, introduction to other
stage theories, and a summary of alternative theories of LGBTQ identity formation including
contributions from Feminist theory and Queer studies. Chapter three describes the research
design, methodology of data collection and analysis, ethical considerations for this research as
well as limitations. Chapter four presents the findings of the research, and chapter five discusses
the implications of these findings, possible interpretations, and directions for further research.
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Chapter II
Literature Review
Introduction
This literature review gives a brief overview of various theories of sexual and gender
identity development that draws from social science research, including empirical studies, and
feminist and queer theory from the 1970’s until 2015. This review also connects these theories
with existing theories and research on effects of internet usage on identity, behavior, and society.
This review is divided into five sections: (1) The Cass theory of homosexual identity formation;
(2) Subsequent stage models; (3) Alternate theories; (4) The role of the internet; and (5) A gap in
research.
Several theories describe the development of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and
queer people ( Butler, 1990; Chun & Singh, 2010; D’Augelli, 1994; Devor, 2004; Muñoz, 1999;
Troiden, 1989). However, perhaps the most well-known model of LGBTQ identity development
is the Cass model, published in 1979, which was first to assume a homosexual identity as
positive (Bilodeau and Renn, 2005). Cass identified a six-stage process in the development of
gay and lesbian identity formation: identity confusion; identity comparison; identity tolerance;
identity acceptance; identity pride; and identity synthesis (Cass, 1979). This process ends when a
previously held ideal of sexual orientation changes to that of homosexual identity; and it feels
positive, or accepting, when the individual voices disclosure or in coming out. According to
Cass, assuming a homosexual identity as positive occurs when the individual is fully actualized
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Secord and Backman’s theory of identity development (1961), like the Cass model of gay
and lesbian identity development, is based on “interpersonal congruence theory.” This theory
posits that individuals seek to create a congruency between three elements: one’s “sense of self”,
one’s actions and behaviors, and how one believes others perceive them to be. In this way,
individuals have both private and public identities which are separate but related, and “growth”
occurs when individuals attempt to make these two identities consistent with one another. Cass
suggests individuals may attempt to change any of these three elements in order to make them
congruent to a “manageable and tolerable” degree (Cass, 1979). Each of these elements can be
viewed as positive or negative, and the way they interact with one another can lead to a
“cohesive” sense of self vs. an “incoherent” one, as well as self-acceptance vs. self-hatred. Cass
calls this system an “intrapersonal matrix” (Cass, 1979). As an individual attempts to change
these different elements in order to reach a manageable degree of congruence, they may move
through the six predictable, linear stages defined by Cass, further outlined below. At each stage,
however, if one of these three elements reaches a point where it can no longer be changed, or an
individual feels satisfied, development stops. Cass calls this “identity foreclosure” (Cass, 1979).
The pronoun “they,” a commonly used pronoun in the queer community referring to an
individual without identifying their gender identity, will be used throughout the body of this
literature review.
becomes particularly aware of instances of homosexuality around them and/or realizes their
feelings, thoughts or behavior may be labeled as homosexual. In this stage, the possibility that
one may be labeled as homosexual is startling because, according to Cass, the individual assumes
themselves to be heterosexual prior to these instances. Because of this, the realization that
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something in one’s internal process may be labeled as homosexual by another creates
incongruence within the individual’s intrapersonal matrix, which causes feelings of discomfort
and the desire to create a more congruent matrix. This may also cause a feeling of “personal
alienation,” because the individual’s previous concept of who they “are” (i.e. heterosexual) is
now in question. To answer this question, the individual may seek out more information about
homosexuality. If the information they find is similar to the experience they’re having, this may
cause even greater incongruence because it strengthens the suspicion that they may be labeled as
In the second stage, “Identity Comparison,” the individual will compare their desires,
behaviors, etc. to those around them. The feeling of alienation moves from feeling alienated from
their own sense of self to feeling alienated from heterosexual society. The positive or negative
experience of this phase depends heavily on the individual’s “reference group,” a.k.a. who the
individual is comparing themself to; “factors such as geographical and social isolation may
heighten the experience of alienation” (Cass, 1979). Cass suggests that the individual may even
need to find new meaning for their lives, as they come to the realization that the heterosexual
future they had envisioned (marriage, children) may not be possible. For some, those who have
“always felt different,” those who already wanted a life different than the normative heterosexual
trajectory, or those who value nonconformity, this realization that they may be homosexual is
okay, because they don’t care as much about what “others” think of them. However, for others,
this realization will cause more incongruence within their personal matrix because of the value
placed on what (heterosexual) others may think of them. Regardless of this, in Cass’ theory,
individuals in Stage 2 are faced with the task of “passing” as heterosexual so as to avoid negative
judgments of homosexuality. Cass outlines four ways that the individual will do this. One is
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maintaining to themself and others that their homosexual identity and behaviors are limited to
one “special” person, but otherwise, they would be heterosexual. Another strategy, labeled the
temporary. The last is viewing themselves as “innocent” to their homosexual identity, and that
they had no choice in the matter and therefore are not responsible for it; for example, “I was born
this way.” Cass asserts that this strategy will lead to an identity based on self-hate. This stage
leads to either an overt attempt to change behavior so as to act heterosexual, or the individual is
propelled into the third stage of identity development. Cass warns that if one responds to this
stage with a positive view of heterosexual life, but is unable to adopt a heterosexual identity, the
feeling of incongruence and alienation from society maybe so strong that individuals responds by
committing suicide.
The third stage, “Identity Tolerance,” signals a greater “commitment” to the notion that
the individual may identify as homosexual, thus ending the feeling of identity crisis in the earlier
stages and focusing on the tasks of creating a life that fits with one’s possible homosexual
identity. This includes romantic, social, and emotional needs, thus causing them to seek out
homosexual community to both meet these needs and create a greater congruence between how
the individual thinks of themself, and how others perceive them. This stage is called “identity
tolerance” rather than “acceptance” because the individual feels that they must seek out
community, rather than viewing their identity and homosexual community as a positive addition
to their life. In this stage, the individual may feel validated by homosexual community, but
further alienated by heterosexual society, thus increasing their participation in the homosexual
community and withdrawing somewhat from contact with heterosexuals. At this stage, the
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“quality” of one’s interactions with homosexuals and homosexual culture will impact the
trajectory of the individual’s identity development. If they have experiences that feel positive,
this will in turn lead to a more positive self image. However, if the experiences feel negative,
they may devalue homosexuals as an essentialized group, and this will lead to further crisis. Cass
attributes negative experiences to “poor social skills; shyness; low self esteem; and fear of
exposure, of the police, of the unknown” (Cass, 1979). Cass also suggests the level of fit between
the individual and the options available to them is an important factor, a.k.a. “one person, for
example, might find a bar or nightclub exciting, whereas another may find it depressing” (Cass
1979). Negative experiences will lead to a negative self-concept, which the individual will
1979).
and internalizing a homosexual identity as valid and positive. Cass posits that this stage causes a
heightened incongruence between how the one sees themself (as homosexual, and homosexuality
as positive) and how heterosexuals see them (either as heterosexual, or as homosexual but
homosexuality being negative). To deal with this incongruence, the individual may take one of
trusted heterosexual. Cass asserts that if these strategies are “applied unsuccessfully,” the
individual will move on to Stage 5. Otherwise, many people will reach identity foreclosure at
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homosexuals and gay culture. This stage includes consuming as much gay culture as possible
and internalizing messages that “gay is good.” In this way, the individual avoids the
opinion of homosexuals as unimportant. Cass also states that one becomes an “activist” when the
devaluing turns into anger (Cass, 1979). An individual may move on to the next stage if they
start to feel that their dichotomizing of society into homosexual/good and heterosexual/bad does
In order to internalize a more nuanced view of society, the individual may move into
Stage 6, “Identity Synthesis.” The identity process is considered “complete” once the individual
views their homosexual identity as just one aspect of the self, and not “the” aspect of the self.
This includes understanding that they may identify with some heterosexuals, and will not
identify with all homosexuals. In this way, the matrix has the least incongruency and therefore
This theory is known as the “classic” and “popular” model for homosexual identity
formation (Degges-White, Rice & Myers, 2000; Craig & McInroy, 2014) and is revered by many
researchers (Cox & Gallois, 1996; Frable, 1997; McCarn & Fassinger, 1996), giving rise to other
similar models.
For example, the D’Augelli model claims not to have “stages,” but instead “identity
social identity, Becoming an LGB offspring, Developing an LGB intimacy status, and Entering
an LGB community (1994). Aaron Devor (who, notably, identifies as transgender) borrowed
from the Cass model to create a fourteen stage model of trans* identity development based on
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clinical work and interviews with trans* - identified adults - Abiding Anxiety, Identity Confusion
about Originally Assigned Gender and Sex, Identity Comparisons about Originally Assigned
Transition, Transition, Acceptance of Post-Transition Gender and Sex Identities, Integration, and
Pride. Devor’s theory also emphasized “mirroring” and “witnessing.” In the context of trans*
identity formation, Devor defines mirroring as seeing one’s self in others like you; as
experiencing a spark of recognition of one’s self in another (not to be conflated with that of
Heinz Kohut). Witnessing is defined as an impartial others’ appraisal of one’s self, and Devor’s
stages of trans* identity development represent an individual in moving toward a higher level of
Chun and Singh (2010), though proposing an ecological model of ethnic and sexual
identity formation for bisexual youth of color, premised their theory on Phinney’s stages of
ethnic identity development - unexamined ethnic identity, ethnic identity search/moratorium, and
ethnic identity achievement. Brown proposed a four stage model for bisexual identity
development, consisting of Initial Confusion, Finding and Applying the Label, Settling into the
Identity, and Identity Maintenance (2002). Dube & Savin-Williams’s study of ethnic minority
and sexual minority male youth found that the timing and sequencing of stages differed between
ethnic groups. The researchers categorized their stages as “milestones” that included
heterosexual sex, homosexual sex, identifying as a sexual minority, disclosing to parents, and
disclosing to others, with a final stage as “integration” between their ethnic and sexual identities.
Jamil, Harper & Fernandez (2009) also described a stage model of ethnic and sexual identity
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formation, in which the two processes occurred independently and “concurrently” . Through
semi-structured interviews with GLB youth, Floyd & Stein established “five patterns of
experiences” that differed in timing of milestones, comfort with GLB identity and involvement
Alternative Theories
Researchers have pointed out that though the conceptualization of stages is shown to be
useful to LGBTQ individuals, the insistence on a linear progression with a prescribed order of
developmental stages is false for many individuals and has potentially harmful effects
(D’Augelli, 1994; Degges-White, Rice & Myers, 2000; Chun & Singh 2010). Scholars have also
pointed out that the Cass model and other stage models place a value on coming out, either
implicitly or explicitly, despite evidence that selective disclosure may be safer and “mature” for
some individuals (Bilodeau, & Renn,2005; Craig & McInroy, 2014; Moe, Reicherzer, & Dupuy,
2011). Additionally, the model is based on a conventional Eurocentric notion of gender and
sexuality, and therefore may not be of use to LGBTQ people of color (Degges-White, Rice &
Myers, 2000; Devor 2004; Chun & Singh 2010). Thus, additional theories are presented.
One such theory is the “symbolic interactionism” theory of identity by Kaufman and
Johnson (2004) which posits that individuals actively and continuously construct their identities
in relationship to others’ perception and reaction to them, with differing concepts and behaviors
of identity in relation to context. This theory of identity is particularly concerned with the role of
stigma in the creation of identity, in that individuals are constantly monitoring their level of
acceptance by others when constructing their identity, thus explaining the concept of “identity”
as relationally constructed. This theory differs greatly from “stage” theories of identity, in which
individuals are seen as having a fixed, essential identity and a developmental task of accepting
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this identity and expressing it to others (Degges-White, Rice & Myers 2000). The theory of
inextricable from “stigma management strategies” (Kaufman & Johnson 2004). Jamil et al.
“authenticating process” .
In 1989, law scholar and critical race theorist Kimberle Crenshaw published an article on
“intersectionality,” the concept that the overlay of an individual’s multiple identity categories
yields a synthesized identity with its own unique experiences and hardships. She uses the
example of women experiencing domestic violence, illuminating the fact that not taking into
consideration a woman’s race and class when considering her oppression would be missing a
huge part of the picture. In this way, Crenshaw asserts that we must always think
“intersectionally” when considering a person’s subjectivity, and warns against feminist efforts
that view women as a one-dimensional category with one set of needs and experiences. This
theory has been widely adopted and applied to a variety of settings, including grassroots
activism, antidiscrimination law, reproductive justice, and labor organizing, to name a few
Building on Crenshaw’s theory, Chun and Singh (2010) present an ecological model of
the development of a sexual identity in bisexual youth of color . In this model, an individual’s
status, and ability. This intersects with their “macrosystem,” which is the sociopolitical context
in which the individual lives. In this way, the Chun and Singh model places emphasis on the
unique intersection of identities and contexts that a bisexual youth of color must navigate in
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Another seminal work in the field of feminist theory that holds a place in the canon of
sexual identity formation is Judith Butler’s writing on gender performativity (1990). Butler
argues that all gender is performed, and that gender itself exists as a culturally constructed
categorizing force through the repeated performance of gender. This construction of gender was
yet another response to second wave feminism, challenging the ahistorical model of “women”
under which feminists were organizing. Drawing upon Foucault, Butler explains that Western
society as a “compulsory order of sex, gender and desire” in which one’s gender mandates an
assumed sexual identity and set of desires (Butler, 1990). This construction troubles the
connection between one’s sexual identity and their gender presentation - a connection made in
many of the studies presented in this review (Brown, 2002; Cass, 1984; Devor, 2004). Similarly,
Adrienne Rich popularized the phrase “compulsory heterosexuality,” referring to the societal
assumption that women are heterosexual, which is reified by social and political institutions such
“disidentification” rely on the concept of seeing one’s self in another (Muñoz, 1999). In his book
Disidentifications: Queers of color and the performance of politics, Muñoz posits that queer
youth of color must reimagine the pop culture that is available to them - be it White,
heterosexual, homophobic, or all of the above - into something that reflects and affirms their
cultural text in a fashion that both exposes the encoded message’s universalizing and
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exclusionary machinations and recircuits its workings to account for, include, and
Muñoz delineates how a daytime television talk show satire of Latina lesbian truck drivers
became fodder for fantasies of a queer Latino role model in his childhood - this, of course, out of
necessity as there were no positive images of people with similar identities to him at the time.
Devor agrees with Muñoz’s implicit assumption that this kind of mirroring is essential in identity
formation, and points out multiple instances where the internet can be of use - both in
The internet as we now know it started growing in popularity in the early 90s, and
continued to rise in popularity until present day. In 1995, there were 25 million users in the
United States; in 1999 there were 83 million (DiMaggio, Hargitaii, Neuman & Robinson, 2001).
Currently, 95% of teens, 83 % of young adults aged 18–29, 77 % of those aged 30–49, 52 % of
those aged 50–62, and 32 % of older adults use the internet (Zilberstein, 2015). Though from its
first rise in popularity through current times, many worried the internet would drastically change
the way people interacted and related (Gross, 2007; Zilberstein, 2015); research has shown that
the internet and social media have not altered the way we relate, but instead complimented the
existing modes of interaction (DiMaggio et al., 2001; Stefanone, Kwon, & Lackaff, 2012;
Zilberstein, 2015). Additionally, research has shown that the current generation of internet users
no longer exhibit a dichotomy between online and “real life” behavior, and that instead their
online and “real life” experiences influence each other (Craig & McInroy, 2014). In 2000, Out-
Proud and Oasis Magazine performed an online survey with 6,872 respondents. 35% reported the
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internet was crucial to their acceptance of their identity (Gross, 2007), and there are many more
One major theme across literature was that the internet provided mirroring for those with
an emerging LGBTQ identity (Craig & McInroy, 2014; Devor 2004; Hillier & Harrison, 2007;
Jamil et al., 2009). Many of Devor’s research participants reported that the internet was a major
source of mirroring in cases where they didn’t know any trans* people personally (2004).
Similarly, participants in Jamil et al.’s research on Latino and African American sexual minority
youth showed that many participants turned to the internet to find others who shared the
intersection of both their ethnic and sexual identity, whereas their “real life” community often
catered toward one or the other identity. Adolescents also report finding others’ narratives and
“coming out” stories as a helpful way to envision possibilities for their own futures (Pascoe,
2011) and mention YouTube specifically as a source for mirroring (Alexander & Losh, 2011;
The internet also serves as a way to access information and resources (Craig & McInroy,
2014; DeHaan, Kuper, Magee, Bigelow, & Mustanski, 2013; Devor, 2004; Hillier & Harrison,
2007; Pascoe, 2011). The internet is a more accessible and safer way to access information
(Craig & McInroy, 2014; Devor 2004), whereas in “real life” LGBTQ individuals often must
face “heteronormativity, marginalization, and negative experiences in their offline public, social,
and personal spaces (e.g., school and home)” (Craig & McInroy, 2014). Participants also
reported being able to find more specific information, and often from first-person accounts
Another opportunity is that online is finding community and social support (Craig &
McInroy, 2014; Devor, 2004; Hillier & Harrison, 2007; Jamil et al., 2009). This is especially
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important because high levels of internalized homophobia combined with low social support is
associated with mental distress, whereas high level of “connectedness to the [LGBTQ]
community” is associated with “high levels of well-being” (Shilo & Mor, 2012). This is of
particular use to those living in isolated or rural areas (Gross, 2007). The amount of actual
support that one can find online is unclear; while many studies reported finding supportive
friendships online (Craig & McInroy, 2014; DeHaan et al., 2013). Stefanone, Kwon, & Lackaff,
performed a study that showed 80% of requests for “instrumental support” on Facebook go
unanswered (2012). It is important to note, however, that this study drew its conclusions from a
small sample size using a uniform Facebook message asking friends to complete a survey for a
“school project” (Stefanoe et al., 2012); thus the results seem hardly generalizable to all requests
The internet also offers a unique space for experimentation (Craig & McInroy, 2014;
Hillier & Harrison, 2007; Pascoe, 2011; Turckle, 1995). As one interviewee in Turckle’s book,
Life on the screen; Identity in the age of the internet (1995) commented,
“On one level, virtual gender-swapping is easier than doing it in real life… For a man to
play a woman on the streets of an American city...he would have some anxiety about
passing, and there might be even more anxiety about not passing, which would pose a risk
of violence and possibly arrest… [Online] you are not in danger of being arrested, but you
are embarked on an enterprise that is not without some gravity and emotional risk”
Additionally, participants have reported the internet is a space to “explore, develop and
rehearse,” to be “creative,” to “restart or alter their personas at will,” to “be whoever you want
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And, lastly, many studies showed that the internet was a major player in the “coming out”
process (Alexander & Losh, 2010; Craig & McInroy, 2014; Gross, 2007; Hillier & Harrison,
2007). This could take the place of coming out online while remaining closeted in “real life,”
(Alexander & Losh, 2010; Gross, 2007; Hillier & Harrison, 2007; Pascoe, 2011), or as a tool to
come out to “real life” friends and family (Alexander & Losh, 2010; Craig & McInroy, 2014).
Alexander & Losh wrote in depth on YouTube “coming out stories” - a practice so common that
“A search with the terms ‘coming out’ on YouTube reveals thousands of such videos, and users
frequently create ‘playlists’ to collect their favorite instances of the genre” (2010).
However, despite all the opportunities the internet affords individuals with an emerging
LGBTQ identity, many authors mentioned the associated risks or bullying, exposure to
inappropriate content, and accidental disclosure. Despite this, all authors expressed the opinion
that the benefits outweighed the risks (Craig & McInroy, 2014; Craig, McInroy, McCready,
Cesare, & Pettaway, 2015; Hillier & Harrison, 2007; Pascoe, 2011; Zilberstein, 2015). Some
authors suggested that practitioners working with questioning youth and adults could provide
psychoeducation to clients about these risks and safeguards against them (Hillier & Harrison,
A Gap in Research
As pointed out in this literature review, there have already been several studies on
LGBTQ identity formation and the internet (Alexander & Losh, 2011; Craig & McInroy 2014;
Craig et al. 2015, DeHaan et al. 2013; Hillier & Harrison, 2007; Pascoe, 2011), as well as
multiple studies on LGBTQ identity formation that mention the internet as an important aspect of
the process (Devor, 2004; Jamil et al., 2009). However, all of these studies were conducted on
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adolescent participants, thus being biased toward “early bloomers” (Calzo, Antonucci, Mays &
Cochran, 2011):
A life-span and life-course perspective on these issues is often lacking because most
studies on sexual orientation identity development focus on adolescent and young adult
samples...It is therefore not clear whether early development actually represents a recent
cohort effect. By definition, samples restricted to GLB adolescents and young adults
consist of individuals who develop sexual minority identities early and come out at a
young age.
Calzo et al.’s 2011 research illustrated this point beautifully. In a random sample of 1,260 adults
age 18-88, taken from over 4,000 participants in the California Health Interview Survey (CHIS),
participants were asked to answer questions about their identity and sexual history using their
touch tone phone. What they found stood in juxtaposition with other studies showing that
generations (Grossman, Foss & D’Augelli, 2014). Instead, Calzo et al. found no difference
between generations median age of first awareness of their identity - despite comparing
Generation Y, Generation X, Baby Boomers and The Greatest Generation. They identified three
LGBTQ, and same-sex sexual behavior. Early (age 12-22), middle (18-31), and late (32-43)
trajectories were present amongst all generations; additionally the early trajectory was the most
common amongst every generation. Thus, conducting studies with a young sample size would
represent only the earlier-trajectory subjects and exclude late and some middle trajectory
subjects. In this way, an adult sample retrospectively recalling their identity formation process,
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Additionally, the majority of research on LGBTQ identity formation utilized in-person
interviews in urban areas (Craig & McInroy 2014; Craig et al. 2015, DeHaan et al. 2013; Dube &
Savin-Williams, 1999; Diamond, 1998; Floyd & Stein, 2002; Hillier & Harrison, 2007; Jamil et
al., 2009; Pascoe, 2011). Because of the benefits of the internet mentioned above (less stigma,
less social pressure, etc.) it seems possible that offering in-person interviews would have an
inherent bias against those who prefer online communication. Additionally, sampling from urban
areas misses the population that benefits from the internet due to living in rural or isolated areas.
Finally, much of the research presented admits a lack of study specific on the experience
of trans* identity formation, and instead focus on lesbian, gay and bisexual identities (Craig &
McInroy, 2014; Craig et al., 2015; DeHaan et al., 2013; Jamil et al., 2009). While not focusing
exclusively on trans* identity, this research elicits responses about the internet’s influence on
gender identity formation and utilizes open-ended demographic questions to invite non-binary
responses on sexual identity and gender identity in order to collect more data from trans* and
In summary, although there have been a multitude of theories and research studies
dedicated to LGBTQ identity formation, including several specifically on the role of the internet
in this process, there is a need for research on the role of the internet on LGBTQ identity
formation that is inclusive of individuals with late-onset identity development, those in rural and
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CHAPTER III
Methodology
The purpose of this research study was to answer the question, How and why do some
LGBTQ-identified adults use the internet as a tool to formulate their sexual/gender identity? I
answered this question from a retrospective, queer and trans*-inclusive, and geographically
inclusive perspective. Data was collected through an anonymous, online survey with open-ended
chose this type of research design and data collection in order to reach a tech-savvy LGBTQ
population through the medium they frequently use - online text. This approach allowed answers
to be anonymous, completed in the comfort of one’s own home and at one’s own pace, and with
no face-to-face contact. I also used Facebook to collect data from a wide range of LGBTQ
studies that performed in-person studies in urban areas (Craig et al., 2015; Hillier & Harrison,
2007; Jamil et al., 2009). This qualitative approach and use of open-ended questions was meant
to gather nuanced data and allow for fluid, non-binary conceptualizations of identity and
experiences.
This chapter explains the research design, sample and recruitment, data collection
methods, data analysis, ethical considerations, and limitations. Original documents such as the
consent form, recruitment flyer and survey are referenced within this chapter and are available in
the appendices.
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Research Design
demographic questions and four open-ended questions about the impact of the internet on their
identity formation.
Inclusion criteria for this research required that participants were over the age of 18,
non-conforming, or queer, and English literate. This study required that participants self-identify
as LGBTQ in order to investigate the process of arriving at this identity, as distinct from
individuals who may engage in same-gender sexual behavior or relationships but do not identify
as such. In order to complete this survey, participants also needed to read and write English and
Once the Smith College Human Subjects Review Board approved my study (Appendix
A), a description of the research survey (Appendix B) along with a link to my survey (Appendix
C) was posted on my personal Facebook wall, as well as several Facebook groups: Bay Area
Queer Exchange, International LGBTQ+ Teens and Young Adults, LGBT Make Friends, and
Bay Area QPOC. The post was then “shared” 14 times by acquaintances and strangers. The
responses from their peers, colleagues and member groups, as well as to ask for their help in
informing other LGBTQ people that the survey is available, a voluntary endeavor, and
completely anonymous. Although the description stated that participants must be over 18, they
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were also required to check a box on the survey itself certifying that they were over 18 in order
Participants who chose to participate in this research study were given a link to the
survey. When they went to the website, they were told the purpose of the research study,
reiteration for their voluntary participation, that the survey would take appropriately 20 – 25
minutes to complete, and that all survey responses were anonymous. Participants were required
to read and agree to the consent form (Appendix D) which explained the purpose of the study,
the risks and benefits, the complete anonymity, storage of data, and emphasized the voluntary
nature of the study. If a participant did not agree to the terms of the consent form, they were
The online survey was accessible through a weblink from October 8, 2015 to October 14,
2015. The survey consisted of one page of open-ended demographic questions: What is your
age? How do you describe your sexual identity and gender identity? Please describe your
race/ethnicity. Please describe your socio-economic status in your own words at the time of your
identity formation. Did you live in a rural, urban, or suburban area(s) at the time of your identity
formation? Next were four questions, each with its own page: (1) Do you feel the internet played
a role in establishing your identity as LGBTQ? If yes, how? (2) What activities did you engage
in online, and why? How much time did you spend online? (3) How did your online identity
compare to your “real life” identity? and (4) Looking back, do you feel that the internet was
useful to you in forming your identity? Please elaborate. A copy of the survey is attached
(Appendix C).
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Data Analysis
After data collection was complete, all answers were entered into a spreadsheet and
analyzed for themes. Thematic analysis was influenced by the classifications put forth by Ryan
and Bernard (2003) - repetitions, indigenous typologies, metaphors and analogies, transitions,
and similarities and differences. The most useful of these categories were repetitions - wherein
repetitions of words and phrases between participants signalled a theme, and indigenous
typologies - wherein population-specific words or usage of words were noted and considered as a
possible theme. In order to reduce bias, a second reader also combed through the raw data to
In addition to thematic analysis, descriptive data was ascertained utilizing the computer
program Dedoose. The descriptive data was meant to paint a picture of the demographic
Ethical Considerations
Participating in any study carries some potential risks. However, because this research
was a completely anonymous survey, some risks were considerably lessened. Because talking
about one’s sexual and gender identity is stigmatized, the anonymity and lack of human-to-
human contact was important in reducing the emotional risks involved with participation.
However, talking about one’s experiences regarding stigma, sexuality, identity, and adolescence
can bring up some uncomfortable feelings and emotional distress. Because of this, all
participants were provided with resources for national hotlines and chatlines addressing the
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Limitations
Participation trends for this study suggested that the majority of participants either found
the survey through my link on my personal Facebook page, or through the Bay Area Queer
Exchange Facebook group. Therefore, the sample may represent a specific circle of friends
and/or Bay Area-specific subculture. This is a limitation, as a goal of mine was to represent a
locations during the time of their identity formation). Additionally, perhaps because many
participants found my link through my personal Facebook page and the personal pages of friends
and acquaintances, many of the participants shared my racial/ethnic and sexual identity (White,
queer). This method of data collection omitted the portion of LGBTQ individuals who are not on
Facebook. The inclusion criteria also omitted people who were not fluent in English, and those
under the age of 18 (at least one participant under the age of 18 attempted to fill out the survey
and was disqualified). And, lastly, since the scope of this project did not allow for more than 50
responses, data collection ended once this number was reached. Because the survey was only
available for one week, it is likely that this created a bias within the sample.
Summary
This chapter provided an overview of the methodology associated with this research
study. The next chapter will provide an overview of the data collected, including a demographic
picture of the sample, themes that emerged, and direct quotations from participants.
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CHAPTER IV
Findings
This chapter presents the findings of this research study. The chapter begins with
descriptive statistics of the demographic makeup of the sample followed by a summary of the
general findings. The concluding section of this chapter presents the themes found in the
Sample
Fifty (n = 50) individuals participated in the survey. The age of participants ranged from
18 to 70. The mean age was 38 and the median and mode were both 29. See Graph 1 for Age of
Participants.
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Of the 50 participants, 36 self-identified as White or Caucasian (including White/Jewish);
seven reported they were Latino (which included Mexican/Mestiza, White Hispanic, White
Cuban, and White Argentine as identities); three self-identified as Mixed; one identified as
Black/mixed; one as Asian; one as Southeast Asian; and one as Other. Graph 2 shows the
responded. Fifteen (30%) described themselves as middle class; twelve (24%) described
themselves as working class (including one respondent who identified as “working class/working
poor”); six (12%) described themselves as upper-middle class; five (10%) described themselves
as lower-middle class; five (10%) described themselves as wealthy; and five (10%) described
themselves as a different socioeconomic status, which was consolidated into the category
“other.” This included “student,” “poor but happy/living on the beach in the caribbean,” “grad
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student, low income (but temporary)”, “youth living with grandmother”, and “environment-
middle class, economically-lower class, culturally-upper class.” Graph 3 shows this depiction.
suburban areas; twelve (24%) lived in rural areas; eleven (22%) lived in urban areas; four (8%)
lived in rural-suburban areas; and one participant (2%) did not report. Graph 4 shows these
percentages.
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The sexual identity and gender identity of participants was mixed, but detailed. These
questions sought an open-ended response to, “how do you describe your sexual identity and
gender identity?”. There were multiple, combined responses to this question that included, the
word “queer,” or with multiple descriptors like “panromantic, demisexual, genderfluid, demigirl”
and/or overlapping descriptors like “lesbian.” Hence, translating this data into descriptive
statistics increased the probability of a margin of human error. Participants were more definitive
when describing their sexual identity. All participants self identified as either “queer,”
“bisexual,” “lesbian,” “gay,” or “pansexual.” There were multiple instances where a participant
mentioned another descriptor such as “humansexual,” but would also list one of the
aforementioned descriptors as well. The category “other/did not report” was used in instances
where no sexual identity was provided, or another descriptor not listed in the identified
categories. These included “same-gender loving”, “femme,” and “demisexual.” See Graph 5 for
illustration.
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Twenty-four (48%) participants self-identified as queer; ten (20%) as lesbian; six (12%)
as bisexual; five (10%) as pansexual; four (8%) were labeled as other/did not report; and one
The descriptors for gender identity were especially numerous and overlapping, which
labels. For example in Chart 6, I use the term “trans*”. While one participant did use the term
“trans*” with the asterisk, everyone else in this category used the word trans (without the
asterisk) or transgender. No one in this category used a label that specified their gender identity
beyond trans (i.e., male-to-female or MTF). Participants that used more specific labels such as
transmasculine, FTM, trans woman, etc., were divided into the categories “transmasculine” and
“transfeminine/trans woman.” The word choice for these labels reflects the actual voice of
participants. It is important to note that there were a few circumstances, though rare, when
choosing a label for a participant erased another label they used. Specifically, “androgynous
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woman” and “femme” were coded as “cisgender female;” and “genderfluid demigirl” was coded
this research.
Collectively, the gender identity breakdown of this study sample is: twenty-seven (54%)
participants classified as cisgender female; five (10%) as trans*; two (4%) as transmasculine;
Cisgender male. Six (12%) did not report a gender identity. Overall, 56% of participants
identified as cisgender, and 42% as trans* or gender non-conforming. See Chart 6, Gender
Identity of Participants.
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General Findings
There were multiple responses to the interview question, “Do you feel the internet played
a role in establishing your identity as LGBTQ?” Responses ranged from a simple “No,” to “not
really”, “absolutely,” “very much,” and “HUGELY so” [capitalization the presentation of
participants]. The majority of respondents answered that the internet did have an impact on
establishing their identity as LGBTQ. Even those participants who answered “No” went on to
describe how they used the internet to keep in touch with other LGBTQ people, to explore online
dating sites, or to participate in LGBTQ organizing. All respondents who said “No” explained
that their response was due to not having access to the internet at the time of their identity
formation - mostly because it “wasn’t around” due to their age, or did not have access to the
The question, “What activities did you do online”, yield the most common response,
social media. Participants described using social media such as Livejournal (a text-based blog
platform), Tumblr (an image-based blog platform), listservs, message boards, instant messaging,
and chatrooms as the most common occurrence. Second to this online activity was Youtube,
especially coming out videos and video blogs. Informational websites (including Google
searching, PFLAG, Autostraddle, and Everyoneisgay) were also listed as helpful online
resources in addition to online pornography, TV shows and movies, role playing games and
fanfiction communities.
The question “Looking back, do you feel the internet was useful to you in forming your
identity?” also yield a wide range of answers, ranging from “no,” to “not particularly so,” to
“incredibly, incredibly so” or “yes, lifesaving even.” Two separate participants added “thanks,
internet!” to one of their open-ended questions. While most respondents answered that the
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internet was beneficial to their identity formation, responses were more evenly spread among
those who reported they did not have access to the internet at the time of their identity formation,
but did engage with online platforms as part of their lived experience as LGBTQ (10%).
The overarching research question for this research, “How and why did some LGBTQ-
identified adults use the internet as a tool to formulate their sexual/gender identity?” yield
significant themes that included: combatting isolation; experimenting and exploring; seeking out
and negative experiences online. Although not intrinsically a part of the online experience,
college was mentioned as an aspect of LGBTQ identity development by ten participants - 20% of
Combating Isolation
A salient theme was use of the internet to ameliorate feelings of isolation. One participant
stated, “I don't know how I would have survived without the internet back then. I had no LGBTQ
friends or even peers at school, and I really did feel completely alone” . This participant’s
sentiment was reflected throughout the data, and often described as not knowing other LGBTQ
people, feeling alone, and referencing living in a rural or conservative town as a reason for
Several participants mentioned their geographical location and/or cultural climate of the
community in which they lived at the time of their identity formation as isolating. Being from a
rural area seemed to heighten feelings of aloneness and isolation as reported by one participant.
Participant 11 described:
“Isolation is so common for queer people who don't have access to major metropolises.
There's something so liberating about seeing people who look like you or who have sex
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like you want to have sex and the way that the internet changed our means of contact
with each other meant that even if we still felt isolated, we could find people who
empathized with that experience.”
Several participants also mentioned that the internet helped them realize there were
people out there “like” them; and even if they did not know anyone personally who also would
identify as LGBTQ, knowing there were others like them eased their isolation. This realization
gave them hope for what life could be like in another community, as reported by the following
participants.
Participant 18 stated:
“I was socially isolated and did not know of or join any LGBTQ communities or
organizations. Using the internet enabled me to develop my identity because it made me
feel assured that when I attended college and moved into a more urbanized area, I would
be able to belong to a community and develop relationships with people who have the
same beliefs and identities. Being able to join LGBTQ social networks enabled me to
anonymously connect with LGBTQ people and know that there are people who have
similar experiences and beliefs outside of the small, heteronormative community that I
lived in.”
Participant 3:
“I dropped out of high school at 16 in part because I felt like … like I had no community
there and entered the world in search of it...The internet allowed me to access other
people and information in a way that wasn't available to me otherwise. I knew 0 trans
people when I came out as trans.”
In these statements and others like them, there is an implicit assertion that knowing others
“like me” is an important part of LGBTQ identity formation. Without the internet, these study
participants would not otherwise have access to like people. For this group, the internet was
described as a way for individuals in rural areas to expand their social interactions and
communities.
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Social isolation
In addition to living in rural or conservative areas, many participants also spoke of the
sense of not “fitting in” and feeling different in various ways - either because of their race, class,
gender, or orientation. For these participants, social isolation felt to be due to a general way of
thinking and being in the world that is part of their identity, which later became labeled as
Participant 50:
[The internet] was most definitely helpful for me because I lived in a place where being
anything other than white and a stereotypically straight male or female, you got a lot of
shit. I also was just shy and couldn't relate to pretty much anyone in my hometown
because I was too much of a weirdo/too cool for that entire state …. basically so I needed
the internet to make connections and hang around in the chat rooms and find the queer
books and TV shows and movies. I really needed that.”
The internet was helpful for people to see outside the community in which they lived, and
know that there were other types of people ‘out there’ than simply those in their day-to-day
environment. As one participant put it, “it made me realize how many freaky people (and I mean
Seeking Information
Many participants reported that they searched the internet for information on a wide
range of topics relating to gender and sexual identity. For some participants, this started with a
simple Google search: “How do you know if you’re gay?”, as reported below.
Participant 9:
“questions about my sexual identity were ones I had no data on (no sexual experiences
due to being young and questioning and afraid and in a pretty straight part of the
country)...I felt that I had to know who I was, for sure, before I told anyone or made it
public; and, how can you know before you experience things? My only option was to
spend hours and hours searching the internet for "How do you know you're gay?" and
images of male - and female-bodies trying to scrutinize whether I was into them and
reading comforting websites like EveryoneIsGay.com and Autostraddle.com.”
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Participant 24
“I didn't create an identity, unless you'd consider my search history an identity. It was
much bolder, more vocal and expressly curious...My first question I typed into google
was something like "why do straight women have sexual desires for gay men?"...Google
didn't have any good answers for that question….As time went on, I began to understand
my interests a little more, and better able to search with more relevant terms. I found
forums, articles, pictures and blogs. Also, autostraddle.”
The internet was also a place where people sought out information about medical
transition and concrete things one could do to affirm their gender identity, like looking at
Youtube testimonials about transition, surgery photos, and concrete resources for transition.
Participant 12:
“A lot of unanswered questions were answered by being able to google a lot of Q&A type
forums….Tumblring, reading blogs, watching youtube videos on being trans/genderqueer
and what it’s like to make certain decisions (going on T, how to bind).”
Participant 21:
“I got some good tips on small things that I could do right now to deal with dysphoria.
Binding and packing tips, etc.”
Participants also reported using the internet to find LGBTQ news, local resources, and
grassroots organizations.
Many participants spoke of exploring different identities in the privacy of their own
home. The internet acted as an “open, supportive playground.” As one participant explained,
“online I got to try on different ways of being and got to play out different potential fantasies
until I found what felt right.” Or, as another participant put it: “Online was more anonymous and
a safer place to explore who I was, ask questions, and test parts of my identity without disrupting
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my primary relationships. Online was the "testing ground" for ‘real life”. Participants reported
trying out these identities in chat rooms, message boards, and instant messaging.
Several participants also mentioned pornography and/or cybersex as a way to explore sex
without the consequences of sex in “real life.” This served the purpose of testing out one’s
attractions, authenticating and validating one’s sexual identity, and acting out fantasies in a low-
Participant 11:
“There was a period of time where I would have cyber sex with straight boys and say that
I was a girl and their "attraction" to the idea of me was very validating. I hadn't even
really considered transitioning, but was very hot for the idea of people thinking of me as
female and being turned on by me”.
Participant 29:
“Once when my sister’s boyfriend made me jump in and take over for him in the middle
of having online sex with some woman...I outwardly protested but was secretly so
grateful for the experience. In fact, now that I think about it, it was probably a setup
because I think they had a feeling I was gay and wanted to force me to out myself”.
Several participants reported their “sex education” for the LGBTQ community took place
online through Google searching, watching pornography and/or cybersex. As one participant put
Many participants wrote about gaining a new understanding of their identity once they
were exposed to new thoughts and ideas. As one participant noted,“I read accounts of other
LBPQ [Lesbian, Bisexual, Pansexual, Queer] women with similar thoughts and feelings. Finally
when I learned about compulsory heterosexuality, I felt like lesbian fit me the best.” Others
spoke of having some sense of their identity before going online, but reported that finding new
information on the internet helped them understand their identity better. For example, Participant
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40 stated, “I had a feeling as to what I am. The internet helped me to narrow it down and realized
Several participants spoke of learning about the identity label “queer” online. Participant
3 stated, “If not for the internet I would have remained an unhappy gay kid instead of an
increasingly happier queer and trans* kid.” Or, as another put it, “I found different kinds of
gender representation on the internet and came to understand what being queer *could* look
"Reading about the identity/label of “queer” and how it embraces all those complications
was totally liberating….”queer" lets me say "hey shit's complicated" and not torture
myself wrestling with these questions. I would never have heard of “queer” except
through the internet. Thanks, internet."
Several participants noted that the internet educated them about trans*, genderqueer and
gender nonconforming identities, thus expanding their understanding of how they could identity.
"The only conclusion I came to on my own was that I was a girl who liked girls. The
internet educated me on nonbinary genders, asexuality, and all the identities under the
queer umbrella. This exposure to such a wide variety of identities gave me room to
explore my own gender and sexuality without expectations. Without this freedom I would
not identify with the genderqueer community or the asexual community and I would still
have many unresolved complicated feelings...The internet was extremely useful to me in
forming my identity. And since I identify as genderfluid and believe that sexuality is fluid
I believe that the internet continues to inform my identity. The more people are educated
about the social construction of gender and sexuality, the more people might be willing to
step outside the boxes they have been assigned. There aren't many places outside the
internet that these topics can be discussed and explored. Until these ideas are widespread,
the internet will remain a beacon of light for open minded and queer individuals."
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Expanding rigid ideas of identity
Others commented that the internet assisted them in moving outside of the rigid boxes of
“The internet helped me realize that I could be a lesbian despite having a history of dating
a man. Compulsory heterosexuality and an anxiety disorder played a huge factor in my
tentative initial identity as bisexual but realized over time as I met a supportive lesbian
community that I am also an exclusive woman loving woman.”
Many participants spoke of an ease of communication and expressing oneself online. For
example, one participant stated, “I was my most vulnerable, authentic, honest self online.” In the
“The internet allowing me to communicate and connect with people who were part of my
existing social group in a more private atmosphere where I felt more safe expressing
myself (in that I wasn't face to face to receive any potential backlash... to this day, the
internet is still a tool in ‘establishing my identity’, even though I consider it firmly
established.”
Participant 26 commented, “I think I was probably more confident and more honest online than
with my friends and peers in real life. I didn't feel like I had a double life, more like a really
exciting extra wing of my life.” Another participant noted, “I was out to all folks online in those
communities, I used different names that I didn't use irl [in real life].” In the words of participant
18:
“My online identity was anonymous and I was able to be authentic and connect with
other people who had similar experiences and beliefs, and my "real life" identity while I
was in high school was not "real". I was not able to develop meaningful relationships
with any of my peers or connect with them, and conformed to gender stereotypes. In "real
life" I… didn't socially interact with my peers when it wasn't necessary because I didn't
want to act "fake" or lie about my identity, opinions or beliefs. The "friends" that I had
while I was in high school were not real friends because I did not express who I was and
everything that they believed about my identity was "fake"...Resources from the internet
provided support and reassurance that I could develop an authentic identity without
worrying that I would never belong to a community or develop meaningful relationships
with people”
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Some of the participants still felt a difference in the level they were “out” online versus offline.
One participant commented, “I'm out online but not irl [in real life].” Another noted, “I'm not
Similar to Participant 18, others commented that having a space to be authentic online led
to a desire to lead a more authentic offline, eventually pushing them out of the closet. In the
“The internet was the first place I interacted with the world while being perceived as a
girl, the first place I explored lesbian sex and discovered how right it felt, and the first
place I found young trans women who actually looked like I wanted to look and had the
kind of attitude I wanted to have and had awesome lives and realized being trans was
actually something I related to and nothing like media depictions...I don't think I had
much of an identity in "real life" when I was young ... I was detached and depressed a lot
but I certainly didn't see myself as trans or queer at the time… eventually my online
identity became full time girl and I was more and more uncomfortable 'correcting' people
and I realized I was definitely not a boy”
Participant 29:
“I eventually met other lesbian teens and the conversations were real and vital - we didn't
know anyone in our real life small towns who were gay, but we knew each other. I think
being myself online eventually made it feel totally alien and untenable being silent in my
real life.”
Several participants also reported that the internet was a helpful tool in coming out to people they
“[The internet] was a place to update the world. Family was able to find out about my
status based on what i was posting. ..it helped me come out to my grandma when i was
not planning to due to her finding out from other family members. Mexican Catholic
grandma finding out was not my intention but looking back I'm glad it helped me connect
with others and express myself.”
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Romantic friendships
Several participants commented on the intensity and candid nature of some of their online
“As I got older (late teens) email became something I used a lot to send long letters to
people I knew and didn't know in "real life." I sent like, book length emails to the first
gay person I ever met - my camp counselor”
Participant 7:
“I formed some deep friendships and romantic relationships online in my youth, and I
think that there was something particular to the only-in-writing element of those
relationships...I think this was formative in terms of my verbal capacities when it comes
to reflecting about feelings and relationship dynamics, which has been an essential part of
(developing) my identity as a queer person”
Though the majority of data pointed to positive experiences online, there were a notable
few who mentioned negative experiences online that pointed to important findings in the
research. One aspect was going online increased exposure to homophobia. One participant
commented, “Because the internet is unregulated and not personal, there was a lot of negative,
“I feel like the internet is pretty much a microcosm of real life; so, through the internet
the average person will get exposure to affirming pro-lesbian stuff as well as vitriolic
homophobia and more subtle heterosexist stuff...I feel like the internet can be useful or
harmful to people depending on what websites we're talking about, and in my case it was
both.”
One participant’s comment also highlighted that being online can lead to increased
vulnerability in their comment, “There are a bunch of people who prey on young women online
understanding of identities, lifestyles, and realities comes a new lens with which to see one’s
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own life. In this way, having access to people who have a more actualized life may heighten an
individual’s sense of their own life as not yet actualized. In the words of Participant 21:
“The time period I spent closeted about my gender identity was rough. This was also the
same time period I watched hours of FTM Youtube transition videos. This made me
jealous of the FTM guys that could afford to medically transition and I found myself
constantly feeling bad about my body image. I compared myself to the guys in the
videos. I was depressed and had some thoughts about suicide. In-person trans peer
support helped as I sat with others with all different trans and gender nonconforming
identities at all different stages of gender identity development. Youtube videos only
gave me one fixed identity to aspire to and one path to take and it felt unachievable. The
other side is that I could identify many of the feelings shared by the guys in those
youtube videos and that made me feel connected. At that time, watching the videos also
helped me feel like less of a "freak" knowing that others people share similar experiences
with body dysphoria.”
This quotation encapsulates much of the data that illustrated that experiences online were both
positive and negative, and that experiences online and off influenced each other.
College
Ten out of fifty, or 20%, mentioned college as an important part of their identity
formation experience. In some cases, this was mentioned as different than the online experience-
as an important offline experience that was important to mention. For example, Participant 7
stated, “By the time I came out, I was in college and most of my identity development as a queer
Others cited attending college as a life event that either catalyzed internet usage or
interacted with internet usage. Participant 14 reported, “I spent half my freshman year at college
online chatting with dorm mates and friends.” Participant 1 commented, “In a way the email
helped with identity formation because I was able to stay in touch with friends from college -
Others used “college” to represent a time of life when there is an expectation that identity
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“Using the internet enabled me to develop my identity because it made me feel assured
that when I attended college and moved into a more urbanized area, I would be able to
belong to a community and develop relationships with people who have the same beliefs
and identities.”
Also, as shown by Participant 15, “started forming my identity AFTER college and at times that
made me feel insecure that I was "too old," upset that I wasted time pretending, and afraid that I
was just faking.” College was also a time when some people gained access to the internet more
regularly:
“I didn't spend much time online as I did not have consistent access during my "coming
out" phase. In college (which was no doubt the most formative of times) I spent a lot of
time online, although I had already established my identity. In college I spent at least 7
hours a day online.”
The prevalence of the mention of college is interesting in that it could represent several
things - the expectations of this life stage as an age, as an experience (leaving home, for
example), as an intellectually stimulating experience that exposes one to new ideas, or as a class
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CHAPTER V
Discussion
Introduction
This chapter analyzes this study’s findings in the context of existing social work research
and discusses how these findings replicated or challenged existing research on LGBTQ identity
formation and use of the internet. This chapter also examines the research’s limitations in its
design and implementation, as well as discusses implications for clinical social work practice and
The most relevant research to the current study is Craig & McInroy (2014). While my
study is quite similar to Craig & McInroy in many ways, there are several important distinctions.
First and foremost, I used a sample size of fifty participants compared to Craig & McInroys’
sample size of nineteen. Additionally, our data collection methods were different. Craig &
McInroy utilized semi-structured, in-person interviews and this study used online
SurveyMonkey. By comparison, the current study’s use of online interactions may have led to
more authentic and intimate responses because participants were able to be uninhibited in their
anonymous responses versus face-to-face contact, which sometimes may prove prohibitive. If
this is the case, then this anonymity may have impacted study findings. The current study yielded
information on sensitive topics, notably cybersex and pornography consumption, which may
prove difficult for an adolescent to admit to in a face-to-face setting. Thus, some data may have
been omitted from the study due to its methodological approach. Because Craig & McInroy’s
(2014) interviews were conducted in-person, they relied on LGBTQ organizations in an urban
area to contact participants, which led to a sample bias toward urban-dwelling “out” youth. At
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least two participants in the current study reported not being “out” in their offline lives. This may
account for the reoccurring theme of “isolation” in the current research. Participants in the
current study often described feeling alone due to geographical location; culture of the
community in which they lived; and social factors as important to their use of the internet.
Hence, the internet may be useful to isolated individuals in a way which can not be captured
when sampling youth who are participating in open LGBTQ organizations and/or living in urban
areas.
Despite these differences, there were however many themes which reiterated the research
conducted by Craig & McInroy (2014). For example, searching for stigmatized information that
may otherwise have been off-limits was a major theme in both studies. Also, the opportunity to
“explore, develop and rehearse” identities (Craig & McInroy, 2014) was a central theme.
Existing research also highlighted the ability of LGBTQ people to “be their real selves,” which
Much of the findings from this research validate the theories asserted in Aaron Devor’s
work, “Witnessing and mirroring: a fourteen stage model of transsexual identity formation”
(2004), especially what he calls the 4th stage, “Discovery of Transsexualism.” In this stage, the
individual first learns about the existence of a trans* identity. Devor describes this as a
“godsend,” explains that “For many it is an ‘Aha!’ kind of moment where everything that they
have been feeling finally falls into place. Finally, they have found a mirror in which they can see
themselves” (Devor, 2004). While many participants in Devor’s study spoke of the internet as
expanding their minds to what their identity could look like, and thus alleviating some anxiety,
participants from the current study reported much more frequently that they learned about fluid
identities (such as queer, asexual, agender, etc) from the internet. In fact, some of the current
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study participants seemed to have previous knowledge about trans* identities prior to going
online. For example, Participant 39’s comment that the internet did not teach them about trans*
identity, but provided them with positive role models rather than the previously exposed negative
media depictions. These findings may suggest that younger generations are exposed to trans*
identities at much younger ages (perhaps through the media, or other sources). However, the
trend that learning about an identity is an integral and essential part of identity development, as
described by Devor, still remains; and the internet continues to be a notable source for this
learning.
Online Relationships
Much of the research on online identity development has focused on the internet as a
testing ground for identity experimentation, and a lower-risk venue for a “dry run” of identity
(Craig & McInroy, 2014). My data suggests that online/”testing” vs. offline/”real” dichotomy is
more fluid that previous research describes. The current research found repeated reference to
online friendships as authentic, real, intimate and meaningful and that these relationships were
powerful and vibrant. While Craig & McInroy also found that online and offline experiences
influenced and affected each other (2014), the gravity of online relationships seemed to be
downplayed in comparison to the findings of the current research. Thus, my research suggests
that online relationships are taken more seriously and given equal weight to offline relationships,
while still acknowledging the important differences between the various ways of relating,
including technologically-aided interactions not covered in this research such as texting, video
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Limitations
This research contained several limitations that causes the results to not be generalizable
to the larger LGBTQ community. One is that the sample was predominantly White-identified.
Because of this, the research lacks data on the intersection of race and sexual and gender identity,
and does not take into account the ways that race and ethnicity play out online and in real life.
The sample also was sorely lacking in cisgender male participants, and thus there is a hole in the
data when it comes to the experience of gay and queer cisgender males. Both of these limitations
Furthermore, because this study used convenience and snowball sampling, sampling bias
is an expectable result. Because of the anonymous nature of this research, it is unknown if any of
the participants were associates, colleagues, or affiliated in some way to the researcher, however
possible. Also, the Facebook groups used in this study do not in any way represent the vast
diversity of the LGBTQ community but instead focused on queer-identified individuals living in
the Bay Area, as well as people connected to the researcher through graduate school connections.
Though the survey asked participants about their socioeconomic status growing up, it did not ask
about highest level of education achieved and therefore it is not known if the sample is biased
This study highlighted the phenomena that identity formation takes place both online and
offline. Therefore, a clinician working with a client with an emerging LGBTQ identity would be
missing part of the story if they didn’t ask about online activities. This study shows that
important processes take place online such as trying out new identities, coming out to others,
engaging in sexual behavior for the first time, and fostering authentic and intimate relationships,
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to name just a few. It is important for clinicians to take online behavior and relationships
seriously and invite clients to reflect on how their online efforts are affecting their
conceptualization of their online identity. This study’s findings suggest that the internet is
legitimate and relevant and should be treated with respect in the therapeutic space.
The current study also brings forth the responsibility of clinicians to be aware of the risks
involved with internet use. While the internet has the potential to be a huge and useful resource
for questioning individuals, going online has its own hazards, especially for younger clients.
Some of these hazards may include exposure to homophobia and cyberbullying, exposure to
explicit sexual content, and the risk of sharing more information than the client intended. In this
way, clinicians must be up to date on all the websites, apps, and social media platforms their
clients are using so that they may assist clients in having sound judgment around issues of
Additionally, clinical social workers should consider the ways that the internet can be
utilized to promote mental health amongst LGBTQ, and questioning individuals. Since multiple
participants in the current study expressed that the internet was vastly helpful to them in terms of
mental health by offering community, support, information, and validation, clinical social
workers have an opportunity to capitalize on the unique benefits of the internet to provide
resources for their clients. There are many beneficial websites and forums available, and
clinicians should be up to date on the content of these online resources so as to make helpful
referrals to clients. Clinical social workers should also feel empowered to create their own
content to add to the online discussion, keeping in mind that the internet is utilized as a resource
for those who are isolated and may not have access to LGBTQ-affirming resources in their
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offline lives. Quality content indeed can be powerful in bettering the mental health of LGBTQ
individuals at-large.
Last, this research brought to light the need for LGBTQ relevant sex education for youth.
Many participants reported that they learned about sex through pornography and adult websites.
This shows that there is a need for sex education to address the needs of LGBTQ youth so that
This research highlighted the need for additional ways to collect demographic
information that captures the complexity and fluidity of LGBTQ identities, especially in the
realm of gender identity. A mainstay of queer discourse is resisting being “put into boxes”;
therefore, offering a demographic checkbox erases queer identity in social work research. This
was also briefly addressed in Craig & McInroy’s (2014) work, who lumped together participants
who were “using multiple terms” to self identify. In this study, open-ended answers were used,
then thematically classified into categories for the purpose of data analysis. This was
problematic, as it led to the researcher making decisions about how the participant identified,
thus replicating the problem it was trying to avoid. In this way, more forward ways of tabulating
and analyzing demographic data, especially when conducting research on issues of identity, is
needed in order to capture the overlapping and nuanced nature of identity, and especially queer
identity.
This research further showed a great need for more research on genderqueer, agender,
androgynous and gender nonconforming identities. Research reviewed for this study relied on
outdated definitions of transgender identities that only included individuals transitioning from
one discrete gender identity into another; in this research, this was not the norm. Instead,
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individuals described their gender identities as fluid and non-binary. This needs to be taken into
As internet technologies are constantly evolving, so, too, are the ways that people utilize
the internet. In this way, there is always space for new research on the impact of the internet on
identity, communication, relationships, and mental health. Due to the limitations of the current
study, most participants commented using a text-based, slower, and more anonymous era of the
internet. Research must be done on the effects of newer internet technologies and their impacts
Conclusion
Because studies show that LGBTQ youth continue to struggle with higher levels of
mental health challenges than their heterosexual peers (Grossman & D’Augelli, 2007;
Mustanski, Garofalo & Emerson, 2010; Shilo & Mor, 2012); and because 95% of teens use the
internet (Zilberstein, 2015), it is vitally important that clinicians learn how internet usage can
help and/or hinder the identity formation process of questioning clients who may subsequently
qualitative data from fifty participants, providing findings that both validated previous research
and contributed to new findings on the role of the internet in LGBTQ identity formation.
This research validated previous findings, especially those of Craig & McInroy (2014).
Specifically, this research echoed the findings that the internet affords individuals the
opportunity to seek out stigmatized information, explore and test out identities, and have a space
to be more authentic and “true.” The current study also included the experiences of trans* and
gender nonconforming people. This research captured the findings of Devor (2004) that simply
learning about an identity is an integral and powerful aspect to identity development, and that
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this can and does occur online - expanding a theory that was created specifically for trans*
individuals and generalizing it to include various other gender and sexual identities. These
findings contribute new knowledge for the field of social work by illuminating how useful the
internet is to individuals who are isolated, either due to living in rural or conservative areas, or
being socially isolated for other reasons. It also suggests that heightened authenticity and
intimacy are possible online, and that these qualities are reported by LGBTQ internet users as
valuable and important. This research demonstrated the benefits of using anonymous
as a need for more nuanced instruments for collecting demographic information on research
participants that captures fluid and/or intersectional aspects of identity. Finally, this researcher
calls for clinical social workers to become more engaged with the online lives of their LGBTQ
and questioning clients, so as to better understand clients’ process, maximize the usefulness of
their online efforts, and work to counter some of the possible negative aspects of internet usage.
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Appendix A:
Human Subject Review Committee Approval Letter
Rebekah Meresman
Dear Beka,
You did a very nice job on your revisions. You have made all requested changes and
clarifications to questions raised. Your project is now approved by the Human Subjects Review
Committee.
Consent Forms: All subjects should be given a copy of the consent form.
Maintaining Data: You must retain all data and other documents for at least three (3) years past
completion of the research activity.
Amendments: If you wish to change any aspect of the study (such as design, procedures, consent forms
or subject population), please submit these changes to the Committee.
Renewal: You are required to apply for renewal of approval every year for as long as the study is active.
Completion: You are required to notify the Chair of the Human Subjects Review Committee when your
study is completed (data collection finished). This requirement is met by completion of the thesis project
during the Third Summer.
Sincerely,
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Co-Chair, Human Subjects Review Committee
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Appendix A:
Human Subject Review Committee Approval Letter
October 5, 2015
Rebekah Meresman
Dear Beka:
I have reviewed your amendments and they look fine. The amendments to your study are
therefore approved. Thank you and best of luck with your project.
Sincerely,
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Appendix B:
Description of Survey
My name is Beka Meresman and I’m writing my Master’s thesis for the Smith College
School for Social Work on the role of the internet on LGBTQ youth and adults’ gender identity
formation. I’m looking for participants over the age of 18 who identify as LGBTQ and used
the internet as a tool to help them formulate this identity when they were first questioning
their gender or sexual identity. Your assistance in informing LGBTQ people, peers, colleagues
and member groups about this study will be greatly appreciated. The survey is available online,
The purpose of this study is to collect information about how and why using the internet
can help individuals in the questioning phase of their identity formation, and/or create new
challenges for identity formation. This research aims to improve mental health services by
educating therapists and social workers about the potential benefits and risks of using the internet
LGBTQ identifying people are being asked to complete the following electronic survey
on Survey Monkey. You may discontinue the survey at any time and your responses will not be
recorded. This survey will take approximately 20 – 25 minutes to complete. There is no financial
Please feel free to “share” with anyone (or fb groups) who may be interested!
Thank you!
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Appendix C:
Survey Questions
Please describe your socio-economic status in your own words at the time of your identity
formation:
Did you live up in rural, urban, or suburban area(s) at the time of your identity formation?
Do you feel the internet played a role in establishing your identity as LGBTQ? If yes, how?
What activities did you do online, and why? How much time did you spend online?
How did your online identity compare to your “real life” identity?
Looking back, do you feel that the internet was useful to you in forming your identity?
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Appendix D:
The purpose of this research study is to investigate use of the internet in the identity
formation process of LGBTQ-identified people. The research question is, “How and why did
some LGBTQ-identified adults used the internet as a tool to formulate their sexual/gender
identity?”
You are being asked to complete an electronic survey on Survey Monkey. You may answer as
many or as few items as you wish. The survey is voluntary and will take approximately 20 – 25
minutes to complete.
There are minimal risks attached to this survey. All survey responses are given
anonymously. No names, addresses, emails, work information or other identifiers are solicited.
Once the survey response time of 60 days has passed, the survey will be removed from the
internet and all responses will be printed, analyzed and kept under lock and key for minimally
three years until destroyed.
Although there are no direct benefits to you, I feel that your contributions on the survey
will benefit clinicians, therapists and educators in recognizing issues that LGBTQ people face
and in understanding how to better provide therapeutic services to LGBTQ people.
Participation in this survey is entirely voluntary. I appreciate your involvement and
encourage you to refer this survey to other LGBTQ people.
If you have any questions about this survey, I will be happy to answer them via email. I may be
contacted at [email protected].
This study protocol has been reviewed and approved by the Smith College School for Social
Work Human Subjects Review Committee (HSRC).
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Appendix E:
Mental Health Resources Provided to Participants
GLBT National Helpline- The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) National
Hotline provides telephone, online private one-to-one chat and email peer-support, as well as
factual information and local resources for cities and towns across the United States.
- Hotline: 1-888-843-4564
- Peer-to-peer online chat service: https://www.volunteerlogin.org/chat/index.html
- Online national resource database for services near you: www.glbtnearme.org
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