Essay 2 Gabi A Girl in Pieces 1
Essay 2 Gabi A Girl in Pieces 1
Ara Matevosian
English 115
Professor Erickson
The novel, Gabi, a Girl in Pieces, portrays the life of a girl brought up with the trauma of
having a drug addict father, left to put her life together from the pieces it had fallen to. Halfway
through the novel, Gabi walks into her garage to find her dad’s lifeless body. The body of a man
who suffered from a life fast lived, controlled by substance abuse, and absent from his daughter’s
upbringing. Gabi was not surprised when finding her dad in this state, as she had “dreamed this
very scene” (Quintero 151). Gabi’s childhood was controlled by the fear of wondering where her
father was at any moment, due to him living on the streets away from his family at most times.
Gabi, “in these moments of despair,” notes that even finding her dad dead would give her a form
of relief because at least then, she would know where he was (Quintero 151). Many are unable to
have an upbringing in a stable household, and the effect that it has during youth can be
detrimental to a child for the rest of their lives. Gabi’s father’s absence left something to be
desired in her development as a young adult, which could lead to mental health issues in
adolescence.
DemoSoc Research Unit of Pompeu Fabra University conducted a mass study on relating child
development directly to father-child time together. The research group was composed of 6,960
children from the ages 4-8. This study was able to find the importance of the role of fathers in
early child development as well as a direct correlation to how parental involvement and time
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input affected their cognitive development. “[The] conclusion drawn from our analyses is that
father–child time is more strongly associated with children’s cognitive outcomes when that time
is spent in educational activities (such as reading or educational play)” (Cano 177). Children fare
better when their father and they engage in cognitively stimulating activities like reading, playing
games, doing homework, or attending social gatherings together than when they spend their time
together in other ways. It was shown that these activities are crucial to cognitive development. In
the novel Gabi, a Girl in Pieces, Gabi still has a mother, who is very involved in her life. While
it is still possible for a mother to help take the role of both parental figures in a fatherless
household, the estimated associations between mother-child time and children's cognitive
outcomes were smaller and occasionally statistically insignificant within the research study.
There are often arguments stating that parental education would affect the quality of time
spent with their children. In the novel, Gabi’s father is not well educated, and suffers drug
addiction. Even with those factors, Gabi’s fathers involvement in her life could have still helped
her develop in a more healthy manner. In the previously mentioned research study, it was found
father-child time is not more strongly associated with children's cognitive functioning when
“We found no evidence that 1 hour of father–child time yields more benefit to the
child when fathers have tertiary education qualifications. Instead, our results indicated
that 1 hour of father–child time (overall, as well as across activity types) yielded the same
returns to the children of highly and less highly educated fathers." (Cano 178)
This information can lead to assumptions that the main factor of Gabi’s struggles are the absence
of her father, rather than his drug addiction. Although his drug addiction still plays a major role,
it is his absence that truly burdens Gabi. This can be seen in how Gabi views her father-child
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relationship. In the novel, Gabi uses letters as a form of self expression. She writes letters to
people that she does not send, but rather uses it to express her emotions and inner thoughts. In
the beginning of the novel, Gabi writes a letter to her dad (he is still alive at this time).
“You have broken my heart again…I want you to get help…I shouldn’t have to
worry every night that we’ll get a call telling us someone found you in a park, beaten,
When Gabi describes her childhood, there is a recurring fear of not knowing where her father is.
This fear embodies his absence. She notes being worried, scared, and anxious all the time. Her
fathers absence directly correlates with her anxieties. Living without her father from a young
age, she had to come to terms with things that a child should not have to know or worry about
that early in their lives. This constant fear scarred her, and eventually led to the way she
The absence of Gabi’s father influences other people in her life too, notedly her brother.
Gabi’s brother suffers cases of delinquency. In the novel, it is revealed that Gabi’s brother would
commonly skip school and vandalize public areas with graffiti. “Her perfect son, the little one
that breaks no plates, the quiet one, got caught tagging and destroying public property” (Quintero
80). At first glance, Gabi holds her mother to blame, and often reflects, thinking that her brother
is the way he is because of their mother. Gabi also finds herself feeling responsible, as she
mentions she feels that she is failing in her role as a sister. Gabi explains that her mother “has
expected less of him, and he has realized this. I cannot remind her that our father gave up, but
that she doesn’t have to” (Quintero). While Gabi looks at her brother's actions as a result of her
mother or herself, the truth is her dads absence could be the main underlying influence. The
Department of Criminology and Criminal Justice, and the University of Maryland, worked
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together in 2015 to develop a controlled study regarding research in crime and delinquency. This
study involved the psychoanalysis of children with fathers who had been incarcerated, and in
turn, become absent in their lives. In relation to Gabi, a Girl in Pieces, incarceration may not be
the exact case for their father, but the underlying effects of a fathers absence is correlated with
negative changes in family and child well-being, often citing declines in children’s
It has become clear that the absence of a father negatively affects a family, but Gabi’s brother's
response with aggressive conduct is a defense mechanism against unpleasant stimuli. The
underlying claim in the study is that people have a tendency to lash out at others in response to
an occurrence that causes them grief or stress. Any negative emotion, including sadness,
depression, and constant irritability, will result in aggressive tendencies and the basic emotion of
anger before more reasoning kicks in. In other words, Gabi’s brother's aggressive behavior is
likely to result from unpleasant feelings and is reactive. This can apply to many of the characters
in the novel, but in Gabi’s brother's case, his delinquency is simply a subconscious reaction to
household has historically been regarded as one of society's fundamental building blocks. It is
clear from research that fewer children are now growing up in this type of traditional family. In
many cases, a family's downfall is typically explained as a process that begins with a father being
present, followed by difficulties in the family, and eventually the father leaving. This pattern has
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been common in American families and can result in various emotional and financial challenges.
However, this traditional family structure may not accurately represent the experiences of many
American families today. Many young women are now having children without being married or
in stable relationships, and they often raise their children without the father's involvement from
the start. In the novel Gabi, a Girl in Pieces, one of Gabi’s best friends becomes pregnant. The
common, and her parents constantly warn her and her friends of it. Unfortunately, this applies to
the real world, and is not a work of fiction. The Center for Human Resource Research of Ohio
State conducted a study on the ages in which fathers begin to become absent. “In the years
following the birth, the overall percentage of fathers present gradually declined, masking the
substantial movement of biological fathers out of and into the home” (Mott 514). This is
important because it applies to both of the themes in the novel. In the first scenario in the novel,
Gabi is dealing with a semi-absent father figure. Semi-absent because he still has a role in her
life, but due to his drug addiction, he serves no real value to their family's ecosystem. The second
scenario of an absent father is Gabi’s pregnant friend. In this situation, the child will be born and
grow up never to know his father. This case study proves that both situations still have the same
Finally, how does this all affect Gabi? Gabi is in what is commonly referred to as a
“broken household”. While her father was still alive, he was absent. Accredited psychologist
Dale M. Kushner describes the different forms of abandonment. “To be a fatherless daughter is to
feel abandoned by a paternal figure, emotionally, physically, or both. A father may be absent
from the home for reasons beyond his control”(Kushner). Gabi is a victim to all of these forms of
abandonment. There are several reasons why a father abandons his family, and each event affects
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a daughter differently. Gabi’s father, who was somewhat physically present but emotionally
distant, manipulative, abusive, and depressed, set up his daughter for psychological trauma. Her
relationship with her father influences the way she shapes her sense of self, ambition,
independence, and trust in the world. Even when Gabi describes her fathers body at the wake,
she goes on to mention that it does not look like him. “There was color in his face, more brown
and less yellow…I hadn’t seen his hair combed for months. No long homeless beard…the scars
from all the scratching, barely visible underneath the makeup. Rotted teeth hidden,” (Quintero
153). The unfortunate truth is that this is the image of her father that Gabi holds in her head, and
this is the last impression she will ever have of him. It is not her fault, and her fathers
To conclude, the book, Gabi, a Girl in Pieces, follows the story of a girl growing up with
a drug abusing and emotionally absent father. Because of the choices her father made, spending
time apart from his family most of his existence, Gabi's upbringing was ruled by the anxiety of
never knowing where he was. The importance of a father figure is unfathomable to a young
child, and unfortunately, single mother households have become more common in recent years.
Many people are unable to grow up in stable homes, and the consequences of this can negatively
affect a kid for the rest of their lives. The lack of Gabi's father affected her development as a
young adult, along with the “18.4 million children in the world growing up without father
figures”(U.S. Census Bureau. 2022). Fatherlessness and a broken family has had detrimental
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Quintero, Isabel. Gabi, a Girl in Pieces. First edition. El Paso, Tejas, Cinco Puntos Press, 2014.